Guide your children so they avoid referring to their pieces as ‘hard’ and ‘easy’
In the last a couple of weeks we shared tips on setting the right expectations (TIP#1), asking the right questions (TIP#2) and how to be involved in the first practice (TIP #3).
We can guide them to focus on the process of learning and point them to different goals they can achieve.
When children hear the word ‘hard’, it means:
“It is beyond my capabilities”
When children hear the word ‘easy’, it means:
“I do not need to try hard”
How to refer to pieces instead of ‘hard’:
“This piece will take longer than others”
“This piece will help me get to the next level”
“I will be able to focus on a new technique”
How to refer to pieces instead of ‘easy’:
“This piece is really good for sight-reading”
“I will be able to play this piece fast in a shorter time”
“I will be able to perfect it with all the details”
May you know you are making a difference, even if your child never tells you themselves.
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