Safeguarding

NSPCC Talk PANTS

The NSPCC Talk PANTS programme is here to help children understand that they have a right to say no and if they need to speak out about something, someone will listen.

We know that a simple conversation can make a BIG difference, and that’s what Talk PANTS is all about. To help you, as parents, get the conversation started.

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When's the right time to talk PANTS? 

Every family is different, and when and where you have these conversations may depend on your child's age, or how grown up they are - it's all about whatever feels natural for you and them.

Some examples of times you can talk PANTS are:

• After school – if they've had a lesson on personal relationships or Talk PANTS at school, ask them what they remember when they get home.

• Bathtime – you could start a conversation when you're running your child's bath, or helping them get dressed.

• Car journeys – this can be a great time to talk, and your child will have plenty of time to ask questions if they need.

• Reading our new PANTS storybook together.

• Singing – sing along to our PANTS song with Pantosaurus!

• Swimming – a great time to say that what's covered by swimwear is private.

• Walking – walking home from school, or a weekend walk to the shops can help you both feel more at ease as you stroll and chat.

• Watching TV – if a TV show features a sensitive storyline, you can encourage them to talk about anything that upsets them.

To find out more, visit https://www.nspcc.org.uk/keeping-children-safe/support-for-parents/pants-underwear-rule/ 

Although this is the pathway that can take a concern to social services it also the way to access Kent’s ‘Early Help’ services which include support if:

• you are worried about your child's behaviour

• you are struggling to cope

• you are worried about your family finances

• your child is struggling to cope with bereavement

• your child is being bullied

• your child refuses to go to school or college

• you or your child want to develop new friends and have new experiences

• you are having difficulties with family relationships.