Sexting
Sexting
Sexting is a huge part of engaging with users. By studying this module, you'll understand how to make the most of this opportunity and how to sext effectively.
Sounds intriguing, doesn't it? 😏🔍
Sexting offers a personal touch that sets it apart from porn. It's like consuming erotic content tailored to your wildest fantasies, crafted by someone you know. The draw is the customization of sexual communication. 🌟
Casual Relationships: People use sexting to show passion and desire, sparking sexual interaction. It brings a level of vulnerability not found in other types of sexual relationships.
Comfort and Intimacy: Sexting helps people feel close without physical exposure, acting as a safety bubble that keeps body image issues out of the way.
Avoidant Attachment: People with avoidant attachment styles might use sexting to meet their sexual needs while keeping a distance.
Anxious Attachment: People with anxious attachment styles might use sexting to seek closeness and reassurance.
Sexting isn't just about sex; it's about connection, intimacy, and navigating personal boundaries. 🌐💕
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Types of users who engage in sexting:
Those who see sexting as part of their romantic relationships; sometimes it is a dominant aspect, and sometimes it's just one way of interacting with their partner.
How can this user be detected?
Long chat story, users are a virtual couple, sexting doesn't take all the time of communication
How to work with them?
If the user is seeking for romantic relationships (they are planning to marry, discussing future, etc.) the attention should be paid to pre-sexting and after-sexting.
Those who use sexting as a form of pornography.
How can this user be detected?
Chats history mainly contains sexting, there is no care about the partner, just different fantasies, the dialogue can start with sexting request
How to work with them?
Be more dare and detailed in the fantasies, do not repeat yourself, support any preference of the client.
Hookup seekers, meaning those who don't build relationships but flirt and get what they want.
How can this user be detected?
Not much romantic stuff like promises to marry, future plans, just everyday talk and sexting in previous chat history. Difference with the previous type of users is that hookup seeker is not interested in the personality of the animator.
How to work with them?
Feel the mood: give the feeling that he is an experienced lover, and you are ready to follow all the initiatives.
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Why do users prefer sexting over usual sex? 💎
To introduce the fantasy he is ashamed in life
To introduce the kinks
To try something that is impossible in real life
To feel himself a character from the movie/ book/ porn
We remind you that you cannot initiate sexting, but you can flirt!
We also want to give you a few recommendations:
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How to start sexting to test the water from your side?
What would you want to do to me right now if we were in the same room?
You know what sounds really sexy?
How to start the new round of sexting?
I can't stop thinking about it.
What was your favorite part?
What did you like most about last night?
Sexting involves several steps:
Flirt😏 ➡️ Pre-sexting👩❤️💋👨 ➡️ Sexting🍆 ➡️ After-sexting❤️
It is very important not to skip any of these stages!
Flirt and Pre-sexting part👩❤️💋👨
As in a real life people start with a foreplay that includes flirting, kissing, undressing and touching 💦
Pre-sexting should consist of at least 20-30 messages (10-15 from Animator’s side).
👩❤️💋👨 Example of pre-sexting 👩❤️💋👨
1-9 - flirting 😏
10-39 - pre-sexting 👩❤️💋👨
40-... - the start of sexting 🍆
You: What are you up to right now?
User: Going to eat and you?
You: I’m in my room thinking about the most beautiful girl in the world
User: What are you thinking about her?
You: How she makes my dreams come true and how happy she makes me ❤️
User: She's happy to do that
You: She had already made my dreams come true
User: So who is she then? 🤭
You: Her name is Annie and she is you
User: I feel like I wanna fly right now. I want to kiss you 👩❤️💋👨
You: Me too, babe. Sending you a kiss
User: I start kissing your neck 💋
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Sexting🍓
Flirting and pre-sexting are mandatory before sexting
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Be active and use many call-to-action to motivate a user
User: Daddy... im naked.
You: Let me fondle your boobs, why are they so big?
User: Kissing your lips... Whisper, do they make u happy daddy?
You: Yes mommy, I love your lips so much, they taste like strawberries, can I kiss them more?
User: Kissing you more and more.
You: I love your smell, you smell so sweet, how about me how do I smell?
Be attentive to a user’s wishes (LGBT especially)
The most important thing is to define a user's interest and fetishes, it can be skin color, BDSM, armpits, legs, dominating etc. It can improve the speed of chatting (most users are talking about sexual wishes of different kinds).
Play with a user’s preferences and fetish. Try to find what’s better for this one.
Be open-minded. Some parts of sexting could be not so typical for you, however you need to be flexible.
User: Rub me like a dirty little boy.
You: Rubbing you like a naughty little boy.
User: Fuck me with your dildo and make me cum.
You: You will growl in pleasure. Thrusting my dildo into you
User: Slap me!
You: Slapping you. You’re mine, always. And I’m your mistress.
Don’t support immoral things. It’s a violation.
It includes such topics as murder, death, suicide, pedo, incest, zoophilia, sodomia and stuff like that. For more information, read the Immoral User Behavior, you can find it on your Google Folders.
Your messages have to be in the context
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After-sexting
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balls…You should keep sexting as long as a user wants, but an ending phase will come sooner or later.
It’s AFTER-SEXTING, an important part of all explicit chats.
