Where do I Find Spells or Write My Own?
There are many books on the market as well as websites which provide a wealth of spells for many purposes. However, a spell that you make will be far more effective than one someone else has written. By adding your personal flair you infuse the spell with your own energies.
Spells come from within. You don't need to have a perfectly formatted spell complete with song and 7 dancing priestesses in order for it to work. Concentrate on the outcome you desire. The deities have a sense of humor and are patient with your imperfections. The more you read on magick, the more you will find you are capable of completing this task on your own, and you will find your own style. Some people prefer complete intricate rituals for casting spells, others are more relaxed in their magick. Please know that magick isn't to be taken lightly, and shouldn't be used to control anyone in any way (one exception is binding someone against harming himself or others). You should be well versed on this subject before attempting a spell or other form of magick.