Before you start, a few important points:
Try multiple interventionsEach intervention should be tried for designated length of timeMore than 1 intervention may be implemented at the same timeCollect and track specific data on each intervention tried & its effectIf your data indicates no progress after the designated length of time, you may consider another intervention or look at a different root cause and different set of interventionsInterventions:
Reading Your Body Signals
Help students recognize physical signs the human bods sends during emotions
breathing rate, muscles tighten, face turns red, eyes narrow, heart beats fast, sweat, stomach gets upset, voice gets higher/louder, clench my fists, etc.
Reframing
Helping students change their expectations or perspectives in order to make sense of a situation and get emotional relief
Teach students that we often create stories in our heads based upon prior experiences. We need to reframe the way we think and act by adding new information or a different perspective to our thinking
Behavior Prompts
Visual representation of the replacement or appropriate behavior
Tape to desk as continual reminder
Redirect student with minimal attention (pointing, holding up, etc.)
Peer models can be taught to provide visual cues too
Digital photos of the actual student engaging in examples & nonexamples work best!
Student can illustrate their own visual behavior prompts so they’re meaningful
Examples provided:
Teach Waiting to Be Called On
Teach your expectation for waiting to be called on (raise hand, green light signal, etc.)
Ignore shout outs
Track and share the number of times he raises his hand
Read social stories about hand raising
Provide visual prompts on desk
Let students develop his/her own reminder
Example: Sign that says on one side “I have a question” and on the other side “I want to share something”. Teach him/her to raise the appropriate sign to learn the difference and become aware of own behavior
Self-Monitoring
Charting for patterns
Look for patterns of good results and patterns that cause errors
Use video recording of performances to observe and chart patterns
Chart actions at intervals to analyze and improve choices
Journaling to Develop an Internal Coach
Teach students to reflect on their emotions and activities and learn from them.
They could journal about:
Was I productive today? If not, what am I saying to myself when I go off task? Am I giving up?
Did what I was reading or hearing make sense to me? Did I need to ask a question?
Am I confident that I can be successful?
How did I handle things that distract or upset me? Should I have reframed a situation to reduce my stress?
Requires lots of guided practice in self-monitoring
Practice Collaboration Skills
Reading Nonverbals
facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, posture, tone of voice, etc.
Active Listening
listening with empathy
paraphrase and listen reflectively
Establishing Routines and Accountability
Teach students the desired behavior and why. See “Consequence Map Template” and “If Then Chart Template” to guide your discussion with the student.
Increase engagement that promotes independence and student responsibility
Get students reflectively involved in their own learning
Teach students to work independently
Share clear, reasonable limits, and expectations into daily routines
As students violate procedures, ask “What guideline they are forgetting?”
Offer structure
Include students in self-assessments of their own learning gains
Building Language for Managing Emotions
Teach that people cannot control emotions but can control how we react to them
Vocabulary Continuum Strategy
Create vocabulary continuum with emotional words such as: miserable, awful, poor, average, good, excellent, and superb
Give students starter words such as flexible, uncertain, thoughtful, calm, satisfied. Have them create their own range of emotions on both the positive and negative sides of the selected starter word.
Encourage students to use these words to express their emotions rather than actions.
Identify Emotional Triggers
Help students understand their own personal emotional triggers that lead to stress and conflict and how to manage them
Listen to body signs and catch themselves before they react
Understand perceived emotional threats (unmet needs such as getting attention, being respected, needed, right, free, or included)
Our brains are on the lookout for these unmet needs and reacts to them with emotions
Help students realize that people make different choices based upon prior experiences and beliefs.
Anchoring
Anchoring is when certain triggers elicit strong emotions anchored to past experiences, another idea, or other emotions.
Teach students what anchoring is so they can use it with self-calming techniques in order to regain control over their emotions.
Learning Self-Calming Techniques
When thinking conflicts with emotion, emotion always wins and leads to poor decisions. We need to teach students how to override the emotional hijack happening in their brains.
Self-Calming and Anchoring Techniques:
Counting
Remove yourself
Breathe
Think calming thoughts
Relax your muscles
Meditation
Mindfulness
Practice