No one likes their partner to turn away after sex and start scrolling through their Instagram feed or just fall asleep. 🤢🤮
Don’t be like that! During sexting, you don't want to miss the moment when you've enjoyed each other's company, discuss what happened, say a few compliments and set the stage for the next time. 🤩
Sexting generates many positive feelings, but you should remember it can also lead to feelings of embarrassment and shame. E.g. a user mentioned some fantasies that he’d never said aloud before. 😳🤭
That’s why after-sexting is such an important stage for sharing opinions and emotions. You have to reassure a user that you found your sexting just as hot as he did, and it might be just the push he needs to start another sexting exchange. 🤗❤️
After-sexting should consist of at least 20-30 messages (10-15 from Animator’s side). 📈
What does it consist of?
COMPLIMENTS: Show you love everything about a user and your sexting experience
PRAISE: Devilish praise for what has happened
FUTURE: Playful threats of what’s going to happen
EXAMPLE:
END OF SEXTING:
User: Keep doing! Deeper!
You: I’m cumming in your pussy and screaming in pleasure 💦
User: I feel your warm cum in me.
AFTER-SEXTING:
You: How does it feel, babe?
User: Nice and wet
You: You’re my sexy lady, you turn me on all the time
User: Really? I’m confused 😘
You: Sure! You were so beautiful in your red lingerie
User: Thank you, honey, it’s for you
You: Did you like how I played with your pussy? 🍓
User: YES! I thought I’ll cum three times in a row
You: Oh baby, I love your blowjob too. You’re so fucking good at that.
User: What do you like the most?
You: When you’re licking around the tip of my penis
User: And how do I massage your balls too?
You: Yeah! Nobody did it like you do, babe 😍
User: I love you so much, you’re my sexy inspiration
You: Omg baby, I cannot wait to get my hands on you tomorrow
WHAT’S NEXT?
User: Yes, let’s build up our strength, my teddy
You: We need it, do you want to cook something for dinner? We can do it together.
User: I’d love it. Maybe pasta?
You: You read my mind, hun. We can go shopping first. We need eggs and milk. And wine? 😏
FOREPLAY?
OK, WE NEED A WARM-UP
SEXTING?
OK, WE LOVE IT
AFTER-SEXTING?
ERM… WHAT IS IT?!
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Bad examples of sexting:
1. No support of sexting initiation by user:
User: I want to fuck you badly in your little ass!
You: Sorry, what do you mean by that?
User: Have you ever tried anal?
You: No, I am afraid it hurts
User: Okay, but let us imagine it at first?
You: What should I do?
User: Take off your clothes
2. Very boring and not involved:
You: What do you want to do with me?
User: I want to fuck you right now
You: Yes daddy please
User: Can I hear you?
You: Mmmm daddy
User: l make you beg. I'll fuck you until you can't feel your legs. Whisper in your ear to cum for me while you dig your nails into my back. Then next day I'll hold your hand and kiss your cheek when nobody is looking. Ill treat you like a princess and give you that smile I have just for you.🔥🥵
You: I love it daddy
3. Devaluation:
User: Send me the photo of your wet pussy
You: Photo
User: Oh yes, so tasty!
You: Do you love it?
User: I am so horny, I am going to cuuum
You: You want to play with yourself now???
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Specifics of LGBTQ+ sexting
There are a myriad of orientations, but today we will focus on gays and lesbians.
If you notice a need for information on other orientations, please write to your training manager about it.
Gay Sexting Ideas
We all have heard about dominants/submissives in Gay relationships. Let’s find out what it actually means:
Involves a consensual power exchange, often enhancing intimacy or sexual desire.
Not limited to sexual activity; can extend to daily life.
Dom doesn't always mean "top"; sub doesn't always mean "bottom.”
Dom and Sub can change places
Domination doesn't have to be intense or aggressive, either. It can come from a warm, loving place
You can ask your partner openly which role he prefers today while sexting or ask if he is ready to try something new to include Dom/Sub model in your sexting practices:
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1. “I want to please you so bad I can’t think about anything else.”
2. “I’ve been so bad. How do you plan to punish me?”
3. “Please tie me up and fuck me. I promise I’ll be good.”
4. “I’m getting hard thinking about how you make me work for your cock.”
5. “Please use me.”
👨❤️👨 Ideas for dominants
1. “ I want you on your knees, ready for me.”
2. “I can’t wait to use you as my personal toy all night long.”
3. “Be a good boy and send me a picture of you in that underwear I like.”
4. “I’ve had a stressful day. I hope you’re ready to do whatever it takes to make me feel better.”
5. “You’ve been so naughty lately. I think it’s time I teach you a lesson.”
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Now let's move on to the specifics of lesbian sex!
10 things you can do to Boobs, Chests, and Nipples:
Lick
Bite
Squeeze
Clamp
Slap
Vibrate
Suck
Tie
Ice
Circle
Most popular sex positions for lesbians:
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69
Twisted Scissors (Rubbing clitors)
All tied up
Reverse Face Sitting
Kneeling
Other positions:
Lying and getting your pussy eaten
Standing shower sex
Strap-oning
Masturbating face to face
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Be creative and detailed in your mutual fantasies!
Be detailed and romantic!
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Add PurPur cards to sexting, they can diversify it in a very cool way, as well as provide new topics of discussion ❤️
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Sexting is a huge part of engaging with users.
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