When our bodies are calm, our breathing is normal, muscles are relaxed, and the heart rat is normal.
However, when adults and children experience a stressful event, our bodies automatically go into "fight or flight." Our breathing becomes shallow, muscles tense, and heart rate goes up. When we take deep breaths more oxygen goes into our bloodstream and helps to calm down and lower stress.
At times kids need help to figure out how to breath correctly. When kids breath in, their belly should expand and when they breath out their belly should contract.
Breathe in like a flower, breathe out like you are blowing out birthday candles.
Breathe in blue sky, Breathe out gray skies.
Pretend your belly is like a balloon. Breathe in and make the balloon bigger, then breathe out and make the balloon shrink.
Smell the soup, cool the soup or smell the hot cocoa, cool the hot cocoa
Darth Vader Breathing - Pretend you have a straw in your mouth, suck in through the straw and breathe in. Breathe out like Darth Vader.
Ocean Breathing - breathe in and imagine the wave rolling in, breathe out and imagine the wave rolling out.
Color breathing - Breathe in and imagine a calm, happy, positive color. Breathe out and imagine a color that represents stress, anxiety, etc. leaving your body.
Soft Belly - Say to yourself “soft” as you breathe in and “belly” as you breathe out.
Sitting criss-cross applesauce, sit up tall and take a deep breathe in, Hold it while you count to 5 with your fingers then tilt head up to blow it out of blowhole. You can also put your hands up on top of head to create the blow hole to “blow” out.
Breathe in, pause briefly, then breathe out slowly while you make a hissing sound for as long as you can.
You can do this breathing either while sitting, or add movement to it.
Sitting version - make “bunny” hands in front of chest and take quick sniffs like a bunny.
Movement version - start in a squat and hop forward while taking quick bunny sniffs.
Breathe in and pretend you are smelling a flower. As you breathe out, make humming bee sound. Try different ways of making the sound - longer or shorter, high or low sounds.
Put up one hand, palm facing out and fingers spread apart. Place the index finger of your other hand at the base of your thumb and breathe in while you move your finger up one side of your thumb. Move your finger down the other side of your thumb and breathe out. Do the same thing with the remaining four fingers, and take deep breaths in and out as you move your finger. After you’ve reached the second side of your pinky finger, you’ll have done 5 complete deep breaths.
You can also do this with a close friend or trusted adult. Have them spread their hand out and use your finger to trace their hand and do deep breaths. Or do the opposite: spread your hand out and have them use their finger and trace yours. You can do deep breaths together!
HANDS TO SHOULDERS
Sometimes you breathe from your chest instead of your belly, but it’s hard to notice. This is an easy way to figure out if you are moving your chest or your belly when you’re breathing. While sitting or standing, put your hands down by your sides. Then bend your arms at your elbows and place them on the front of your shoulders. Try taking a deep breath. If your shoulders are moving a lot, focus more on taking breaths using your belly.
Arms start at the side of your body; arms go up as you breathe in and go down as you breathe out (arms make a rainbow)
VOLCANO BREATHS
Pretend your hands and arms are like lava flowing from a volcano. Start with your hands in front of your heart, with palms touching. Keeping your hands together, reach straight up and breathe in. Separate your hands and move your arms down to your side and breathe out.
EXPLOSION BREATHS
Start in a standing position. Breathe in as you crouch down. Then, jump up, spreading your arms and legs as you breathe out.
NOSTRIL BREATHING/COWABUNGA BREATHING
Block one nostril, breathe in for 5, block the other nostril, breathe out for 5.
WOOD CHOPPER BREATHING
Standing tall with legs hip distance apart. Clasp hands together and raise your arms above your head. Breathe in through nose. Exhale and pull your hands down toward your legs as you say “HA” to “chop” wood.
Blowing gently to create bubbles is a good way to be playful and breathe deeply. Kids have to blow carefully and slowly to make the bubbles, which is a major reason why I like using it to help kids take deep breaths.
Have your child lay down on their back and put a stuffed animal on their belly. Have them breathe in and move the stuffed animal up, then breathe out and bring the stuffed animal back down. This helps teach kids to use their belly to take big deep breaths. Another alternative is to use a weighted stuffed animal.
Kids can practice breathing out slowly or more quickly, using the speed of the pinwheel as a measure. Then they can figure out which way works and feels best for them.
Get some colored feathers and pick out one feather to use. It could be a color that they love or one that makes them feel calm. Breathe in and hold it for a count of 3, then breathe out going up on one side of the feather and down the other side.
Breathe in and expand the sphere, breathe out and push the sphere back in (this mirrors what should be happening to their belly)