Learning to calm one's self, and be able to self-regulate your body and emotions, is a vital skill for everyone to learn. For children, this may mean learning to calm themselves from feeling anxious or stressed, coping with sensory overload, or feeling upset and angry. As they learn, it's helpful for children to have some tools to help them calm down, so both parents and teachers often put together a "calm box" for children, with toys and items that can help them to slow down, breathe, and feel calmer.
Create A Calming Box
A calming box or calm down box is a container full of tools and objects to help children cope with their emotions in a positive and safe manner. They can also be called sensory integration boxes. These tools and objects can help a child lower their energy or frustration levels and self-soothe with items they can smell, see, and feel.
Here are some items you can consider and try to see what works well for your child:
1) Bottle of bubbles or a pinwheel
2) Chewelry
3) Fidgets: Squeezable fidgets/stress balls or a tangle jr.
4) Weighted blanket or weighted vest or weighted stuffed animal
5) Therabands
6) Noise cancelling headphones
7) Paper and crayons, coloring book
8) Bubble wrap to stomp on
10) Body sock
11) Favorite books to look at: I Spy or Where's Waldo or activity books of puzzles
12) Theraputty or thinking putty
13) Small soft blanket
14) Favorite stuffed animal
16) Fidgeting fleece bean bags
17) Playdoh
18) Recycled newspapers or tissue paper to rip up
19) Spinning top or fidget spinner
20) Snacks with a variety of textures such as chewy (e.g., dried fruit or fruit roll-ups) or crunchy (e.g., pretzels, apple slices, or vegetables)
Calming box: A Strategy for Supporting Challenging Students by Nancy Rappaport, M.D.
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