Mind and Spirit

An exploration of our place in the universe, of what makes us human and what makes life most worth living



More than 90 stories and articles on psychology, cosmology, philosophy, consciousness, creativity, anthropology, neuroscience, literature and more

Soul Values 

Beauty

Contemplation

Deeply felt experiences

Meaningful relationships

Knowledge

A sense of home

Art

Spiritual peace

Community

Relaxation and comfort


- from "Ageless Soul" - Thomas Moore

Links to earlier posts

Positive Psychology and Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

Flow - Two Takes

Mark Greif "On the Concept of Experience"

“How To Live: A Life of Montaigne in One Question and Twenty Attempts at an Answer”

Oliver Sacks and E.O. Wilson on Creativity

I-and-Thou: The Philosophy of Martin Buber

Is there a conflict between science and spirituality?

Maria Popova: Ten Learnings

A Pale Blue Dot

Friluftsliv: how an ancient Nordic philosophy can reconnect us with nature, improve our lives and help us raise children 

Beyond the Golden Rule

What Makes Us Human?

Why Does the World Exist?

Toltec Wisdom: The Four Agreements

Pope Francis, 21st century Christianity, and changing the world

What Makes a Genius?

The 5 hour rule - the value and beauty of constant learning

Poets and Teachers on Oneness

Touching the Sublime - Beethoven's "Benedictus"

Ikigai - "why you get up in the morning"

Nine great thinkers "way ahead of their time"

Want to be happy? Be grateful.

The Wheel of Emotions

Ten Philosophy Books

Maya Angelou's "Brave and Starting Truth"

Buddhism, Psychology and Neuroscience: Compassion, Mindfulness, Ego and the Not-Self

Meditations of a Philosopher King 

Mindfulness and Emotional Intelligence 

Music, cosmology, reading: "The Jazz of Physics" and "Letters to a Young Reader"

Giulio Tononi and the baffling nature of consciousness

The Power of Gardens

Huston Smith on the Spiritual Life

Wonder-full bewilderment

Mindfulness Made Simple

Mattering: the healing power of making someone feel strong 

Poet Wendell Berry on life, marriage, and justice

Laughter as Medicine

Music, Creativity and Healing 

Lao-Tzu and Marcus Aurelius on change, loss and life

Memory 

Nature, harmony and well-being: from traditional cultures to ecotherapy

Hygge: the perfect philosophy for winter

Want to be happy? Be grateful. 2019.

New Year's Resolutions

Humanity's Search for Meaning

The anthropic principle: where science, philosophy and theology meet

Marcus Aurelius and Albert Camus on courage and hope in troubling times

Positive Psychology Exercises

How "the Big Five" Personality Traits Can Help Us

Albert Camus's The Plague

Mindfulness Exercises

Beethoven: inner turmoil, beliefs, and creativity  

"Call to Unite": unity, compassion and hope in a time of pandemic

The Beloved Community: the philosophy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Hope and courage in troubling times redux

Walking to clear the mind and spirit

Hours of sunlight

Living in a Post-Truth Era

Stilling the Mind

The Art of Observation

Why critical thinking is important and three ways to improve it

The Religious Left

"What is water?" David Foster Wallace delivers the greatest commencement speech of all-time

Soul values: Beauty

Soul Values: Contemplation

Soul Values: Community

Advice from a Renaissance philosopher, the Scandinavians, and modern science for dealing with melancholy, S.A.D, and the “lockdown woes” 

Anger - its evolutionary purpose, downsides and management

Soul Values: Art

Understanding the Fascist Mind

What to think about before you sleep

Self-actualization, peak experiences, and the farther reaches of human nature

Maslow's pyramid revisited: transcendence and the good society

Creativity: its care and nurturing

Hope

Earth Day Reflections

The Power of Gardens (2021)

Language, words, reality and truth

The Deep Moral Roots of Pacifism

Attentiveness - Focus

Attentiveness - Awareness

Soul Values: A Sense of Home

Montaigne: "Don't worry about death"

On Silence

Finding your true self

On listening

Earth and its caretakers: three views

Light in the Darkness

Soul Values: Peace of Mind and Spirit

Thich Nhat Hanh and the Precepts of Engaged Buddhism

Declare your freedom from social media

Back to Nature

Our Awesome World: Recapturing a "Childlike Sense of Wonder"

Carl Jung, the original ecotherapist

Practicing the "Four Immeasureables" for a better life and a better world


Richard Rohr's Meditations

POSTED MAY 28, 2024

Richard Rohr is a Franciscan friar and one of the most well-known and loved Christian contemplative* writers living today.  He founded the Center for Action and Contemplation (CAC) in Albuquerque, New Mexico, in 1986.  In his writings, Rohr emphasizes "alternative orthodoxy", a term the Franciscan tradition has applied to itself.  It is a belief that lifestyle and practice ("orthopraxy") are much more important than mere adherence to "correct" beliefs  ("orthodoxy").  In a way, it's a modern, toned-down version of the "Faith without works is dead" from the Epistle of St. James.  According to Rohr's teachings, following Jesus is the "best shortcut" to salvation, and one does not necessarily have to practice formal Christianity. The key is to "fall in love with the divine presence, under whatever name."

To this end, Richard Rohr and faculty members of the Center for Action and Contemplation provide Daily Meditations, "reflecting on the wisdom and practices of the Christian contemplative tradition. We hope these meditations will help deepen prayer practice and strengthen compassionate engagement in the world."  

Here are several short passages from recent meditations with a link to the meditation.

Commanded to Love: Jesus taught that there were two great commandments- love God with your whole heart, soul, mind, and strength and love your neighbor as yourself.  Rohr writes, "The only way I know how to teach anyone to love God, and how I myself seek to love God, is to love what God loves, which is everything and everyone."

"To love someone means to see him as God intended him." - Fyodor Dostoevsky

A Place of Belonging: One of the stories about Francis of Assisi is that his first sermon was to birds filling the branches of a tree.  Rohr writes, "For the rest of his life, Francis is in relationship with a variety of animals, birds, fish, trees, and flowers. He always tells these creatures, “Do you realize that by your very existence, you are inherently giving glory to God? So just be who you are. Every animal, every created being has a unique thing to do. Each of you, do your thing; and in that doing, you are giving glory to God!" This is a mutual mirroring and I think it allowed him to do his own thing. He realized that just by being Francis, in all his freedom and joy, he also was giving glory to God. 

“Never forget that you are one of a kind. Never forget that if there weren't any need for you in all your uniqueness to be on this earth, you wouldn't be here in the first place."  - R. Buckminster Fuller

Welcome the Holy Spirit: At the end of Luke’s Gospel, Jesus tells his followers, “Stay in Jerusalem until you are covered by the power from on high”. The disciples remained there until the Spirit descended upon the gathered community on the feast of Pentecost.  In the scriptures, the Spirit is called the “wind,” the “breath,” and the “dwelling.” Theologian Marjorie Suchocki refers to these as God’s power, wisdom, and presence. Those three things are the heart of redemption, of experiencing the full life God intends for all.  

In one of his early books, Richard Rohr names the ability to love as the essential gift of the Holy Spirit that was bestowed on the Apostles two millennia ago.  In this meditation, he writes, "The gift of the Spirit is God’s own power to love unconditionally—and to transform the world by that power. This gift of knowing the Spirit, of being able to love as God does, is the same gift we need today...The Spirit is always a gratuitous gift. It’s always an unmerited favor. It’s always pure grace. Like wind, it cannot be seen. Like smoke, it cannot be controlled. The Spirit is elusive, blowing where it wills. Yet like fire, the Spirit can be felt. The Spirit is experienced as the warmth of God’s love."

"God as presence answers alienation and loneliness with love; God as wisdom answers the loss of time with trust; God as power answers injustice with empowering hope." - Margaret Suchocki


Note: *Contemplation is taking time to think deeply about something, to reflect thoughtfully on an idea, an experience, something we read, something we saw.  For more on the subject, see Soul Values: Contemplation.

 Sources: patheos.com, Wikipedia, Center for Action and Contemplation

Smile, laugh, change the world

POSTED MAY 1, 2024

From the 18th century playwright Nicolas Chamfort, who advised that "A day without laughter is a day wasted", to Mother Theresa of Calcutta, who reminded us of the transcendent value of a simple smile (“Every time you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing”), wise men and women have been telling us of the importance of smiling and laughing.  Today, psychologists and neuroscientists agree with the sages, and we are beginning to understand how these simple, common actions work on us and those around us to make a better world and a better us.

Smiling

“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” 

- Leo Buscaglia, "Dr. Love"

A smile is contagious. It can make us  more welcoming and attractive to others. It lifts our mood as well as the moods of those around us.  It can even lengthen our lives.  Studies show that putting a smile on your face has the power to relieve anxiety, strengthen relationships, and reduce your risk of heart disease.  You can find a discussion of the many physical and emotional benefits of smiling here.

At the heart of these benefits are the "feel-good" neurotransmitters - endorphins, dopamine and serotonin [glossary in sidebar],  which are released when you smile.  These are released by the simple action of smiling - even if you are not in the mood for smiling.   It's like the old song advises, "Smile though your heart is aching". [sidebar] You can actually lift your mood by smiling. 

Let me explain: when we smile, we flex certain muscles in our face. This movement tells our brain that we’re smiling which, in turn, initiates the release of these feel-good neurotransmitters. This is known as the facial-feedback hypothesis — a theory that our facial expressions not only communicate how we feel to others but also to ourselves.

Besides making us feel better, smiling can change the moods of others for the better.  You've heard the expression "a contagious smile".  It's common sense, right.  It's also been noted in research - that smiles are actually contagious. Your brain automatically notices and interprets other people's facial expressions—and sometimes, you may even mimic them. That means you might spot someone else's smile and unconsciously smile yourself.  

So when you smile and others smile back, they experience the same good feelings that you do.  And vice-versa. 

Laughing

"Surround yourself with people who make you happy. People who make you laugh, who help you when you’re in need. People who genuinely care." - Karl Marx

My dad was a subscriber to Reader's Digest.  One of that magazine's regular features was "Laughter, the Best Medicine", which I read as soon as the monthly issue arrived.  Honestly, I can't remember a single anecdote, joke or quote from those long ago reads - just that I looked forward to it and enjoyed it.  Something about being able to see the humorous side of situations always appealed to me.*  

Laughter may not literally be the best medicine but it certainly has enormous benefits for our psyche as well as for our physical and social well-being.  Laughter helps lift our mood, reduce stress, improve heart health, increase pain tolerance, and bond with others.  We respond especially well to laughing with others since laughter helps communicate affection for the people we care about.

How laughter achieves these results is discussed briefly in the sidebar.

Neuroscience News [sidebar] discusses 0bservations and research findings that support the physical, cognitive, social and mental/psychological powers of laughter.  Here are some of their interesting insights and findings on laughter's social role and its mental/psychological effects

Laughter's social role:

Laughter's mental/psychological effects:

A smile and a laugh go a long way towards making our days and the days of those around us brighter.  Lighten up when you can.  Provide the gift of a smile to others.  The world will be a better place.

Note: *A point made to my mother on parents' day in my freshman year of high school.  I guess they were looking for an area for improvement and they found this: I laughed a lot, at times inappropriately.

Sources: Psychology Today, Aura Glow, Very Well Mind, Good Rx Health, Nuvance Health, Neuroscience News 

Post-script: Some noteworthy advocates of laughter and humor are the biblical author of the Book of Proverbs, Saturday Review editor Norman Cousins and Holocaust survivor Victor Frankl.  Their thoughts and stories are in the post linked below.

Glossary

Neurotransmitters are chemicals that allow neurons to communicate with each other throughout the body. They enable the brain to provide a variety of functions and are integral in shaping everyday life and functions. [1]

Neurons are nerve cells that send messages throughout your body to allow you to do everything from breathing to talking, eating, walking, and thinking.[2]

Endorphins are a type of neurotransmitter that help relieve pain, reduce stress and improve your sense of well-being. Endorphins are created in your pituitary gland and hypothalamus, both located in the brain.[3]

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that acts on areas of the brain to give you feelings of pleasure, satisfaction and motivation. Dopamine also has a role in controlling memory, mood, sleep, learning, concentration, movement and other body functions. [4]

Serotonin is a neurotransmitter that plays a key role in such body functions as mood, sleep, digestion, nausea, wound healing, bone health, blood clotting and sexual desire. [5]

Oxytocin, like endorphins or serotonin, is a type of hormone in your body that promotes positive feelings. Oxytocin's main function is to facilitate childbirth, which is one of the reasons it is called the "love drug" or "love hormone." [6]

How Laughter Works

The physiology of laughter: When we laugh, we increase oxygen flow to the brain.  This, in turn, improves brain health and can reduce the risk of cognitive impairment such as Alzheimer’s disease, memory loss and depression. It can also reduce your risk of stroke.

The neuroscience of laughter: The Journal of Neuroscience published a study that found social laughter increased pleasurable sensations and release endorphins, dopamine and oxytocin in the brain. Researchers also found that participants had elevated pain thresholds after watching laughter-inducing comedy. (Hmm, elevated pain thresholds...were they watching The Three Stooges?)

Soul Values: Knowledge

POSTED APRIL 11,2024

In his book Ageless Soul, psychotherapist Thomas Moore presents ten "soul values" - elements in our lives that lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful existence, a set of values of great importance to the "deeper soul."  Although Moore discusses the ten values - Beauty, Contemplation, Deeply Felt Experiences, Meaningful Relationships, Knowledge, A Sense of Home, Art, Spiritual Peace, Community, and Relaxation and Comfort - in the context of aging, they are relevant to any age.  To me, they represent much of what makes life meaningful and our lives fulfilling.

With this post on Knowledge, we conclude our exploration of Moore's Soul Values.   

"Live as if you were to die tomorrow.  Learn as if you were to live forever." -  Gandhi

Learning is a lifelong process.  Our parents, of course, are our first and most important teachers.  We acquire from them, directly and indirectly, values and beliefs and learn how to relate to others and how to experience the world.  When we begin school, teachers add to our knowledge by providing guidance and teaching skills useful for functioning in society.  Formal education continues for years, and we acquire additional knowledge with the help of both teachers and classmates.  When formal education ends, it is up to us to continue to grow in our understanding of the world. 

Knowledge has been prized as an important virtue and value since ancient times.  [sidebar below] The ancients regarded it as the foundation that gives us an insight into our true nature and that of the world.   For us, as for the ancients, knowledge can lead to wisdom, the ability to live a meaningful life consistent with our highest ideals.  In and of itself, knowledge is a good thing, but its highest value comes when it leads to self-knowledge and wisdom, to actions that benefit others and to wisdom shared with others.  

Self-knowledge

In philosophy, “self-knowledge” refers to knowledge of one’s own mental states—that is, of what one is feeling or thinking, or what one believes or desires.  As psychologists have found, self-knowledge plays a crucial role in our well-being. Among its benefits:

Realistic Decision-Making: Knowing ourselves well allows us to make realistic decisions about various aspects of our lives. When we understand our emotional state, personality traits, relationships, and behavioral patterns, we can make informed choices that align with our goals and values.

Improved Relationships: Self-knowledge enhances our relationships with others. When we recognize our own strengths, weaknesses, and preferences, we can communicate more effectively and empathize with others. This leads to healthier interactions and deeper connections.

Greater Satisfaction with Life: A comprehensive understanding of our true selves enables us to make decisions that serve our desires and avoid experiences that hinder our flourishing. This alignment contributes to overall life satisfaction.

Self-Acceptance: Self-knowledge fosters self-acceptance. By acknowledging our strengths and limitations, we can embrace our authentic selves without judgment. This acceptance is essential for well-being.

Emotion Regulation: Understanding our emotional triggers and patterns empowers us to regulate our emotions effectively. When we recognize what influences our feelings, we can respond more skillfully and maintain emotional balance.

Turning information into knowledge

Our observations of the world provide us with information.  Turning this information into knowledge has not always been straightforward.  For example, the sun moves across the sky from east to west.  This observation, this information, led humans to believe that the sun revolved around the earth.  It was a belief so strong that Copernicus did not publish his theory, that it is actually the Earth that revolves around the Sun, until he was on his deathbed.  

The publication of Copernicus's model in his book De revolutionibus orbium coelestium (On the Revolutions of the Celestial Spheres) in 1543 was a major event in the history of science, triggering the Copernican Revolution and making a pioneering contribution to the Scientific Revolution and the development of the Scientific Method, an empirical method for acquiring knowledge that has characterized the development of science since the days of Copernicus and Galileo. [sidebar]

Today, our we live in the Information Age or, as some would have it, the Misinformation Age.  Our challenges with turning information into knowledge are different in many ways from what Copernicus faced. Bombarded with both facts and fictions, we must be able to separate the two so that we may effect solutions, make informed decisions and take appropriate actions.

With misinformation spewing uncontrollably from social media and news media, critical thinking is one of the most important tools we have to do this.  A simple definition of critical thinking is that it is “deliberately and systematically processing information so that you can make better decisions and generally understand things better.” Critical thinking is the opposite of irrational thinking and will help overcome cognitive biases such as the zero-sum bias (I win, you lose”), catastrophic thinking (ruminating about irrational worst case outcomes), and confirmation bias (people are prone to believe what they want to believe).

Critical thinking has some aspects of the Scientific Method and it can be taught.   Asking questions, questioning assumptions and reasoning logically are three ways to improve our critical thinking.  For more on this important skill, see the link below and the link in the sidebar. 


Turning knowledge into wisdom

"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."  -  Confucius


Wisdom is a human strength that leads to well-being and growth and can be defined as "purposeful seeking to enhance the well-being of the self and of the society."  Wisdom isn’t about what you know; it’s about how you apply knowledge to create a meaningful life. 

Turning knowledge into wisdom is a journey that transcends the accumulation of facts and the gaining of knowledge.  Several approaches to turn knowledge into wisdom:

Reflection, Confucius' noblest method to learn wisdom: Take time for deep introspection. Reflect on your experiences, thoughts, and actions. Consider what you’ve learned and how it can inform your next steps. 

Empathy:  See others’ perspectives. Cultivate empathy by understanding different viewpoints and having genuine concern for the welfare of others.

Self-Reflection: Question your own views and behaviors without defensiveness. Learn from experience and aim for personal growth. Self-reflection enhances self-awareness and understanding.

Balancing your interests with those of others: Seek common good and consider diverse interests, rather than optimizing personal gains. 

Managing Uncertainty: Acknowledge life’s uncertainty and uncontrollability. Trust in your strengths to navigate challenges. Wisdom grows from learning to cope with life’s unpredictability. As ever, the Stoics have much to advise [sidebar], and I also like this quote from Hannah Arendt:

 "This is the precept by which I have lived: Prepare for the worst; expect the best; and take what comes." - Hannah Arendt 

Wisdom in Aging: As we age, we become less ego-focused and more connected to others. Reevaluating life’s priorities and finding intrinsic pursuits over external validation (for example, the Soul Values) contribute to wisdom.  Thomas Moore has much to say about wisdom in aging below.

Learning from Crises, Mistakes, and Failures: Wise people apply lessons from past adversity when facing new challenges. Crisis mastery contributes to wisdom. The iconic South African leader Nelson Mandela once said, "I never lose. I either win or  learn."  Mandela's life was a study in resilience.  Imprisoned for 27 years, he became South Africa's first president after the end of apartheid.  Learning from our mistakes and failures is a path to wisdom, and resilience is an important attribute to have if we are to learn from mistakes and failures.

Seeing the Bigger Picture: A broader perspective helps prioritize what truly matters. Focus on ultimate life goals rather than immediate actions.

Purpose: Having meaningful goals for yourself and others fosters wisdom. Purpose is associated with emotional stability and resilience during tough times.

Emotion Regulation: Just as it aids us in attaining self-knowledge, emotional stability is essential for wisdom. It allows clear judgment and thoughtful decision-making

Sharing experiences and wisdom

In Ageless Soul, a book after all about aging, Thomas Moore writes of the role of elders and grandparents in transmitting knowledge, wisdom, and love.  After discussing his friendship with the Irish poet Thomas MacGreevy, who became a mentor to the nineteen-year-old Thomas Moore while Moore was on a trip to Ireland, he writes:

"An elder...has wisdom to offer.  I find that older people often don't appreciate the value of their experiences or of things they have learned along the way...An elder also teaches by his willingness to confess to mistakes, failures, and close calls...[often giving the lesson] without making it look like a lesson....

"Yet another elder guidance is to be found in books, where those who are our elders and who have gone before us and have much to teach us."

In the spirit of Thoreau's admonition to "read the best books first", Moore offers some books he has found particularly meaningful and inspiring for his spiritual journey.  Among his selections: Tao Te Ching ("beautiful text from China that promotes naturalness and an absence of striving and effort"), The Odyssey ("sacred story about a man's initiation into life...the longing to feel at home in the world...a soul journey where the end point is the discovery of who you are"), The Book of Genesis ("a beautiful story of beginnings, but it has been read all too literally for centuries...Find a good recent translation and commentary"), Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind by Shunryu Suzuki, and Black Elk Speaks

 As for grandparents, 

"It would help if grandparents understood how important they are to children and that they play a mentor role, as well...Through life, the child soul needs more acceptance and praise than is reasonable and the grandparents can...supply some of the needed love.  The grandparents can offer their own kind of guidance and wisdom.  We see this mythically in the great vision of Black Elk, the Sioux holy man whose visions made him a leader of his people.  In his vision, one of the grandfathers said to him, "Your grandfathers all over the world and they have called you here to teach you....I knew that these were not old men, but the Powers of the World."

Moore concludes his section on grandparents:

"The grandparents are closer to the eternal; their youth goes back into a time difficult for the young to imagine, and their future is closer to the timeless.  They have had many experiences and hold many secrets.  They are perfectly suited to be spiritual guides."

This concludes our series on Thomas Moore's Soul Values.  You can find the others here What in the World? - The Soul Values Posts and below (posts of Feb 23, Mar 12, and Mar 18).  In the sidebar are links to an introduction to the Tao Te Ching, a discussion of Black Elk Speaks, a book summary of Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind, and the Reflections page of Thomas Moore's website.


The Ancients on Knowledge

The Scientific Method

The five steps of the scientific method:

1. Define a Question to Investigate

2. Make Predictions

3. Gather Data

4. Analyze the Data

5. Draw Conclusions

For more, see American Museum of Natural History .



The Stoics on Uncertainty

“Today I escaped from anxiety. Or no, I discarded it . . . because the anxiety was within me, in my own perceptions — not outside.“ - Marcus Aurelius

“There is only one way to happiness, and that is to stop worrying about things which are beyond the power or our will.” - Epictetus

“The whole future lies in uncertainty. Live now, in the immediate present.” - Seneca



Soul Values: Relaxation and Comfort

POSTED MARCH 18, 2024

In his book Ageless Soul, psychotherapist Thomas Moore presents ten "soul values" - elements in our lives that lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful existence, a set of values of great importance to the "deeper soul."  Although Ageless Soul focuses on these values in the context of aging and retirement, they are applicable at all points in life.  We continue our exploration of Thomas Moore's soul values with a look at what Moore and others have to say about the importance of Relaxation and Comfort and the closely related balancing of productivity and presence, of work and play.  

[I've previously posted on several of the soul values, and you can find the posts here and in the Feb 23 and Mar 12 posts below.]

In the era of multitasking and constant connectivity, productivity is considered a virtuous trait.  Hard work leading to concrete results is celebrated while non-productive time is generally frowned upon.  One of the favorite topics of one of my favorite bloggers, essayist Maria Popova, is why productivity is not all it's cracked up to be and can actually be detrimental to our well-being, particularly if the essentially external pressure to be productive causes us stress.  

Her essay on the writer Annie Dillard on choosing presence over productivity is one such gem. [Link Below] Calling it a "beautiful and poignant meditation on the life well lived, reminding us of the tradeoffs between presence and productivity that we’re constantly choosing to make", she quotes from Dillard's The Writing Life, "How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives. What we do with this hour, and that one, is what we are doing." Admitting that a "schedule defends from chaos and whim" and is a "peace and a haven set into the wreck of time", Annie Dillard reflects that it eventually becomes "a lifeboat on which you find yourself, decades later, still living. Each day is the same."  Dillard then tells of the most appealing schedule she's heard about and contrasts it with the workaholic, obsessive schedules that many follow.  

A turn-of-the-century Danish aristocrat "got up at four and set out on foot to hunt black grouse, wood grouse, woodcock, and snipe. At eleven he met his friends, who had also been out hunting alone all morning. They converged 'at one of these babbling brooks,' he wrote. He outlined the rest of his schedule. 'Take a quick dip, relax with a schnapps and a sandwich, stretch out, have a smoke, take a nap or just rest, and then sit around and chat until three. Then I hunt some more until sundown, bathe again, put on white tie and tails to keep up appearances, eat a huge dinner, smoke a cigar and sleep like a log until the sun comes up again to redden the eastern sky.'

Most of us, of course, do not have the luxury of time afforded a Danish aristocrat, but I take it that other Danish aristocrats were busy being more productive - perhaps in running their estates or looking for investment opportunities.  In any case, we should all be able to break out some time every day "to relax...rest...sit around and chat" with friends.  

Maria Popova concludes her post with what she calls Dillard's "dynamic contemplation of life itself":

There is no shortage of good days. It is good lives that are hard to come by. A life of good days lived in the senses is not enough. The life of sensation is the life of greed; it requires more and more. The life of the spirit requires less and less; time is ample and its passage sweet. Who would call a day spent reading a good day? But a life spent reading — that is a good life."

Thomas Moore recognizes that life can become complex and demanding. Stress, responsibilities, and external pressures can weigh us down.  Relaxation is a way to counterbalance this. It allows us to slow down, release tension, and find inner peace.  By embracing relaxation, we can connect with our inner selves, listen to our intuition, and cultivate a sense of calm.  

Ok, next question: and how do we relax?

To relax, we need to deliberately take time out from our hectic lives. Set aside time for a walk or for a comforting conversation or a warm cup of tea.  Get comfortable. Find a cozy chair for meditation or for an engrossing read or for some beautiful music.  For a short time every day, turn off the cellphone, stop answering emails, and just breathe.  


Moore also advises us to "avoid ceding work such a central* and rigid part in your life.  There are other things that can give a sense of purpose and bring joy, things that don't involve...endurance and advancement."  For Thomas Moore these were writing and music and, of course, engaging in the soul values.

And then there is play.  I believe it's telling that the Ageless Soul chapter in which Moore provides his list of 10 soul values is titled "Play, Work, Retire". Although we separate and often oppose work and play, Moore believes that on a deeper level, they are "mates".  Johan Huizinga, who wrote about the play element in culture in Homo Ludens, the classic evaluation of play that has become a "must-read" for those in game design, stresses contest as one of the elements of play.  Looked at closely, we can see the "contest" piece of work life.  We compete for a job. We battle other companies in a race for success.  Think too about negotiations over labor contracts and bids for supplying a product to customer.  

"From a certain point of view," writes Moore, "it is all a game."   Religious rituals (think unusual clothes, theatrical actions and movements), political debates (think "who won?") marriage, and making home (think kids "playing house") have a play side as well. "It's difficult to imagine anything without some play and game aspect."  One reason why play is "an aspect of everything we do is that play is the primary activity of the human soul. It has many of the main aspects of the soul: pleasure, poetry, symbolism, layers of meaning, drama, and a quality of 'as if', like in theater." 

Moore writes that infusing our lives and work with play has advantages, "Work without play is a burden. Play helps some of the weight of labor."  Then he follows this with a profound insight into the nature of play. 

"It has its own time frame and gives us a taste of what it's like to step outside the rush of ordinary time.  There is something eternal and timeless about a game.  In the [midst] of a game we can sense the ageless soul that is not caught in the fast, purposeful time of daily activities. Sometimes it's enough to be reminded of that ageless element and know that what we do in ordinary time is not the whole story."

Sources: Ageless Soul (Thomas Moore, St. Martin's Press, 2017), https://www.themarginalian.org/2013/06/07/annie-dillard-the-writing-life-1/

Note: *Back in my days as a corporate employee, I always got a kick out of the colleagues who would put down on their self-assessment form "have a better life/work balance" as an area for improvement .  I uncharitably thought that it was almost bragging.  There were so many other options to choose from.  But perhaps they really meant it and felt trapped in their position or wondered if the success was worth the sacrifice. If so, mea culpa.

Soul Values: Meaningful Relationships

POSTED MARCH 12, 2024

In his book Ageless Soul, Thomas Moore presents ten "soul values" - elements in our lives that lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful existence, a set of values of great importance to the "deeper soul."  To me, they represent much of what makes us human and much of what makes life most worth living.  We continue our exploration of Thomas Moore's soul values with a look at what Moore and others have to say about Meaningful Relationships.  

[I've previously posted on several of the soul values, and you can find the posts here and in the Feb 23 post below.]

Along with our values and beliefs, our relationships with others are what make us, "us".  We exist in relation to others.  The quality of these relationships affect our psychological, emotional, spiritual and even physical well-being.  Research has found that adult friendships, especially high-quality ones that provide social support and companionship, significantly predict well-being and can protect against mental health issues such as depression and anxiety.  [sidebar]

Given the importance of relationships, how do we best nurture them?

One of the most profound descriptions of a meaningful relationship comes from the philosopher and theologian Martin Buber, who named this ideal relationship "the 'I-Thou' relationship".  The eponymously titled book, I and Thou, is a landmark in 20th century intellectual history as well as one of the most important books of Western theology.  In it, Buber explores "how to master the orientation of heart, mind, and spirit essential for the art of sincere and honorable relationship."  First published in 1923, I and Thou unites German existentialism with the Judeo-Christian tradition.  I and Thou forms the foundation of Buber’s influential philosophy of dialogue, and the distinction Buber makes between treating people as subjects (I-Thou) and treating them as objects (I-It) is a test of whether an action is morally right or wrong. 

In the "I-Thou" mode, we encounter another individual truly as a person, not merely as an object for our use. We recognize their inherent dignity, unique existence, and complexities. When we engage in an I–Thou relationship, we honor the other’s reality and meet them on their own terms. It’s a profound connection where both parties are fully present and acknowledged.

In contrast, "I-It" relationships are those in which we use the other, like an object, to solve our problems and fulfill our needs and purposes.  Here, people become means to an end, reduced to objects that serve our purposes. The focus is on utility rather than genuine understanding or recognition.

To sum up: If you want to build a meaningful relationship, treat the other as a Thou.  

Thomas Moore is a psychotherapist.  In Ageless Soul, he discusses a number of the obstacles to forming and maintaining a good relationship (anger, passive aggressive behavior, jealousy, envy) and delves into why it is often difficult to have a harmonious relationship.  He points out that:

These factors all have a "direct impact on our relationships, often making clear communication difficult."  And, as many have recognized, clear communication is at the heart of a good relationship.** Moore uses the example of passive aggressive behavior to illustrate this point.  Rather than staying engaged in a disagreement and being clear about our feelings and perhaps our anger, we may say something like "Well, I see I have no place here, so I'll just leave."   The other person has no way to respond and the disagreement is not resolved.

