Romeo's character throughout the play
We possibly learn everything we need to know about Romeo when we first meet him at the start of the play:
Firstly: he is not like the other male characters.
He has no interest in the quarrel.
He is sensitive and isolated.
Love has full control over his mind and actions - he is unable to control his strong feelings.
At the start of the play, in his unreturned love for Rosaline, Romeo can be described as a Petrarchan lover.
In terms of love, Romeo feels internally conflicted - feeling both joy and pain at the same time:
“Love is a smoke raised with the fume of sighs;
Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers’ eyes;
Being vexed, a sea nourished with loving tears.
What is it else? A madness most discreet, A choking gall, and a preserving sweet.”
Act 1 scene 1
Here, as in many of his quotes at the start of the play, Romeo uses both negative and positive language to describe love: it is equally 'smoke', 'fume' 'sighs' 'madness' 'choking gall' (poison) and yet 'sparkling', and 'a preserving sweet'. This shows the two opposing states of mind he experiences simultaneously: love and hate, creating an uncomfortable lack of harmony of his emotions
Ultimately, you can argue that he is a victim of his emotions.
"A madness most discreet, A choking gall"
Romeo's love is both poison and 'madness' to the point that he loses a sense of proportion and balance. Even with Juliet, his love for her is akin to madness and posion: when he is exiled, he tells Friar Lawrence that he would rather be dead than separated from Juliet; he then takes his life when he believes Juliet is dead. The line in bold also foreshadows the fact that he takes 'gall' (poison').
Romeo's key changes across the play:
Lovesick for Rosaline.
Isolated from his family, nursing his strong emotions.
Moves on quickly when he meets Juliet.
He experiences a deeper, more spiritual love when he meets Juliet.
Romeo offers Juliet high status in their relationship.
Even with Juliet, Romeo remains a separated and isolated character, almost in the same way he was at the start when he locked himself away: 'henceforth I will no longer be Romeo', readily disconnecting his ties to his family so that he can be with Juliet.
Romeo is further outcast / exiled after he kills Tybalt. The detachment from the source of his love (Juliet) is too unbearable for him to cope with.
When he is denied his love when he believes Juliet is dead, the only way he knows to cope with this is through taking his own life.
Romeo across the play: key events, quotes, analysis and themes.
Romeo in Act 1
Romeo in Act 2
Romeo in Act 3
Romeo in Act 4
Romeo in Act 5
How Romeo compares with other characters: