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Please pardon any duplication or lack of good flow. Writing about this is avoided for a long time, then written quickly, but taking lots of time to verify facts, and then left in draft form, in order to deal with something else that isn't as terrible as dealing with these abuses of children by corrupt court workers and its friends.
In late July 2005 the mother's father Roger carried out his plan and demanded divorce and took control of 3 precious children and his 44 year old daughter, who through a secret divorce filing and ambush of endless lies instantly became sole custodian. The moment of separation was when Roger enflamed an argument with the father, who never dared to argue with Roger in 13 years. Roger took action to keep the father out of the family home permanently and Roger immediately moved into the family home, living with his daughter and children for 2 weeks at at time for several months.
early Aug 2005 Custodian talked about reconciliation for the 1st time after filing for divorce. She created conditions for starting marriage counseling, which she stated in writing, through her first wickedly lying lawyer. Father completed the conditions. Father asked custodian's father Roger for permission to have marriage counseling with his estranged wife. Roger demanded no marriage counseling. Custodian REVERSED because she couldn't dare to disobey her father Roger.
Dec 2005 - custodian moved with the children out-of-state right before their children's Christmas service - and moved into the home of Roger and his wife for 3 months.
Feb 2006 - custodian told her two MN pastors that she would pursue marriage counseling (2nd agreement after filing) and would put the legal case on hold for 6 months. Roger wasn't in this conference and never agreed to either of these. Within days, the custodian reversed and continued legal attack.
Mar 2006 - POSITIVE - FATHER changed jobs from out-state and started living 2 miles from the custodian and on the same school bus route. NEGATIVE CUSTODIAN created alienation on the bus route by demanding that the children bypass the father's home and continue on the route and come to her first, instead of being dropped off first at the father's home. NEGATIVE CUSTODIAN created alienation, and harassed the father face-to-face in exchanges that could have been avoided.
May 2006 - Custodian had a secret hearing with Judge Sutherland who formerly worked for the firm of the custodian's wickedly lying MN attorney Deanne Lyn' Dulas. The NEGATIVE CUSTODIAN made up wild lies to get an order to ban the father from going to the children's school and church.
Sept 2006 - After 6 months of continued legal attacks, the custodian AGREED with her 2 pastors to consider marriage counseling (3rd time after filing divorce in secret). Custodian again failed to keep her agreement and REVERSED. Her father Roger never gave permission for marriage counseling at any time after he demanded divorce.
Oct 2006 - First court hearing in MN after the case was transferred from out of state. Judge Mayer started as the one and only judge from 2006 to present (2013) to hear this case in general court. NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER to increase alienation - ordered severe restrictions on parenting time based on wild lies by the wickedly lying lawyer Deanne Lynn Dulas.
Early Nov 2006 - in reunification therapy with POSITIVE DR. REITMAN, custodian AGREED to equal parenting and told the children in Dr. Reitman's office with the father present. Custodian REVERSED on this agreement within days. This agreement was never agreed to, or presented to Roger or her lawyer Deanne Dulas.
Dec 2006 - POSITIVE to decrease alienation - Dr. Paul REITMAN warned Judge Michael Mayer in writing to not use police stations for exchanges because it increased parental alienation. Roger continued to demand all exchanges at the police station. POSITIVE Dr. REITMAN wrote that exchanges should be at school which would eliminate the face-to-face of parents at these exchanges.
Jan 2007 Enflaming parental alienation, NEGATIVE ROGER demanded "we only go the police station" for child exchanges (see recording).
Mar 2007 - NEGATIVE action by Judge Mayer to increase alienation - ordered exchanges at a police station with both parents present.
Apr 2007 - POSITIVE - FATHER motioned again to exchange children before/after school with only one parent present. POSITIVE - FATHER motioned that adults stay in their vehicles during exchanges to eliminate any harassing by the custodian or Roger. NEGATIVE action by J. MAYER - denied the father's motion for increased cooperation and resolution, NEGATIVE action by J. MAYER denied motion for school exchanges, NEGATIVE action by J. MAYER denied having adults stay in vehicles. Father's motion to receive single school pictures. Denied repeatedly - never approved by Mayer.
Apr 2007 NEGATIVE Judge Mayer's defiance against warnings - Judge Mayer's unconsciousness to children's feelings. In this hearing Judge Mayer stated, "I guess I don't see the police station as having a negative connotation, maybe because I worked with cops most of my career. I think the lobby of the police station is an appropriate place."
May 2007 - NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER to increase alienation - renewed his order demanding exchanges at a police station, but added that a relative (hours away roundtrip), not a local family friend, had to pick up the children, and the father couldn't be present. The custodian continued to create alienation at exchanges with relatives who drove hours roundtrip. This distance problem eliminated all Wednesday visits (as J. Mayer knew) even though the father's friends who knew the children were willing and local. NEGATIVE MAYER created a no contact order against father to ENRICH lawyers by forcing communication through lawyers and allow the custodian to continue to harass the father who had to remain silent under her abuse.
May and Dec 2007 - BIZARRE action by Judge MAYER - ordered that "No negative connotations shall be drawn by the exchange location. Respondent shall not attempt to negotiate with Petitioner to use a different exchange location." That's like sending children into a prison and ordering them not to have negative thoughts about the prisoners (because that's what Judge Mayer's order says). His orders are bizarre. How can an order to have no negative connotations, override the feelings and observations of children??? Judge Mayer defiantly rejected the PhD child expert warnings about children's feelings. Judge Mayer can order adults not to say anything, but kids aren't that stupid or without emotion in these environments? For decades, government statistics prove that divorce judges create most of the juvenile delinquents by giving solo moms custody. But "Contaminated" divorce judge Mayer boasts that he was chosen as a juvenile judge and acts as youth confirmation instructor at the Easter Lutheran Church Eagan [radically liberal] which violently rejects Christ's command for Matthew 18 mediation with him for reconciliation and ignores proven facts and is afraid to question him.
Judge Mayer's own statements show that he is unconscious to children's emotional feelings.
Judge Mayer honors himself for dealing with the juvenile delinquents that in divorce court he creates!
For the best interest of children, Judge Michael Mayer should be one of the last to be used as a juvenile judge or youth instructor or family dissolution judge?
Oct 2007 - POSITIVE FATHER motioned to take 1 or 2 children at a time. NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER and his accomplice evaluator Beth Harrington to increase alienation and enrich court workers - denied this motion to take 1 or 2 children.
Dec 2007 - NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER to increase alienation - Every exchange conflict and alienation was initiated by the custodian or her father, but Judge Mayer wrote in his findings of (false) 'fact' that the father was responsible for problems at exchanges and ordered visits to be done at supervision centers. As usual, Judge MAYER's facts were IMPOSSIBLE and BIZARRE because the father hadn't been at an exchange for 7 months! Judge Mayer kept changing the conditions and the consistent alienation factor that was ALWAYS present at exchanges was the custodian or her father, which is why exchanges at school without them were motioned repeatedly. These motions to remove the consistent alienating factor were always denied in NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER which intentionally enflamed alienation and enriched the court workers. J. Mayer is well aware that there is a competition between states for billions of Federal Social Security dollars for custodian support system incentives and also for thousands of dollars of parenting time enforcement funds. The parenting time funds are diverted into these supervision centers which enflame parental alienation instead of using the funds to enforce parenting time for the majority of fathers in positive environments. The centers need judges to force customers to them so the centers can grow and use up all of the federal parenting time enforcement money in a detention center environment instead of in a park or recreation center. Or God forbid in a father's home, which Judge Michael Mayer called the 'most unnatural environment,' when he crushed Dr. Gilbertson's requests to have custody evaluation visits in the father's nice 3 bedroom townhouse for a fair evaluation. The BIZARRE thinking of Judge Michael Mayer is difficult to understand?
Apr 2008 - POSITIVE - In a letter to Judge Mayer, Dr. James GILBERTSON, approved by the court, requested his protocol to try to make his custody evaluation (secondary to Judge Mayer's accomplice) as fair as possible. NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER increased alienation and costs and crushed most of Dr. Gilbertson's protocol requests and made it impossible to come anywhere near to a complete or fair evaluation.
Summer 2008 - NEGATIVE actions by Judge MAYER increased alienation and costs by dragging out the divorce trial to as many days as possible, taking long breaks and quitting early for Judge Mayer's personal excuses. Under trial cross-examination, Beth Harrington reluctantly agreed that taking 1 or 2 children at at time was good intuition by the (POSITIVE) FATHER. Under trial cross-examination pressure, the custodian admitted that there was never alienation in exchanges at school where only one parent was present, but she opposed this motion of the father every time and NEGATIVE Judge MAYER ruled with 1-SIDED discrimination in almost everything.
