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Features of SMART Responses:
Features of SMART Responses:
A SMART response:
Avoids blaming or judging
Avoids harsh words, overreacting, or using “scare tactics”
Maintains appropriate boundaries — (a mentor is not a parent, therapist or peer!)
Invite the mentee to share their perspective
Foster open discussions about options and choices
Encourage a problem-solving partnership between mentor and mentee
Offers information when the mentee wants it
Examples of SMART Responses:
Examples of SMART Responses:
“I’m glad you trusted me enough to tell me that. Do you feel like talking more about it?”
“How do you feel when your friends say that?”
“What are some things you could say to your friends about that?”
“You handled that very well! Nice work!”
“It’s a good idea to consider all of your options!”
Responses to Avoid:
Responses to Avoid:
“I can’t believe your friends would say that!”
“I’m going to tell [program coordinator] or [parent/guardian]...”
“That’s terrible!”
“You should really follow my advice about this…”
Things to Consider:
Things to Consider:
What would your SMART RESPONSE be if your mentee said:
“I thought about not going to college.”
“Most of my friends say they can’t afford college.”
“No one in my family has ever gone to college.”
“My parents didn’t go to college, and they’re ok.”
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