A Call to Action (CTA) is a statement written to encourage the user to take a specific action, such as continuing the chat π¬
It usually comes at the end of your message and focuses on βwhat's nextβ for the user.
β οΈ THIS IS NOT JUST A QUESTION. A CTA is a crucial part of your message that guides the user on what to do next.
It can be:
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A question β
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A personal story π
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Your opinion on something π‘
If written correctly, it inspires the user and makes them want to keep chatting! π
Simply telling the user what to do or bombarding them with random questions is easy (and wrong).
But the real challenge is making them feel genuinely interested and engaged π―
β¨ A strong CTA keeps the conversation flowing and ensures long-term engagement.
β¨ Itβs not just about grabbing attentionβit helps you maintain a meaningful connection with the user. π
A CTA is not a one-size-fits-all phrase β. The best CTA depends on the situation and the stage of communication. Different moments require different CTAs.
β¬οΈ Read the most common CTA types and how to use them correctly! π
Avoid these messages! They are weak, unengaging, and a violation π«
π΄ Do NOT use these questions:
β Did you eat? / Have you eaten?
β Hey there! (and all variations)
β What are you looking for here?
β What do you want to know? (all variations)
β Tell me about yourself
β Are you single?
β Where are you from?
β Whatβs your name?
β Are you still there?
β I have a question for you, do you mind answering?
β What about it?
β Really?
β What?
π¨ Why? These messages do not drive action or engagement! They make chats feel robotic and uninspired.
π·οΈ Cases
π€ Whatβs the situation?
π You donβt need toβ¦
π You shouldβ¦
#1 First Chat
Itβs your first conversation, and you donβt know each other yet. But itβs crucial to build a connection and set the tone!
β Asking too many random questions at once (e.g. favorite color, food, music) - it feels forced.
β Asking personal questions immediately - privacy matters!
β Asking vain messages (e.g. What are you looking for here)
β Keep it light and natural.
β Use engaging open-ended questions.
Example: "How do you relax after a stressful day?" or "What makes you the happiest?"
#2 Scam / Contact Details
The user is a scammer or insists on seeing you / exchanging contact info.
β Being rude or shaming them.
β Engaging in scam topics - itβs a violation!
β Change the topic naturally.
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Use smart, fun redirects to shift the conversation.
Read more in The Contact details/Suggestion to meet InfoBlock
Example: "Wanna be my sugar baby?" β "Hehe, I have a better idea! Letβs play a dating game." π²
#3 Sexting
The user initiates sexting and you should support (but NOT start) it.
β Stopping the chat if the user wants to continue.
β Just moaning ("Mmmmmm") - this is NOT a CTA!
β Stay one step ahead with a rich and exciting response.
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Use incitements to action, not just questions.
Read more in The Sexting InfoBlock
Example: "Yes, baby, but I want to give you pleasure firstβ¦ Lie down and enjoy it. π"
#4 Boring Chat / One-Word Replies
The user is responding with short, unenthusiastic answers. You need to spark engagement!
β Playing silly word/emojis games.
β Making the chat feel robotic.
β Mirror the user's interests - show curiosity!
β Be empathetic and real.
Example: "I wish I could move to Copenhagen." β "Wow! Did you know Denmark has the happiest people in the world?" π‘
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A CTA is NOT just a questionβitβs a way to drive engagement in chats!
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Avoid robotic, repetitive, or intrusive questionsβthey kill the vibe.
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Use open-ended, engaging, and situational CTAs to create an immersive experience.
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Stay natural, empathetic, and fun! Thatβs how you keep users chatting for longer.
π Master your CTA and watch your conversations thrive! π
Now let's move from theory to a practical task!