How To Be An Ally

BBBSMC believes Bigs are defenders of potential for their Little's, and it is important we take action now. 

For those of us who are white, we must listen to the lived experiences of others, educate ourselves, and leverage our privilege to work against racism. It is not the responsibility of Black people, including your Little, to provide education or end racism. Rather, as a mentor to your Little, be open to what they have to share and be mindful of the grief and exhaustion they may be experiencing. Do not burden them by your own questions but support them in whatever ways you can. If you have a Little who is white, it is equally important to engage in these conversations and talk about what it means to be an ally in building a more just city and world.

As you look through these resources, do let us know if you find any particularly helpful or if there are additional resources that would be beneficial. If you have a resource you would like to share, please pass it our way. Just as you are there to support your Little, BBBSMC and your Match Support Specialist are here for any questions you have or support you need.


BBBS partnered with the Covey Group to lead a workshop for Bigs centered on Learning How to Support Your Little in the face of Racism, Implicit Bias and White Privilege.

 Bigs submitted resources they came across during the pre-work, the articles, books, podcasts, and websites can be found here.

A Recording of the workshop can be found here (password: 0T!N+@76)

Websites, Articles and Videos For Education:

· Anti-racism resources for white people 

    -Google Doc listing anti-racism resources including articles, podcasts, films, books, and other resources

·10 Things Allies Can Do

·Guide Allyship

·From Civil Rights to Black Liberation: They're Not Too Young to Young to Talk About Race

·Embracing Race

·Microagressions in the Classroom (video)

·Black & LGBTQ+: At the intersection of a racist, homophobic & transphobic criminal justice system

·Talking to Children About Community Violence

·Becoming Upended: Teaching and Learning about Race and Racism with Young Children and Their Families

·A Kids Book About Racism by Jelani Memory

·Four Tips For Having Healthy Conversations With Mentees About Race

·Black Pain, Black Joy, and Racist Fear: Supporting Black Children In A Hostile World

·Talking To Children After Racial Incidents

·Talking to children of different age groups about race

·Talking to children about George Floyd

·The Dos and Dont's of Talking to Kids of Color About White Supremacy 

·Resources For Talking About Race, Racism And Racialized  Violence With Kids

·Effective Strategies for Mentoring African American Boys 

·Not Just Black Girl Magic: What It Takes To Inspire And Support All Our Girls

 

Local Chicago Organizations to Learn From

·Westside Justice Center

·Black Lives Matter Chicago

·Chicago Community Bond Fund

·Brave Space Alliance

·Chicago Freedom School

·My Block, My Hood, My City

·Assata’s Daughters 


Instagram Accounts to Follow

· @ibramxk

·@rachel.cargle

·@mspackyetti

·@zinneducationproject

·@nowhitesaviors

·@theconsciouskid

·@blackcoffeewithwhitefriends