Community Building Circles are preventative and proactive, meaning we build them into daily practice to build community, culture, and meet our students social/emotional needs through the building of trust.
Restorative, or Harm, Circles are responsive circles that take place after harm has been done and when relationships need to be repaired. Mediation also takes place after harm has occurred, but with smaller groups/pairs.
You can use the format for circles that best works for your and your students' needs. This is a sample of how formatting can go, as a starting point. You should tweak this to serve the needs in your life at school.
The questions you ask during a circle are hugely important to achieving your goal within the circle. This graphic explains that different questions serve different purposes.
Is the circle you're planning to build trust and community? or is it to build authenticity and ownership?
A Community Building Circle in an ELL classroom (above) and in an Elementary classroom (below).
This image is from Better Than Carrots or Sticks, a powerful resource on the impacts and research behind restorative practices in discipline. The first chapter is available for your reading, here:
is a book and resource that outlines nine steps for integrating restorative discipline and practices into the daily life of an educator, through the nine steps above. An outline of the book and more information on the steps are available here:
All behavior, good or bad, is communicating a student's needs to us.
Punitive discipline does not.