Feb 2009 - 77 page divorce decree - NEGATIVE actions by Judge MAYER increased alienation and cost - 1-SIDED discrimination, copied and pasted over 75% of lawyer Dulas' proposed decree, didn't use a single sentence from the proposed decree by the father's lawyer. NEGATIVE Judge Mayer IGNORED Dr. Gilbertson's warnings that sole custody would increase parental alienation.
May 11, 2009 - POSITIVE - In a letter to Judge Mayer, court appointed Dr. Brian POWERS warned Judge Mayer that the custodian had been delaying reunification therapy for months and he was concerned. Dr. Powers made requests regarding protocol. NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER increased alienation and cost and crushed most of Dr. Powers requests for cooperation and resolution.
Oct 2009 - POSITIVE FATHER motioned for consequences to the custodian for continuing to sabotage reunification therapy and completely blocking any father-child therapy since Jan 2007!!! NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER completely IGNORED giving the custodian any negative consequence. Since 2006, the custodian hasn't suffered negative consequence from 1-SIDED Judge MAYER. The court workers were enriched over $256,000 from the father and the custodian claimed court fees over $120,000 and admitted that her (millionaire) father Roger was paying her legal fees.
May 2010 Defiant NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER ordered sole legal in a secret hearing. Mayer denied father phone access to hearing. Custodian's excuse for sole legal was that she wanted to get passports for the children for a vacation, that they never took - but she didn't need sole legal for passports, only an explanation. Instead, she used sole legal to change the children's birthnames, against the will of the older son, to put a stake in the parental alienation coffin of the father. Dr. James Gilbertson warned Judge Mayer, in 2008, against sole legal custody because it would certainly increase parental alienation, and this testimony of his was stated in the 2009 divorce decree.
Sept 2010 POSITIVE FATHER'S motions for Children's Rights for Parenting access, appoint parenting consultant, etc.
Dec 2010 POSITIVE Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR) was attempted by the FATHER, and certification was mandatory per Rule 303. Father filed the required documents in court and used ADR certified Dr. Michele Millenacker in Apple Valley. Dr Millenacker made two attempts to ask the custodian to participate and cooperate. The custodian refused to participate or cooperate.
Jan 2011 - NEGATIVE action by Judge MAYER which increased alienation - ordered that it was OK for the custodian to ignore Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR). NEGATIVE J. MAYER failed to issue an order on Children's Rights to parenting and relative access and parenting consultant, etc.
Dec 2011 request for 2-way no contact order Denied - only 1-SIDED DISCRIMINATION allowed
Dec 2011 hearing NEGATIVE Mayer spoke negatively about father's attempts at ADR.
Jan 2012 NEGATIVE J. MAYER failed to issue an order on Children's Rights to parenting and relative access and parenting consultant, etc., but he illegally crushed a support modification.
Oct 2012 NEGATIVE J. MAYER again refused to remove himself.
A few of many 1-sided discrimination examples of financial grand theft and fraud by Judge Michael Mayer:
2007 Discovery. Custodian sent an extremely abusive and multiple pages of discovery request items including 3 years of all credit card statements of the father. Father provided all discovery items and even a few credit card statements that were missed, but discovered by close inspection by the custodian.
2007 Discovery. Father copied the multiple pages of discovery items requested by the custodian and sent back the same requests to the custodian. Custodian failed to provide many of the discovery items, and failed to provide even a single credit card statement! from the previous 3 years.
2008 trial. Custodian's wickedly lying lawyer Deanne Dulas merely alleged that the father hadn't completed discovery submittals. Dulas failed to provide evidence or details of what she alleged was missing. Based on Dulas' wicked lying without evidence, and
for this discovery false accusation only, Judge Michael Mayer:
1. Denied the father from submitting any evidence for trial regarding anything, that hadn't been submitted months before, yet allowing the custodian to keep submitting new evidence before and during the trial.
2. After the custodian's lying financial expert testified, denied the father's financial expert from testifying in court, and denied the evidence in those costly financial reports (over $5000 for the financial expert). There were breaks of weeks between trial dates so there were weeks of time to review the financial reports.
3. Denied the father from providing evidence of his credit card debts which grew during the divorce actions, debts which were then over $140,000.
4. Denied the mention of any of the father's debts of over $140,000 in any financial calculation or in any fairness 'balance' in the divorce judgment and decree.