Also at the heart of a good relationship is the ability to love yourself and your life.  If we love ourselves and our lives, we will  be less prone to envy and jealousy.  Moore writes, "Most people grow up under a great deal of testing and criticism...Most of us, then, carry with us voices of caution, criticism, and control that often become personal judgements."  Reflecting on these voices of criticism and their original context can weaken this tendency towards self-criticism.***  Then you can counter them by being "gentle on yourself, forgiving past mistakes and understanding why you have done things that might now embarrass you."

A third "must" for a meaningful relationship is to truly see others.  People want to be "seen", to be recognized, to be acknowledged.  In the words of a popular song, they, especially friends, just want you to know who they are. [sidebar - okay it's mainly a love song but you get the idea]  One of the gifts we can give to our friends is to be fully present to them and to fully acknowledge them.  Moore adds: "Acknowledging another person's success is just part of being a friend.  Whenever you feel that words of praise are not necessary, you should offer them anyway.  If there is one universal rule about human psychology, it is that people always need and appreciate recognition...When you are appreciated, your very grounding as a person becomes more stable." **** Make others feel strong, that they matter.  It is good for them and good for you. 

The APA post linked in the sidebar has advice on making friends as an adult (including "Be a familiar face" and "Don't force it"), while the PsychCental post has tips for connecting with others.

Research findings

Among the areas that research has found people benefiting from meaningful relationships:


Research by psychologists uncovers the health risks of loneliness and the benefits of strong social connections. - APA.org

As researchers work to better understand the link between friendships and health, they're also helping to answer a question familiar to anyone who's ever moved to a new city, lost a spouse or otherwise found themselves feeling alone: How do you make friends as an adult?

PsychCentral

Notes:

* Many philosophers and psychologists have described this as a mysterious but powerful urge toward love, creative expression, anger, even violence.  C.G. Jung called these powerful urges that get in the way of a rational and controlled life, "complexes".

** Half of the Four Agreements of ancient Toltec wisdom concern communication: First Agreement "Be impeccable with your word."  Third Agreement "Don't make assumptions" Toltec Wisdom: The Four Agreements 

***Besides speaking with integrity and kindness towards others, the First Agreement "Be impeccable with your word" also tells us to speak to yourself with respect and kindness and avoid negative self-talk that can lead to feelings of inadequacy or failure.

****And when a friend puts you down or doesn't give you the recognition you think you deserve, you would do well to remember the Second Agreement "Don't take anything personally."  Ruiz: "Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream."  Do not be hurt by things they say and do - these are projections of their own reality, not yours. 

Sources: Ageless Soul (Thomas Moore, St. Martin's Press, 2017)The science of friendship (apa.org), I and Thou: Philosopher Martin Buber on the Art of Relationship and What Makes Us Real to One Another – The Marginalian , Why We Treat Others as Objects Rather Than Individuals | Psychology Today 

Soul Values: Deeply Felt Experiences

POSTED FEBRUARY 23, 2024

Thomas Moore is a psychotherapist, former Catholic monk, a lecturer and writer of popular spiritual books, including the best-selling Care of the Soul: a guide to cultivating depth and sacredness in everyday lifeThe Living Spiritual Teachers Project calls him a "pioneer explorer of the sacred art of soulful living."  

Soul, for Thomas Moore, "is not a thing but a quality or dimension of experiencing life and ourselves. It has to do with depth, value, relatedness, heart and personal substance."  It is our "eternal unchanging self", the seat of the emotions and the hub of our lives.

In his book Ageless Soul, Moore presents ten "soul values" - elements in our lives that lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful existence, a set of values of great importance to the "deeper soul."  Although Ageless Soul explores these values in the context of aging and retirement, they are applicable at all points in life.  To me, they represent much of what makes us human and much of what makes life most worth living.  

Moore's chosen soul values are Beauty, Contemplation, Deeply Felt Experiences, Meaningful Relationships, Knowledge, A Sense of Home, Art, Spiritual Peace, Community, and Relaxation and Comfort.  You or I may have produced a somewhat different list, but his list is as good a place to start as any.  Other writers and philosophers have also said much about these values.  Their thoughts as well as Moore's, complemented by the findings of research studies, are the subject of the Mind & Spirit Soul Values Posts.  I've previously posted on several of the soul values, and you can find the posts here.  

In this post, we take a look at Deeply Felt Experiences.  Deeply felt experiences are one of the paths to personal growth, to becoming the true you.  Moore writes, "Deeply felt experiences are the ones that make a difference in our lives. They are the ones that shape us and give us direction. They are the ones that make us feel alive and connected to ourselves and others. They are the ones that nourish our soul and make us ageless." 

From the earliest myths and literature of Greece and Rome through the findings of today's psychotherapists and psychologists, Western thinkers have seen meaningful experiences, even painful ones, as steps to personal growth.  

Among the many ancient myths and stories that illustrate this are the Twelve Labors of Hercules, Prometheus' Gift of Fire, and, most prominently, The Odyssey, the epic poem that tells of Odysseus' 10 year journey home after the Trojan War. [sidebar]

We may not be faced with impossible tasks like Hercules or tortured for an act of compassion and courage like Prometheus or separated from our loved ones for decades like Odysseus.  But whenever we encounter difficult challenges, even if we do not succeed, we grow and we learn.  Nelson Mandela's statement, “I never lose. I either win or learn” is not as well-known as Nietzsche's "That which does not kill us makes us stronger", but both make valid points.  Even if we don't meet the challenge, if we give it our all, we become stronger and if we acknowledge our mistakes, we learn and become wiser.

Throughout our less mythic and heroic lives, certain events and experiences impact us so greatly that they change the course of our lives...the birth of a child, a serious illness, a close brush with death, a new relationship, the passing of a close relative or friend, even an important event in society.  Thomas Moore writes, "When you open yourself to a transformative experience, whether it seems positive or negative, your soul blossoms."  

"Opening yourself" is the key operative phrase.  Take in the experience without judgement and see what it tells you about life, the world, and yourself.  Be totally present.  In his essay "On the Concept of Experience", Mark Greif proposes two approaches that can help us be open to experience: what he calls aestheticism and perfectionism. The writers Gustave Flaubert (Madame Bovary) and Henry David Thoreau are given as the respective examples. 

Greif's definition of aestheticism, based on Flaubert, is "to view every object as you would a work of art." Look closely at everything you encounter - experience each thing to its fullest, allowing it to stimulate desire, wonder, awe. Quoting Flaubert: "For anything to become interesting you simply have to look at it for a long time."

"Perfectionism...charges the self with weighing and choosing every aspect of its way of living." In Thoreau's words, "live deliberately."  Rather than looking at every thing and every one as a work of art, perfectionism looks at the world and people as examples, "which state simply the way of life they incarnate." Experience how they speak to you and, if "you are called to change your life by any example, and your self responds - you must change your life. And once you change, change again."

Psychological research studies have shown that deeply felt experiences can boost our happiness and enhance the meaningfulness of our lives.  In addition, certain experiences have other specific benefits. 

At the summit of deeply felt experience is the "peak experience" described by the pioneering humanistic psychologist Abraham Maslow.  His Hierarchy of Needs is one of the most famous theories in psychology.  [link in sidebar

Maslow saw peak experience as characteristic of a self-actualizing person - one on the way to achieving his full potential as a human being.  These "short bursts of ecstatic joy" come when you are living your potential, making the moment to moment choices that lead to progress  and during creative, athletic, or spiritual experiences.  Highly self-actualized persons experience these moments more frequently.  

Maslow suggested that one of the best ways to think of peak experiences is to think of the most wonderful experiences of your life—those moments of ecstasy and complete and utter happiness like being in love.   A peak experience may also occur when you come to deep realization about the nature of Mankind or the nature of reality, when you are in a creative moment,  when a particular creative work strikes an emotional chord inside of you - a sense of "being hit"; moments in nature or during intimate moments with family or friends; achieving an important goal; when an individual helps another person in need or after overcoming some type of adversity.  


Self-actualization, peak experiences, and the farther reaches of human nature (WITW,  2/11/21)


Sources: Ageless Soul,  Spirituality and Practice, Wikipedia, SparkNotes , cliffsnotes.com, theconversation.com, umsystem.edu, Ryff & Singer, 2008; Bauer & McAdams, 2010


Hercules

Hercules had to perform twelve impossible tasks as a punishment for killing his own family in a fit of madness.  He met all the challenges set before him. Skinning an invincible lion, cleaning up the Augean stables, wrestling the Cretan bull to the ground, kidnapping the three-dog-headed beast that guards the entrance to Hades - Hercules did whatever it took. Through his trials, he learned to overcome his weaknesses, control his anger, and use his strength for good.

Prometheus

Prometheus too was punished by the gods - not for murder but for giving mankind fire, enabling them to progress in civilization and culture.  He was punished by Zeus, who chained him to a rock and sent an eagle to eat his liver every day.  In spite of his torment, Prometheus never regretted his decision to gift mankind with fire.  His compassion, courage and sacrifice overshadowed it all.

The Odyssey

The most renowned work of ancient Greek literature tells the story of a quest with lessons about both the passage through life and the importance of home and family.  The Odyssey, whose title has come to mean journey, is the story of Odysseus' ten-year voyage home after the ten-year Trojan War.   As he travels homeward, Odysseus faces numerous challenges.  From each experience, he gains valuable knowledge.  From the Lotus Eaters, Odysseus learns to not be distracted from duty and family; from Polyphemus, to restrain his pride and arrogance; from the prophet Teresias, to seek knowledge that will help him complete the journey; and so on.

Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs

Abraham Maslow believed that people have an inborn desire to be self-actualized, that is, to be all they can be. To achieve this ultimate goal, however, a number of more basic needs must be met. This includes the need for food, safety, love, and self-esteem.  He believed that these needs are similar to instincts and play a major role in motivating behavior.  There are five different levels of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, starting at the lowest level known as physiological needs and ending at a highest level known as self-actualization.

Gaining and maintaining "positive affect"

POSTED JANUARY 30, 2024

We all know a few of them - those unfailingly positive, upbeat people who are such a joy to be around.  They can light up a room with a smile, make you part of a contagious laughing bout, or just make you feel good by their presence.  These individuals are operating at the top end of the positive affectivity scale - exhibiting emotions such as cheerfulness, enthusiasm, energy, joy, and authentic* pride.

How do they do it? How do they maintain high, frequent positive affect?  Is it something they're born with? Something we can learn?  

For the better part of the century after Freud's work on psychoanalysis, the clinical emphasis was on treating mental disorders.  It wasn’t until the later years of the 20th century, as the field of positive psychology** developed, that researchers started showing significant interest in the concept of positive affect.  Among the findings from decades of research:

While some are predisposed, by genetics or upbringing, to positive affect, there are some things that one might do to help encourage frequent high positive affect:  

For a more detailed discussion visit What Is Positive and Negative Affect? , which served as the main source for this post.  The author concludes the article with this wonderful take-away: "If you take only one thing away from this piece, let it be this: positive and negative affect are not necessarily linked, and it is possible to increase your level of positive affect. If you struggle with low positive affect or high negative affect that interrupts or intrudes on your life, there is hope!"

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*Authentic pride is a positive emotion that occurs after a specific achievement and motivates us to continue to pursue our goals and improve ourselves.  It is distinguishable from the negative emotion of hubristic pride.

**The field of positive psychology developed about 30 years ago, building on the work of the humanist psychologists of the mid-twentieth century – including one of my personal favorite thinkers, Abraham Maslow.   Positive psychology deals primarily with happiness and fulfillment.  It is "the scientific study of what makes life most worth living... as concerned with making the lives of normal people fulfilling as with healing pathology. " (Christopher Peterson, Psychology Today, May 16, 2008) 

An artificial intelligence thought experiment: what to do when people are suffering and it seems out of our control

POSTED JANUARY 7, 2024

Most days it seems like nothing can stop the genocide underway in Gaza.  We do what we can, but the actors perpetrating the horrors there seem oblivious to international law and the sentiments of the vast majority of the world's peoples.  Each day brings assertions that the fighting will continue...no matter how many are killed and no matter how much suffering is inflicted.  It can all get to be pretty overwhelming.

I wondered what advice the great philosophers and religious teachers would give to one who was much troubled by such horror, and decided to conduct an experiment in artificial intelligence.  I posed this question to "Bing Chat with GPT-4":  

"I am deeply disturbed by the killing of people in Gaza.  What advice would ________ give me?"  

After an introductory expression of concern - describing the situation as "tragic" (Camus), "complex and painful " (Marcus Aurelius), "heartbreaking" (Jesus), "devastating" (Buddha), "horrific" (Martin Luther King), here is what the AI-powered browser said my "Council of Elders" would advise.

Albert Camus was a French philosopher and writer who advocated for human dignity and freedom in the face of absurdity and injustice. He was also a vocal critic of colonialism and war. He might have given you some advice like this:

"Find meaning in your own actions and choices. Camus believed that life is inherently absurd and meaningless, but that we can create our own meaning by rebelling against the absurdity and affirming our values. He wrote, "The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion."

"Be compassionate and empathetic towards others. Camus was deeply concerned with the suffering of others, especially the oppressed and the marginalized. He advocated for solidarity and mutual aid among human beings, regardless of their differences. He wrote, "Blessed are the hearts that can bend; they shall never be broken."

"Seek beauty and joy in the midst of despair. Camus was not a pessimist or a nihilist. He recognized the beauty and joy of life, even in the darkest times. He celebrated the simple pleasures of nature, art, friendship, and love. He wrote, "In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer."

Marcus Aurelius was a Roman emperor and a Stoic philosopher who faced many challenges and hardships in his life. He might have given you some advice like this:

"Focus on what you can control and let go of what you can’t. Marcus Aurelius wrote, "You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength." He believed that we should not waste our energy on things that are beyond our control, but rather concentrate on our own actions and attitudes.

"Practice gratitude and moderation. Marcus Aurelius wrote, "When you arise in the morning think of what a privilege it is to be alive, to think, to enjoy, to love…" He encouraged us to appreciate the simple and essential things in life, and to avoid excess and indulgence.

"Be kind and respectful to others. Marcus Aurelius wrote, "The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury." He taught us to avoid anger and resentment, and to treat others with dignity and compassion, even if they harm us.

Jesus was a man of peace and love, who taught us to love God and love our neighbor as ourselves. He might have given you some advice like this:

"Pray for peace and justice. Jesus taught us to pray, "Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven." He also said, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God." He urged us to seek God’s will and work for peace in the world, even when it seems impossible.


"Forgive and love your enemies. Jesus said, "But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven." He also said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." He showed us the power of forgiveness and love, even in the face of hatred and violence.

"Trust in God’s promises. Jesus said, "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." He also said, "Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?" He assured us that he has conquered sin and death, and that he has prepared a place for us in heaven, where there will be no more tears, pain, or sorrow.

Buddha was a spiritual teacher and the founder of Buddhism, who taught us to overcome suffering and attain enlightenment. He might have given you some advice like this:

"Cultivate compassion and wisdom. Buddha said, "The mind is everything. What you think you become." He taught us to purify our minds from greed, hatred, and ignorance, and to develop compassion and wisdom for ourselves and others. He said, "Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love; this is the eternal rule."

"Practice mindfulness and meditation. Buddha said, "Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment." He taught us to be mindful of our thoughts, feelings, and actions, and to meditate regularly to calm our minds and gain insight into the nature of reality. He said, "Meditation brings wisdom; lack of meditation leaves ignorance. Know well what leads you forward and what holds you back, and choose the path that leads to wisdom."

"Follow the noble eightfold path. Buddha said, "There is no path to happiness: happiness is the path." He taught us to follow the noble eightfold path, which consists of right view, right intention, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, and right concentration. This is the path that leads to the cessation of suffering and the attainment of nirvana."

Martin Luther King was a civil rights leader and a Nobel Peace Prize laureate who advocated for nonviolence and justice in the face of oppression and discrimination. He might have given you some advice like this:

"Stand up for what is right, even if it is unpopular or risky. Martin Luther King said, "There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because conscience tells him it is right." He also said, "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." He encouraged us to follow our moral convictions and to speak out against injustice, even if it means facing hostility or danger.

"Love and forgive your enemies, even if they hate you. Martin Luther King said, "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that." He also said, “Let no man pull you so low as to hate him.” He taught us to overcome hatred and violence with love and compassion, and to seek reconciliation rather than revenge. He demonstrated this by leading peaceful protests and forgiving those who attacked him.

"Seek happiness and peace within yourself and others. Martin Luther King said, “We must come to see that the end we seek is a society at peace with itself, a society that can live with its conscience.” He also said, “There is no path to happiness: happiness is the path.” He urged us to find joy and harmony in our lives, and to share it with others. He believed that happiness and peace are not only the goals, but also the means of social change."

The "Council of Elders" is not telling us to deaden our empathy or compassion or become numb to the pain of others.  What they are saying: focus on what you can control, do what you can to end the suffering, and seek happiness and peace within yourself and others.  What sage advice!  It's not only relevant to Gaza but to any situation in which people are suffering and which seems out of our control.  

I'll close with some additional advice from these wise men and a few links.  

Albert Camus: "In such a world of conflict, a world of victims and executioners, it is the job of thinking people not to be on the side of the executioners." 

Marcus Aurelius: "Even if you burst with indignation, they will carry on regardless.  Do not be upset...concentrate on the matter at hand and see it for what it is.  Remind yourself of your duty to be a good man and what nature demands: then do it straight and unswerving...Always, though, in kindness, integrity and sincerity." 

Jesus: "And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as you have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, you have done it unto me."

Buddha: "I teach but two things, suffering and the end of suffering."

Martin Luther King: "Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter."


The season of hope

POSTED DECEMBER 17, 2023

The Christmas season, celebrating the birth of the Christ child, coincides with the time of the winter solstice, the darkest time of year. Christmastime is a season of "goodness and light", a season of brotherhood and peace, and, perhaps most of all, a season of hope.  For what could be more hopeful than the birth of a child - which is, in the words of Carl Sandburg, "God's opinion that the world should go on"? What could be more hopeful than the Sun stopping its descent in its journey across the sky, bringing the promise of longer days?

Light in the Darkness (Dec 8, 2021)


With all the troubles in the world and daily life, how does one keep hope alive?  Is it just a matter of will? Or are there ways to foster it?

Albert Camus, the philosopher of hope, dug deep inside himself and "in the depth of winter...finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer."  His Myth of Sisyphus is a remarkable statement of maintaining a positive attitude in spite of being in a seemingly hopeless and absurd situation.  In Sisyphus, he seems to be telling us "just do what you need to do" in spite of all, and happiness (or at least contentment) will come.  Camus's hope, I think, springs from his conviction in the inherent goodness of our species even in the most trying of circumstances:  "What we learn in time of pestilence: that there are more things to admire in men than to despise." 

Though they're related, there is a difference between optimism and hope.  Optimism is the belief that everything will turn out well in the end.  To be hopeful, in the words of writer and activist Rebecca Solnit, "means to be uncertain about the future, to be tender toward possibilities, to be dedicated to change all the way down to the bottom of your heart.”  In other words, be open to change and to the possibility that circumstances will change.  

[Below center and right are links to essays on Albert Camus and Rebecca Solnit and more of their thoughts on hope.]

Not all of us have Camus's strength of will or Solnit's openness to the future.  For those who do not, there is the practice of what psychologists call "learned hopefulness." [link below left].  By studying "high hope" individuals, researchers have found common habits.  Starting from the premise that hope embodies agency and willpower , they found that when someone high in hope finds their way blocked, they proactively generate alternative paths.  In addition, high hope individuals  encourage and foster the high-hope choices of learned hopefulness, including:

The extension of this is what we can do to bring others hope.  

One-on-one we can encourage our friends and family to practice the habits of "high hope" individuals: see possibilities, notice beauty, cultivate positive feelings, create challenging goals, focus on strengths, find purpose on life and build relationships.  

There are things we can also do in the world-at-large.  In a 2013 interview with the founder of the Italian daily La Repubblica, Pope Francis highlighted the importance of bringing hope to others and mentioned some ways we might do so: "We must restore hope to young people, help the old, be open to the future, spread love. Be poor among the poor. We need to include the excluded and preach peace."  

OK, back to Christmas.  Today is Gaudete Sunday, the third Sunday of Advent.  Gaudete is Latin for "Rejoice", and the liturgical theme today is the joy of anticipation at the approach of the Christmas celebration.  Gaudete Sunday is thus a day of hope.  One of the readings today in the Catholic liturgy was from the prophet Isaiah, renowned as the prophet of the coming of the Christ child, the future Messiah.  Writing nearly three millennia before Pope Francis's interview in La Repubblica, Isaiah expresses a similar sentiment about giving hope and comfort to others.   The Lord, writes Isaiah, "has sent me to bring good news to the afflicted, to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, release to the prisoners...to comfort all who mourn."  Good guidance for us not only at Christmastime, but all through the year.

Sources: Catholic World Report, Positive Psychology

A healthy mind (part I)

POSTED NOVEMBER 16, 2023

Having a healthy mind is key to your overall health and well-being. A healthy mind includes emotional, psychological and social well-being and affects how you think, feel and act.  [California Dept of Public Health]

For millennia, wise men have been telling us of the importance of a healthy mind to our overall well-being.  Near the end of the first century, the Roman poet Juvenal wrote "Orandum est ut sit mens sana in corpore sano" ("You should pray for a healthy mind in a healthy body.")  A mainstay of introductory Latin courses, the phrase mens sana in corpore sano has made it into common English language usage like other Latin expressions such as ad hoc, alter ego, et cetera

Besides praying for a healthy mind in a healthy body, what else can we do to ensure this result?  In this "Mind & Spirit" post and the next, we look at advice over the ages on steps we can take to achieve a healthy mind.  

1. Reframe unhelpful thoughts and focus on what you can control.

2. Be in the present.  

3. Practice mindfulness.

4. "Maintain a healthy lifestyle by including at least a 5-10 minute meditation practice every day. It will help you find peace, balance, serenity, and clarity." [Swanwick website]  Among the misconceptions about meditation are that it must be for long periods and done while sitting in a specific position.  There are many ways to meditate and you need only find what works for you.

5. Get good sleep.

In the next "Mind & Spirit" post, we'll examine five more ways to achieve a healthy mind: 

A healthy mind (part II)

POSTED NOVEMBER 30, 2023

In a previous post (above), we took a look at how to achieve and maintain a healthy mind by focusing on things we can control, being in the present, practicing mindfulness, meditating, and getting good sleep.  In this post we examine more ways to achieve a healthy mind.

6.  Connect with others.  Foster friendships. "Give back."  Our relationships with others are paramount in maintaining a healthy mind.  There's a wealth of evidence that keeping in close touch can help us feel happier and healthier whether it's with friends, family, neighbors, or people at work. (UK NHSClose friendships provide us with a trusted source of advice and experience.  Giving of our "time, talent, and treasure" - i.e., doing for others - satisfies our ingrained need to help and be of use.

7.  Mens sana in corpore sano. Live a healthy life.  Watch your diet. Exercise daily.  "The history of human evolution shows a definitive link between our physical health and psychological well-being...For clues on how we can best survive the 21st century, we should look to the wisdom held in our ancestry and evolutionary biology." (Psychology Today link in sidebar)

8.  Find enjoyment. Spending time on an activity that you enjoy can improve your mental health and wellbeing.  People with hobbies may be less likely to experience stress, low mood, and depression. Activities that get you out and about can make you feel happier and more relaxed. (Head to Health)

9.  "Embrace the liberty that comes with wanting and needing less."  

10. Spend some time in focused thought, exploring new ideas every day.  The mind, like a muscle, needs to be exercised to grow and to keep from atrophying. Learning something new is especially helpful.  Medical experts now know that when we learn new information and take on new experiences, they can actually shape, mold and change the makeup of our brains. New information and experiences help to organize (and reorganize) our neural pathways in the brain. (Pathways)

Personally, I've found that writing this blog is a great way to keep learning.  Many times, I know little about a given topic until I begin reading about it, trying to understand it, and then posting an article.  My hope is that by sharing these thoughts with you, they could perhaps help you learn something new too - something you may not have thought about or even something you never thought you would want to know.

Bucky Fuller, Spaceship Earth, and the "experiment to discover what one individual might be able to do effectively on behalf of all humanity"

POSTED OCTOBER 19, 2023

R. Buckminster Fuller (1895 – 1983) was an American architect, systems theorist, writer, designer, inventor, philosopher, and futurist. He published more than 30 books, coining or popularizing such terms as "Spaceship Earth", "ephemeralization", "synergetics", and "tensegrity". He was awarded 28 United States patents and many honorary doctorates.  Not bad for a student expelled from Harvard after his freshman year.  His most famous invention, and the one to win him international recognition, was the geodesic dome, a lattice shell structure which has been used as parts of radar stations, civic buildings, environmental protest camps and exhibition attractions.  

"Bucky" Fuller was a hero to the young members of the American counterculture of the 1960s. Two of his books, Ideas and Integrities (1963) and Operating Manual for Spaceship Earth (1969), became staples of "hippie" libraries across America. His lectures became magnets for the young, and his geodesic domes became the preferred housing of many rural communes. In 1968, his writings became the inspiration for the publication that has long been seen as the bible of the back-to-the-land movement and one of the most notable documents of the counterculture, The Whole Earth Catalog - a copy of which is still (hopefully) somewhere in my basement.

But it wasn't always so for one of the most influential inventors and thinkers of the 20th century.

In 1927, Buckminster Fuller found himself in financial ruin and personal turmoil. Five years earlier, his first child, Alexandra, has passed away aged four from spinal meningitis. Now his business had failed, leaving him broke with investors, his family and friends who invested in him, at a loss.  As he walked along Lake Michigan and contemplated suicide, thinking that his family would benefit from the life insurance payment, he experienced an epiphany: “You think the truth. You do not have the right to eliminate yourself. You do not belong to you. You belong to the Universe. Your significance will remain forever obscure to you, but you may assume that you are fulfilling your role if you apply yourself to converting your experiences to the highest advantage of others.” 

After his epiphany, Fuller completely changed his life and embarked on "an experiment to discover what the little, penniless, unknown individual might be able to do effectively on behalf of all humanity."  To this end, the visionary designer spent the next half century searching for "ways of doing more with less" so that all people could be fed and sheltered.  The grandson of a Unitarian minister and a Unitarian minister himself, Buckminster Fuller had much to say about the universal condition.  We'll look at some of those ideas now.

"Spaceship Earth"

Fuller popularized and explained the phrase in Operating Manual for Spaceship Earth (1969), in which he used the analogy of a spaceship floating in space to describe our plant.  He felt that all human beings were passengers on Spaceship Earth, and, like the crew of a large ship, people had to work together in order to keep the planet functioning properly.   In a later book, Bucky expressed his firm belief that, technologically, "humanity now has the opportunity, for the first time in its history, to operate our planet in such a manner as to support and accommodate all humanity at a substantially more advanced standard of living than any humans have ever experienced." He hoped that some day the resources of the planet would be equitably divided, and people all around the world would achieve a high standard of living with access to technologically-advanced housing and transportation.  He was after all, a technocrat, and in his speeches and lectures, Bucky tried to convince people to take the initiative to develop comprehensive design science thinking to begin to address global problems such as poverty, inadequate housing, and unequal distribution of resources.  

We are all unique individuals.  Without the need to be anything special, we can all do exceptional things

This thought is perfectly embodied in my favorite Bucky Fuller quote: “Never forget that you are one of a kind. Never forget that if there weren't any need for you in all your uniqueness to be on this earth, you wouldn't be here in the first place."

We are here for all of humanity, not just for ourselves.

Fuller dedicated himself to provide solutions to all humanity's problems and to serve the interests through his work, of all human beings as opposed to traditional personal and business motivations which aim to serve self first and foremost.  

Educate oneself comprehensively. 

As Fuller embarked on his mission to serve all humanity, he sought to learn all that he could about "chemical elements, their weights, performance characteristics, relative abundances, geographical whereabouts, metallurgical alloys, chemical associabilities and disassociabilities," production tool capabilities, energy resources, and "all relevant" geological, meteorological, demographic, and economic data.  Translating that into our own lives: what do we need to know to be able to help humanity.  I think of this as a combination of Gandhi's advice to "learn as if you will live forever" and doing "what the world needs", an element of ikigai ("why you get up in the morning").

Do more with less

Fuller was  an early environmental activist, aware of Earth's finite resources, and promoted a principle he termed "ephemeralization". According to futurist, Fuller disciple, and publisher of The Whole Earth Catalog, Stewart Brand, this was defined as "doing more with less". Resources and waste from crude, inefficient products could be recycled into making more valuable products, thus increasing the efficiency of the entire process.  

Cooperation is the optimum survival strategy

He believed that sometime during the 1970s, humanity had attained an unprecedented state. He was convinced that the accumulation of relevant knowledge, combined with the quantities of major recyclable resources that had already been extracted from the earth, had attained a critical level, such that competition for necessities had become unnecessary. Cooperation had become the optimum survival strategy. He declared: "selfishness is unnecessary and hence-forth unrationalizable...War is obsolete."  

Linked below left is an article explaining how Bucky Fuller's most famous invention reflects his philosophy of life.  Linked below right is Carl Sagan's famous homage to Planet Earth.


Sources: A Technocrat for the Counterculture - Fred Turner | Arquitectura Viva, The 22 Self Disciplines of Buckminster Fuller - Larry G. Maguire (larrygmaguire.com), Buckminster Fuller's Self-Disciplines (cesc.net), What is Spaceship Earth? | R. Buckminster Fuller Collection - Spotlight at Stanford, R. Buckminster Fuller, About a Visionary Designer (thoughtco.com) , Wikipedia, Radical Curiosity: In the Orbit of Buckminster Fuller | ArtScience Museum | Marina Bay Sands 

Stoicism in the 21st Century: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

Posted September 24 , 2023

If you've noticed a similarity between the teachings of the ancient Stoics and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), you are on the right track.  CBT, one of the most successful modern-day methods for treating emotional and psychological disorders, is heavily indebted to the Stoics.  

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Stoicism share an emphasis on using logic and reasoning to overcome emotional difficulties.  Both philosophies are based on the idea that our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are closely connected, and with practice we can change them.  Both philosophies highlight the importance of recognizing one’s thought patterns, challenging irrational beliefs, and adopting healthier perspectives. 

Stoicism flourished in the Greco-Roman world  from 300 BC to 200 AD, but its therapeutic concepts and practices were largely forgotten until the 20th century.  Psychotherapists began to rediscover Stoicism from the 1950s onward through the writings of Albert Ellis, and what would become known as Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT).  As far back as his youth, before training as a psychotherapist, Ellis had “read the later Stoics, Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius”, and throughout his writings, Ellis refers to the Stoics, particularly Epictetus.

Mainly through Ellis’ writings, Stoicism influenced Aaron Beck, the founder of cognitive therapy. Beck began his first book on cognitive therapy by describing how his new style of therapy was founded upon the newly emerging consensus among researchers that thoughts play a central role in determining our emotions.  He then added, "Nevertheless, the philosophical underpinnings go back thousands of years, certainly to the time of the Stoics, who considered man’s conceptions (or misconceptions) of events rather than the events themselves as the key to his emotional upsets."

Cognitive behavioral therapy has been found effective for a variety of different mental health disorders and emotional problems, including anxiety, depression, substance use disorders, grief and stress, trauma and PTSD.   While treatment by a trained psychotherapist is necessary for the more serious conditions, we can also apply CBT techniques and the wisdom of the Stoics to our daily lives.  

