Hair
Conditioner
Avalon Organics
Olive Oil & Grape Seed Extra-Moisturizing Conditioner (Fragrance-Free)
Earth Science
Free and Clear
Green People Neutral Scent-Free Conditioner
Jason
Magick Botanicals
Vegetable glycerin
Available from many stores; can be mixed with water or used undiluted. Also can be used for dry skin in the shower or as lotion.
UK: Boots Value Health Glycerin
http://www.boots.com/en/Boots-Value-Health-Glycerin-B-P-200ml_852418/
Whole Foods 365 Fragrance-Free Conditioner
Shampoo & Shampoo Substitutes
I don't use shampoo, but many of the conditioner brands listed above also have companion shampoos.
Shampoo substitutes
Vinegar + conditioner: I usually use 1 tbs white vinegar to 16 oz conditioner. This is also nice as a body wash, especially for dry skin.
Lemon juice + conditioner: I usually use 2.5 tbs lemon juice to 16 oz conditioner. This is also nice as a body wash, especially for dry skin.
Avalon Organics
Earth Science
Free and Clear
Jason
Magick Botanicals
Styling products
Alba Botanica Soft Hold Style Cream
Alba Botanica Strong Hold Style Gel
Magick Botanicals Hair Gel
Aloe vera gel
make sure you buy fragrance-free (if you're not using it from your own plant)
sometimes cut with water
A dab of fragrance-free lotion or even conditioner in wet hands and worked through hair often helps control frizz