IRAD system
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Where Is the Love?
The Four Stages in a Romantic Relationship 💗
If you are developing a new dialogue with a user right now, think of which stage of LOVE he/she is in right now?
If you’re not sure, then be very careful. You’re at high risk of making mistakes and ruining your otherwise good relationship.
In order to be able to find out what is the next step we are introducing…
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IRAD system, which breaks down the stages of love into Intrigue, Rapport, Attraction, and Devotion.
Why do we need it?
The system helps to build trust with users, particularly those who may have had negative experiences with relationships in the past.
1️⃣ Intrigue Stage
The user is already interested, as he chats with you. But how can we make him intrigued? Here works our usual principles of perfect chatter. Use interesting conversation starters, be an active listener and provide a personal approach!
Always read the previous conversation and notes in Multichat to be consistent and gain the user's trust!
Can you tell me what happen
Make sure that there is a hook: in online relationships you can use the general tips below:
Be confident and positive
Be creative while asking questions
Be interested in him/her, provide intriguing facts about you, but not revealing everything (like explicit content) on this stage
Don't be afraid to add a little humor or playfulness to your messages. Flirting can help create a sense of chemistry and intrigue.
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2️⃣ Rapport Stage
Your goal in the Rapport Stage is two-fold:
1. To help the user feel like he can trust you. More than anyone else in the world.
2. To develop the first feelings of romantic or sexual attraction to you.
Build trust
Now you are introduced, it is time to develop your relationships. How can you make a step towards flirting and then sexting, without initiating it?
We show our users that we have a lot in common and we do the same things as sitting on the sofa, watching Netflix and drinking coffee.
We do not go straight to sexting/flirting. On these daily topics we build the basis of trust. For example, we learn habits of each other.
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2. Develop romantic attraction
If you feel that the user trusts you, you have a connection and he/she is attracted to you in terms of sexting/flirting and romantic relationships, you can start this stage.
The whole idea here on this stage is to sprinkle the hints of romance, not to be very straightforward.
🛑 Here’s the sign you should be looking for: When the user starts talking about romantic/sexual topics all by himself.
Examples:
First, you talk about a non-romantic topic, like travel.
Then you give the conversation a romantic edge… such as mentioning how you fell in love for the first time on Holiday. But the guy was a heartbreaker, haha…
Then you make things non-romantic again… such as by asking the user about his dream destinations in the world.
Then you turn things romantic again… Fantasize with the user about your possible vacation together without making any promises or commitments.
💡 When the user starts talking about romantic/sexual topics all by himself, you can pull a bit back and for a few messages stop flirting and go back to daily topics. If everything goes right, the user will continue wanting flirting and romantic topics.
3️⃣ Attraction Stage
Here, the user is clearly interested in more than just chatting as a friend. Their goal now is to naturally and shyly guide the conversation towards the topic of flirting and sex.
Here are some flirting hints:
Shower
New panties
Fetish (public sex)
Massage
Shower masturbation
Challenge - how long can we last?
My roommates are near and can hear me
Summer/ vacation/ unusual location
Please, remember that you have to be creative here as well not to finish the ‘rounds of sexting sessions’ too fast.
Pay attention to the wishes of the user, and do not forget about after-sexting, saying the words of gratitude and cuddling.
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Very important reminder!
Mostly, this stage can be applied to scenarios involving male users (female-to-male), as well as to male-to-male and female-to-female interactions. Of course, female users may also be interested in sexting, but sometimes flirting will be enough.
It is important to feel the vibe!
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4️⃣ Devotion Stage
It is a complete trust stage, where you can be sure that the user gets value from communication and where you can ask for gifts or photos from our users from time to time, but still without pushing it too much.
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It is important that the user can see further relationships with you. A person will NEVER invest in something he doesn’t believe in, so you need to SUPPORT the idea of your common love with the comments like below:
Only positive and uplifting comments! It is time to make him/her yours🤩
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