A key teaching of the Stoics is that the only one way to happiness is to cease worrying about things which are beyond our control. Linked below left are some lessons and advice from the Stoic philosopher Epictetus.  

Focusing on what you can control is crucial for psychological well-being, particularly in today's connected world.  Linked below right is a Psychology Today article that provides 10 practical ways to improve your ability to focus on what you can control. Step 1 is to learn to differentiate between things you can control and can't. Focus your energy on the former and accept the latter.

Finally. you can find mindfulness-based CBT exercises for general well-being as well as for specific issues such as anxiety, fear, and negative thoughts at 19 Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Exercises [CBT] (thedailymeditation.com) 


Sources: medium.com, Psychology Today - 1, Psychology Today - 2

Marcus Aurelius  on how to live calmly, kindly, and at peace

POSTED AUGUST 29, 2023

When he was Emperor of Rome, Marcus Aurelius, the most powerful man in the world, kept a self-improvement journal.  Although intended for his eyes only, the journal was preserved and handed down through the centuries by anonymous scribes copying and recopying his text. Their work was a gift to the Western world with the earliest surviving copy dating from the 11th century.  Later titled Meditations, the journal gives insight into the mind of one of the most remarkable persons ever to have lived.  

Marcus's writings reflect his Stoic beliefs.  In the last chapter of his journal, he presents, in several long rambling sentences, what he believes he must do to "live out the time remaining before your death calmly, kindly, and at peace with the god inside you."  His suggestions are a brief summary of his Stoic beliefs - a Marcus Aurelius "Four Agreements", if you will.*  

Paraphrasing the great philosopher-emperor:

While the last three Agreements have their parallels in many philosophical and religious traditions, the First Agreement is what separates Stoics from almost everyone else.  For Stoics, what causes emotional pain or anxiety or remorse (or, for that matter, any negative emotion) is not the external event itself, but our reaction to it.  They believe that the mind can override the "input" from the external world that is causing this distress.  The way we achieve this, the Stoic's key to a happy life, is by understanding what is within our control and what is not.  The writings of Stoics over the ages are filled with expressions of this concept of taking control of our lives and emotions:

"We have the power to control our own lives, to determine our own happiness and success.” - Seneca (d. 65 AD)

"It is not in our control to have everything turn out exactly as we want, but it is in our control to control how we respond to what happens.” - Epictetus (d. 135 AD)

“You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” - Marcus Aurelius (121 - 180 AD)

This principle of understanding what is under our control and what is not can help us in the 21st century deal with grief, anger, rejection, loss, disappointment anxiety, and many other negative emotions.  

Tom Bissell, writing in the May issue of Harper's Magazine, relates how re-reading Meditations helped him in dealing with the grief he felt at the loss of his father.  Bissell writes that Stoicism became, "in an odd way [his] new father and anchor...It reminds you that even if something horrible has happened, you still have to work through the implications, and better to do that calmly than while panicking or or angry or weeping in a home office adjacent to your daughter's bedroom."   

Bissell also relates that he was so affected by his Stoic readings that his "nighttime panic attacks ceased altogether."  Especially helpful were these words of Marcus, what Bissell calls "A Prayer for the Fearful": 

Why, then, my imagination, are you doing what you do?  Go away, in the gods' name, the way you came.  I have no need of you.  You have come in your old habit.  I am not angry with you.  Only go away.

The "First Agreement", with its guiding principle of understanding what is and what is not under our control, could likewise serve as an excellent means of controlling anger.  As Marcus observes, “How much more harmful are the consequences of anger…than the circumstances that aroused them in us.”  There are many other passages on anger in Meditations, but the go-to Stoic on the subject is Seneca, who wrote a substantial work on anger after his brother asked him, “How anger may be soothed."  

As Seneca wrote in his essay on anger, “the best plan is to reject straightway the first incentives to anger, to resist its very beginnings, and to take care not to be betrayed into it."  A second tactic is to avoid angry people.  Anger, says Seneca, is a bad habit that people tend to pick up from those around them including, in their early years, their parents.  Anger is transmissible: if we are around angry people, it is hard not to lose our temper.  A third consideration goes back to the First Agreement.  We must stop wasting our time (or breath) getting angry at things that are indifferent to our feelings.  We must stop thinking that yelling at inanimate objects or situations or entities is going to change anything.  Every situation is made better by a cool head.  (You can find a more extensive list of Seneca’s recommendations to handle anger in the link below right.)

Living up to the "First Agreement" is a difficult task.  What can a person do to actually achieve such a state?  Noting that perfecting the practice of Stoicism is a lifelong journey, Sophia Merton lists numerous things we can do to develop a Stoic attitude towards life, among them [link below left] :

To which Psychology Today adds [link below right, ]:

To which I add, read a couple of pages of Meditations every day.  As Tom Bissell writes: "You can skim Marcus or read him deeply.  You can jump around or read him straight through.  He rewards all approaches...No matter what, you'll get the sense, as you read him, that Marcus is here to help you."


Notes:

*The Four Agreements" is the title of a best-selling book by Don Miguel Ruiz.  In this book and others, he provides "practical guides to Toltec wisdom", employing the word Toltec to signify a long tradition of indigenous beliefs in Mexico.  In the introduction to "The Four Agreements", Ruiz describes Toltec knowledge "as a way of life, distinguished by the ready accessibility of happiness and love."  For more on the Toltec Four Agreements, see the post Toltec Wisdom: The Four Agreements

**Before he became emperor, Augustus Caesar (63 BC - 14 AD) was tutored by the Stoic philosopher Athenodorus.  In his old age, as he was taking leave of Augustus' service, Athenodorus reminded him, “Whenever you get angry, Caesar, do not say or do anything before repeating to yourself the twenty-four letters of the alphabet.” 

Sources: Stoic Simple, Psychology Today - 1, Psychology Today - 2, Daily Stoic, "Time is a Violent Stream" by Tom Bissell, Harper's Magazine May 2023, 

The philosophy of William Faulkner

POSTED JUNE 16, 2023

At the turn of the twentieth century, three American Nobel-Prize-winning authors were born.  Through their books, these writers - William Faulkner (1897-1962), Ernest Hemingway (1899-1961) and John Steinbeck  (1902-1968) - would have a great influence on American culture and provide insight into both the human condition and America's national character.  Although the authors probably would have detested the term, the "philosophies" underlying their works would impact American society through much of the twentieth century. 

While John Steinbeck wrote in a realistic style and Hemingway, in a simple and direct style, Faulkner was more experimental.  His writing features multiple narrators, stream-of-consciousness passages, long sentences and rich vocabulary.  While Hemingway set his stories all over the world and Steinbeck set his at various locales in the United States, Faulkner's stories are set in a fictional Mississippi county of Yoknapatawpha, where he explored themes of history, race, class, religion and violence in the American South.  

William Faulkner's philosophy is neither consistent nor easily defined.  In this post we'll look at two of his seemingly contradictory ideas - the absurdity of the human condition and the philosophy embodied in his famous quote: "I believe that man will not merely endure: he will prevail." 

Nowhere does Faulkner express more clearly the absurdity of the human condition than in the Benjy section of The Sound and the Fury, his 1929 novel about the decline of the once aristocratic Compson family in the Deep South.  The youngest child of the family and mentally disabled, Benjy is the narrator of the first section of the novel. 

Shakespeare's Macbeth rails against the human condition: "Life's but a walking shadow; a poor player, that struts and frets his hour upon the stage, and then is heard no more: it is a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, signifying nothing.”  Benjy's section expands on this theme.

Benjy's disjointed, chaotic narrative style reflects the absurdity of a world that lacks order, meaning, and coherence. Benjy is unable to distinguish between past and present, reality and memory, self and others, and he often shifts from one scene to another without any logical connection or transition.  Benjy’s section also suggests the absurdity of human attempts to find meaning and happiness in a chaotic and indifferent world. He is constantly searching for his sister Caddy, who represents his lost innocence and happiness, but he seldom finds her.  Benjy’s narrative portrays a world that offers no consolation or hope for human suffering.  In it, Faulkner conveys his absurdist view of the human condition as a state of confusion, alienation, and despair in a world that appears to have no inherent meaning or value.

Reflecting on Benjy in an interview, Faulkner replies, “The only emotion I have for Benjy is grief and pity for all mankind.”  But he was not content to leave us with an absurd world that offers no consolation for human suffering.  Although his later novels would make more explicit his belief in the power of the human spirit to prevail, The Sound and the Fury gives us Dilsey Gibson, the Negro cook of the Compson family,  a motherly figure to the Compson children, often seen taking care of those neglected or abused by their parents  The only source of stability in the Compson household, she represents the moral center and the human spirit of the novel.  She endures the decline and decay of the Compsons, and is portrayed as a strong and resilient character who embodies qualities such as love, duty, sacrifice, honor, and faith — qualities that Faulkner views as essential for the salvation of the human race.

The last section of the novel, which is told by an omniscient third-person narrator, features Dilsey on Easter Sunday.  After rising early and doing what she can to set the Compson household in order, she takes Benjy to the Easter Sunday service at her church.  When Dilsey's daughter Frony says people are talking, Dilsey replies, "Den you send um to me...Tell um de good Lawd don't keer whether he be bright or not. Don't nobody but white trash keer dat."

The Easter sermon that Dilsey hears moves her deeply. It is a sermon about the great equalizing force of death and about the beginning and ending of things. Dilsey feels that she is now seeing the ending of the Compson family. She has been with them so long that she also feels that she was there toward the beginning.  Faulkner, in the introduction to one edition of The Sound and the Fury, wrote, “There was Dilsey to be the future, to stand above the fallen ruins of the family like a ruined chimney, gaunt patient and indomitable; and Benjy to be the past.”  Faulkner’s moral philosophy was ultimately rooted in his belief in the human spirit and its capacity to endure and overcome adversity.  No Faulkner character demonstrates this more than Dilsey.  She endured.

In 1949, twenty years after The Sound and the Fury, William Faulkner won the Nobel Prize in Literature. The prize was awarded to him “for his powerful and artistically unique contribution to the modern American novel.” In his acceptance speech, Faulkner says, “I believe that man will not merely endure: he will prevail. He is immortal, not because he alone among creatures has an inexhaustible voice, but because he has a soul, a spirit capable of compassion and sacrifice and endurance.” 

"A spirit of compassion and sacrifice and endurance" is much in the same vein as Albert Camus' most memorable characters - Sisyphus endlessly pushing his rock up the hill, Dr. Rieux and Joseph Grand staying in the city and doing all they can to fight the plague.  Like Faulkner, Camus believed that individuals are able to prevail in spite of the world's absurdity and meaninglessness.  

Marcus Aurelius and Albert Camus on courage and hope in troubling times - Feb 13, 2020


Sources: The Sound and the Fury” by William Faulkner, Norton Critical Edition (2nd Edition), W.M. Norton & Company, 1994, Cliffs Notes -1, Cliffs Notes - 2, Cliffs Notes - 3

Postscript: 

"Our task...is to find the few principles that will calm the infinite anguish of free souls. We must mend what has been torn apart, make justice imaginable again in a world so obviously unjust, give happiness a meaning once more.”  - Albert Camus

Unlike Faulkner, Albert Camus' political activism reflected his written words.  Consistently working for justice, Camus was an ardent pacifist and opponent of the death penalty, whose work inspired Sister Helen Prejean of Dead Man Walking fame. [link right]On the other hand, as the literary critic at The New Republic writes of Faulkner: "There is a kind of tragic sublimity, in Faulkner’s work, to the white South’s wrongness, to the magnitude of the guilt, and the extent of the attempt to deny or forget it. But a tragedy only ever ends one way; or perhaps, as Faulkner thought, it never ends at all. If we want things to change—if we want justice—guilt is not enough." [link below left]    

What a sports G.O.A.T. can teach us about life, excellence, leadership and longevity

POSTED MAY 8, 2023

Sports Illustrated named Tom Brady as its 2021 "Sportsperson of the Year".  Earlier that year, the 43-year-old quarterback had led his team to a record seventh Super Bowl victory and in the process picked up his fifth Super Bowl MVP award.  Considering that the average retirement age for an NFL quarterback is between 30 and 35 years old and that his Super Bowl wins will likely never be exceeded, there is much that Brady's career might tell us about life, excellence, leadership and longevity.

In the SI cover article, after mentioning how professional athletes in many sports find inspiration in Brady's longevity and excellence, L. Jon Wertheim writes, "Brady readily admits that he holds no secrets; he, too, looks to others.  His wife. His parents.  Towering athletes...who came before him.  But he also turns to a sort of council of elders, who've lived well and lived long."

Learn from others

Now there's a thought - a council of elders.  We can learn so much from those who have "lived well and lived long", people in our own lives to whom we can turn for advice and wisdom.  But we need not limit our "council" to the elders in our  immediate circle.  We also can learn from the young - for example, the unconditional love and unquenchable curiosity of the very young, the optimistic faith in the future and the questioning of handed-down beliefs of older youth.  We also learn from the heroes of our youth - whether they be historic giants such as Martin Luther King or more immediate examples - parents, teachers, neighbors, friends.  And of course, there are the endless sources of wisdom from ages past in the works of the great thinkers and writers.

As usual, Mahatma Gandhi gets it right in his advice to "learn as if you will live forever."  Learning is a lifelong process.  Education doesn't stop when we finish our formal schooling.  There is still so much that we don't know, so much that could help us live a more interesting, more fulfilling life.  Finding time to do so can be a challenge but ultimately rewarding.  One way to find the time is by practicing what's come to be known as the "5-hour rule."  The five-hour rule was inspired and perhaps even invented by Benjamin Franklin.  Throughout Franklin’s adult life, he consistently invested an hour a day in ‘deliberate’ learning.  Some even call this "Franklin’s" five hour rule: one hour a day on every weekday, and it's practiced by Warren Buffett, Bill Gates, Oprah Winfrey and many others.  


One of the people Wertheim interviewed for his Tom Brady article was one of the eldest of the "council of elders", 87 year-old Sam Reeves, who's been Brady's friend for 20 years.  Though Sam recently gave up body surfing, he still plays 150 rounds of golf a year.  Reeves has given great thought to what makes Tom Brady special and has come up with some thoughts: he makes people feel valued, he thrives on excellence for himself and those around him; he is a person of joy and is open to "adventures."

Make people feel valued

One who is constantly learning needs to be a good listener.  Reeves: He makes people feel valued. "That could mean really listening - he's an extraordinary listener - to a person he's meeting for the first time."  "Really listening" to others means being totally present for them, and our full presence is a sign that we value them.  While not all of us have the charisma that makes another person immediately feel welcomed and valued, we can make them feel so by being totally present for them.  

On listening - October 22, 2021


Strive for excellence 

One of the Four Agreements of ancient Toltec wisdom is "Always do your best."  Reeves: He thrives on excellence, for himself and those around him. ""He wants you to have what he has.  He wants people to be the best they - [and] he'll help them get there."  Reeve's description succinctly defines what may be one of the most important aspects of leadership - the ability to inspire others and a propensity to help them excel.  Leadership and performance coach and consultant John Eades expands on this thought in the link below.

Be a person of joy

"We cannot cure the world of sorrows, but we can choose to live in joy.” —Joseph Campbell

Reeves: He is a person of joy. "Pain is inevitable - certainly in football - but misery is optional, and Tom does not accept misery.  He runs to joy."   Being joyful is not only good for you, it can make those around you feel better. We all know someone whose presence or smile lights up a room, and we know how good that makes us feel. 

The poet Mary Oliver was known for the sheer joy she took in living every day.  Psychology Today's tribute to her says, in part: "Mary Oliver’s gift was her ability to marvel at the world with an unsentimental acceptance that it (and we) are temporary. She looked clear-eyed and with unflinching certainty at the impermanence of our existence. In it she found not despair but rather joy. She chose to live in the moment and to be dazzled by it."

“It must be a great disappointment to God if we are not dazzled at least ten times a day.” ― Mary Oliver


Be open to "adventures"

Reeves: "Tom keeps his routines but he is open to adventures."  Brady's training and diet regimens are things of legend in the sports world.  Ross Andel, director of the School of Aging Studies at the University of South Florida, also quoted in the SI article, says, "His ability to stay disciplined is second to none...He holds onto his schedule.  There's such a resilience." Then Andel points to a contradictory instinct - a key, perhaps the key, to graceful aging: a willingness to adapt, a desire not to remain static.  In Andel's words, "never want to be fixed"; in Reeves', "open to adventures." 

Andel relates the results of a German study volunteers were taught to juggle.  While they were learning the skill, their brain patterns changed.  When the skill was no longer novel, brain patterns reverted to how they were previously.  Every time you learn a new skill, whether mental or physical, you change your brain. More specifically,  your brain forms new connections and neurons and makes existing neural pathways stronger or weakerThis ability of the brain to change according to the challenges it faces is called neuroplasticity.  [link below]  

AARP has an entire section of their website devoted to keeping the brain sharp, called appropriately enough "Staying Sharp." This excerpt, from one of their articles notes that the more challenging the information or skill, the greater the benefit.

“Your brain is like a muscle,” says Daniel G. Amen, a psychiatrist based in Costa Mesa, Calif., and author of Change Your Brain, Change Your Life. “The more you use it, the more you can actually make new connections.” The brain works optimally when presented with new information and skills. And the more challenging the information is to master, the better. When University of Texas, Dallas researchers assigned adults to different activities in a November 2013 study, only those who learned a new skill, such as quilting or how to use the image-modifying computer software Photoshop, showed significant gains in memory function.

On being perpetually curious

POSTED APRIL 18, 2023

There are few good human qualities that have gotten as bad a rap as curiosity.  From the biblical Eve's "Let's see what happens if we eat this apple" to the Shakespearean* adage "curiosity killed the cat" (still in vogue in mid-20th century elementary schools!), the mind-opening, life-enhancing virtue of curiosity has been undervalued and abused.

Curiosity plays a central role in our search for knowledge and truth and opens our eyes to wonder and awe.  It is the basis for a life-long love of learning and a necessary ingredient for new experiences.  

Curiosity's enemies include closed-minded dogmatism, intellectual laziness, and self-referencing certainty.  On the last, Maria Popova in a post about George Saunders' book of essays on Russian literature**, writes:

Nothing, not one thing, hurts us more — or causes us to hurt others more — than our certainties. The stories we tell ourselves about the world and the foregone conclusions with which we cork the fount of possibility are the supreme downfall of our consciousness. They are also the inevitable cost of survival, of navigating a vast and complex reality most of which remains forever beyond our control and comprehension. And yet in our effort to parse the world, we sever ourselves from the full range of its beauty, tensing against the tenderness of life.  How to love the world more by negotiating our hunger for certainty and our gift for story is what George Saunders explores [in his book]

Curiosity's enablers include humility, open-mindedness, courage and dedication to pursuing the truth.  Looking into the distant past, we see exemplars of passionate curiosity such as Socrates, Montaigne, and Galileo demonstrating each of these qualities to varying degrees.  

Montaigne (1533-1592) invented the essay, from the French essayer which means "to try".  He humbly, but confidently, followed his lines of inquiry to their conclusion, learning as he went.  Known more as a statesman than an author during his lifetime, Montaigne has come to be recognized as embodying the spirit of freely entertaining doubt that began to emerge at that time. He is most famously known for his skeptical remark, ''Que sçay-je?" ("What do I know?", in Middle French; now rendered as "Que sais-je?" in modern French). 


Socrates' most famous dictum "The unexamined life is not worth living" is perhaps the ultimate testament to open-mindedness.  Knowing oneself and following one's true nature are at the heart of personal growth.  The eponymous Socratic method is a form of cooperative argumentative dialogue between individuals, based on asking and answering questions to stimulate critical thinking and to draw out ideas and underlying presuppositions.  This open-mindedness and questioning attitude eventually led to his execution.  He refused to recant his beliefs and courageously accepted his sentence.  

Although the accusations against him were religious in nature ("impiety" ,"atheism"), there was an underlying political motive for executing Socrates: he was speaking truth to power, questioning the values of accumulating money, power, and status which dominated the class-based Athenian "democracy" of his time.  Determined by the interests of the aristocracy and an emerging wealthy business class, these dominant ideas considered the accumulation of money, power, and status to be morally good. In contrast, Socrates was teaching that only a life dedicated to the improvement of the soul via the cultivation of virtue can bring about genuine meaning to human life.  [link below]

Galileo's unrelenting pursuit of the truth also got him trouble with the authorities. Galileo’s great contribution to modern science was his systematic development of a scientific method predicated on evidence-based research. But, his historical impact and legacy is bound up in his astronomical observations, the conclusions he drew from these, and the reaction of Church authorities to the results.

The Online Education website says this about "The Galileo Affair":

It’s hard to pinpoint exactly when Galileo reached his revolutionary conclusion that the Sun, not the Earth, must be the center of the solar system...By most accounts, it was a cumulative process of discovery. His initial telescopic observations revealed the geographical features of the Moon. As he improved the magnification properties of his telescope, he was able to study the shadows that crossed the face of Venus, the moons in orbit around Jupiter, thousands of stars from distant galaxies that could not be seen by the naked eye, and distinct features of the Sun. He could then employ mathematical calculations to confirm what he would have already suspected regarding the true nature of the cosmos.

As with Socrates, the authorities persecuting him were wrong.  Unlike Socrates, Galileo recanted his work, although he famously muttered a defiant “Eppur si muove”(“And yet it moves)” to the inquisitors as if to say that they may have won this battle, but in the end, truth would win out.***  

Of course, the Renaissance era was not the end of the passionate curiosity embodied in these three great thinkers.  Britannica has a web page devoted to many such artists, inventors, explorers and scientists. [link below]  The Britannica Curiosity Compass available at the linkis a three minute questionnaire where you can "discover what drives your curiosity." 

Postscript (in the interests of full disclosure): I'm a big fan of curiosity.  In fact, it's one of the reasons I created this website.  After 70 years on this planet, I realized that there was so much I didn't know, so much that I would like to know.  Thus What in the World? was born.   I typically choose a topic for a post by asking myself what would be interesting or enriching or self-actualizing if I knew more about it.  I research the topic and share what I learn with you, my readers.  This even goes for posts in The Fray.  Though admittedly another strong driver there at The Fray is to serve as a corrective for mainstream media coverage and biases and the garbled thought processes of the political and religious right.

Notes:

*The saying “curiosity killed the cat” originated in 1598 in a play that was written by Ben Johnson and adapted by William Shakespeare. The original wording was: “Care killed the cat”. The first reference of the modern usage with “curiosity” dates back to 1873. It was incorporated in A handbook of proverbs: English, Scottish, Irish, American, Shakespearean, and scriptural; and family mottoes by James Allan Mair. (Online Spellcheck blog)

**The book is  A Swim in a Pond in the Rain: In Which Four Russians Give a Master Class on Writing, Reading, and Life.  The American writer George Saunders has been teaching creative writing at Syracuse University in the US for more than 20 years, including a course in the 19th-century Russian short story in translation.  Saunders developed as essays some of the thoughts arising from those classes, and put them together into a book alongside the stories he’s discussing – by Chekhov, Tolstoy, Turgenev and Gogol. (The Guardian)

***On June 22, 1633, Galileo was ordered to kneel as he was found “vehemently suspected of heresy.” He was forced to “abandon completely the false opinion” of Copernicanism, and to read a statement, in which he recanted much of his life's work.  After the trial, angered by his conviction no doubt, that he was said to have muttered to the inquisitors, “Eppur si muove”(“And yet it moves)” - referring to his conclusion that the earth and other planets moved around the sun.  It took the Church more than three and a half centuries to apologize for its error.

Sources: Wikipedia, Scientific American, Hampton Institute

The philosophy of Ernest Hemingway

POSTED MARCH 24, 2023

At the turn of the twentieth century, three American Nobel-Prize-winning authors were born.  Through their books, these writers - William Faulkner (1897-1962), Ernest Hemingway (1899-1961) and John Steinbeck  (1902-1968) - would have a great influence on American culture and provide insight into both the human condition and America's national character.  Although the authors probably would have detested the term, "the philosophies" underlying their works would impact American society through much of the twentieth century. 

While the novels of Steinbeck and Faulkner are set exclusively in the United States, Ernest Hemingway's stories take place in Italy, Spain, Paris, Africa, and the Gulf Stream.   In his fiction, Hemingway drew deeply on his own travel experiences - revisiting, reimagining and transforming them.  As the contributors to Ernest Hemingway and the Geography of Memory point out, "travel was the engine of his creative life." Hemingway did not subscribe to any particular philosophy of life. Rather his works reflect his own experiences and what he saw, which was often harsh and brutal.  

Hemingway's experiences abroad influenced his philosophy.   His stories have elements of European existentialism [sidebar] and sometimes exhibit a certain fatalism - although fatalism rarely if ever wins out.  He came of age during World War I and his writings throughout his life reflect a keen interest in war and its effects on those who live through it.  His experiences as an ambulance driver in World War I and later experience as a journalist covering wars fundamentally affected the "way we write about war or even think about war" according to Harvard Professor Henry Louis Gates, Jr. at the Hemingway Centennial.  

In this post, we'll explore how these and other philosophical thoughts present themselves in two of his finest works - his first novel, The Sun Also Rises, and the last work published during his lifetime, The Old Man and the Sea.

Existentialism

Existentialism, a philosophy which emphasizes the existence of the individual person as a free and responsible agent determining their own development through acts of the will.  An existentialist believes that we are each responsible for creating purpose or meaning in our own lives, without relying on external authorities.

Among the more well-known of the existentialist philosophers are Søren Kierkegaard (1813-1855), Friedrich Nietzsche (1844-1900), Martin Heidegger (1889-1976), Jean-Paul Sartre (1905-1980), Simone de Beauvoir (1908-1986), and Albert Camus (1913-1960).

Three core principles of existentialism (phenomenology, freedom and authenticity) are explained in the link below.

The Sun Also Rises

During the First World War, Ernest Hemingway volunteered to serve in Italy as an ambulance driver with the American Red Cross. In June 1918, he was wounded by Austrian mortar fire. "Then there was a flash, as when a blast-furnace door is swung open, and a roar that started white and went red," he recalled in a letter home.  Despite his injuries, Hemingway carried a wounded Italian soldier to safety and was injured again by machine-gun fire. For his bravery, he received the Silver Medal of Valor from the Italian government. Hemingway spent six months in a Milan hospital recovering form his wounds before returning home.

In 1923 Hemingway returned to Europe after marrying his first wife, Hadley Richardson. Initially working as a correspondent for the Toronto Star, while living in Paris he grew into a novelist with the encouragement of such Left Bank notables as Gertrude Stein, Ezra Pound, and F. Scott Fitzgerald.  And Paris is the setting where The Sun Also Rises begins.  

The narrator of Hemingway's novel is Jake Barnes, an American World War I veteran whose combat wounds have caused him to be impotent. Rather than return home, Barnes remains in Europe with compatriots in Paris and Spain.  Jake's wounds symbolize the lostness of postwar Europe.  They figuratively and literally prevents him from expressing his romantic love for Lady Brett Ashley in a conventional way.  

The anti-war Dadaists had reacted to the senseless slaughter of World War I with a unique artistic style - one that rejected reason, rationality, and order of the emerging capitalist society, and instead favored chaos, nonsense, and anti-bourgeois sentiment.  In a similar way, the post WWI modernist writers - such as Hemingway, Fitzgerald, Eliot, and others - rejected the excesses of Victorian prose and the cultural values that had led to the war.  Their style of writing is epitomized in Hemingway's spare unadorned prose, which some have noted is characterized as much by what is left out as what the words on the page do say.

Many regard The Sun Also Rises as Hemingway's portrait of  the so-called Lost Generation.  The generation was “lost” in the sense that its inherited values were no longer relevant in the postwar world and because of its spiritual alienation from a United States that seemed to its members to be hopelessly provincial, materialistic, and emotionally barren.  

Existentialists believe that we are each responsible for creating purpose or meaning in our own lives, without relying on external authorities.  World War I was perhaps the most senseless war of all time, the carnage that it created prepared the ground for just such a belief.  With traditional Western values in disrepute and affected by a generational existential angst, the characters of Hemingway's novel turn to "experience" as a way to live.   Early in the story, the writer Robert Cohn asks Jake, "Don't you ever get the feeling that your life is going by and you're not taking advantage of it? Do you realize you've lived half the time you have to live already?"  Weary of drinking and carousing in Paris' cafes, the group of expatriates travel to the festival of the running of the bulls in Pamplona in Spain, an extreme experience by any standard.  

Besides this theme of the importance of direct experience, expressed to some degree by Hemingway's choice of the first-person perspective, the novel also stresses the importance of authenticity, another existentialist value.  Indeed, the American academic, poet, and folk singer H.R. Stoneback considered that the central question posed by the novel is one of authenticity: "Given our mortality, the evanescent transience of life, how do we live our lives authentically and passionately every day of the short time we have?”

When his friend Robert Cohn tries to convince Jake to go with him to South America, Jake realizes that Robert's desire to see "real South Americans" he knows that Cohn does not really want to go to South America to see the real South Americans. He wants to go there because he read about those “real” South Americans in a book, which has so influenced him that he would likely fail to see the real South Americans even if he took the trip to South America.  Jake is trying to make the point that Cohn does not have to go to South America to start living his life. He could do that right there in Paris.  

As a result of his wounds, Jake has developed a philosophical outlook that precludes the kind of romantic notions that Cohn entertains. That philosophical outlook has led him to aficion, a passionate devotion and deep understanding of bull-fighting.  Montoya, the inn-keeper in Pamplona, acknowledges the special nature of Jake's aficion.  Several times, in response to Jake's assertion that this friend Bill was also a real aficionado, Montoya says "But he's not aficionado like you are."

But Jake's aficion eventually extends beyond the bullring, and the term itself could be defined as a passionate devotion to the authentic.   Jake’s wound, the wound that makes him think, also makes him realize that there is such a thing as thinking too much. This helps him realize the importance of passion, or aficion, and leads to his recognition and appreciation of the authentic.

The Old Man and the Sea

In 1954 Ernest Hemingway was awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature "for his mastery of the art of narrative, most recently demonstrated in The Old Man and the Sea, and for the influence that he has exerted on contemporary style."

Once again drawing on his own experience [sidebar] and knowledge (his library was said to contain more than 150 books on marine science), Hemingway created his most popular work, the Pulitzer-prize-winning novella The Old Man and the Sea.  It was the last of his works to be published during his lifetime. 

The story of an epic contest between an old fisherman and a giant marlin, The Old Man and the Sea has reflections on the unity of nature (the marlin and flying fish are his "brothers"; the stars, "his distant friends"), the travails of growing old (“No one should be alone in their old age," he thought. But it is unavoidable."), and the respect for an adversary that constitutes a fair contest (a kind of nobility that exists "when two creatures achieve brotherhood in a trial of endurance which demands every ounce of strength and every skill they possess" (1)).  There are several allusions to the passion of Jesus (the old man struggling up a hill carrying his mast on his shoulder, the three days of struggle and superhuman endurance before landing the marlin, "Ay...a noise such as a man would make, involuntarily, feeling the nail go through his hand into the wood").  

At the heart of the story is Santiago's determination and will to land the giant marlin.  After more than 80 days of unproductive fishing, which Santiago blames on "bad luck", the old fisherman hooks a 1500 pound marlin which takes Santiago and his small skiff out of the Caribbean into the Gulf Stream in a three day struggle.  

