Figuring out your sexuality
- "So on the one hand, there's thought experiments around "am I X" and "can I deal with the world being that I'm X?" The corollary is "if you're spending time wondering about being X, odds are really good you are." I'd start by pointing the individual to. The subreddit http://latebloomerlesbians.reddit.com which is applicable to people raised under "compulsive heterosexuality" and speaks to other experiences too if you substitute "lesbian" for "bi"/"trans"/etc."