2019-11-15
Culture of Empathy
The Pilars of a Culture of Empathy
CoE is mutuality, we can speak more empathically.
A culture of empathy is where we can share our feelings and experiences.
CoE values human connection and supplies tools and processes.
The intelligence of connection.
To hear the deeper voices
Not use hierarchies for connection
CoE in different contexts. a family, school, workplace, etc.
A family would listen to
Kindness and gentleness
When no kindness don’t want to live there - can be well organized.
What is kindness? gentalness
Is a felt sense.
A soft movement -
Makes me stay with my body. Ver the head
Thinking and defending versus
A culture that values and nurtures kindness and gentleness
Being sensitive - being sensitive to felt experience.
CoE and Pain
blocks the connection..
Good to bring people together.
But they can’t listen to each other.
The society that heals the pain
Have and empathy buddy
I’m not good enough
I need healing before I can be empathically
Be with the pain without being afraid of it.
Need a lot of healing before they can be in the room with pain and fear.
CoE and taking Self-Responsibility.
take responsibility for your feelings
People don’t take responsibility for what they are feeling..
Instead they blame others.
What is not a culture of empathy?
Blame
Shaming
Appreciative acknowledge
Have an awareness and positiveness
Nice that you are here. Appreciate your humanity
Your full humany is appreciated.
I want to be more Appreciate
I’m glad you are here.
I appreciate the full spectrum.. Of the person.. Thank you for the conflict.
A willingness to be positive.