Out of sight of land and reaching the limits of his duration, Santiago reflects, "...man is not made for defeat.  A man can be destroyed but not defeated."  In those words, the aging fisherman exhibits the courage so necessary for facing what seems unsurmountable problems, for overcoming "fate" by force of will.

Having landed the marlin, Santiago encounters sharks on his way back to port and battles them in at least three separate attacks.  Although he is able to kill some of them, the unrelenting sharks strip all of the flesh from the marlin and he returns home with just a skelton and a stripped carcass to show for his efforts. 

As he is recovering from his ordeal, the local boy who often accompanied him on his fishing trips (though not on this one) encourages him, and Santiago begins making plans for going out again - "we must get a good killing lance and always have it onboard...maybe three more [knives]."

In spite of the final outcome, Santiago is not defeated.  Although  life and nature can be unfair and we may not always win, in the end, it is our efforts that count.

Ernest Hemingway, to this day, is regarded as one of big-game fishing’s greatest, most ardent practitioners, a man who not only wrote about the sport but also had a significant role in shaping it.  He had returned from covering the Spanish Civil War in the 1930s, a time when fishermen were landing giant bluefin tuna on rod and reel in the shallow waters off Nova Scotia. But they found it nearly impossible to land giants or marlin in the deep waters off Bimini in the Caribbean before sharks “apple-cored” them.  

Hooking the fish wasn’t the problem; it was hauling them up to find nothing more than a head, tail and backbone. The sharks were like piranhas, feasting on the hooked fish before the anglers could get them to the boat.  Hemingway came up with several creative insights that helped countless anglers who flocked to the Bahamas during this heyday.  

Jesus Christ, the Radical

POSTED MARCH 1, 2023

The Chosen

On Christmas Eve 2017, the first episode of a new series about the life of Jesus of Nazareth, The Chosen,  aired.  The series is now in its third season and playing to rave reviews on Netflix.  

On Christmas Eve 2020, Peter Wehner wrote a New York Times op-ed, "The Forgotten Radicalism of Jesus Christ" [link below], referencing the show.  The radicalism that Wehner references is one of inclusiveness.  The hallmark of Jesus’s ministry was  "intimacy with and the inclusion of the unwanted and the outcast, men and women living in the shadow of society, more likely to be dismissed than noticed, more likely to be mocked than revered." 

For examples of this radicalism of inclusiveness, Wehner uses the calling of Matthew, a tax collector, to be an apostle, the parable of the Good Samaritan, and Jesus’ encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well. On the last, he writes: 

"This story is a striking example of Jesus’ rejection of conventional religious and cultural thinking — in this case because Jesus, a man, was talking earnestly to a woman in a world in which women were often demeaned and treated as second-class citizens; and because Jesus, a Jew, was talking to a Samaritan, who were despised by the Jews for reasons going back centuries."

Surrender

Published late last year, Bono's memoir Surrender caused a number of commentators to speak of Bono's Christian beliefs.  In an Atlantic article about Bono, U2's front man and lead singer, the cultural and political commentator David Brooks writes about the conversion of three of the band members to what Brooks calls a "radical" Christianity.  For both Brooks and Bono, the radical Christ was all about taking care of the vulnerable and marginalized. [link below]

"We've all inherited a certain culture-war narrative over the past 50 years.  Rock and roll is on one side, along with sex, drugs, and liberation.  Religion is on the other side, along with judgmentalism, sexual repression, and deference to authority.  But for Bono, Mullen, and Evans ["The Edge"] - the U2 members who became and remain Christians - punk rock and the radical Christ are on the same team...The three of them embraced a faith that simply bypassed 2,000 years of religious civilization and returned straight to Jesus: the helpless baby who was born on a bed of straw and shit; the wandering troubadour who put the poor, the marginalized, and the ailing at the center of his gaze; the rebel outsider who confronted the power structures of his society and took them all on at once."

"Putting the poor, the marginalized, and the ailing at the center of his gaze" is radical both in the sense of a return to the roots of Christ's message and in the radical nature of that message.  Anyone who has given the Gospels an honest reading can see the  message as clear as day.  Besides those noted by Wehner, numerous other passages testify to this element of Jesus' teachings.  Among the most radical of these teachings are those on forgiveness, on love of enemies, and on caring for the "least ones"

Forgiveness: "You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’  But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you."

Love of enemies: "You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.

Caring for these "least ones":  Then they will answer and say, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or ill or in prison, and not minister to your needs?’  He will answer them, ‘Amen, I say to you, what you did not do for one of these least ones, you did not do for me.’

Today many Christians appear to have forgotten the original message.  In Wehner's words, "First-century Christians weren’t prepared for what a truly radical and radically inclusive figure Jesus was, and neither are today’s Christians"; in Brooks', "This alternative form of Christianity is something, say, that American evangelicals could have adopted. But mostly they did not."

Bono is one who has not forgotten the original message.  He is the cofounder of of ONE, a global campaign and advocacy organization with more than 9 million members committed to taking action to end extreme poverty.  He is also the cofounder of (RED) which partners with the world’s most iconic brands to raise public awareness about and corporate contributions for the AIDS crisis.

As part of his work with ONE, Bono has lobbied heads of state and members of legislatures all around the world. This lobbying, combined with the work of ONE’s grassroots membership has helped to ensure the passage and funding of government policies and programs that have helped to save tens of millions of lives over the past 10 years.  To date, (RED) has generated more than $465 million for AIDS treatment and prevention in Africa through the Global Fund to Fight AIDS, TB and Malaria.

HuffPost's collection of some of Bono's words on his search for God are in the link below.

On God's Side

"Those people who treat politics and morality separately will never understand either of them." - Jean-Jacques Rousseau

The passage from Matthew 25 on caring for "these least ones"  is often referred to as "The Judgment of Nations,"  and I'll close with the comments of another radical Christian - Jim Wallis , an evangelical preacher, religious writer and social activist.  In his book On God's Side, Wallis discusses the Judgment of Nations, one of the few places where Jesus makes a point of saying who better be watching their backs at the Last Judgment. 

Wallis writes: 

"Jesus, unlike our religious institutions, continually speaks out against judgmentalism. But the only time Jesus is judgmental himself is on the subject of the poor." The condemned, the goats, are shocked by what Jesus will say to them at the Last Judgment. "When did we see you hungry, or thirsty, or without clothes, or a stranger, or sick, or in prison?" He will answer them, "Amen, I say to you, what you did not do for one of these least ones, you did not do for me." 

Wallis then makes two particular points. The first is that nations, as well as individuals, are being judged. This is about collective as well as individual decisions about who or what is most important. The second is that "Christ's judgment here is not about having the wrong doctrine or theology; it's not about sexual misdeeds, or any other personal sin or failure. The everlasting judgment here is based on how we have treated the poorest and most vulnerable in our midst and in the world...[The] good or ill we have done to them [is]...the moral equivalent of how we have treated him."

The Religious Left (Sep 23, 2020)


Resistance

POSTED FEBRUARY 10, 2023

Resistance, especially political resistance, has been a continuing theme for those who value freedom and those who oppose oppression.  The eponymous French Resistance to the Nazi Occupation in World War II is one of the more well-known; the ongoing Palestinian resistance to the Israeli Occupation is one of the longest running; and Black Resistance is the theme for Black History Month 2023.  

The National Museum of African American History and Culture is hosting an array of events, programs and tours honoring Black Resistance, and writes, “By resisting, African Americans continue to mobilize resources and shape social movements to create a space for Black Americans to thrive. We invite everyone to join us in exploring the histories of Black freedom movements—from slavery and abolition to other ongoing struggles for civil and human rights." 

Resistance takes forms other than political - for example, resisting psychologically difficult circumstances or in appeals to our higher values: "resist hate", "resist temptation" to greed and selfishness, to do wrong or to harm others.  Resistance is standing up to authority when they are wrong.  Resistance is speaking truth to power.  Resistance is refusing to break under pressure.  Resistance is courage in action.


Robert Kennedy: "Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring, those ripples build a current that can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression..."    

Viktor Frankl: “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.” 

Edgar Sheffield Brightman: "No totalitarians, no wars, no fears, famines or perils of any kind can really break a man’s spirit until he breaks it himself by surrendering. Tyranny has many dread powers, but not the power to rule the spirit. 

Suheir Hammad: "Occupation means that every day you die, and the world watches in silence. As if your death was nothing, as if you were a stone falling in the earth, water falling over water.  And if you face all of this death and indifference and keep your humanity, and your love and your dignity and you refuse to surrender to their terror, then you know something of the courage that is Palestine.” 

Albert Camus: "A city deprived of everything, devoid of light and devoid of heat, starved, and still not crushed.” 

Henry David Thoreau: “It is not desirable to cultivate a respect for the law, so much as for the right.”

Rosa Parks and the Montgomery Bus Boycott - 1955

"Are you going to stand up?" the driver demanded. Rosa Parks looked straight at him and said: "No." Flustered, and not quite sure what to do, the driver retorted, "Well, I'm going to have you arrested." And Parks, still sitting next to the window, replied softly, "You may do that."


Martin Luther King Jr: "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”

Mark Twain: "Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, and not the absence of fear."


The Children's March

Birmingham Alabama - 1963


Martin Luther King Jr.: “In spite of temporary victories, violence never brings permanent peace.”

Mahatma Gandhi's Satyagraha (Sanskrit and Hindi: “holding onto truth”) - a concept introduced in the early 20th century by Mahatma Gandhi to designate a determined but nonviolent resistance to evil.

Henry David Thoreau: “Let your life be a counter-friction to stop the machine. What I have to do is to see, at any rate, that I do not lend myself to the wrong which I condemn.” 

Martin Luther King Jr: “Every man of humane convictions must decide on the protest that best suits his convictions, but we must all protest.”

John Lewis: "If it hadn't been for that march across the Edmund Pettus Bridge on Bloody Sunday, there would be no Barack Obama as President of the United States of America." 

Albert Camus: “And I should like to be able to love my country and still love justice. I don't want any greatness for it, particularly a greatness born of blood and falsehood. I want to keep it alive by keeping justice alive.”

Martin Luther King, Jr.: “In the nonviolent army, there is room for everyone who wants to join up...There is no examination, no pledge, except that nonviolent soldiers are called upon to examine their greatest weapons: their heart, their conscience, their courage and sense of justice.”

“Wars will cease when men refuse to fight.” - motto of the War Resisters League 

This year marks the 100th anniversary of the founding of the War Resisters League.  Founded in the aftermath of a horrendous European war by those who resisted conscription and their supporters, they united around a powerful affirmation: war is a crime against humanity.

Sources: UShistory.orgKSBY

The philosophy of John Steinbeck

POSTED JANUARY 19, 2023

As philosophy studies became more abstruse and abstract in the twentieth century, people absorbed, often subconsciously, the ideas of their countries' great writers, which were often brought to a wider audience in films based on their books.  At the turning of the twentieth century, three American Nobel-Prize-winning authors were born.  Through their books, these writers - William Faulkner (1897-1962), Ernest Hemingway (1899-1961) and John Steinbeck  (1902-1968) - would have a great influence on American culture and provide insight into America's national character.  Although the authors probably would have detested the term, "the philosophies" underlying their works would impact American society through much of the twentieth century.

"The lies we tell about our duty and our purposes, the meaningless words of science and philosophy, are walls that topple before a bewildered little ‘why’." - John Steinbeck

Somewhat ironically, John Steinbeck is the most philosophical of the bunch.  Academic papers on the subject of Steinbeck's philosophy abound, and several books explore this subject, including The Moral Philosophy of John Steinbeck (2005) and Reclaiming John Steinbeck: Writing for the Future of Humanity (2021).   In this post, we'll explore just a few of these ideas.

The Duty to Share: Empathy for the Dispossessed and the Migrant

Steinbeck is best known for his works set during the Great Depression, particularly those that focused on migrant workers. The Grapes of Wrath and Of Mice and Men, two of his most well-known works, are set in this time period.  Both these novels showed the struggles of the most marginalized in a time of great hardship.  Both were made into films.

Of Mice and Men narrates the experiences of two displaced migrant ranch workers, who move from place to place in California in search of new job opportunities during the Great Depression in the United States.   Steinbeck won the National Book Award and a Pulitzer Prize for The Grapes of Wrath - his empathetic depictions of an Oklahoma family, driven off their farm by the poverty and hopelessness of the Dust Bowl. The family joins the westward migration to California, suffering the misfortunes of the homeless in the Great Depression. 

In both books, Steinbeck celebrates "the modest aspirations of average men and women...[seeking] to win for themselves, by way of work and democratic participation, a decent life." But not just for themselves.  "Steinbeck repeatedly stresses that whenever ordinary folks satisfy their basic needs, their next impulse is to share their goods with their marginalized fellows."  

Today migrants still seek an escape from poverty and violence as they make their way to our southern borders, and there are almost 600,000 homeless people in the United States.  The misfortunes that drove them here are unknown and unacknowledged, for today's migrants and homeless have no John Steinbeck to bring attention to their dire situation.  

Although America has improved its social safety net and strengthened its banking regulations, much of what John Steinbeck taught us about the dispossessed and the migrant is still relevant today.  [link below]  And hopefully what he had to say about our duty to share will inspire those still reluctant to do so.

The Free-Thinking and Independent Individual

"And this I believe: that the free, exploring mind of the individual human is the most valuable thing in the world. And this I would fight for: the freedom of the mind to take any direction it wishes, undirected. And this I must fight against: any idea, religion, or government which limits or destroys the individual. This is what I am and what I am about."  - John Steinbeck, East of Eden

John Steinbeck was filled with awe of the human spirit, the vast independence and will of a man or woman with a goal in mind - be it to find a home, support a family, or simply to survive - in the face of great obstacles.  The mid-twentieth century was notable not only for the Great Depression but also for the rise of modern totalitarian ideologies.  Fascism and Nazism were on the rise for much of Steinbeck's life, and, when their power had waned, Stalinist Russia was putting an authoritarian stamp on Marxist concepts.  

An apparent admirer of the ancient Skeptics, Steinbeck was an advocate for what we now call critical-thinking.  Although the term "critical thinking" has its roots in the mid-late 20th century, this is a concept that has been developing for the past 2,500 years.  

A simple definition of critical thinking is that it is “deliberately and systematically processing information so that you can make better decisions and generally understand things better.” Critical thinking is the opposite of irrational thinking and will help overcome cognitive biases such as the zero-sum bias ("I win, you lose; you win/I lose”), catastrophic thinking (ruminating about irrational worst case outcomes), and confirmation bias (people are prone to believe what they want to believe).

In a Post-Truth era with misinformation spewing uncontrollably from social media, this is a vital skill for our times.  Asking questions, questioning assumptions and reasoning logically are three ways to improve our critical thinking.  For more on this important skill, see link below.

"It is what it is"

The most complex of John Steinbeck's ideas is what has been dubbed "is" thinking, or in the terminology of philosophers, non-teleological thinking. It is his refutation of the Western compulsion for teleological thinking — the tendency to explain things in terms of the purpose they serve, and his embrace of the Eastern notion of being: the idea that everything just is and any fragment of it, any one thing examined by itself, is simply because it is.  

Non-teleological thinking, "is" thinking, concerns itself primarily not with what should be, or could be, or might be, but rather with what actually "is"—attempting at most to answer the already sufficiently difficult questions what or how, instead of why.   Science - the art of observation without interpretation, of meeting reality on its own impartial terms - is the premier example of non-teleological thinking.  And it is in The Log from the Sea of Cortez, an account of his exploration of the ecosystem in the Gulf of California with marine biologist Ed Ricketts that Steinbeck expands on the concept.  

Although he speaks of parallels to Western philosophical ideas - "to the triangle, to the Christian ideas of trinity, to Hegel’s dialectic, and to Swedenborg’s metaphysic of divine love (feeling) and divine wisdom (thinking)" - I find this quote from The Log from the Sea of Cortez also suggestive of the yin and yang of Eastern philosophy:

"The non-teleological picture… goes beyond blame or cause. And the non-causal or non-blaming viewpoint… arises emergently from the union of two opposing viewpoints, such as those of physical and spiritual teleologies, especially if there is conflict as to causation between the two or within either. The new viewpoint very frequently sheds light over a larger picture, providing a key which may unlock levels not accessible to either of the teleological viewpoints." 

Among its many meanings, the yin yang symbol [link below] represents the interconnectedness of the world, particularly the natural world - a concept that John Steinbeck wholeheartedly subscribed to.

This is just a brief sampling of the philosophical concepts in John Steinbeck's works.  Among the others: utilitarianism (the greatest good and happiness for the greatest number),  the concept of the Phalanx (people act differently when in a group than they would as individuals), hope as an adaptive trait of the human species, and the recognition that we are all a "piece of a great big soul."


Sources: The Moral Philosophy of John Steinbeck, Stephen K. George, ed., 2005, Scarecrow Press Inc.; Wikipedia; Steinbeck in the SchoolsCollege Info Geek, The Marginalian

Erich Fromm on Freedom

POSTED NOVEMBER 15, 2022

To what extent are our thoughts and behaviors determined by previous emotional experiences, by earlier events, or by electrochemical imbalances in the brain?  To what extent are they determined by the forces of history, by the society we live in, or by demagogic appeals to tribalistic impulses?  Trying to answer these questions [sidebar free will v. determinism], Erich Fromm, a twentieth century psychoanalyst, championed freedom and free will as essential elements of our humanity.

Born in 1900 in Frankfurt, Germany, Erich Fromm was a social psychologist, psychoanalyst, sociologist, humanistic philosopher, and democratic socialist. Trained as a Freudian psychoanalyst in Germany, he saw the writing on the wall in 1933, fled the country, and settled in the US.  After emigrating, Fromm taught on the faculties of a number of universities including Columbia University in New York City and Bennington College in Vermont.  

Fromm's life's work explored the interaction between psychology and society. He believed that by applying psychoanalytic principles to the remedy of cultural ills,  mankind could develop a psychologically balanced “sane society”, the title of his 1955 book wherein he examined man's escape into over-conformity and the danger of "robotism" in contemporary industrial society.  

Although he criticized modern society on the basis of Freudian and Marxist arguments, Fromm took issue with the determinist elements in Freud's psychoanalysis and Marx's dialectical materialism.  He added to this mix of two deterministic systems something quite foreign to them: the idea of freedom, which allows people to transcend the determinisms that Freud and Marx attribute to them. Indeed, Fromm makes freedom the central characteristic of human nature.

In the industrialized West, we now enjoy more freedom and more material wealth than ever before. But are we therefore happier?  Fromm does not think so.  In To Have Or To Be (1976),  Fromm diagnoses the profound unhappiness of Western modern men as the result of a flawed economic system. Capitalism, he believes, forces us to emphasize the possession of material goods (the “having” of things) and to neglect the qualities of our characters (our “being” as persons).

In his seminal work, The Escape From Freedom, Fromm makes the point that freedom, which we are used to seeing as a positive thing, actually can be perceived as threatening. In medieval societies, for example, one’s public behavior and choices were prescribed to great detail and this, although it took away people’s freedoms, gave them the assurance of having a safe and well-defined place within society.  Being embedded in a bigger world that takes away our decisions from us gives security and peace to our lives, says Fromm. The less we have to decide, the less we are to blame if things go wrong.

Modern society takes away these assurances.  Some find this threatening and attempt to "escape from freedom".  Fromm identifies three ways in which many people try to escape from that "threatening" freedom.

One is authoritarianism, the attempt to give up one’s individuality and to become part of a collective, an authoritarian system that will tell us what to do. 

The second way is what Fromm calls destructiveness. Being afraid of what the world might do to harm them, some will strike out against it, in order to destroy it first. 

The third way of escaping from freedom is automaton conformity, as Fromm calls it. This kind of escape is particularly suited to our modern, Western societies, which don’t offer many authoritarian hierarchies in which one could hide. So we hide in our mass culture instead.

Escaping from an essential part of our human nature divorces us from our true nature and our true selves.  This, in turn, leads to alienation and an alienated society.  In the next post, we will take a look at Fromm's answer as formulated in The Sane Society and The Art of Loving.


Sources: Daily Philosophy - 1, Britannica, Wikipedia, Webspace.ship, Daily Philosophy - 2, Biology Online

Free Will v. Determinism

The debate between determinists and advocates of free will goes back to the Renaissance, when people started to see human beings as important agents in their own right.  We didn't just look to the church and other traditional establishments as we did in the Middle Ages for the path we were to take.  The concept of an ordered universe centered on church and king where everyone had their place and role to play took a further blow as the scientific method gained ground.  

Then the Enlightenment with its emphasis on reason and the individual and the French and American revolutions shook the Western political world.  Interestingly, "liberty" is the only word common to the expressions most associated with the two revolutions ("life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" and "Liberté, Egalité, Fraternité").  Free will and freedom had taken center stage.  

In the nineteenth century, influential thinkers began to question how dominant a role free will actually played - among them Sigmund Freud and Karl Marx.  Marxism claims that history is governed by laws and human behavior is shaped by material conditions.  Freudian psychoanlaysis assumes the causality of human emotions and actions — intentional or unintentional —lies in emotional experiences or events that happened in the past.


Erich Fromm: creating a sane society and the art of loving

POSTED DECEMBER 6, 2022

Erich Fromm is widely regarded as one of the most important psychoanalysts of the 20th century. He had a major influence on humanistic psychology, which emphasizes looking at the whole individual and stresses concepts such as free will, self-efficacy, and self-actualization.  

In an earlier post, we examined Fromm's observation that escaping from an essential part of our human nature (namely, our freedom) divorces us from our true nature and our true selves.  This, in turn, leads to alienation and an alienated society.  He presents his answer to man's existential dilemma in two of his greatest works, The Sane Society and The Art of Loving.

The Sane Society

In The Sane Society (1955), Fromm argues that modern man has become alienated and estranged from himself within consumer-oriented industrial society. He argues that Western societies, particularly the United States, had become wealthier than ever before, but this had not resulted in increased happiness: “In spite of increasing production and comfort, man loses more and more the sense of self, feels that his life is meaningless, even though such a feeling is largely unconscious."  Our particular escape from freedom was into an acquisitive consumerism, which made behaviors like greed and a desire for power and control seem normal.  Fromm believed our collective worship of more goods, produced at bigger volume, at faster rates to be a form of regimented mass insanity.   

Attempts at building a healthy* society have often failed because they emphasized just a single aspect of what is needed to the exclusion of the others.  Fromm gives several examples of great reform movements that failed to achieve the ideal society: 

Christianity has preached spiritual renewal , neglecting the changes in the social order without which spiritual renewal remains ineffective for the majority of people. The Age of Enlightenment has postulated as the highest norms independent judgment and reason [and preached political equality] without seeing that political equality could not lead [to a brotherhood of man unless] accompanied by a fundamental change in social-economic organization. Socialism, and especially Marxism, has stressed the necessity for social and economic changes, and neglected the inner change in human beings, without which economic change can never lead to the "good society."

Fromm concludes that, since the various aspects are interrelated, sanity and mental health and a "sane society" can be attained only by "simultaneous changes in the sphere of industrial and political organization, of spiritual and philosophical orientation, of character structure, and of cultural activities."

For Fromm, another necessary condition for building a sane society is to take into account the fundamental nature of mankind.  Specifically, man's self-awareness had torn him away from the primary union with nature, where instinct, not free will, ruled. Thus the "problem of human existence": 

"Having at the same time imagination and reason, he is aware of his aloneness and separateness; of his powerlessness and ignorance; of the accidentalness of his birth and of his death.  He could not face this state of being for a second if he could not find new ties with his fellow man which replaces the old ones, regulated by instincts...The necessity to unite with other living beings, to be related to them, is an imperative need on the fulfillment of which man's sanity depends.  This need is behind all phenomena which constitute the whole gamut of intimate human relations, of all passions which are called love in the broadest sense of the word."

In a foreshadowing of his The Art of Loving, Fromm talks about the human condition and writes:

There is only one passion which satisfies man's need to unite himself with the world, and to acquire at the same time a sense of integrity and individuality, and this is love.  Love is union with somebody, or something outside oneself, under the condition of retaining the separateness and integrity of one's own self.  It is an experience of sharing, of communion, which permits the full unfolding of one's own inner activity.

On the level of society, Fromm’s answer was somewhat utopian: a sane society would come about when mass automated consumerist society devolved into small communities guided by what he called “humanistic communitarian socialism.”  Fromm's sane society thus would be oriented towards human beings - not to a powerful State or the Market; recognize our proper place in the cosmos - i.e., as part of the natural world not as its lord and master; organized in small, relatively self-sufficient, self-governing communities; and characterized not merely by the redistribution of wealth but by taking responsibility for the welfare of everyone else in your small community. 

Utopian as it sounds in 21st century America, we can still exercise our human freedom to put elements into practice in our daily lives by saying "no" to our absorption into a consumerist, market-driven culture and "no" to dehumanizing aspects of our work lives; by forming our own small communities of like-minded people; by taking responsibility for the welfare of everyone else in that small community as well as those outside it, and by acknowledging our proper place in the natural world - united with it and as its caretakers.

The Art of Loving

A year after The Sane Society, Erich Fromm provided his answer to what we must do on a personal level to move towards a sane society in his most famous work, The Art of Loving.  

What Fromm calls "automaton conformity" is a kind of "escape from freedom" particularly suited to our modern, Western societies.  Conformity is also a way of covering over the loneliness experienced by many.  In the Western world, people often use conformity to feel a sense of belonging. People have an urge to fit in with their peers and are afraid of being alone. They try to conform by dressing like other people, going along with popular ideas, and following cultural customs. The majority of the population doesn’t realize that they’re doing this because they don’t know why they do it in the first place; these behaviors seem natural to them.

The best way for modern man to overcome loneliness and anxiety is through love. People seek connections with others to make the uncertainty of the future more bearable. Love can be found in platonic, familial, or romantic relationships, and Fromm explores all these forms of love and more, including the concept of self-love.  According to Fromm, loving oneself is quite different from arrogance, conceit or egocentrism. Loving oneself means caring about oneself, taking responsibility for oneself, respecting oneself, and knowing oneself (e.g. being realistic and honest about one's strengths and weaknesses). In order to be able to truly love another person, one needs first to love oneself in this way.

Erich Fromm believed that the main, perhaps the only, way to solve the problem of the human existential dilemma was the love exhibited in interpersonal relationships.  He considered the union and the merging of a soul with a second soul the most intense aspiration of man, the most basic desire, and the power that binds the human race as a whole and in its various groups. As he states, "Without love humanity could not exist even one day."  The hallmarks of what Fromm true love are: caring, responsibility, respect, and knowing the object of love.  The engagement with the other in true love has no sadistic possessiveness or masochistic fusion, but a spontaneous approval of the other.  From this true love, the inner distress of the feeling of alienation and loneliness can be resolved.

As important as it is to society's and to an individual's well-being, this true love is not a natural occurrence; instead, it’s something that must be learned and practiced.  This is the key concept that Fromm presents in The Art of Loving.   

Fromm states that there "is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hope and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly as love." He contends that this is primarily due to two things: the attitude of many who see the "problem of love primarily as that of being loved, rather than that of loving", and the neglect of love as an art form.  To master love requires more than learning the theory and implementing the practice.  Indeed, "the mastery of the art must be a matter of ultimate concern; there must be nothing else in the world more important than the art".  Though most people crave love, their desire for success, prestige, money, and power in modern capitalist society relegates love to being of lesser importance and that this is why most people fail to truly love others.

In The Art of Loving, Fromm describes the characteristics necessary to improve the practical capacity of love.  A loving person needs discipline, concentration and sensitivity to himself and his body.**  He also needs to rise above narcissism, the state in which a person perceives the outside world as existing only as a tool for satisfying his needs and desires. This requires the ability to think objectively, to perceive things in the world as they really are, and humility, a person's recognition that he is not omnipotent and omniscient. Finally, this process requires faith, not in the sense of a religious belief, but a state of mind in which the person trusts the truths of the things he perceives. 

Erich Fromm's life's work explored the interaction between psychology and society.  He presented the view that an understanding of basic human needs was essential to the understanding of society and mankind itself, and he argued that social systems make it difficult or impossible to satisfy the different needs at one time, thus creating both individual psychological and wider societal conflicts.  On the individual level, he believed that the main, perhaps the only, way to solve the problem of the human existential dilemma was the love exhibited in interpersonal relationships.  

It's been more than 60 years since this titan of 20th century psychology put forward his thoughts on creating a healthy society and addressing the alienation and  loneliness in the industrialized world.  They are just as relevant today as then.

Notes

*The Latin root of the word sanity is sanitas (health) derived from sanus (healthy).

**One of the practices Fromm offers to improve these abilities is meditation. Some posts on the subject: Mindfulness Exercises, Mindfulness Made Simple, Walking to clear the mind and spirit, Stilling the Mind

Sources: The Sane Society (Erich Fromm, 1955), The Art of Loving (Erich Fromm, 1956), BritannicaCultural Studies Now, Counterpunch, Wikipedia, Allen Cheng, Very Well Mind

Maria Popova: 16 Life-Learnings

POSTED OCTOBER 25, 2022

Maria Popova is one of my favorite essayists.  For about a decade, I've been following her work in Brain Pickings which she recently (and most fortunately) renamed The Marginalian.  The 38-year-old Bulgarian-born writer has been blogging for 16 years, and she never disappoints.  

One of my early posts on What in the World? was Maria Popova: Ten Learnings, a listing of the core beliefs that inform her blog.  Sunday was the 16th anniversary of Brain Pickings/The Marginalian, and Maria Popova has added to her list of life-learnings, "reflections on keeping the soul* intact and alive and worthy of itself."  

In the article linked below, she offers a summarizing paragraph for each** as well as links to her favorite posts.  If you haven't yet discovered Maria Popova, it is a good introduction to her work.  

Here then are Maria's 16 Life-Learnings.  Her summary paragraphs are all superb but, just so I had something to do for this post, I've added a comment, quote, or link to a What in the World? post to each of her learnings.

1. Allow yourself the uncomfortable luxury of changing your mind. 

"When the facts change, I change my mind. What do you do, sir?" - John Maynard Keynes

“If someone is able to show me that what I think or do is not right, I will happily change,  for I seek the truth, by which no one was ever truly harmed. It is the person who continues in his self-deception and ignorance who is harmed.” - Marcus Aurelius

2. Do nothing for prestige or status or money or approval alone. 

Ikigai - "why you get up in the morning"

3. Be generous. 

Mattering: the healing power of making someone feel strong

“That's what I consider true generosity: You give your all, and yet you always feel as if it costs you nothing.” ― Simone de Beauvoir

"Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity." - Simone Weil

4. Build pockets of stillness into your life. Most important, sleep

Walking to clear the mind and spirit

What to think about before you sleep

5. When people try to tell you who you are, don’t believe them. 

"You are the only custodian of your own integrity, and the assumptions made by those that misunderstand who you are and what you stand for reveal a great deal about them and absolutely nothing about you." - Maria Popova

6. Presence is far more intricate and rewarding an art than productivity. 

Our Awesome World: Recapturing a "Childlike Sense of Wonder"

7. Expect anything worthwhile to take a long time. 

“Good things take time, as they should. We shouldn’t expect good things to happen overnight. Actually, getting something too easily or too soon can cheapen the outcome.” — John Wooden 

8. Seek out what magnifies your spirit. 

Authors, artists, composers, ideas, books, paintings, musical pieces, untouched nature, cultivated gardens, the night sky, sunset, sunrise - when you find something that takes you out of your self, that can raise your spirits..."Find them, hold on to them, and visit them often."