5. Fined the father $1500 for the discovery delay which was a false allegation without evidence.
In other financial fraud and grand theft by Judge Michael Mayer,
6. J. Mayer merely rubber-stamped Dulas' wildly false allegation that $107,000 in home improvements were 'cosmetic' and had no legal value, therefore increasing the capital gain by $107,000 from the 1st and 2nd home in favor and prejudice for the custodian. Of course the custodian held all the home improvement receipts in her possession, since she took possession of the family home by ambush and secret divorce filing, and failed to provide these receipts in discovery.
7. Ignored $46,000 in household property taken by the custodian.
8. Ignored $42,380 in home closing costs paid by the father's employer for the home sale which was 15 months after family separation, not crediting the father, and therefore increasing the capital gain by $42,380 from the 2nd home in favor and prejudice for the custodian.
9. Ordered the father to pay of fine of $29,000 of the custodian's legal fees, falsely accusing the father of delaying the case, when all delays were to the advantage of enriching the court workers and preventing custody from changing back to equal parenting as it was before family separation.
10. Ignored 4 years where the custodian took 100% of $60,000 in child tax exemptions and deductions.
11. Ignored $6,583 in capital gains taxes paid from marital funds, which benefited the custodian's home value gain.
12. And tens of thousands in theft regarding support, ignoring the former state's support calculations and the custodian's continually false medical expense reports that fail to include insurance payment receipts.
13. In the decree financial total, based on complete fraud by Deanne Dulas, the custodian and Judge Mayer, Judge Mayer ordered the bankrupt father, in addition to $40,000+ in fines and support and medical allegations, to pay an additional $11,665 balance to the custodian who became a millionaire by grand theft by Judge Michael Mayer in court. But even this was fraud and theft of $5832, because to 'equalize' Judge Mayer's false numbers requires to award the custodian half of that amount, not all of it! This is Judge Mayer's rule of equalizing - All of the money to the woman.
Anyone who can do simple math knows that if a boy has 11 more marbles than a girl (in a fantasy world), giving the girl 11 marbles doesn't balance it equally. It then gives the girl 11 more marbles than boy. This is the only, the only failure that Judge Mayer ever admitted to in all the years on this case. And when caught, he amended the decree on this one item. Maybe Judge Mayer does this to every father to see if the father catches Judge Mayer's fraud and deception. Obviously Judge Mayer's clerk Richard Crabb copied lawyer Deanne Dulas frauds, generated more fraud and theft, participated in and supported all of these crimes against fathers. Judge Mayer is responsible for directing the crimes, and Richard Crabb was the one who made some edits to lawyer Deanne Dulas' proposed decree and had Judge Mayer sign this criminal theft action.
Judge Mayer is extremely pleased with all his NEGATIVE actions to DENY FACTS, deny COOPERATION, deny RESOLUTION and to INCREASE alienation, ENFLAME parental alienation, greatly ENRICH court workers and rule in 1-SIDED discrimination. He claims to be without bias.
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And who was mostly responsible for the delays? which resulted in fining the father $29,000 for delays - delays creating ungodly enrichment of court workers. Judge Mayer please raise your hand, high in the air for everyone to see who is at fault for delays. Here is the evidence from the 2011 appellate Brief page 40:
More than 395 days of delays by Judge Mayer between hearings and his orders. Judge Mayer has consistently taken an average of 30 days after the motion to have a hearing and 80 days after a hearing to return an order when the delay punishes the father and is prejudiced in favor of the custodian. Then Judge Mayer has blamed the father for the months of delays and ordered the father to pay $29,000 in fees for his delays. Judge Mayer is severely abusive, unethical and malicious. Judge Mayer has consistently signed orders the same day or within days when quick orders are in favor and prejudice for the custodian's advantage. Judge Mayer's actions are clearly 1-sided discrimination.
Oct-5-2006 hearing, Jan-27-2007 order (100 days);
Oct-10-2007 hearing, Dec-31-2007 order (80 days),
Apr-2-2008 hearing, May-14-2007 order (41 days – issued due to impending trial);
Oct-1-2008 trial end, Feb-11-2008 decree (110 days);
Mar-30-2008 motion for amended order, Jun-3-2008 order (64 days)
= 395 days of delay by Judge Mayer
Jan-10-2010 hearing for custodian (same day order Jan-10-2010 in violation of required ADR certification);
May-6-2010 hearing for custodian (same day order May-6-2010 in violation of required ADR certification)