Touching the Sublime - Beethoven's "Benedictus"

9. Don’t be afraid to be an idealist.

You may say I'm a dreamer

But I'm not the only one

I hope someday you'll join us

And the world will be as one 

-  John Lennon, "Imagine"

“It is interesting that we call something good a “dream,” but being called a “dreamer” is somewhat of a putdown.  Without dreamers, no dream would ever be given reality, and we would live in a very small and shallow world.  If you are a secret dreamer, it’s your time to announce yourself.” - Vera Nazarian

10. Don’t just resist cynicism — fight it actively.

"Cynicism masquerades as wisdom, but it is the farthest thing from it. Because cynics don’t learn anything. Because cynicism is a self-imposed blindness, a rejection of the world because we are afraid it will hurt us or disappoint us. Cynics always say no. But saying “yes” begins things. Saying “yes” is how things grow. Saying “yes” leads to knowledge. “Yes” is for young people. So for as long as you have the strength to, say “yes'.” - Stephen Colbert

11. Question your maps and models of the universe, both inner and outer, and continually test them against the raw input of reality.

Why critical thinking is important and three ways to improve it

12. There are infinitely many kinds of beautiful lives.

“Never forget that you are one of a kind. Never forget that if there weren't any need for you in all your uniqueness to be on this earth, you wouldn't be here in the first place."  - R. Buckminster Fuller

13. In any bond of depth and significance, forgive, forgive, forgive. And then forgive again.

Soul Values: Peace of Mind and Spirit

14. Choose joy. 

Mary Oliver "chose to live life and be dazzled by it"

"We cannot cure the world of sorrows, but we can choose to live in joy.” —Joseph Campbell

15. Outgrow yourself.

Soul Values: Contemplation

16. Unself. 

"I celebrate myself, and sing myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you." - Walt Whitman

"The self, the place where we live, is a place of illusion. Goodness is connected with the attempt to see the unself, to see and to respond to the real world in the light of a virtuous consciousness...“Good is a transcendent reality” means that virtue is the attempt to pierce the veil of selfish consciousness and join the world as it really is." - Iris Murdoch 


*In another post, she describes "soul" simply as "as shorthand for the seismic core of personhood from which our beliefs, our values, and our actions radiate." 

**She follows this format for 14 of the 16 learnings. For the last two, she links to a post.   

Teilhard de Chardin and the evolution of the universe

POSTED OCTOBER 6, 2022

“The most telling and profound way of describing the evolution of the universe would undoubtedly be to trace the evolution of love.”

― Pierre Teilhard de Chardin


Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (1881 – 1955) was a French priest, scientist, paleontologist, theologian, philosopher and teacher.  The author of several influential theological and philosophical books and a committed evolutionist, Teilhard often was in conflict with the institutional church of the early 20th century.   In 1962, the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith condemned several of Teilhard's works based on their alleged ambiguities and doctrinal errors.   Shortly thereafter, prominent clerics mounted a strong theological defense of Teilhard's works. Over the ensuing decades, theologians and prelates (including leading cardinals, Pope Benedict XVI and Pope Francis) all wrote approvingly of Teilhard's ideas.

Teilhard was among the first to explore the future of human evolution. He advocates both biotechnologies and intelligence technologies. He discusses the emergence of a global computation - communication system (and is said by some to have been the first to have envisioned the Internet). He advocates the development of a global society. He is almost surely the first to discuss the acceleration of technological progress to a Singularity in which human intelligence will become super-intelligence. He discusses the spread of human intelligence into the universe and its amplification into a cosmic-intelligence. 

There is a striking similarity between Teilhard's evolutionary stages and those of the American futurist Ray Kurzweil's theory of the Singularity.  In 1947, Teilhard developed, with Soviet biogeochemist Vladimir Vernadsky, the idea of the Noosphere, a sphere of thought enveloping the Earth.  The word comes from the Greek noos (mind) and sphaira (sphere).  The Noosphere is the third stage of Earth’s development, after the geosphere (think rocks, water, and air) and the biosphere (all living things).  The Noosphere can be seen as the rise of a planetary superorganism integrating all geological, biological, human, and technological activities into a new level of planetary functioning.  

Geosphere, biosphere and noosphere stand for matter, life and mind on a planetary scale.  (Human Energy)

Where Kurzweil saw information as the ordering principle for evolution, Teilhard saw consciousness, the mind, interpersonal relationships, and love as the drivers.  Where Kurzweil saw a Singularity achieved by thinking machines, Teilhard saw a humankind evolving beyond its current limitations.  Where Kurzweil saw the universe as having an "intelligent destiny", Teilhard saw everything in the universe spiraling toward a final point of unification, which he termed "the Omega Point".

The path to the Omega Point, like the path to the Singularity, is evolutionary in nature. In his masterwork, The Phenomenon of Man, a personal attempt to create a new Christianity in which science and theology coexist, Teilhard lays out his theory.  Written during the 1920's and 1930's, its publication was prohibited during his lifetime by the Jesuit order to which he belonged.  Finally published in 1955, The Phenomenon of Man has emerged as a significant influence on writers in the human potential and personal development fields because of its ideas about mental and spiritual evolution.

For Teilhard, the ever increasing complexity and order that mark evolution go beyond the physical. From the living cell to the sentient animal, the process of evolution leads to greater consciousness. In time, the emergence of Homo sapiens begins a new age, as the power acquired by consciousness to turn in upon itself raises mankind to a new sphere. Borrowing the English evolutionary biologist Julian Huxley's expression, Teilhard describes humankind as “evolution becoming conscious of itself.”

In Teilhard's conception of the evolution of our species, a collective identity begins to develop as trade and the transmission of ideas increases. Knowledge accumulates and is transmitted in increasing levels of depth and complexity. This leads to a further augmentation of consciousness and the emergence of a thinking layer that envelops the Earth, the "noosphere", the collective consciousness of humanity, the networks of thought and emotion in which all are immersed.

The development of science and technology causes an expansion of the human sphere of influence, allowing a person to be simultaneously present in every corner of the world. Teilhard argues that humanity has thus become cosmopolitan, stretching a single organized membrane over the Earth.

In Teilhard's view, evolution will culminate in the Omega Point, a sort of supreme consciousness. Layers of consciousness will converge in the Omega, fusing and consuming them in itself. The concentration of a conscious universe will reassemble in itself all consciousnesses as well as all that we are conscious of.  In his introduction to The Phenomenon of Man, Julian Huxley wrote that Teilhard implies that we should consider inter-thinking humanity as a new type of organism, whose destiny it is to realize new possibilities for evolving life on this planet.

Although he had his disputes with the hierarchy of the Catholic Church, Teilhard never left the priesthood or the Church.  Teilhard's Omega Point Theory is thus deeply Christian as well as transhumanist*.  For Teilhard, the Omega Point resembles the Christian Logos, namely Christ, who draws all things into himself, who in the words of the Nicene Creed, is “God from God”, “Light from Light”, “True God from true God”, and “through him all things were made”. 

Note: 

*Transhumanism is the belief or theory that the human race can evolve beyond its current physical and mental limitations, especially by means of science and technology.

Sources: Butler-Bowdon, PhilPapers, Wikipedia, Spiritual Life

"Learn as if you were to live forever"

POSTED SEPTEMBER 13, 2022

In his best-seller from the 1980's, All I Need to Know I learned in Kindergarten, Robert Fulghum gets it half-right.  Parents and teachers have much to impart in our early years.  They guide us through the first four stages of Erikson's eight stages of human development, and the importance of their teaching and influence cannot be overstressed.  Fulghum's point was maybe not that we learn everything we need by age 5 or 6, but that we learn so much that is important by then...and that the world would be a better place if we remembered and acted on these lessons from childhood: share everything, play fair, don't hit...The complete list is in the link below

"Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever." - Gandhi

As in most things, Gandhi gets it right.  Learning is a lifelong process.  Education doesn't stop when we graduate.  There is still so much that we don't know, so much that could help us live a more interesting, more fulfilling life.  Finding time to do so can be a challenge but ultimately rewarding.

At some point after leaving school, we need to embark on our own journey towards knowledge and, hopefully and eventually, wisdom.  This may involve developing new skills, delving more deeply into something we love, learning about something we would like to learn more about, or finding and practicing a creative activity.  If we have had the advantages of good parenting and good education, we may approach this journey with enthusiasm, finding that, as Plutarch said, "the mind is not a vessel to be filled, but a fire to be kindled."

With our busy lives, we often feel that there is no time for anything else, let alone for learning something new.  But we all have at least a couple of hours a day to do what we want and how we spend that free time can make a difference.  Over the past few decades, a practice known as the "5-hour rule" has gained a lot of attention.

One of the Founding Fathers of the United States, Benjamin Franklin, is an extraordinary example of a lifelong learner.   At the age of 10, he left formal schooling to become an apprentice to his father. As a teenager, he showed no particular talent or aptitude aside from his love of books.  When he died a little over half a century later, he was America's most respected statesman, its most famous inventor, a prolific author, and a successful entrepreneur.  

What happened between those two points in time?  Throughout his adult life, Franklin would rise early to read and write, devoting an hour each day specifically to learning something new.  He had invented the so-called "5-hour rule".  Today, Elon Musk, Oprah Winfrey, and Bill Gates all employ some version of the 5-hour rule. The idea is that devoting an hour of your day to learning exercises the mind, improves your skills, and develops a habit of discipline. 

So, how can you make the most out of the 5-hour rule?  Some tips from the experts:

1) Set aside time in your day for deliberate learning.

2) Plan your learning.  What is it that you want to learn?  Do you have a date by which you would like to accomplish this? Or is it more free form, taking you wherever knowledge leads.

3) Learn however you can.  In Franklin's time, there were books.  Today we have internet articles, YouTube videos, audio books, podcasts and still, of course,  books.  Reading has always been a great way to learn, but there are many other ways to learn now.

4) Experiment to find what time and methods work best for you.  Don't be afraid of "failure." In his book Adapt: Why Success Always Starts with Failure, Tim Harford says success means we “first, seek out new ideas and try new things; second, when trying something new, do it on a scale where failure is survivable; third, seek out feedback and learn from your mistakes as you go along.” 

5) Reflect on what you've learned.  There are many ways to reflect. For some, it might mean a diary, journal, or ten minutes spent simply thinking. For others, it could mean talking things over with someone else, or "unpacking*" the larger ideas so that they may be more easily understood.

Getting started with the 5-hour rule does not have to be a complicated process. It could be as simple as reading a book a week, like Bill Gates does.  In a 2016 New York Times interview, Gates said, "Reading is still the main way that I both learn new things and test my understanding."  Looking for something to read? This post has some suggestions in the sidebar: 

Smarter, kinder, calmer: why we should read every day (May 12, 2021)


Note: *Unpacking is the process of systematically deconstructing a “big idea” into the set of smaller ideas needed to understand the core concept.

Sources: Why Constant Learners All Embrace the 5-Hour Rule | Inc.com , The 5-hour rule: How to turn a wasted day into a successful one - Big Think , Benjamin Franklin’s 5 hour rule | The Secret's in the Sauce (dikraniskenderian.blog) 

Ignacio Martín-Baró and Liberation Psychology

POSTED AUGUST 22, 2022

Convinced that traditional psychological approaches were inadequate for marginalized and oppressed people, Ignacio Martín-Baró launched the liberation psychology movement in the 1980's.   In contrast to mainstream psychology, liberation psychology challenges adjustment to an unjust societal status quo and  attempts to help demoralized people regain the energy necessary to change it for the better.

"Trauma must be understood in terms of the relationship between the individual and the society." - Ignacio Martín-Baró

Social psychology was a reaction to the psychoanalytic and behaviorist approaches that had dominated psychology in the 19th and the early 20th century.  While psychoanalysts and behaviorists explained human behavior by focusing on the individual, social psychologists such as Kurt Levin sought to understand human behavior in the context of the various influences at play both within the minds of the individuals and within their environment.  

Social psychologists research areas such as group behavior, social perception, leadership, nonverbal behavior, conformity, aggression, and prejudice.  "What shapes our attitudes?", "Why are some people such great leaders?", "How does prejudice develop, and how can we overcome it?"  are just a few of the questions of interest in social psychology. 

As their field developed through the mid-twentieth century, social psychologists realized that not only could their work aid individuals but also bring about positive change in societies.  One of those taking the findings of social psychology to the next level was the Spanish Salvadoran scholar, psychologist, philosopher and Jesuit priest, Ignacio Martín-Baró.  

Born in Spain in 1942, he joined the Jesuit order when he was 17.  After a decade of study in Spain and Latin America, he was ordained a priest in 1970.  Among the formative influences during his education and early years as a priest were his correspondence with the psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl* and his work as a clergyman in the dense jungles of El Choco with Afro-Colombian communities**.  

After ordination, he was sent to Central America where he continued to study philosophy, theology, and psychology, and eventually settled down in El Salvador.  At about the same time that Ignacio Martín-Baró was studying in Central America, liberation theology was gaining prominence across Catholic Latin America.  

The birth of the liberation theology movement is usually dated to the second Latin American Bishops’ Conference, which was held in Medellín, Colombia, in 1968. At this conference the attending bishops issued a document affirming the rights of the poor and asserting that industrialized nations enriched themselves at the expense of developing countries.  Because of their insistence that ministry should include involvement in the political struggle of the poor against wealthy elites, liberation theologians were often criticized by those elites as well as by political and religious conservatives. Perhaps no quote better sums up this reaction to liberation theology than that of Dom Hélder Câmara, a Brazilian Archbishop during the time of the dictatorship:

“When I feed the poor, they call me a saint, but when I ask why the poor are hungry, they call me a communist."

Father Martín-Baró was well aware of the liberation theology movement.  He was also a psychologist who was becoming convinced of the inadequacy of traditional psychology for oppressed and marginalized people.  After witnessing the social injustice and violence endemic to El Salvador in the 1980's, Ignacio Martín-Baró decided that psychologists needed to be more aware of of how living within a difficult context affects mental health, and that they should help the society that they are studying to transcend its history of oppression.  In the mid-1980's, he launched the branch of liberation psychology. 

Liberation psychologists believed that many traditional psychology studies, based as they were on artificial settings in high income countries, were inadequate and failed to offer practical solutions to social problems afflicting the disadvantaged and oppressed.  Traditional psychology tended to ignore qualities such as hope, courage and commitment, and seemed focused on maximizing pleasure rather than considering how to awaken and drive the desire for justice and freedom. 

In contrast to mainstream psychology, liberation psychology challenges adjustment to an unjust societal status quo and energizes oppressed people to resist injustices. It attempts to help subjugated and demoralized people regain the energy necessary to recover the power that they have handed over to illegitimate authorities.

Practitioners of liberation psychology use a variety of methods to achieve these goals. These include participatory action research*** and arts-based methods, as well as many tools from mainstream psychology with the results assessed and where necessary re-purposed or re-worked on the basis of the critique from those oppressed and excluded “others”.

Writings for a Liberation Psychology is a collection that captures several decades of Ignacio Martín-Baró's thoughts.  It addresses psychology as an instrument of war and political manipulation,  the role of religion in psychological warfare, and the impact of trauma and violence on mental health.  He studied areas where severe inequalities had led to relentless poverty and social exclusion, as well as the psychological effects of civil war, oppression and dictatorship.  This collection of Martín-Baró's thoughts and studies was published posthumously in 1994.

Posthumously because on November 16, 1989, in El Salvador, Ignacio Martin-Baró, together with five Jesuit colleagues, their housekeeper and her teenage daughter, were forced into a courtyard on the campus of Universidad Centroamericana José Simeón Cañas, where they were then murdered by the Salvadoran government’s elite Atlacatl Battalion, a “counter-insurgency unit” created at the US Army’s School of the Americas in 1980.  Truth Out's article on the 25th anniversary of Ignacio Martin-Baró's assassination is linked below.****

Notes: 

*Viktor Frankl was a Holocaust survivor whose classic Man's Search for Meaning focuses on love, hope, responsibility, inner freedom, and the beauty to be found in both nature and art as means that help one endure and overcome harrowing experiences.  Frankl developed a therapeutic technique, logotherapy, based on his experiences in the concentration camp. Logotherapy is a therapeutic approach that helps people find personal meaning in life. It's a form of psychotherapy that is focused on the future and on our ability to endure hardship and suffering through a search for purpose.

**This experience left a deep mark on Ignacio Martín-Baró as he tried to understand the social roots of fatalism among disenfranchised people from the perspectives of Frankl's logotherapy and existentialism, a philosophical approach which emphasizes the existence of the individual person as a free and responsible agent determining their own development through acts of the will.

***Participatory Action Research (PAR) involves researchers and participants working together to understand a problematic situation and change it for the better. There are many definitions of the approach, which share some common elements. PAR focuses on social change that promotes democracy and challenges inequality; is context-specific, often targeted on the needs of a particular group; is an iterative cycle of research, action and reflection; and often seeks to ‘liberate’ participants to have a greater awareness of their situation in order to take action. PAR uses a range of different methods, both qualitative and quantitative.

****It took decades but partial justice was achieved in September 2020, when Spain's highest criminal court convicted a former Salvadoran army colonel in the murders.  Accused of taking part in “the decision, design and execution” of the murders, Inocente Orlando Montano was sentenced to 133 years in prison.  Grassroots International's reflections on this historic decision can be found here.

Sources: Very Well Mind - 1, The Psychology Book (DK Publishing, 2017), Participatory Methods, Britannica, Truth Out, The Guardian, Liberation Psychology Network, Very Well Mind - 2, Penguin Random House, Research Gate, Oxford Languages

Eric Erikson and the eight stages of human development

POSTED AUGUST 3, 2022

Eric Erikson (1902-1994) was a psychoanalyst and developmental psychologist who developed one of the most popular and influential theories of human development.  Erikson believed that every organism is born with a certain purpose and its successful development results in the fulfillment of this purpose.  He proposed that the human personality unfolds and evolves through eight predetermined stages with a constant interaction between hereditary and environmental influences.

Each stage in Erikson's theory builds on the preceding stages and paves the way for following periods of development. In each stage, Erikson believed people experience a conflict that serves as a turning point in development.  These conflicts are centered on either developing a psychological quality or failing to develop that quality. During these times, the potential for personal growth is high but so is the potential for failure.

The chart below, taken from an article on the Very Well Mind website [link below], summarizes Erikson's eight stages, which go from infancy to old age.  Every  individual needs the support and example of others to successfully negotiate each stage.  Parents, teachers, peers, friends, companions, spouses, work colleagues, and spiritual, religious and philosophical  influencers all play a role in our successful human development.  

Hopefully, we can all look back at our lives and identify with gratitude those who have helped us become the persons we are today.  Hopefully, we can all understand our importance in others' lives and "pay it forward" to help them on their journey.


If you found this post informative, you may also like "The Soul Values Posts"  a discussion of American psychotherapist Thomas Moore's "soul values" - elements in our lives that lead to personal growth and a more fulfilling and meaningful existence.  


Sources: The Psychology Book (DK Publishing, 2017), Very Well Mind

Changes

POSTED JULY 7, 2022

The ancient philosophers tell us that change is the fundamental essence of the universe* and that life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes**.   Science too sends us the same message: Charles Darwin's discovery of evolution and the process of natural selection made change a global and eon-spanning phenomenon.  

Even though change is fundamental to the nature of the universe, modern day humankind is finding change to be an ever-increasing source of stress.  As the industrial age was giving way to the information age***, the American futurist Alvin Toffler warned us that too much change in too little time could lead to "future shock" - the title of his 1970 international best-seller. As society experienced an increasing number of changes with an increasing rapidity, people lost the familiarity that old institutions (religion, family, national identity, profession) once provided.

On a personal level, our reaction to any change,  good or bad, can lead to stress.   The physiologist Walter Cannon, who coined the term "fight or flight response", found that we adapt to change through a process he called homeostasis. Homeostasis describes the body's natural tendency to maintain balance and stability even in the midst of change. This is essential in biological systems. Homeostasis is required for health.  If excessive change overwhelms our homeostatic mechanisms, then our bodies can not maintain the required stability for health.

Hans Selye, an endocrinologist conducted important research in the response of an organism to stressors, recommends that we "do not put up resistance in vain."  By peacefully accepting unavoidable changes we can reduce their negative impact. This is an important strategy for minimizing the stress we experience in the face of change.  Selye thus echoes the advice of Lao Tzu, the ancient Chinese philosopher who advised us not to resist the natural and spontaneous changes that are the way of the world because "resistance would create sorrow."  In addition to maintaining a peaceful interior state, we can also adapt better to change by adopting healthy lifestyle habits and keeping to a schedule (meals, sleep, exercise).  These actions will increase our inner stability and reduce the chronic stress in our lives. 

These ideas are expressed well in "The Serenity Prayer" used in many self-help processes 

Of course, there are times when we want to actively effect a change.  In fact, change plays a key role in both personal growth and societal improvement.  Success in either of these endeavors requires making  changes in the best way possible.  Kurt Lewin, one of the founding fathers of Social Psychology, developed a model of change that offers a guide for successful transformation, both for individuals and organizations.

Lewin's model proposes that in order to effect successful change,  a person or an organization leader must take into account the various influences at play both within the minds of the individuals and within their environment.  In addition to this holistic approach, Lewin posited that understanding deepens throughout the change process, and "you cannot understand a system until you try to change it."

Driving and restraining forces are the building blocks in Lewin’s Change Theory. Lewin believed that all behavior was a dynamic balance of forces that moved in one of two directions. Driving forces drove people toward change. Resisting forces prevented them from making the change.  In order to effect change, both forces must be addressed and the driving forcres must overcome the resisting forces.  

In Lewin's model, the process of achieving personal or organizational transformation goes through three stages, which Lewin labeled "Unfreezing", "Change", and "Refreeze." 

In the "Unfreezing" Stage, the need to change is recognized and old beliefs and practices are dismantled. It is at this stage that resisting forces are most likely to prevent change.  "Old habits die hard" is an adage that applies here.  If the need for change is not recognized and accepted, the old habits will not die and prevent any meaningful change.

In the "Change" Stage, people are confronted with the daunting and uneasy challenge of implementing a new system (in individuals, a new belief system), by opening our minds to new information, giving up familiar routines and practices, and mastering new skills.  Remember that the process is iterative, as our understanding deepens through the change process.

In the "Freezing" Stage, the new beliefs or systems become a long term part of an individual's mindset or a company's culture. At the individual level, the freezing stage is a time when new beliefs and practices are tested, which either reinforces the change or starts a new change cycle.

Lewin's change model has been successfully applied in many industries and organizations.  It can also help us to effect change in our personal lives whenever we realize the need for change..    


Notes

*The pre-Socratic philosopher Heraclitus of Ephesus (c. 535-475 BCE) believed there was nothing permanent except change.  He is the source of the famous quote that “No man ever steps into the same river twice, for it is not the same river – and it is not the same man.”

**Lao-Tzu (b. 571 BCE), the ancient Chinese philosopher and the founder of Taoism, advised us not to resist these natural and spontaneous changes because resistance would create sorrow.  "If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try to hold on to. If you are not afraid of dying, there is nothing you cannot achieve."

***Toffler referred to what we now refer to as the information age as the "post-industrial" stage of human society.

Sources: gentle-stress-relief.com, The Psychology Book (DK Publishing, 2017), Wikipedia

Trauma and its healing

POSTED JUNE 7, 2022

We used to call it shell-shock.  The term covered a range of behaviors exhibited by some veterans from World War II and the Korean War.  On the block where I grew up in Queens New York, a neighbor who had a relatively mild case would occasionally come out and chase away July 4 revelers if the fireworks we were setting off got too loud or too unpredictable.  Another man in the neighborhood would push a shopping cart with various belongings through the streets.  I don't think he was homeless, and he was about the right age for a veteran of WWII.

Military leaders have long been aware of the effects that witnessing death brings.  Mankind's earliest surviving epic, the tale of Gilgamesh (2100 BCE), gives explicit descriptions of both love and posttraumatic symptoms, suggesting that the latter are also part of human fundamental experience.  The Book of Deuteronomy (7th century BCE) advises military leaders that soldiers must be removed from the frontline if showing signs of nervous breakdown ("fearful and faint-hearted"). 

The first report of chronic mental symptoms caused by experience on the battlefield is in the account of the battle of Marathon by Herodotus, written in 440 BCE.  Although these effects were long-known, it wasn't until 1980 that post-traumatic stress disorder became a clinical diagnosis.  Since then, several therapies (particularly cognitive behavioral therapies) and drugs (FDA-approved paroxetine and sertraline) have been found effective in treating PTSD.*

As researchers studied PTSD, it became apparent that PTSD can happen after any kind of deeply threatening or frightening event.  Mass shootings are a first-line traumatic event that can potentially trigger post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in people who are directly exposed, as life and limb are under direct and violent threat.  Children, in particular, are  vulnerable; multiple studies have shown that childhood trauma has more lifelong and pervasive effects on young developing psyches, both in terms of their psychological worldview and their physiological systems that handle stress and anxiety.

The recent mass shootings in Buffalo and Uvalde, which targeted African-Americans and children respectively, affected those communities deeply.  Recovery from this trauma will be a long and arduous process.  

Long before an 18-year-old white supremacist inflicted terror in Buffalo, Black neighborhoods there, like many others around the nation, had been dealing with trauma and neglect.  Community leaders there note that healing will require not only an immediate flood of charity, but also longer lasting systemic solutions, economic investments and mental health counseling.

The Uvalde elementary school shooting  affected numerous school children, not only in Uvalde but across the country. On this secondary level, the threat of mass shootings throughout schools is also damaging to mental health.  Safety and security are critical to a child’s healthy psychological development.  Constant anxiety and sense of danger will disrupt that sense of security, and put children at risk of developing anxiety and mood disorders.

In an article first published following the school shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, Psycom offers suggestions from experts for parents, relatives, coaches, teachers, and other community members on understanding and responding to the fears and feelings children may be struggling with.  From watching for changes in behavior to how to process tragic events to "why it takes a village", the Psycom post is the best I've found on the subject. [link below]

For adults who have experienced a traumatic event, Very Well Mind reminds us of the many tools and the many layers of support we have at our disposal, including connecting with others, meditation, and exercise.

*Most PTSD therapies fall under the umbrella of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). The idea is to change the thought patterns that are disturbing your life. This might happen through talking about your trauma or concentrating on where your fears come from.  Several types of drugs affect the chemistry in your brain related to fear and anxiety. Doctors will usually start with medications that affect the neurotransmitters serotonin or norepinephrine.  As of now, the FDA has approved only two drugs, paroxetine and sertraline, for specifically treating PTSD.

Sources: NIH/National Library of Medicine, Web MD, NPR, Psycom, Very Well Mind

Albert Camus: solidarity, resistance, and hope

POSTED JUNE 8, 2022

As America continues to reel from its recent mass shootings and as Russia's invasion of Ukraine goes into its fourth month, one may be tempted to wonder "What's the point? I can do nothing."  In a world with so much senseless violence and cruelty, so many craven politicians and government leaders, it is easy to despair.  

The twentieth century French philosopher and writer Albert Camus often said that he was pessimistic about the human condition and hopeful about humankind.  Even witnessing the horrors of World War II as a member of the French resistance*, he refused to despair.  

"Where there is no hope, it is incumbent on us to invent it.”

Camus came to America only once - to give a speech at Columbia University in 1946.  After speaking about the pathologies that had produced Nazism, he warned against nihilism**, complacency, and the creation of a world in which human warmth has disappeared. For Camus, the antidotes to these conditions are solidarity and resistance. 

In The Plague, he says we can see the roots of human solidarity in moments of crisis, when people have to resist what’s taking place, whether it’s a biological plague or a military occupation. 

"What we learn in time of pestilence: that there are more things to admire in men than to despise."  

In The Rebel, Camus argues that true rebellion is an act motivated by concern with the common good rather than by self-interest. In that sense, every act of rebellion transcends the individual, withdraws him from his supposed solitude and provides him with a reason to act.  Resistance builds solidarity.  When we resist what is taking place, we can look around and see others doing the same thing - saying "no" to the destruction of human life, saying  "yes" to the community that emerges out of that refusal. 

There’s something deeply fulfilling about doing things in the world with other people, and there’s at least some comfort in solidarity during a crisis.  Camus believed that the empathy that fuels the desire to help in a crisis is a constant possibility, but it is a choice we each have to make over and over.  In the face of absurdity, injustice, and cruelty, Camus says we need to reawaken our noblest nature to "mend what has been torn apart" and restore justice and mercy to those that have been denied it. 

"Our task...is to find the few principles that will calm the infinite anguish of free souls. We must mend what has been torn apart, make justice imaginable again in a world so obviously unjust, give happiness a meaning once more.” 

Camus believed that acting with other people, caring about other people, makes us happy and is the ultimate antidote to despair.  He  reminds us of the necessity of hope, going so far as to say "Where there is no hope, it is incumbent on us to invent it.”  For hope is one of the necessary ingredients for courage - doing what needs to be done in spite of the odds.

"In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer."


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Albert Camus was awarded the Nobel Prize for Literature in 1957 "for his important literary production, which with clear-sighted earnestness illuminates the problems of the human conscience in our times."  His ideas have influenced many over the decades and reverberate just as strongly today in 21st century America as they did in 20th century Europe.  He was, as the Nobel citation hints, a clear-eyed moralist who understood the distinction between "right" and "wrong".  

"In such a world of conflict, a world of victims and executioners, it is the job of thinking people not to be on the side of the executioners." 


A brief introduction to some of his works is in the link below.

Notes:

*Camus, who was rejected from military service because of his health, went underground in 1942 and  became the editor of the Resistance newspaper "Combat." The job was not without its dangers.  The punishment for writing anti-Nazi literature during the German occupation of France was deportation to a concentration camp.

**Nihilism is a philosophy that rejects generally accepted or fundamental aspects of human existence, such as objective truth, knowledge, morality, values or meaning. Different nihilist positions hold variously that human values are baseless, that life is meaningless, that knowledge is impossible, or that some set of entities do not exist or are meaningless or pointless.

Sources: Vox, The Marginalian,

Practicing the "Four Immeasureables" for a better life and a better world 

POSTED MAY 15, 2022

Richard Powers' Bewilderment: a Novel is the touching story of a widowed father's love for his troubled young son and of their mutual love of the natural world.  The story opens with a camping trip to mark Robin's ninth birthday.  After trekking all day through the woods of the southern Appalachians, Theo and Robin break for the night. They hear a whippoorwill looping its name over and over. As they try to count the number of times it does so, Robin begins to doze off.  Theo nudges Robin and reminds him they hadn't yet said Alyssa's prayer. “Hey, mister! We forgot...May all sentient beings...” Theo begins.  Robin continues, “be free from needless suffering.”

“May all sentient beings be free from needless suffering” is a prayer for compassion.  Along with equanimity, loving kindness, and sympathetic joy, compassion is one of Buddhism's “Four Immeasureables”, boundless qualities that literally "have no measure”.  In other words, they are qualities that you cannot practice too often.  With apologies to Hal David and Burt Bacharach and the numerous artists who recorded their song, they are what the world needs now, the things the world has too little of

By dissolving the boundaries that constrain us and that separate us from each other, these four qualities expand our capacity for experience.  By practicing them and applying them to everything and everyone we encounter, we can play our small part in creating a better world.  As Mahatma Gandhi wrote, we can "be the change we wish to see in the world."

Equanimity is "freedom from powerful reactions, positive or negative, to another person or an event—the ability to be even-minded toward everyone, no matter how they behave." Equanimity banishes uncontrolled anger and instills in us a sense of humility.

Equanimity toward others comes from recognizing that everyone seeks happiness. With equanimity as a base, practicing the other three boundless states deepens our connection with others.

Boundless love is "the wish for everyone everywhere to have happiness and its causes. It banishes hatred. Love sees everything without distortion."

Boundless compassion is the “wish that everyone everywhere be free of pain and its causes.”

Boundless joy is “delight in others’ happiness. It banishes jealousy and stabilizes our capacity for engagement.”

Although no single philosophy puts it all together as well as Buddhism, there are many parallels in Western philosophy and religion.

Equanimity was a bedrock principle of the Stoics. In his Meditations, the emperor-philosopher Marcus Aurelius wrote, "Even if you burst with indignation, they will carry on regardless.  Do not be upset...concentrate on the matter at hand and see it for what it is. Remind yourself of your duty to be a good man and what nature demands: then do it straight and unswerving...Always, though, in kindness, integrity and sincerity."

Loving-kindness is both part of the Platonic tradition (“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle”) and the greatest principle of Christian ethics. In addition to Jesus's description of the two most important commandments, the commandments to love “which contain the whole Law and the prophets”, we have Paul's ”Now these three abide: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest of these is love.”

Buddhism's emphasis on compassion is one of its most distinguishing feature. The comparative religion scholar Huston Smith found great inspiration in its bodhisattva vow: the image of the person who, poised on the brink of nirvana, turns back to help others enter it before he or she does. While there is no exactly comparable imagery in Western philosophy, we can catch glimpses of it in several Bible passages – e.g., "No one has greater love than this, to lay down one's life for one's friends; “I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these, you did it to me” and, of course, the parable of the Good Samaritan.

As for joy, Western philosophers, writers, and psychologists have extolled the need to have joy in our own lives. What is unique in Buddhist thought is that it celebrates “sympathetic joy” – one in which we delight in the happiness of others. It's an easy thing to do for those close to us, but less so for the rest of the world.

When Robin asks his father about Alyssa's prayer Where did that come from? I mean before Mom, Theo tells him that it came from Buddhism's Four Immeasureables.  Theo then gives a wonderful summary: “There are four good things worth practicing. Being kind toward everything alive. Staying level and steady. Feeling happy for any creature anywhere that is happy. And remembering that any suffering is also yours.”

Poets and Teachers on Oneness - Sep 21, 2018

Buddhism, Psychology, and Neuroscience: Compassion - Jan 24, 2019

Sources: Bewilderment: a novel by Richard Powers (W.W. Norton, 2021), Tricycle 

Carl Jung, the original ecotherapist

POSTED APRIL 25, 2022

Carl Gustav Jung (1875 - 1961) was a Swiss psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who founded analytical psychology.  His work has been influential in the fields of psychiatry, anthropology, archaeology, literature, philosophy, psychology, and religious studies.  Jung is best known for his theory of the collective unconscious and the "archetypes" that lie at the heart of it.  [sidebar]  

Less well known are his writings about our connection to nature.  The deepest part of our collective unconscious comes from the millennia of our prehistorical evolutionary development, spent in tune with the rhythms of the natural world.  In the analogy of a house that Jung used to explain the collective unconscious, this was the ground below the cellar - hidden and unreachable without great effort.

The loss of this primitive connection to Nature, Jung felt, was responsible for many of the ills of the modern world.  Born in a milieu not significantly different from that of his ancestors of hundreds of years ago, Carl Jung lived to witness the extensive technological advances of the twentieth century as well as the horrors of two World Wars and the dropping of the atomic bomb.  

Carl Jung was a farmer and a lover of the natural world.  He advocated spending time in nature as crucial for maintaining a healthy psyche.  In one letter, he  advised a friend that he must "go in quest for yourself...Why not go into the forest for a time?  Sometimes a tree can tell you more than can be read in books." 

Jung also wrote that it is people in middle age who most need to have an “experience of the numinous” to help them negotiate the second half of their lives.  For Jung, because it has a spiritual as well as a physical element, Nature can provide this experience of the numinous, this strong spiritual or sacred quality.  Indeed, the title of a collection of his nature writings, "The Earth Has a Soul", is taken from a 1958 letter in which Jung refers to "the old idea that every country or people has its own angel just as the Earth has a soul."

Carl Jung was decades ahead of his colleagues in understanding the importance of our connection with nature to our mental well-being.  "Ecotherapy” is only recently gaining traction as a means to help people tap into nature’s therapeutic powers. Psychologists are increasingly interested in walking therapy, in which they take their clients outside for fresh air and exercise during therapy.  Some are attempting to ground such programs in science.  Ryan Reese, PhD, a psychotherapist in Bend, Oregon, and his colleagues have developed a methodology called EcoWellness (defined as respect, appreciation and awe of nature resulting in feeling connected and experiencing wellness), which they believe measures nature-based wellness and makes it easier to incorporate nature in psychotherapy.  

For more on ecotherapy, vlogger Justin Wildheart offers a good introduction in the video below.

Analytical Psychology, Archetypes, and the Collective Unconscious

Analytical psychology is a term coined by Carl Jung to describe his new research into the science of the psyche. It was designed to distinguish it from Freud's psychoanalytic theories as their seven-year collaboration on psychoanalysis was drawing to an end between 1912 and 1913. In this theory of human personality, Jung  takes into account the individual unconscious and its relationship to the collective unconscious. In analytical psychology, archetypes play a key role in helping people understand themselves and integrate different aspects of their personality.

Jung was an early student of Sigmund Freud and, like Freud, he talked about the psyche, ego, consciousness, and “unconsciousness”.  Although Jung agreed with Freud's concept of a personal unconscious, he thought it to be incomplete and expanded the concept of the unconscious to include a second form which he termed the collective unconscious, a part of the unconscious mind derived from ancestral memory and experience and common to all humankind.  

Jung thus distinguished the collective unconscious from the personal unconscious, which is based on the individual's specific life experiences, especially the early life experiences.  At the heart of the collective unconscious are what Jung termed archetypes: "the universal, primitive, innate patterns and tendencies in the collective unconscious which mold behavior, thought and consciousness." 

The Jungian analytic process attempts to bring both the personal unconscious and the collective unconscious archetypes into consciousness, allowing the individual to see more clearly what forces are at play in his or her life

Sources: Losing Eden by Lucy Jones, What is analytical psychology? - IAAP, Study.com, Wikipedia, American Psychological Association, Carl Jung Depth Psychology


Our Awesome World: Recapturing a "Childlike Sense of Wonder"

POSTED APRIL 4, 2022

"That awe, wonder, and beauty promote healthier levels of cytokines suggests that the things we do to experience these emotions - a walk in nature, losing oneself in music, beholding art - have a direct influence on health and longevity." - Dacher Keltner, UC- Berkeley

Before the Romantic Era, awe was considered to be exclusively in the domain of the religious and the sacred.  The philosopher Edmund Burke, in his 1757 treatise on "Our Ideas of the Sublime and the Beautiful," was one of the first to propose that one could also experience awe in the presence of nature.  For Burke, our passions, feelings and emotions, not reason, determine how and what we see, hear and feel in the world, and it was in Nature that the sublime was most powerfully experienced.

Reacting to the Industrial Revolution and what they considered the Enlightenment's excessive emphasis on reason, the philosophers, writers, composers and artists of the Romantic Era elevated emotion as an equally valid, perhaps even superior, way, of experiencing and understanding the world.  Romantic artists viewed industrialization and cold reason as degrading to man’s transcendent, limitless capacity. Instead they celebrated the pastoral and the "sublime",  those feelings of awe, infinity, and, at times, terror, particularly as experienced in Nature.  A painting by Casper David Friedrich, "The Monk by the Sea" (1810) captures this Romantic sense of the sublime almost perfectly.

Music, too, can lead us to a profound appreciation of the sublime -that feeling of awe and grandeur that excites emotions and thoughts that take us outside ourselves.  Beethoven's "Benedictus" from his Missa Solemnis (1824) is one such passage.

Awe is the sublime without the "terror" element.   

The Greater Good Science Center at UC-Berkeley defines awe as "the feeling we get in the presence of something vast that challenges our understanding of the world, like looking up at millions of stars in the night sky or marveling at the birth of a child. When people feel awe, they may use other words to describe the experience, such as wonder, amazement, surprise, or transcendence."

A new area of research - the science of awe - explores the specifics of how natural phenomena make us feel.  The results of these studies have important implications for our psychological health.  In the 1990's, psychologist Dacher Keltner at UC-Berkeley took a scientific approach to the emotion of awe - the first to do so.  Some of the questions for which he sought answers: How frequently do people experience awe?* What elicits awe? Why did the emotion of awe evolve in humans?** 

While working in Keltner's lab, Jennifer Stellar, now a professor of psychology at the University of Toronto, found an intriguing connection between awe and certain proteins called cytokines.   An overactive cytokine response***  is associated with disease, depression, and ill health.  Stellar found that, of all the emotions studied, awe most successfully reduced levels of cytokines. 

In other studies, Keltner and his co-researchers found that experiencing awe may even affect people suffering from mental disorders and how we treat each other.  PTSD symptoms in military veterans were reduced by 30% after experiencing awe. In another study, participants gave more ethical, generous and kind responses after viewing a video of mountains, canyons, and other awe-inspiring scenes.

Recapturing the Childlike Sense of Wonder

While awe is at the top of the list for reducing cytokines, our everyday experiences of beauty and wonder are marvelously beneficial to mind and spirit.  The poet Mary Oliver wrote, “It must be a great disappointment to God if we are not dazzled at least ten times a day.” There is much beauty to see and wonder to be felt in the world that surrounds us in the here and now.  Be open to it.  

If you feel you've lost the proverbial "childlike sense of wonder" and want to regain it, here are a few suggestions on how to do it:

Play Your Way Sane

Project Bold Life

Thought Catalog

Well Being 

The Feminine Fancy

Notes: *On average, two an a half times per week with older persons and women experiencing it more often than others.

**One proposed theory is that awe of a charismatic leader would lead to the necessary social cohesiveness and hierarchical structures that would allow the group to survive in uncertain circumstances.

***One of the most damaging aspects of Covid-19 was the over-reaction of the immune system.  This excessive inflammatory reaction was characterized by the release of a large amount of pro-inflammatory cytokines in an event known as “cytokine storm.”

Sources: Invaluable, Greater Good, Losing Eden (Lucy Jones, Pantheon Books, 2020), Wordsworth.org

Back to Nature

POSTED MARCH 17, 2022

After yet another Covid winter, re-engaging with Nature this spring is both a pleasure and a necessity.  As the trees leaf, buds open, and grass greens, the Earth reminds us in the season of rebirth that life goes on.  This feeling of “coming home to nature” is in tune with our long evolutionary journey, most of which was spent outdoors. 

The human connection to the natural world runs deep.  The physical and mental health benefits from time spent in nature are celebrated by cultures around the world.  Whether it be the awe-inspiring grandeur and mystery of the Romantic Era poets and artists or the deep subconscious, almost spiritual, connection to nature of the Nordic friluftsliv or the Japanese celebration of komorebi, the dance between the light and the leaves as a person walks through the woods, Nature heals and restores our spirit.  

The physician and writer Oliver Sacks summed up the power of Nature to heal beautifully:   "As a writer, I find gardens essential to the creative process; as a physician, I take my patients to gardens whenever possible. All of us have had the experience of wandering through a lush garden or a timeless desert, walking by a river or an ocean, or climbing a mountain and finding ourselves simultaneously calmed and reinvigorated, engaged in mind, refreshed in body and spirit. The importance of these physiological states on individual and community health is fundamental and wide-ranging." 

In Losing Eden, author and journalist Lucy Jones reports on research findings such as post-operative patients' stronger recoveries in a hospital room with a window-view of nature; people's more generous behavior after encountering scenes from the natural world;  nature's role in reducing stress and alleviating certain symptoms of ADHD; and the inflammation-reducing and mental health benefits of spending two hours in a forest.  She also relates the role that her rediscovery of nature played in her own recovery from addiction and depression.  

Others have taken our connection to the natural world even further – notably the biologist Edward O. Wilson and the botanist and explorer John Muir.  Both saw an all-encompassing unity and an interconnectedness of living things.  

Beyond his prominence as the world's leading authority on ants, E.O. Wilson was the foremost proponent of sociobiology, the study of the genetic basis of the social behavior of all animals, including humans. His writings went beyond the science, at times bordering on philosophy and at times stirring controversy.  

In his 1975 work, Sociobiology: the New Synthesis, Wilson developed one of his most notable and controversial theories – namely that even a characteristic such as altruism may have evolved through natural selection. Wilson argued that the sacrifice involved in much altruistic behavior results in saving closely related individuals—i.e., individuals who share many of the sacrificed organism’s genes. Therefore, the preservation of the gene, rather than the preservation of the individual, was viewed as the focus of evolutionary strategy. 

In later years, Wilson was inclined to think that highly social organisms are integrated to such an extent that they are better treated as one overall unit—a superorganism—rather than as individuals in their own right.  He expanded on this concept in his 1986 memoir Biophilia, a plea for an ethics of conservation and for the preservation of animal species in all their diversity.  Wilson defined biophilia as our “innate tendency to focus on life and lifelike process" and noted that "to an extent still undervalued in philosophy and religion, our existence depends on this propensity, our spirit is woven from it, hopes rise on its currents.”  

Wilson's Biophilia is in the same spirit as John Muir's more plain-spoken observation: "When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the universe."  Muir, the co-founder of the Sierra Club, was an early advocate of the preservation of wilderness in the United States.  He “embraced all nature from mosquitoes to mountain ranges, recognizing that everything is connected.” [link above] His passion for wild places led to a life-long quest to protect them, and his writings were influential in the creation of the United States' national park system. 

One example of the interconnectedness of life advanced by Wilson and Muir is the pollination of our plants and flowers by bees, butterflies, and other species.  Since bees and other pollinators are directly responsible for more than 35% of the food we eat, a disruption of this pollination would significantly diminish the world's food supply.  Over 90 different varieties of fruits, vegetables and essential crops like alfalfa and hay for our meat and dairy industries depend on them for survival.  But this important part of the food chain is in danger of disruption: as of 2020, monarch butterflies have declined by 90% in the last 20 years*, and 25% of bumble bee species are thought to be in serious decline.

Diversity is a key feature of the complex web of life on our planet.  A world with a broad variety of plant and animal life helps in the survival of the whole.  Diseases are less prevalent when there is greater diversity, and the passing of diseases is lower when there are many different kinds of hosts.  

This biodiversity is now in danger, thanks to us humans.  As our numbers have grown and our technologies have advanced, we've encroached on and even wiped out habitats, released pollutants into the air and water, and are in the process of permanently altering the global climate.  For the sixth time in its history, the Earth appears to be undergoing a mass extinction event.  

The Holocene Extinction, sometimes referred to as the Sixth Mass Extinction or the Anthropocene Extinction, affects numerous families of bacteria, fungi, plants and animals, including mammals, birds, reptiles, amphibians, fish and invertebrates.  With widespread degradation of highly biodiverse habitats such as coral reefs and rainforests, the vast majority of these extinctions are thought to be undocumented, but the current rate of extinction of species is estimated at 100 to 1,000 times higher than natural background extinction rates.

Since humans have caused this, perhaps we can mitigate it.  It's not too late.  By making some lifestyle changes, getting involved in preservation activities and educating others to the importance of preserving species, we can make a difference.  The link below to a Wikihow article has some specific suggestions.

Marc Ian Barasch in Field Notes on the Compassionate Life relates the story of a Colorado boy who had become lost in the woods in the dead of winter.  As hypothermia set in, the boy tried to chase away two huge elks that he saw nearby. He lost consciousness and would surely have died had not the two elks slept up against him warming him through the cold night.  

Barasch continues, "There are a million stories of our fellow creatures being kind to us for no good reason...There are inexplicable ways compassion radiates through the world; some spirit of sympathy drawn toward any distress." Barasach relates experiments that show even plants to be sensitive to painful or sad thoughts and memories and concludes that perhaps "our ultimate human assignment is to extend our sense of kinship beyond family and clan and strangers to all other creatures...Acknowledging a sentient world might make us kinder, gentler citizens of a planet that has already had to endure more than its share of our cruelties." 

As the planet warms and species disappear, we would do well to heed Sacks, Jones, Wilson, Muir and Barasach.  The natural world is important to our well-being, not just because we need it to stay alive, but on mental, spiritual, and emotional levels as well.  Its diminishment will be devastating.  Enjoy it to the fullest and work every day to protect it.

Note:

*The monarch butterfly saw a remarkable recovery in numbers in 2021. The causes of the recovery are not understood yet but some researchers point to a series of "fortunate events" to explain it.

Sources: E.O. Wilson | Biography, Facts, & Writings | Britannica,   Discover John Muir website,   Harvard University Press,   Forbes, Psychology Today, Wikipedia,   Losing Eden: Our Fundamental Need for the Natural World and Its Ability to Heal Body and Soul by Lucy Jones,   Harper's Magazine August 2021 (Claire Messud, "New Books"), The Earth’s sixth mass extinction? - Understanding Evolution (berkeley.edu) 

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Declare your freedom from social media

From poisoning the national discourse to swaying our purchases to ruining our sleep, social media has some serious downsides

POSTED FEBRUARY 24, 2022

As George Orwell was putting the finishing touches on his dystopian novel Nineteen Eighty-Four, another work of social science fiction was published, B.F. Skinner’s utopian Walden Two.  Their two visions of the future could not be more different.  

George Orwell’s more famous work centers on the consequences of totalitarianism, mass surveillance and repressive regimentation of people and behaviors within society.  Orwell, a democratic socialist, modelled the totalitarian government in the novel after Stalinist Russia and Nazi Germany. The novel examines the role of truth and facts within politics and the ways in which they are manipulated.  The story takes place in an imagined future, the year 1984, when much of the world has fallen victim to perpetual war, omnipresent government surveillance, historical denialism, and propaganda. 

In Walden Two, behavioral psychologist and social philosopher B.F. Skinner gives flesh to his theory of radical behaviorism* in novelistic form.  Skinner considered free will to be an illusion, that human action was dependent on consequences of previous actions, and that behavior could be changed by “reinforcement.” Most simply put: if the consequences to an action are bad, there is a high chance the action will not be repeated; if the consequences are good, the probability of the action being repeated becomes stronger.  His novel embraces the proposition that the behavior of organisms, including humans, is determined by environmental variables, and that systematically altering environmental variables can generate a society that very closely approximates a utopia.  At the time methods for scientifically modifying behavior did not exist.  Today these methods are known as applied behavior analysis.

Unfortunately for all of us, Orwell's future appears to have the upper hand in the twenty-first century thanks to the use and abuse of social media and artificial intelligence, which have adapted the findings of behaviorists like B.F. Skinner to ill effect.  

Some years ago, I read a post whose point seemed to be that our electronic devices have made us more intelligent.  I didn’t think so at the time and think even less of that theory today.  Yes, it is good to know the whereabouts of the nearest Italian bakery or Irish pub or how much inflation has increased over the past twenty years.  Access to information is important and the internet has done a marvelous job of increasing our access to information.  But this information does not increase our intelligence.

Possibly the most serious downside of the information age is that the internet and social media also provide us with a stunning abundance of misinformation.  Without critical thinking skills , that ability to assess information from different sources [link below left], some can be easily overwhelmed and misled.  What was once the domain of the master propagandist and the far-right media personality has become the birthright of anyone with access to a computer.  Enabled by a monetized, A.I.-driven social media, anti-vax campaigners, conspiracy theorists, 2020 Election Big Lie proponents, and legions of others have been able to poison our national discourse and make us collectively less intelligent.  

By applying behaviorist principals,  purveyors of misinformation and  A.I. algorithms that monetize and drive search engines and social media are constantly manipulating our emotions.  Combining access to vast amounts of personal information with a consumption-oriented business model has proven enormously profitable.  And it is striking at the very heart of our presumptive free will.  

"How so?", you ask.

Playwright and novelist Ayad Akhtar explains it well in a recent Atlantic article:

"Virtually everything we do, everything we are, is transmuted now into digital information. Our movements in space our expenditures and viewing habits, our internet searches...all of it observed by no one in particular, all of it reduced to data parsed for the patterns that will predict our purchases.  But the model isn't simply predictive.  It influences us."

Citing the work of Nobel-winning economist Daniel Kahneman, Akhtar notes the role of unconscious priming.  Known in earlier times as subliminal messaging, it plays a significant role in advertising.  

"Whether or not you are aware that you have seen a word, that word affects your decision-making.  This is the reason the technology works so well.  The regime of screens that now comprises much [of our daily activity] operates as a delivery system for unconscious priming...Adhesiveness. That's what the technology aspires to achieve, the metric by which it self-regulates and optimizes.  The longer we stick around - on YouTube or Facebook, on Amazon, on the New York Times app, the greater the yield of [our] information, the more effective the influence...Merchants of attention have learned that nothing adheres us to their traps like emotion...perhaps most emblematically, the expression of our anger, rightful or hateful."

Besides poisoning the national discourse and influencing our online purchasing, too much screen time can cause problems for both children and adults.  In children, too much screen time can lead to obesity, sleep problems, chronic neck and back problems, depression, anxiety and lower test scores.  Negative effects of too much screen time for adults include poor sleep, eye strain, "addictive" interference with sleep, work and relationships, muscle aches and sedentary behavior.  

The recommended limit is one to two hours for children.  For adults, the recommendation is to limit screen time to two hours a day outside of work-related activities.

Some suggestions on how to stay within the recommended non-harmful limits:

For more on screen limit strategies, see the link below right.

Note: *Ivan Pavlov's experiments in the 1890's ("Pavlov's dog") laid the foundations for behaviorism, which emerged in the early twentieth century in response to other schools of psychology that emphasized the importance of unconscious thoughts and behaviors.  Early twentieth-century behaviorists aimed to transform psychology into a more objective scientific discipline that, like biology or chemistry, focused on measurable, observable phenomenon, rather than the unobservable internal phenomena that Freud and his contemporaries prioritized.  In the mid-twentieth century, psychologist and social philosopher B.F. Skinner took behaviorism in a more extreme direction.  

Sources: Wikipedia; "The Singularity Is Here" (Ayad Akhtar, The Atlantic, December 2021 issue); Henry Ford Health System Live Well Blog

Thich Nhat Hanh and the Precepts of Engaged Buddhism

POSTED FEBRUARY 3, 2022

One of the world's great human beings, the Vietnamese Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hạnh, died January 22 at the age of 95.  [link below] Known as the "father of mindfulness", his writings, poetry and teaching made him a major influence on Western practices of Buddhism.  

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., a Nobel Peace Prize recipient himself, nominated him for the 1967 Nobel Peace Prize for his work opposing the Vietnam War.  Thich Nhat Hạnh was also the founder of the Plum Village Tradition, recognized as the main inspiration for engaged Buddhism. 

Engaged Buddhism, also known as socially engaged Buddhism, refers to a Buddhist social movement that emerged in Asia in the 20th century, composed of Buddhists seeking ways to apply Buddhist ethics and teachings and insights acquired from meditation practice to contemporary situations of social, political, environmental and economic suffering, and injustice. 

Every day, thousands recite the Fourteen Precepts of Engaged Buddhism as a continuing reminder of how to live mindfully.  I've jotted down a few of the phrases from the Fourteen Precepts.  

"Do not think the knowledge you presently possess is changeless, absolute truth. Avoid being narrow-minded and bound to present views"

"Live simply and share time, energy, and material resources with those who are in need"

"Do not maintain anger or hatred. Learn to penetrate and transform them when they are still seeds in your consciousness"

"Be in touch with what is wondrous, refreshing, and healing both inside and around you. Plant seeds of joy, peace, and understanding in yourself"

"Make every effort to reconcile and resolve all conflicts, however small"

"Do not say untruthful things for the sake of personal interest or to impress people. Do not utter words that cause division and hatred."

"Do not kill. Do not let others kill. Find whatever means possible to protect life and prevent war."

There's more to the precepts that can help anyone's day - including, and perhaps especially, political and governmental leaders - get off to a good start and keep on the right path.  [link below]

Thich Nhat Hanh on mindfulness, peace, and happiness

“With mindfulness, you can establish yourself in the present in order to touch the wonders of life that are available in that moment.”

"The practice of peace and reconciliation is one of the most vital and artistic of human actions."

"Each moment is a chance for us to make peace with the world, to make happiness possible for the world."

"If we are not fully ourselves, truly in the present moment, we miss everything."

"It is with our capacity of smiling, breathing, and being peace that we can make peace."

"I promise myself that I will enjoy every minute of the day that is given me to live."

Soul Values: Peace of Mind and Spirit

POSTED JANUARY 13, 2022

In the Catholic Mass, there is a section of  the liturgy during which the participants bless each other with the words, “Peace be with you.”  I can't think of a nicer wish for any human being than to wish them peace, and these days we all could use some peace of mind and peace of spirit. Troubling times often afflict humanity. Troubling thoughts affect all of us at times.  When our reactions to these troubling times and thoughts are not grounded in the present, we cannot fully enjoy life and can even develop pathologies.  READ ON THE SOUL VALUES POSTS page.  

Light in the Darkness

POSTED DECEMBER 8, 2021

The winter solstice approaches, and the daylight hours grow shorter.  The Sun's warmth diminishes.  Cold creeps in.  Snow falls.

It is hard to imagine what it was like for our distant ancestors as they watch the Sun travel lower and lower across the sky.  Humans create rituals in the hope that the Sun would not disappear below the horizon forever.  The rituals, which often involved fire or light, apparently work.  The days gradually begin to lengthen.

Archaeological evidence indicates the winter solstice was celebrated with feasting at Stonehenge. Cattle were slaughtered and eaten to reduce the need for feed in the austere winter months; wine and beer were fermented in time for the festivities.  The very orientation of the prehistoric Stonehenge standing stones is along a solstice axis, with a sightline pointing to the December solstice sunset.  

The 25th of December* was a special day of celebration for many ancient cultures. For the day we now know as Christmas Day marked the ancient turning point of the year, when the sun was finally reborn after ‘standing still’** at the winter solstice.  The Romans, for example, marked the winter solstice and the days that followed with a number of solstice celebrations. The Brumalia marked the shortest day, while later, eastern-influenced cults such as Mithras and Sol Invictus celebrated December 25 as the birth dates of their cult deities. These winter festivals later influenced the time of year that Christians chose to celebrate the birth of Christ.  

The winter solstice played an important role in pre-Christian cultures throughout Europe, especially in Scandinavia, where winter makes the days particularly short and the nights very long.  Of all the ancient rituals, perhaps the one most directly related to the Christmas celebrations of today is the winter solstice festival of the Nordic peoples.  

The Old Norse festival was known as “Jol”.  In modern English, the word is “Yule” and is synonymous with Christmas.  The words “jolly” and the French “joli(e)” have their roots in the Old Norse “Jol”.  Jol celebrations included a symbolic fire, which involved the burning of large logs on the central hearth of the longhouse. This symbolized the continuation of light despite the darkness outside, as well as providing warmth. [sidebar]

Light, as in "at the end of the tunnel", is a symbol of hope.  Like light in the darkness, the message of Christmas is primarily one of hope.  What could be more hopeful than a child born in poverty in an occupied nation at the eastern edge of the Roman Empire bringing a message of universal love and redemption to the entire world?  

Light is a universal symbol of knowledge and wisdom. Both the East and the West have their Enlightenments.  In Buddhism, enlightenment is when a person finds the truth about life and stops being reborn into suffering because they have reached Nirvana.  The European Enlightenment was an intellectual movement of the 17th and 18th centuries that emphasized reason and science to understand the world and improve humanity's condition.  Knowledge, freedom, and happiness became the goals of a rational humanity.

Light is also a symbol of truth - one of the primary virtues recognized by nearly all cultures.  In Achaemenid Persia, to tell a lie was considered the most disgraceful thing one could do.  The ancient Greeks recognized the True, the Good, and the Beautiful as transcendent virtues from which all other virtues flowed. The Roman philosopher-emperor Marcus Aurelius wrote simply, “If it is not right, do not do it; if it is not true, do not say it.” The first and most important of the Four Agreements of Toltec wisdom is “Be impeccable with your word.” And, of course, there's the famous Bible quote in which Jesus refers to Himself as the Way, the Truth, and the Light.

While we no longer fear that the sun will disappear forever at the winter solstice, the coming of shorter days can bring on feelings of unease and sadness on a personal level and can amplify concerns about the world at large - whether that be an ongoing pandemic, a bitter national political divide, relentless global warming, the post-truth era, or something else.  

But the lights of Christmastime can remind us that there is always hope. Rebecca Solnit writes that to be hopeful means "to be tender toward possibilities, to be dedicated to change all the way down to the bottom of your heart.”  We may not know what changes the future holds but we are open to them.  

So, as the sun starts its re-ascent in the sky, let's look forward to new beginnings and a better world, following the advice of great philosophers like Marcus Aurelius and Albert Camus and remaining hopeful [sidebar].

On a personal level, as winter settles in, we might take another tip from the Scandinavians, and consider the Danes' concept of hygge: Hygge: the perfect life philosophy for winter and sidebar.

Finally, on a personal level, there is much that we can do to make that better world for those around us - treat all with kindness, offer them hope, share our knowledge, "be impeccable with our word".  In short, with a nod to Mahatma Gandhi, who advised us to "be the change that we wish to see in the world":  "Be that light."

Notes

*In the old Roman calendar, December 25th was the day of the winter solstice.  With the various calendar revisions over the centuries, winter solstice usually occurs on December 21st or 22nd.

**Solstice from the Latin solstitium, "sun standing still". It suggests a brief pause as the sun reaches its most extreme point before the direction of travel is reversed. BBC

Sources: The Vintage News, Fjord Tours, History and Archaeology Online, BBC, Britannica, Wikipedia

Sunset at Stonehenge, Winter Solstice

Winter solstice festivals in Viking Age Scandinavia were marked by different rituals, many of which are still around today. Among the Viking forerunners of our current-day celebrations:

Earth and its caretakers: three views

POSTED NOVEMBER 16, 2021

The conclusion of COP26 - the UN Conference on Climate Change - is a good time to take a look at Planet Earth and its caretakers, the human race.  This post looks at three different points of view from three very different individuals -  the Native American Chief Seattle, who saw a spiritual world everywhere in Nature; Carl Sagan, a scientist who regarded the universe as purely materialist; and Pope Francis, the spiritual leader of Christianity's largest branch.

Chief Seattle - "We do not inherit the land from our ancestors, we borrow it from our children." 

Seattle (1786-1866) was the chief of Dkhw’Duw’Absh and Suquamish tribes of Native Americans.  He is known for keeping the various tribes from infighting and for attempting peaceful co-existence with the Europeans moving into Native American lands.   One of the most famous speeches of Chief Seattle is that in which he set down the rights of Native Americans and the environmental responsibilities of the newcomers to the region. 

"The earth does not belong to man, man belongs to the earth. All things are connected like the blood that unites us all. Man did not weave the web of life, he is merely a strand in it. Whatever he does to the web, he does to himself...So hold in your mind the memory of the land as it is when you take it."

Although Native Americans had no single view of man's relationship to the natural world, there are some commonalities in their attitudes:

An elk in the Hoh Rainforest (Olympic National Park, western Washington State)

Carl Sagan's "Pale Blue Dot"

Carl Sagan (1934 - 1996) was an American astronomer, planetary scientist, cosmologist, astrophysicist, astrobiologist, author, and science communicator. His best known scientific contribution is research on extraterrestrial life; his most celebrated television series, the five-time Emmy-Award-winning Cosmos: A Personal Voyage.  

In the summer of 1977, two small spacecraft were launched on the longest journey ever undertaken by mankind.  Voyager I and Voyager II were each about the size and weight of a sub-compact car.  The initial phase of their mission was an exploration of the planets of the outer solar system.  After this, they would enter travel on to the stars with a message from Planet Earth.  

 In February, 1990, at the request of Carl Sagan,  Voyager 1, which had completed its primary mission and was leaving the Solar System, was commanded by NASA to turn its camera around and to take a photograph of Earth across a great expanse of space. The image right is from the original 1990 photograph.  (NASA celebrated the 30th anniversary of the iconic image and the re-mastered image can be found here.)

Two years before he died, in his book Pale Blue Dot: A Vision of the Human Future in Space, Sagan wrote: "Look again at that dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every 'superstar', every 'supreme leader', every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there-on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam."

As Sagan concludes in the video [below], "the earth is a small stage in a vast cosmic arena," and the image of our planet against the vastness of space "underscores our responsibility to deal more kindly with one another and to preserve and cherish the pale blue dot, the only home we've ever known."


Pope Francis's Laudato si': On Care for Our Common Home

Jorge Mario Bergoglio, an Argentine Cardinal, became Pope Francis on March 13, 2013, when he was named the 266th pope of the Roman Catholic Church. Bergoglio, the first pope from the Americas, took his papal title after St. Francis of Assisi of Italy.  Two years later, Pope Francis released his encyclical* on the environment.  The title of the encyclical , Laudato Si' (Praise be to you), is also taken from St. Francis of Assisi - from the "Canticle of the Creatures", composed and sung* shortly before his death in 1226.  

Pope Francis begins his encyclical:  "In the words of this beautiful canticle, Saint Francis of Assisi reminds us that our common home is like a sister with whom we share our life and a beautiful mother who opens her arms to embrace us. “Praise be to you, my Lord, through our Sister, Mother Earth, who sustains and governs us, and who produces various fruit with colored flowers and herbs”

In addition to "Sister Mother Earth", the "Canticle of Creatures" praises God "through all creatures", through  Brother Sun, Sister Moon and the stars, Brother Wind, Sister Water, Brother Fire, those who give pardon for Your love,  those who endure in peace...well you get the idea.  Below left is a video of a recitation of the Canticle in St. Francis's original, beautiful Umbrian dialect.  

The encyclical Laudato Si' connects the dots between climate change, a market economy devoid of a guiding moral framework, and the core beliefs of Christianity.  Addressing all the people of the world and calling the climate "a common good",  Pope Francis writes that humans are uniquely created and called to exercise responsible stewardship over creation on behalf of the loving Creator.  Environmental harm is caused by sin understood as broken relationships “with God, with our neighbor and with the earth itself," and "climate change is a global problem with grave implications: environmental, social, economic, political and for the distribution of goods.”  Pope Francis points out that the poor, who are least responsible for causing the problem, are disproportionately vulnerable to its harmful effects.

Not content to leave his teaching on the environment as an abstraction, Francis calls for actions on the part of governments and individuals to avert environmental catastrophe:

A brief summary of the encyclical can be found here, and the full text here.

In June 2020, five years after the publication of this landmark encyclical on the environment, the Vatican called for renewed efforts to put its ideas into action – to move beyond words, as Pope Francis has said and toward “concrete and pressing action” to care for our common home. The urgency of the ecological crisis, coupled with the grave concerns facing humanity during the COVID-19 crisis, mean that, according to Pope Francis, “concrete decisions can no longer be postponed.”  

Two days ago, on November 14, the Laudato Si' Action Platform officially launched.  It is the Vatican-backed initiative toward sustainability in the spirit of Pope Francis' encyclical. Any Catholic institution, large or small, across the globe can enroll and have access to the Platform's resources.   More information can be found in the link below right.


The animist, the atheist and the spiritual leader of 1.3 billion are unanimous.  Each, in his own way, calls out for us to preserve and cherish what we borrowed from our children, the Pale Blue Dot, our Sister, Mother Earth.

Notes

*Francis of Assisi was a troubadour and loved to sing.  The Heritage-History website relates the story of his last song, "The Canticle of the Creatures": "He had been terribly ill, he was weak, and sad, and in great pain, but, one morning, his friends heard the wonderful voice, strong and clear as of old, singing words that they had never known. He had often sung the sweet old Latin hymns, but these words were Italian, and so simple that it seemed as if the singer made them as he sang. And so he did. The weary, suffering man was still at heart the Troubadour. He was still, as he used to call himself, the Lark, and, like the lark, he sang for sheer happiness and praise."

**An encyclical is one of the highest forms of papal communication and addresses matters of doctrine, morals and discipline.

Sources: Pale Blue Dot: A Vision of the Human Future in Space, Carl Sagan; "Native Americans and Nature: Views and Values", University of Wisconsin Oshkosh; Wikipedia; Biography.com; Catholic Climate Covenant; Maryknoll website; National Catholic Reporter

On listening

POSTED OCTOBER 22, 2021

Whether it be at work or at home, with friends and colleagues or with adversaries and competitors, listening skills are an important part of effective communication.   Paying attention to what the other person is saying and understanding their reasoning, feelings, and arguments are the basics.  To develop this skill takes both practice and an understanding of the "art" of listening.

Before getting to techniques for effective listening, let's look at what some thinkers and teachers have said about the principles that serve as the foundation of the art of listening. Your listening skills will be greater to the extent that you can imbue your listening with these qualities.  

Qualities and Principles

Presence - The Vietnamese Buddhist teacher and peace activist Thich Nhat Hanh reminds us that "when you love someone, the best thing you can offer that person is your presence."  The first of his four mantras for turning fear into love: "“Dear one, I am here for you.” The same goes for listening.  We are totally there for them.  A good listener puts aside distractions and remains focused on what our companion is saying.  The humanist philosopher and psychologist Erich Fromm called "complete concentration of the listener" the basic rule for practicing the art of listening.

Openness - The first word of the Rule of St. Benedict is "listen."  Not "pray", not "worship". Listen.  Listening in the Benedictine sense is not a passive activity.  It is, in Benedict's words, listening "with ear of the heart."  We must attend to listening.  It is an act of the will.  Listening with the ear of the heart means being attentive and open to what the other is saying.  We have to listen not only to our own inner voice but also to outside, and sometimes unwelcome, voices as well.

Empathy and Love - Erich Fromm, the influential author of  The Art of Loving and The Art of Listening, expressed this as the listener being "endowed with a capacity for empathy with another person and strong enough to feel the experience of the other as if it were his own."  Empathy is a crucial facet of the capacity for love, and, according to Fromm, understanding and loving are inseparable. "To understand another means to love him...in the sense of reaching out to him and of overcoming the fear of losing oneself." 

Humility - Dr. Martin Luther King asked us to try to understand even the arguments of "those we call enemies."  Wisdom and understanding often come from unexpected sourcesDon't assume that we have "everything to teach others and nothing to learn from them." For King, the true meaning and value of compassion and nonviolence is that it "helps us to see the enemy's point of view, to hear his questions, to know his assessment of ourselves.  From the other's point of view, we may indeed see the basic weaknesses of our own condition, and "if we are mature, we may learn and grow and profit from the wisdom of the brothers who are called the opposition."

Techniques for Active Listening

There are techniques that you can use in conversations that will help you build these qualities as you engage in more effective listening.  

Below are links to two excellent webpages to further develop your listening skills.  Very Well Mind [link below left] discusses how to practice active listening, "a pattern of listening that keeps you engaged with your conversation partner in a positive way", in your daily conversations. The Good Listening Skills Project [link below right] provides exercises that can help develop these skills.


Sources: The Four Buddhist Mantras for Turning Fear into Love (Maria Popova); How to Live: What the Rule of St. Benedict Teaches Us About Happiness, Meaning, and Community, Judith Valente; Melissa Eisler website; Erich Fromm’s 6 Rules of Listening: The Great Humanistic Philosopher and Psychologist on the Art of Unselfish Understanding (Maria Popova)

Finding your true self

POSTED OCTOBER 7, 2021

"Finding your self" was an oft-used phrase and a years-long venture for many who came of age in the turbulent 1960's.  Changes in society, technology and culture were happening at a frantic pace.  Finding a place and a role in that rapidly changing world could be challenging.   Self-knowledge - the understanding of oneself, one's character, abilities and motives - has been valued for millennia.  When the world around you is in flux and turmoil, it becomes even more important.

In the fifth century B.C.E., the Greek philosopher Socrates maintained that "to know thyself is the beginning of wisdom."  Man must stand and live according to his nature. Everyone, says Socrates, has this knowledge and just needs to remember it.  The values we hold are a large part of who we are.  While sages of the past can guide us, Socrates also advises against living "an unexamined life," that is, a life under the rules of others, in a continuous routine without examining what you actually want out of life.  

The humanist thinkers and writers of the Renaissance showed a great interest in self-knowledge.  Shakespeare’s interest in the concept of self-knowledge shows itself over and over again in his plays — in images, ideas, themes, and character portrayals.  Many of his characters have an intense interior life and struggle with gaining self-knowledge and avoiding self-deception.   Hamlet continuously questions himself in his soliloquies and is widely regarded as the first truly introspective character in English literature.  In the same play, Polonius advises his son, Laertes, "To thine own self be true...Thou canst not then be false to any man."   

Today psychologists recognize how right Socrates and Shakespeare were: the truth of who we are is so essential that its absence takes a heavy toll, often causing us to lose our sense of self, derail our personal goals, and prevent us from forming close relationships.  What are some of the things we might do and questions we might ask to find our "true self"?  Even more importantly, what should we do to find our "best true self"?




Sources: How to Live: What the Rule of St. Benedict Teaches Us About Happiness, Meaning and Community, Judith Valente; Success.com; Psych Alive; Psychology Today

On Silence 

POSTED SEPTEMBER 17, 2021

Judith Valente 's How to Live takes an even earlier source for its inspiration than Sarah Bakewell's How to Live biography of the French Renaissance philosopher Michel de Montaigne.*  The basis for Valente's work is the rule of St. Benedict, which dates from the 6th century, a time when Europe was descending into the Dark Ages after the fall of the Western Roman Empire.  It was a period that might seem familiar to us today: a time when "a great civilization was threatened by violence, corrupt political leadership, a widening gulf between rich and poor, and rampant xenophobia."  In How to Live, Valente explores elements of the Rule of St. Benedict and demonstrates the relevance of this ancient wisdom to today's world.  She believes it can change the quality of our lives and perhaps offer a way forward from our country's divisions.

Not much is known about the life of Benedict of Nursia, other than that he was born in a town about 100 miles from Rome around 480 and that he was the author of a book of precepts written in 516 for monks living communally under the authority of an abbot.  

The spirit of Saint Benedict's Rule is summed up in the motto of the Benedictines: "pax, ora et labora" ("peace, pray and work"). The Rule is more moderate than those of some other monastic orders, and Benedict's concerns were the needs of monks in a community environment: to establish an ordered way of life, to foster an understanding of the relational nature of human beings, and to provide a spiritual father to support and strengthen the individual's ascetic effort and spiritual growth.  

Although monks retire to monasteries primarily to cultivate a more disciplined spiritual life, the cultural, charitable and physical works of the monks of the Dark and Early Middle Ages literally saved Western civilization.  [sidebarBenedict's Rule became so influential that he is considered the founder of Western Christian monasticism.  He is venerated by all Christian denominations that venerate saints and, given the role of monks in preserving civilization, he is the patron saint of Europe.  

One characteristic value commonly associated with monasteries is silence.  Valente calls silence, "the pause between thought and action - the element that gives gravitas and greater meaning to the words we do speak." It's not only for brothers and sisters living in monasteries.  Silence should be a part of everyone's day. Contemplation, reflection and the "examined" life would be difficult, perhaps impossible, without it.  Silence also engenders peace of mind and spirit and allows for moments of inspiration.  

Carving out a period of quiet time is hard to do in the midst of an active life, especially in these days of social media, email, and cell phones.  Some steps we all can take: turn off the cellphone, take a break from emails, social media and the internet, and be totally present in the here and now.  A walk in nature is a pleasant way to experience silent time.  If you have a private space in your own home, this too can provide an environment in which to experience silence.  

For those unable to get away from the world, Judith Valente shares what has worked for her: "I try to pause, even in the midst of the surrounding activity, to stare out the window and block out all sound and distraction.  I create a mental globe of silence.  Sometimes it means finding an empty room at the office to sit in, stepping out for a short walk...When it's impossible to escape the presence of others, I go to a place of solitude inside myself."  For Valente, this is imagining sitting on a block of wood near a fig tree at the edge of her family's backyard, a place she "would go as a child to sit in silence, to write and to daydream."  

When we find the space and time for silence, the next step would be to "still the mind." How do we stop the internal chatter that comes from dwelling on the past or anticipating the future?  Meditation, which can be as simple as focusing on your breathing, and other mindfulness techniques can help immensely.  If you need a refresher, here a couple of WITW posts that might be useful.

Besides her personal insights, Judith Valente offers anecdotes to illustrate points and end-of-chapter "reflections" to get us to think more on the subject.  One anecdote concerns the difficulty of striking the right balance of solitude and silence even for those who live in monasteries.  While considering the "utterly useless" talking that many times surrounds us, the Trappist monk Thomas Merton* wrote that "It is in the sky, the sea and the redwoods that you will find answers."  Valente adds, "In other words, in the silence, everything begins to connect."

There are times, of course, when we must speak up as her friend, peace activist and author Sister Mary Lou Kownacki reminds her.  "We sin when we do not condemn the demonizing of our fellow citizens of an entire immigrant group, or a particular religion. We need to speak out against efforts that degrade our environment or hurt the most vulnerable."  When he was pope, St. John Paul II once told an interviewer he worried "less about engaging in sins of commission that he did committing sins of omission***: not being there for others when they need us and not speaking out when evil needs to stop."

The sisters at Mt. Saint Scholastica Monastery have a standard for cultivating harmony in the monastery that can apply equally to all of us:  "Before you open your mouth to speak, ask yourself three questions: is it true? is it kind? is it necessary?"  

Or, as another very different tradition puts it: "Be impeccable with your word." 

The rebuilt Abbey of Monte Cassino.  The original was the first house of the Benedictine Order, established by Benedict of Nursia around 529.

How the Monks Saved Western Civilization

Besides the monks' distribution of alms, monasteries frequently served as inns, providing a free, safe resting place for foreign travelers, pilgrims, and the poor.  Monks were known to make efforts to track down individuals who, lost or alone after dark, found themselves in need of emergency shelter, and monks living near the sea established devices and methods for warning sailors of perilous obstacles and made provision for shipwrecked men in need of lodging.  

Monks are well known for their preservation of the ancient classical texts, many of which would not have survived had they not been copied and recopied in monasteries over the centuries.  They also made contributions less well known but just as important in other areas - including agriculture, metallurgy, water power and machinery.  

Especially important were the monks' contributions to agriculture.  Wherever they went, they introduced crops, industries, or production methods with which the people had not been previously familiar - the rearing of cattle and horses, the brewing of beer or the raising of bees or fruit. In Sweden, the corn trade owed its existence to the monks; in Parma, it was cheese making; in Ireland, salmon fisheries — and, in a great many places, vineyards. Monks also stored up the waters from springs in order to distribute them in times of drought in an early form of irrigation.

Henry Goodell, president of the Massachusetts Agricultural College, celebrated “the work of these grand old monks during a period of fifteen hundred years. They saved agriculture when nobody else could save it. They practiced it under a new life and new conditions when no one else dared undertake it."

Notes

*Sarah Bakewell's How to Live -or- A Life of Montaigne in One Question and Twenty Attempts at an Answer is the subject of previous posts, most recently "Montaigne: Don't worry about death

**Thomas Merton was also a writer, theologian, mystic, poet, social activist, and scholar of comparative religion.  Merton wrote more than 50 books in a period of 27 years, mostly on spirituality, social justice and pacifism, as well as scores of essays and reviews. 

***In Catholic teaching, a sin of omission is a failure to do something one can and ought to do.  

References: How to Live: What the Rule of St. Benedict Teaches Us About Happiness, Meaning and Community, Judith Valente; How the Monks Saved Civilization; What We Owe the Monks; Wikipedia.  

Montaigne: "Don't worry about death"

POSTED AUGUST 31, 2021

One of the early posts on "What in the World?" was about a biography of Michel de Montaigne by Sarah Bakewell, "How to Live: a Life of Montaigne in One Question and Twenty Attempts at an Answer."  The French Renaissance philosopher, who lived between 1533 and 1592, was the inventor of the modern essay.  At their best, essays take on subjects in an experimental, non-dogmatic manner.*  We learn what we can as we write and think about the particular subject.**  After quoting a passage from Montaigne that ends with the modest phrase "though I don't know", Sarah Bakewell comments that this is "pure Montaigne.  One must imagine it appended, in spirit, to almost everything he wrote."  

"The value of life lies not in the length of days, but in the use we make of them" is one of Montaigne's most famous sayings.  How to live, how to make the most of our days in the one lifetime that has been granted us...philosophers, writers, thinkers, and psychologists have asked and attempted to answer that question from ancient times until today.  

In that "how to live" spirit, Bakewell introduces us to Michel de Montaigne and his work in 20 chapters each titled "Q. How to Live?" followed by one of the attempts at an answer. [sidebar below] Most chapter titles are straightforward ("Live temperately", "Pay attention.").  Some are a bit whimsical ("Do a good job, but not too good a job").  And a few have you scratching your head ("Be born.")

Michel de Montaigne was not always the convivial, questioning, self-examining writer that we see in his Essais.   During his twenties while out with friends, Michel would occasionally slip into a dark funk, barely aware of his surroundings.  During these fugues, he would be thinking of tragic events and sometimes his own death, perhaps inspired by the perilous times in which he was living.***  Bakewell suggests "Montaigne suffered this morbid obsession because he had spent too much time reading classical philosophers" for whom death was a "topic of which they never tired."   Montaigne had become so afraid of losing his life that he failed to enjoy it.

Things did not get better as Montaigne matured.  In his thirties, the plague killed his best friend.  Then his father died from complications after a kidney-stone attack; his younger brother, in a freak sporting accident.  Reading the Stoics and other ancients was no help at all.  What did turn Michel de Montaigne into the light-hearted, life-loving person we know from his Essais was a near fatal riding accident at age 36.  

Thrown from his horse, Montaigne was rendered unconscious.  When he came to, his vision was blurred.  He thrashed about and vomited blood.  Montaigne writes of his near death, "It seemed to me that my life was hanging only by the tip of my lips...[I] took pleasure in growing languid and letting myself go."  His companions brought him home, where he refused all medications, sure he was destined just to slip away to a "happy death." 

Montaigne recovered, but he was changed.  With this "real voyage into death's territory... Montaigne had learned not to fear his own non-existence...[and that] dying is not an action you can be prepared for. It is an aimless reverie...On this occasion, despite his willingness to float away, Montaigne did not die.  He recovered - and from then on lived a bit differently."  [Bakewell]

He summed up what he learned: "If you don't know how to die, don't worry.  Nature will tell you what to do on the spot, fully and adequately.  She will do this job perfectly for you..."  Bakewell adds, " 'Don't worry about death' became his most fundamental, most liberating answer to the question of how to live.  It made it possible to do just that: live."

The sensation of "gliding and drifting" as he faced his own possible death convinced Montaigne that we do better to "slide over [the 'bad spots' of ] the world a bit lightly and on the surface."  The once anxious Michel de Montaigne had learned to "go with the flow." 

Montaigne also "acquired a new sense that life...his particular life was a very interesting subject for investigation.  He would go on to attend to sensations and experiences...for the way they actually felt."  [Bakewell]

Two years after the riding accident, Michel de Montaigne retired to his family estate, telling us that he wanted to write his Essais as a distraction for his "idle mind". He neither wanted nor expected people beyond his circle of friends to be too interested.   Generations  of readers and admirers would beg to differ. For more on the Essais, see the link in the sidebar.

How to Live?: 20 attempts at an answer

Sarah Bakewell

1. Don't worry about death.   

2. Pay attention.

3. Be born.

4. Read a lot, forget most of what you read, and be slow-witted

5. Survive love and loss.

6. Use little tricks [Stoics, Epicureans]

7. Question everything [Skeptics]

8. Keep a private room behind the shop.

9. Be convivial: live with others.

10. Wake from the sleep of habit

11. Live temperately

12. Guard your humanity

13. Do something no one has done before

14. See the world

15. Do a good job, but not too good a job

16. Philosophize only by accident

17. Reflect on everything; regret nothing

18. Give up control

19. Be ordinary and imperfect

20. Let life be its own answer

*The word essay derives from the French essayer ("to try").  Montaigne coined the term essais to describe the new genre he was creating,

**Another French writer, Gustave Flaubert, wrote:  “The art of writing is the art of discovering what you believe.” 

***Besides experiencing a late wave of the bubonic plague, sixteenth-century France exploded into sectarian violence between the Catholics and Huguenots.  The French Wars of Religion were a prolonged period of war and popular unrest in the Kingdom of France between 1562 and 1598. It is estimated that three million people perished in this period from violence, famine, or disease in what is considered the second deadliest religious war in European history. [Wikipedia]

Soul Values: a Sense of Home

POSTED AUG 3, 2021 

Thomas Moore lists a sense of home as one of his ten "soul values"* - elements in our lives that add to our contentment and happiness and help us lead a more fulfilling and meaningful existence.   "Home" means safety, acceptance, peace, sanctuary, and a private space.  Having a sense of home is more than having a place to live.  While various locales can give us this sense of home, it is better thought of as a psychological state, one that we carry within ourselves.  READ ON THE SOUL VALUES POSTS page.  

Attentiveness - "Awareness"

POSTED JULY 7, 2021

Besides its "focusing" aspect (Attentiveness - "Focus", June 22,2021), attentiveness has also taken on the meaning of "awareness."  To be attentive in this sense means being aware of our environment, the people around us, and our own internal emotions.  Attentiveness in the sense of awareness is a necessary ingredient in many of Thomas Moore's soul values - deeply felt experiences, meaningful relationships, contemplation, spiritual peace, for example.  Whether we are enjoying the bird song of an early summer morning, talking with an anxious friend, or understanding our own emotions and motivations, awareness always improves the experience and the outcome...READ

Attentiveness - "Focus"

POSTED JUNE 22, 2021

Attentiveness is in short supply in a multi-tasking, multi-stimuli, multi-messaging world of cell phones, emails and social media.  That's a shame because this valuable skill can make us more efficient, provide us with deeper experiences, and improve our relationships.  Whether we are focusing on a task, enjoying a sunrise, or talking with a friend, attentiveness always improves the outcome...READ

The Deep Moral Roots of Pacifism

POSTED JUNE 2, 2021 

Earlier this week, Americans observed Memorial Day, a day of remembrance for those who gave their lives fighting in our country's wars.  As we remembered those Americans who made the ultimate sacrifice, we might also have paused to remember the devastating toll that war has taken on all the peoples of the world - military and civilian alike. 

The numbers are staggering.  In what is described as an "incomplete" list of the approximately 3000 wars in recorded human history, a Wikipedia article puts the minimum figure for deaths due to war at more than 340 million. 

The earliest religious and philosophical traditions often treated war as a given.  As human society evolved, though, many came to the realization that war inflicted great and unjust harm.  War was something that could and should be avoided.  

It's not as old as war, but pacifism, the opposition to war-making, has roots that go back to ancient times, with the first major pacifist figure being Siddhartha Gautama, the founder of Buddhism.  "The Buddha" broke with the tradition of his warrior caste in India sometime between 400 and 600 B.C.* and taught his followers that it was wrong to inflict suffering on any living thing. One of the first great Buddhist Indian kings, Ashoka, renounced wars of conquest because of his beliefs. [1]

In the West, the first hints of pacifism are found in the philosophy of the Stoics.  Stoicism was founded in Athens c. 300 B.C.  Stoics believed that disputes between individuals should be resolved peacefully and non-violently.  In the first century, Jesus enjoined his followers to turn the other cheek, "if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also".   His early followers took the message to heart.  Maximilian of Tebessa is the earliest recorded conscientious objector, sentenced to death and executed in 295 for refusing military service and holding to his values of non-violence.  Maximilian was canonized by the Church, and it is believed that other Christians at the time also refused military service and were executed. [3]

The late Renaissance saw a resurgence in pacifist thought in Europe.  The Dutch philosopher Erasmus (1466-1536) was a leading proponent of pacifism - arguing that Christianity and war were irreconcilable, and "building a city is much better than destroying one." With the Protestant Reformation came the founding of pacifist denominations such as the Quakers and Mennonites.  These sects were sometimes persecuted by the more established denominations, and many members sought safe haven in colonial America. 

The nineteenth century saw the rise of organizations such as the London Peace Society and the work of individuals such as the Russian writer Leo Tolstoy and the French economist Frédéric Passy,  who was the co-recipient of the first Nobel Peace Prize “for his lifelong work for international peace conferences, diplomacy and arbitration”.

And then came World War I, one of the most inexplicable and horrific wars in history.  By the time it was over in 1918, "The Great War" claimed more than 16 million lives, including 7 million civilians. The trenches, machine guns, chemical weapons, and the use of airplanes made this war different - more horrific and more deadly than previous wars.  Even as the war was getting underway, organizations such as the Fellowship of Reconciliation and the War Resisters League sprang up in protest to the slaughter.  

In Europe many socialist groups and movements were antimilitarist, arguing that war by its nature was a type of governmental coercion of the working class for the benefit of capitalist elites. The French socialist pacifist leader Jean Jaurès was assassinated by a nationalist fanatic on July 31, 1914. 

Christian pacifists and the traditional peace churches such as the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) opposed the war. Most American Pentecostal denominations were critical of the war and encouraged their members to be conscientious objectors.

In the United States, some of the many groups that protested against the war were the Woman's Peace Party (which was organized in 1915 and led by noted reformer Jane Addams), the American Union Against Militarism, the Fellowship of Reconciliation, and the American Friends Service Committee. [3]  Also in America, the five-time Socialist candidate for President, Eugene Debs, was imprisoned for speaking out against the war and military conscription.  

Closely allied but not identical to pacifism is non-violence.

The two most well known advocates of non-violence of the twentieth century were Mahatma Gandhi and the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Gandhi led a successful movement to free India from British rule and gain independence in 1947. But unlike revolutions in other countries, the massive rebellion wasn't a violent one. Instead, Gandhi's followers staged sit-ins and other protests, and willingly allowed themselves to be arrested by colonial authorities.  Gandhi took religious principles common to Hinduism, Buddhism and Jainism, another Indian religion, and turned them into a non-violent strategy for overcoming an adversary. He called it satyagraha, which means "truth force." He was convinced that nonviolence eventually would wear down an opponent and convert him to the right point of view.

One of the heroes of my youth was the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  I was thoroughly in agreement with the non-violent approach to the radical social change needed in mid-20th century America and still today.  For Dr. King, the ideal society was the Beloved Community, a term originally coined in the early 20th century by the founder of the Fellowship of Reconciliation, Josiah Royce.  King's vision of the Beloved Community was informed by his Christian theological training and by his admiration for the non-violent methods of Mahatma Gandhi.  

King's Beloved Community is similar to "the kingdom of God" of Christianity - not in the sense of a rapturous future time but in the sense of a goal achievable by a critical mass of committed people across the world.  The King Center explains the Beloved Community this way: "Beloved Community is a global vision, in which all people can share in the wealth of the earth.  In the Beloved Community, poverty, hunger and homelessness will not be tolerated because international standards of human decency will not allow it. Racism and all forms of discrimination, bigotry and prejudice will be replaced by an all-inclusive spirit of sisterhood and brotherhood. In the Beloved Community, international disputes will be resolved by peaceful conflict-resolution and reconciliation of adversaries, instead of military power. Love and trust will triumph over fear and hatred. Peace with justice will prevail over war and military conflict." 

Greed, hatred, nationalism, perceived wrongs, balance of power, economic systems, religious beliefs, quest for power, bloodlust - mankind has found many reasons to go to war. They are all wrong. They all basically stem from the wrongful perception of "the Other", someone you can dehumanize because he is different from you.

Will it ever change? One would hope so. President John Kennedy once said, "War will exist until that distant day when the conscientious objector enjoys the same reputation and prestige that the warrior does today."   Nearly sixty years after Kennedy's death, that distant day remains distant. 

Still, we need to start somewhere.  Some inspiration in the sidebar...


Note: *There is a debate among scholars and historians as to when Siddhartha was born.  Some give dates as early as 624 B.C.; others,  as late as 448 B.C.  [2]

References: [1] How Stuff Works [2] Biography.com [3] Wikipedia

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When will they ever learn?

Words of wisdom from some people of good will

Buddha: “‘As I am, so are these. As are these, so am I.’ Drawing the parallel to yourself, neither kill nor get others to kill.” 


Albert Camus: "There are causes worth dying for but none worth killing for."   


Joan Baez: "If people have to put labels on me, I'd prefer the first label to be human being, the second label to be pacifist, and the third to be folk singer." 


Historian Howard Zinn: "I wonder how foreign policies would look if we thought of all children everywhere as our own. Then we could never wage war anywhere, because wars, especially in our time, are always wars against children, indeed our children." 

Antiwar in the Arts

"Protest" songs such as those of Joan Baez, Bob Dylan and Pete Seeger, were particularly popular in the 1960's and '70's as the Vietnam War raged.  But artists and writers speaking out against wars goes back decades before then.  

Below is a link to the WITW survey of some of these works.

A series of WITW posts on antiwar literature, film, art, and music from WWI through Vietnam

Language, words, reality and truth

POSTED MAY 19, 2021

Language

The origin of language is buried deep in the mists of time. There is no direct evidence of when or where it originated, but a necessary first step was for our ancestors to evolve the physical capability of forming words to communicate, thereby supplementing and eventually replacing the grunts, whistles, calls, and gestures previously used.

The linguist Noam Chomsky proposed that some time after this physical capability existed, evolution added a single small but crucial mutation.  Over many generations, this mutation triggered the appearance of language.  Citing the findings of evolutionary geneticists, Chomsky and computational linguist Robert Berwick proposed that a substantial difference must have occurred to differentiate Homo sapiens from Neanderthals – a difference that prompted “the relentless spread of our species, who had never crossed open water, up and out of Africa and then on across the entire planet in just a few tens of thousands of years.”  That difference was language.  Berwick and Chomsky therefore suggest language emerged approximately between 200,000 years ago and 60,000 years ago - between the appearance of the first anatomically modern humans in southern Africa and the last exodus from Africa. [1]

Words

Once our ancestors possessed language, they were able to transfer more of their knowledge to the next generation.  At first this was done orally.  Millennia later, perhaps sometime between 4000 and 3000 BC, markings were put on various media*and writing was invented.  As civilization advanced, the written word became essential as a means of documenting governing principles (e.g., the Code of Hammurabi**), religious beliefs, and the historical and legendary past.   Writing increased the amount of knowledge transferred and made it possible to transfer this knowledge not only to the next generation but to many subsequent generations.  

Then in the 15th century, a  knowledge revolution occurred.  The invention of the mechanical movable-type printing press by Johannes Gutenberg in 1436 helped disseminate knowledge wider and faster than ever before.  The Renaissance was kicked into high gear and the scientific revolution began. 

Language and the written word  have been powerful drivers of humanity's evolution and powerful shapers of our social institutions.   Books, in particular, have been central to the development of our societies, to the advancement of our sciences, and to human evolution.   The value of language as a tool for societal change was famously noted by 19th century author and politician Edward Bulwer-Lytton in the adage “The pen is mightier than the sword.” In other words, communication - written language, administrative power, an independent press - is a more effective tool for effecting change than violence.  

The Guardian [link right]  discusses ten of the most influential books ever written - books that have changed the world.  You can find selected excerpts in an earlier post, but the entire article is well worth the brief read.  

 Truth

The importance of words is recognized in philosophical and religious traditions.   In Greek philosophy, the concept behind the Word (Logos) is the divine principle that permeates an orderly universe. In the Old Testament, the Word carries the idea of active power. God spoke the universe into being. In the New Testament, the Apostle John presents Jesus as the eternal Word***, who brings the divine message of love, truth and peace to humanity. [2]

Words can be used for good or misused for ill. They are used for good when they are true and used to unite. They are used for ill when they are untrue and used to divide. 

The ancient Greeks recognized the True, the Good, and the Beautiful as transcendent virtues from which all other virtues flowed. The Roman philosopher-emperor Marcus Aurelius wrote simply, “If it is not right, do not do it; if it is not true, do not say it.” The first and most important of the Four Agreements of Toltec wisdom is “Be impeccable with your word.” Don Miguel Ruiz notes that this includes speak with integrity: “Say only what you mean...Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.” 

As for the misuse of words, authoritarian political movements provide us with some prime examples. In her study of twentieth century authoritarian movements, the political theorist Hannah Arendt noted that the most successful totalitarian leaders of the 20th century instilled in their followers “a mixture of gullibility and cynicism." Over time, Arendt wrote, the onslaught of propaganda conditioned people to “believe everything and nothing, think that everything was possible and that nothing was true.” Repetition of false words is a powerful tool as a quote atr9ibuted to Joseph Goebbels, the Nazi Minister of Propaganda attests: “Repeat a lie often enough and it becomes the truth.”  

But we don't have to delve too deeply into history to learn this lesson. We have the recent example of the post-truth era ushered in by some politicians and media outlets, and now firmly entrenched as a fact of twenty-first century lifeToday, the internet puts information as well as misinformation literally at our fingertips.  Raised to new heights and frequency by politicians, conspiracy websites, internet trolls and social media algorithms, misinformation and outright lies are used to sway the gullible and disrupt our sense of reality.  

Critical thinking is one important tool in confronting this onslaught of falsehood, and it is a skill that can be improved.  A few simple steps - ask questions, question assumptions, reason logically and be aware of your thought process - can help one get started.  For critical thinking to be effective, though, we must be intent on knowing the truth – not just on confirming our prejudices. 

Reality

More subtle than the difference between false words and true words is the question of how well words actually capture reality.  

In philosophy and certain models of psychology, qualia are defined as individual instances of subjective, conscious experience. Examples of qualia include the sensation of the pain of a headache, the taste of wine, as well as the redness of an evening sky. [1]  Some contend that words can never provide the full reality of an experience.  Describing a sunset, a headache or a wine in words, for example, cannot do justice to the emotions, sensations and memories that may be involved in the totality of that experience. 

Our perception of the world depends on the information we receive from our senses.   Even the information we receive from our five senses is not complete.  We only see visible light, for example, and not anything in the infrared like frogs, snakes and goldfish, or in the ultraviolet like butterflies, reindeer, and bees.  Humans with the most acute sense of hearing can detect sounds in a frequency range from about 20 Hz to 20 kHz, while our dogs and cats can hear up to frequencies of 45 kHz and 64 kHz respectively.  

While we may not be able to increase our hearing range or see into the ultraviolet, we can do something with words to more fully express our experience.  Having a large vocabulary can help you better identify, analyze and communicate experiences and ideas - to better capture reality.  With many languages, such as English, a vocabulary of about 3,000 words will allow you to communicate and function in daily life.  If you have considerably less than this, you will find it difficult to communicate your message and intent to others or to understand theirs.  Having more than the minimum - building a larger vocabulary - will help you live a fuller life and allow you to explore more complex ideas. [5]  

A limited vocabulary can limit our ability to accurately describe our experience.  More harmful still is our use of labels and stereotypes.  These diminish the reality of the people to whom they are applied.  Labels that categorize people often misconstrue the totality of who they are. Identifying someone as a “schizophrenic” may be useful in terms of medical treatment but it in no way fully describes the person. More harmful still are stereotypical terms used to judge others - “illegal alien”, “unwed mother” and on and on. 

Language and words are powerful and can do much good or much harm.  They can help us live more fully or  cut us off from others.  If we follow the Toltec advice "Be impeccable with your word" , we will always make the right choice.

Related posts: 


Notes:

*Among the earliest texts that have survived [are Egyptian hieroglyphs from the tomb of Seth-Peribsen, a pharaoh of the late second dynasty around 2740 BC, and the Instructions of Shuruppak, writings intended to teach about the divine or how to be virtuous. They were written by an eponymous king and dedicated to his son c. 2500 BC.  [3]

**“The Code of Hammurabi was one of the earliest and most complete written legal codes and was proclaimed by the Babylonian king Hammurabi, who reigned from 1792 to 1750 B.C. Hammurabi expanded the city-state of Babylon along the Euphrates River to unite all of southern Mesopotamia. The Hammurabi code of laws, a collection of 282 rules, established standards for commercial interactions and set fines and punishments to meet the requirements of justice. Hammurabi’s Code was carved onto a massive, finger-shaped black stone stele (pillar) that was rediscovered in 1901.” [4]

***The Gospel of St. John begins: "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God."

References:  [1] Wikipedia [2] creators.com   [3] ListVerse [4] History.com  [5] Noteworthy - The Journal Blog 

The Power of Gardens (2021)

POSTED MAY 2, 2021

Spring has definitely arrived.  It seems a good time to re-post this celebration of gardens from June 2019 with a new introduction.

Humankind has viewed gardens as wondrous places for millennia:  

Below: Roman-style garden from Classical Fix 

More recently, gardens are being appreciated for their restorative powers for the human psyche.  The peaceful beauty, the gentle sounds, the absorbing stillness - these provide a perfect setting for contemplation and healing.  A garden puts us in tune with the natural universe, and that is always a good thing.  

Victor Hugo: “A garden to walk in and immensity to dream in--what more could he ask? A few flowers at his feet and above him the stars.” 

Oliver Sacks: "As a writer, I find gardens essential to the creative process; as a physician, I take my patients to gardens whenever possible. All of us have had the experience of wandering through a lush garden or a timeless desert, walking by a river or an ocean, or climbing a mountain and finding ourselves simultaneously calmed and reinvigorated, engaged in mind, refreshed in body and spirit. The importance of these physiological states on individual and community health is fundamental and wide-ranging. In forty years of medical practice, I have found only two types of non-pharmaceutical 'therapy' to be vitally important for patients with chronic neurological diseases: music and gardens."

Emily Dickinson

There is another sky,

Ever serene and fair,

And there is another sunshine,

Though it be darkness there;

Never mind faded forests, Austin,

Never mind silent fields -

Here is a little forest,

Whose leaf is ever green;

Here is a brighter garden,

Where not a frost has been;

In its unfading flowers

I hear the bright bee hum:

Prithee, my brother,

Into my garden come!


Maria Popova: "Indeed, to garden — even merely to be in a garden — is nothing less than a triumph of resistance against the merciless race of modern life, so compulsively focused on productivity at the cost of creativity, of lucidity, of sanity; a reminder that we are creatures enmeshed with the great web of being...There is something deeply humanizing in listening to the rustle of a newly leaved tree, in watching a bumblebee romance a blossom, in kneeling onto the carpet of soil to make a hole for a sapling, gently moving a startled earthworm or two out of the way."

Robin Wall Kimmerer: "Maybe it was the smell of ripe tomatoes, or the oriole singing, or that certain slant of light on a yellow afternoon and the beans hanging thick around me. It just came to me in a wash of happiness that made me laugh out loud, startling the chickadees who were picking at the sunflowers, raining black and white hulls on the ground. I knew it with a certainty as warm and clear as the September sunshine. The land loves us back. "

Rachel Carson: "Our origins are of the earth. And so there is in us a deeply seated response to the natural universe, which is part of our humanity."

Walt Whitman: “After you have exhausted what there is in business, politics, conviviality, and so on - have found that none of these finally satisfy, or permanently wear - what remains? Nature remains; to bring out from their torpid recesses, the affinities of a man or woman with the open air, the trees, fields, the changes of seasons — the sun by day and the stars of heaven by night.”

Sidebar images from the top: garden at Cap d'Antibes - Vogue article on Private Gardens of the Mediterranean  © Vincent Motte; Claude Monet Giverny Garden Photo by Ariane Cauderlier;  Rose arches at Butchart Gardens; Longwood Gardens - John Greim, Getty Images;  

Clockwise from top left: YouTube video of Butchart Gardens; Japanese garden photo © Lesly/Fotolia appears in Britannica.com entry on Japanese Gardens; Van Gogh, Garden at Arles; Monet, The Garden at Giverny

Text: Victor Hugo, Les Miserables; Oliver Sacks, Everything in its Place: First Loves and Last Tales; Emily Dickinson, "There is Another Sky"; Maria Popova, "The Healing Powers of Gardens"; Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants; Rachel Carson, speech before  women journalists in 1954, later published under the title “The Real World Around Us” in Lost Woods: The Discovered Writing of Rachel Carson; 

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Earth Day Reflections

POSTED APRIL 19, 2021

Earth Day, celebrated each year on April 22, is a good time to reflect on the interconnectedness of all life.  

Some thoughts for Earth Day 2021...

Gaia 

The British scientist James Lovelock  formulated the Gaia* Hypothesis in the 1960's as a result of work he had done for NASA on the detection of life on Mars.   The theory put forward by Lovelock is that living matter on the earth collectively defines and regulates the conditions necessary for the continuance of life.  The biosphere is thus like a vast self-regulating organism.  

The Gaia hypothesis became Lovelock's life work.  As the effects of climate change became more and more pronounced, in 2009, the then ninety-year-old scientist wrote The Vanishing Face of Gaia: A Final Warning.  In his book, Lovelock provides a stark warning - that anthropomorphic global warming is destroying the self-regulation of the biosphere, that Earth is lurching ever closer to a permanent hot state, and that mankind must start preparing now for life on a radically changed planet.  

In between Lovelock's early work on Gaia and Final Warning, of course, were the lunar missions that gave us those awe-inspiring photos of the Earth, beautiful and vulnerable in the void of space. 

Our planet is still the only confirmed home of life, intelligent or otherwise, in the universe. Here, life has filled every nook from the depths of the oceans to volcanic vents to the fissures in rocks. Organisms can require oxygen or not. They can live in temperatures below the freezing point and above the boiling point of water . They can live in acidic environments or basic. They live in water or in deserts. They can live under tremendous pressure and can resist ionizing radiation. Lovelock's hypothesis proposes that these organisms interact with their inorganic surroundings on Earth to form a self-regulating, complex system that contributes to maintaining the conditions for life on the planet.  Lovelock's "final warning" is that the complexity of the living Gaia system is significant and important, that computer modeling that does not take it into account can lead us astray, and that "Until we all feel intuitively that the Earth is a living system, and know that we are part of it, we will fail to react automatically for its and ultimately our own protection."


The Pale Blue Dot

In the summer of 1977, two small spacecraft were launched on the longest journey ever undertaken by mankind.  Voyager I and Voyager II were each about the size and weight of a sub-compact car.  The initial phase of their mission was an exploration of the planets of the outer solar system.  After this, they would enter travel on to the stars with a message from Planet Earth.

Before entering interstellar space (Voyager I in 2012 and Voyager II in 2018), they gave us much new knowledge and understanding of the outer planets.  Photographs of Jupiter, Saturn and its moon Titan, Uranus, and Neptune were complemented with the iconic "Pale Blue Dot" photograph of Earth from the edge of the solar system.  

Above is a re-oriented version of the famous image of "the pale blue dot" photographed in 1990 by Voyager 1 from beyond the orbit of Neptune, some 3.7 billion miles away.  The Voyager 1 spacecraft, which had completed its primary mission and was leaving the Solar System, was commanded by NASA to turn its camera around and to take a photograph of Earth across a great expanse of space, at the request of Carl Sagan.  Two years before he died, in his book Pale Blue Dot: A Vision of the Human Future in Space, Sagan wrote: "Look again at that dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it everyone you love, everyone you know, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever was, lived out their lives. The aggregate of our joy and suffering, thousands of confident religions, ideologies, and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilization, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every mother and father, hopeful child, inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every 'superstar', every 'supreme leader', every saint and sinner in the history of our species lived there-on a mote of dust suspended in a sunbeam."

Borrowed from our children...

Native American culture has a respectful, almost sacred, stance towards the natural world and the creatures that share it with us. A quote often attributed to the Duwamish Chief Seattle reflects an attitude of stewardship towards the world - “We do not inherit the earth from our ancestors; we borrow it from our children”. There's a phrase in the Lakota language "Mitakuye Oyasin" that translates to "all are related" and reflects the Lakota belief in a universal interconnectedness. What affects one, affects all.    

A mystical unity...


William Wordsworth, in his magnificent poem "Tintern Abbey" ** writes of an almost mystical unity: 


"A presence that disturbs me with the joy

Of elevated thoughts; a sense sublime

Of something far more deeply interfused,

Whose dwelling is the light of setting suns,

And the round ocean and the living air,

And the blue sky, and in the mind of man;

A motion and a spirit, that impels

All thinking things, all objects of all thought,

And rolls through all things."

Compassion, the interconnectedness of all life and a universal love

Marc Ian Barasch discusses the interconnectedness of all living things in his 2005 book, Field Notes on the Compassionate Life. He relates the story of a Colorado boy who became lost in the woods in the dead of winter.   As hypothermia was setting in, the boy tried to chase away two huge elks that he saw nearby. He lost consciousness and would surely have died had not the two elks slept up against him warming him through the cold night.  Barasch continues, "There are a million stories of our fellow creatures being kind to us for no good reason...There are inexplicable ways compassion radiates through the world; some spirit of sympathy drawn toward any distress."  

At another point, Barasch relates experiments that show even plants to be sensitive to painful or sad thoughts and memories.  He concludes that perhaps "our ultimate human assignment is to extend our sense of kinship beyond family and clan and strangers to all other creatures...Acknowledging a sentient world might make us kinder, gentler citizens of a planet that has already had to endure more than its share of our cruelties...Given our shaky collective plight, knowing Nature's 'value' may not be enough; we may need to love it."  

The French philosopher, theologian and paleontologist Pierre Teilhard de Chardin, known for his theory that humankind was evolving, mentally and socially, toward a final spiritual unity, insisted that compassion is - must be - endlessly extensible.  Barasch quotes him: "We are often inclined to think that we have exhausted the various natural forms of love with a man's love for his wife, his children, his friends, and to a certain extent for his country. Yet precisely the most fundamental form of passion is missing from this list. . . . A universal love is not only possible; it is the only complete and final way on which we are able to love."

Notes: 

*In Greek mythology, Gaia is the personification of the Earth and a primordial deity from whom all life sprang.

**The full title of Wordsworth's poem is "Composed A Few Miles Above Tintern Abbey, On Revisiting The Banks Of The Wye During A Tour. July 13, 1798"

Images: Earth from Space (Apollo 17) from NASA; "pale blue dot" from the Cornell University website.; gray wolf from US Fish & Wildlife Service (Gary Kramer); Tintern Abbey from Destination Envy/Drive Wales; Bull Elk in the Snow photograph by Marilyn Burton (Fine Art America).  

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Hope

POSTED APRIL 4, 2021


Spring is the season of hope, and there is no message more hopeful than that of Easter.  

Today, in his Easter message, Pope Francis had a message of hope in a time of darkness.  The world is "oppressed by a pandemic severely testing our whole human family," Francis said. In the midst of that suffering, Francis said, the message that Christ has risen is "the contagion of hope."  

After saying Mass, Francis read his "Urbi et Orbi" (to the city and the world) message, in which he traditionally reviews world problems and appeals for peace.   "The pandemic is still spreading, while the social and economic crisis remains severe, especially for the poor. Nonetheless – and this is scandalous – armed conflicts have not ended and military arsenals are being strengthened," he said. (Reuters)

Francis implored political leaders to relax international sanctions, which he said harm citizens who rely on support from their governments. Francis called for nations to reduce — or even forgive — the poorest countries' debts. And he asked for an "immediate global ceasefire" for all nations engaged in conflicts.  (NPR

The story of Easter has inspired some of the most hope-filled music ever written.  In the sidebar below are three such selections - the Hallelujah chorus from Handel's Messiah, Mahler's Symphony No.2 "The Resurrection", and Rimsky-Korsakov's Russian Easter Festival Overture.

Thinkers and writers have spoken of the nature of hope.  The Danish philosopher Søren Kierkegaard defined hope as "a passion for the possible."  In 1853, the abolitionist minister Theodore Parker delivered a sermon, paraphrased a century later by the Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.   In his sermon, Parker humbly remarked: “I do not pretend to understand the moral universe. The arc is a long one. My eye reaches but little ways. I cannot calculate the curve and complete the figure by experience of sight. I can divine it by conscience. And from what I see I am sure it bends toward justice.”  A contemporary definition of hope that I like is that of Rebecca Solnit: “To be hopeful means to be uncertain about the future, to be tender toward possibilities, to be dedicated to change all the way down to the bottom of your heart.”  We may not know what changes the future holds but we are open to them, confident that the "long arc of the moral universe bends toward justice." 

On the necessity of hope, Albert Camus went so far as to say, "Where there is no hope, it is incumbent on us to invent it.”  Hope is one of the necessary ingredients for courage - doing what needs to be done in spite of the odds.  Martin Luther, a seminal figure in the Protestant Reformation, wrote of the importance of hope in stirring us to action: "Everything that is done in the world is done by hope."  

In a May 2020 post, Henry T. Edmondson III, a professor of political science, notes that J.R.R. Tolkien's epic, The Lord of the Rings, has more than five hundred references to hope.  [sidebar]  It is an interesting reflection on the nature of hope written at the peak of the first pandemic surge and well worth a full read.  The essay concludes with the observation that, in the end, hope is an act of will, a choice:

Time and again, the members of the Fellowship of the Ring choose to continue what at times seems a hopeless endeavor. Similarly, a nurse working in the Covid-19 unit of a local hospital gave an interview recently in which she described the overwhelming difficulty of her work. She concluded with Maya Angelou’s observation that “Fear and hope cannot occupy the same space. So you invite one to stay. I think we’ve seen too much fear. So it is a choice. You have to choose. I would choose hope.”

Creativity: its care and nurturing

POSTED MARCH 18, 2021

Positive psychologist and pioneering creativity researcher Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, who is best known for his development of the concept of "flow", suggested that "of all human activities, creativity comes closest to providing the fulfillment we all hope to get in our lives."  Creativity is often associated with artists, composers, writers, musicians, and others in the arts.  But more broadly defined, creativity is the ability to generate, create, or discover new ideas, solutions, and possibilities.  It has application and recognized benefits for every imaginable area: a Google search for "creativity in business" returned 416,000,000 results.

Some people seem to be born creative, and those that humanity has deemed "genius" invariably display this characteristic.  What about the rest of us?  Psychology Today points out that life "requires daily acts of ingenuity and novel workarounds; in this sense, almost everyone possesses some amount of creativity."  

Is there a way to introduce a measure of creativity in our lives?  Is there a way to live more creatively?  Some ideas from research studies on children and from the lives of creative geniuses...

See with the eyes of children: see connections, be open to new experiences, have a sense of wonder

Studies have shown that children possess a high degree of creativity. Over time, this creative streak diminishes. Psychologists explain it this way: young children develop trillions of neural synapses in the first few years of life.  Over time, as some of these synapses are used and others aren't, those connections decrease.  Early on, "kids connect all sorts of weird things together in their minds because they haven’t learned that these things don’t necessarily go together yet."  This ability to make connections between seemingly unrelated things— also called divergent thinking — is one important part of creative thinking. [1]  Divergent thinking is often drilled out of children as their education advances and they look for the single "correct" answer.  But it is also a skill that can be reinforced in the classroom by, for example, asking open-ended questions.

The personality trait of Openness to Experience "correlates with creativity, encompassing a receptivity to new ideas and experiences. People who are low in openness prefer routines and familiarity, while those who are high in openness revel in novelty, whether that is meeting new people, processing different emotions, or traveling to exotic destinations. Accumulating these experiences and perspectives can help the brain forge creative new connections." [2]  

Closely related to being open to experience is having a sense of wonder, as in a "child-like" sense of wonder.  This in turn can lead us to be more curious and more emotionally engaged with the subject at hand.  Because a sense of wonder  inspires us to ask more compelling questions and consider fresh ideas, we might make unexpected associations that lead to greater innovation and creativity. 

Follow the examples of geniuses

Those we call creative geniuses can give us other valuable insights into creativity.  

Leonardo da Vinci is the very definition of the "Renaissance man."  His creative genius encompassed both the sciences and the arts.  Walter Isaacson's marvelous Leonardo biography examines Leonardo's methodology and finds these prompts explaining his creativity:  

“Be curious, relentlessly curious...Seek knowledge for its own sake...Retain a childlike sense of wonder...Observe...Start with the details...See things unseen...Go down rabbit holes [drill down for the pure joy of it]...Respect facts...Procrastinate  [gather all the possible facts and then allow them to simmer - psychologists have called this the "incubation period"]...Think visually...Avoid silos [he knew art was a science and science an art]...Let your reach exceed your grasp...Indulge fantasy  [he blurred the distinction between reality and fantasy]...Create for yourself, not just for patrons...Collaborate...Make lists...Take notes, on paper...Be open to mystery..." 

Ludwig van Beethoven would aid his creative process by walking after lunch.  Beethoven developed the habit of taking long solitary walks through the forested valleys of Vienna after lunch.   He used the time to reflect and think things through, making notes as he walked and as musical ideas occurred to him.  Beethoven wasn’t alone in using this walk as a period of reflection and idea evaluation, now referred to as "the incubation period" by people who study creativity.  Many other artists and thinkers have expressed similar sentiments on the utility of breaking up their day with walks.

When working through a difficult thought experiment, Albert Einstein would play the piano or violin as an aid to his thinking.  "Einstein’s second wife Elsa told the story of him one day appearing totally lost in thought, wandering to the piano and playing for half an hour while intermittently jotting down notes.  Disappearing into a room for two weeks (emerging for the odd piano session), he then surfaced with a working draft of the theory of general relativity." [3]

The artist Paul Klee used the metaphor of a tree to describe the creative process.  The over-arching notion is that "when artists make their work, they exert a modifying effect on the world around them — gathering and passing on what comes from the depths, as Klee put it."  In this way, the roots of the tree are like the artist’s senses, taking in nutrients from their environment, flowing through the trunk (the artist)a nd letting them unfold in a new form in the crown (the produced work of art).  "For Klee, the roots of the tree are related to the artist’s fundamental interaction with the world: the places we visit, the influences we take in, the ideas we form, the sense of identity we establish, a sense of direction in nature and life, this branching and spreading array."  [4]

Simple activities to work into your daily routine

There are numerous web pages with titles like "easy exercises", "surprising ways", "proven ways", "tips to rejuvenate" your creativity.  I've picked out eight suggestions that sounded useful and easy to work into a daily routine.  I'll close this post with these.  Check the references for another 90 or so.



References: [1] 99designs.com   [2] Psychology Today    [3] The Conversation  [4] medium.com   [5] greatist.com    [6] Forbes  [7] Inc.com   [8] Lifehack  

Link below left: a few thoughts from Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi's book on creativity

Link below right: how to teach divergent thinking skills 

Maslow's pyramid revisited: transcendence and the good society

POSTED MARCH 1, 2021

The humanistic psychologist Abraham Maslow first introduced his hierarchy of needs in a 1943 paper titled "A Theory of Human Motivation".  The apex of his pyramid was the self-fulfillment need of self-actualization.  This original pyramid was discussed in a previous post, "Self-actualization, peak experiences, and the farther reaches of human nature".  As Maslow developed his theory and continued his work, he modified and expanded his thoughts, writing more than 30 books in the ensuing decades.   

In 1969, Maslow selected articles from his writings that would form the core of a new book.  He was planning to write additional new material, an elaborate preface and epilogue, and to thoroughly rewrite and update the manuscript, when he suffered a fatal heart attack on June 8, 1970.  The Farther Reaches of Human Nature was published posthumously a year later and is a collection of lightly-edited versions of his selected articles and notes.  Two newly emphasized concepts stand out as especially meaningful:

1) Maslow places a sixth level of needs at the top of his pyramid - self-transcendence: the need for connection and the search for meaning.

2) Maslow writes of the need for a good society if this highest human potential is to be achieved on a mass basis.

A simplified representation of the new Maslow pyramid (from Sloww)

Transcendence: the final apex of the hierarchy of needs

Two chapters of The Farther Reaches of Human Nature are devoted to transcendence.  The chapters are in the form of notes, which may indicate that Maslow planned to organize them better and to rewrite them extensively.  Fortunately for his readers, he ends the chapter that examines 35 (!) "various meanings of transcendence" with this "condensed statement":

"Transcendence refers to the very highest and most inclusive or holistic levels of human consciousness, behaving and relating, as ends rather than means, to oneself, to significant others, to human beings in general, to other species, to nature, and to the cosmos."

Transcendence is the recognition of the unity of all things and of our intimate connection to them.  It is a search for a meaning beyond oneself.  Maslow's self-transcendence contains elements, explicitly, of Taoism and Viktor Frankl's search for meaning and, implicitly, of Martin Buber's "I-and-Thou" philosophy and Stoicism.  

With a nod to Maslow, the Positive Psychology website (link below) summarizes self-transcendence this way:

"Self-transcendence is, at its core, about transcending (or rising above) the self and relating to that which is greater than the self. In simpler terms, it is the realization that you are one small part of a greater whole, and acting accordingly.  That which is greater than the self can be a range of things: human beings in general, nature, the universe, divine power, etc. It doesn’t matter what the greater thing is, only that there is something greater than the self."

The most important characteristic of self-transcendence is "the shift from selfishness and egoism to consideration of the needs of others."  Self-transcenders are more likely to be "meta-motivated," finding intrinsic satisfaction, for example, in the work or activity itself rather than being driven by external rewards and demands. Self-transcendence also brings with it a more intensive focus on doing what is right.  Self-transcenders are more apt to experience instances of awe, ecstasy, amazement, and feeling uplifted.  For transcenders, peak experiences* and plateau experiences** become a precious aspect and important validator of life. [1, 2]

The Positive Psychology post also has some suggestions on things you can do to achieve a level of self-transcendence -  among them: meditation, "mindful activities", make time to be creative, keep a journal, get out and get close to nature, practice excellence in whatever you do, and "discover what puts you into 'theta' (the quiet and peaceful state just between asleep and awake) and harness it to enter the inspirational and expanded state more often." 

The Good Society

Maslow writes, "It is now quite clear that the actualization of the highest human potentials is possible - on a mass basis - only under 'good conditions'.  Or more directly, good human beings will generally need a good society in which to grow."   He defines such a society as one "which fosters the fullest potentials, of the fullest degree of humanness." [1]

Such a society would be one that "strives to keep alive a sense of personal and social health; that tends to foster communal and spiritual values that enable men to realize their fullest potentialities; and that attempts to produce those social conditions and relationships that maximize the creative energies of people." [3]  

Borrowing terminology from the anthropologist Ruth Benedict, Maslow believes that the conditions for satisfying all the needs are best met in a "high social synergy" society.  Such societies are characterized by Benedict as ones "where their institutions insure mutual advantage from their undertakings" and are contrasted with low social synergy societies "where the advantage of one becomes a victory over another, and the majority who are not victorious must shift as they can." 

Maslow saw 20th century America as one of mixed synergy - with both high and low social synergy institutions.  There are  institutions in our society which "set us against each other, making us into rivals,...which put us into a situation where we must scrap for a limited amount of goods...like the zero-sum game..."  Maslow concludes that any society that would achieve full human-ness on a mass basis (i.e, any Utopia or "Eupsychia"***)  "must have as one of its foundations a set of high-synergy institutions."  

To achieve full human-ness, to achieve the self-actualization and transcendence at the top of the pyramid, on a mass basis, the needs on all the levels below must be met.  To follow the implications through means "facing uncomfortable truths about how our society operates and transforming all levels of society." [1, 4] 

Notes: 

*Peak experiences are "short bursts of ecstatic joy" that come when you are living your potential, making the moment to moment choices that lead to progress  and during creative, athletic, or spiritual experiences.  

** Approximately nineteen months before his fatal heart attack, he had experienced another heart attack that had nearly killed him. "It was during the time between heart attacks that Maslow experienced changes in his values and awareness, which he labelled as the plateau experience...The plateau experience is a more permanent state of direct experience than the peak experiences, leading to eventual stabilization if one engages in extended practice of it." [5]

***Maslow coined the term Eupsychia from the Greek for "well mind" or "well soul".

References: [1] The Farther Reaches of Human Nature, Abraham H. Maslow (1971)   [2] Positive Psychology  [3] Mother Earth News   [4] SocJourn   [5] medium.com

Self-actualization, peak experiences, and the farther reaches of human nature

POSTED FEBRUARY 11, 2021

Maslow's Pyramid of Needs

Abraham Maslow introduced his famous hierarchy of needs in a 1943 paper titled "A Theory of Human Motivation".  It marked a turning point in psychology and initiated the humanistic psychology movement.  With its positive emphasis on the uniqueness of each individual, free will and our innate desire to achieve our greatest potential, humanist psychology became a "third force" in psychology complementing (and sometimes countering) psychotherapy and behaviorism.  Where psychotherapy looked at pathologies and where behaviorism emphasized the influence of external factors on a person's actions, humanistic psychologists concentrated on healthy behavior and on what makes life most fulfilling and most worth living.

Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory posited that people would first strive to fulfill the most basic needs.  When these were satisfied, they could move on to needs higher up in the hierarchy.  Maslow presented the needs hierarchy as a pyramid - implying a step-wise progression.  In practice, people often begin fulfilling higher order needs while still working on lower order needs.

Self-Actualization

At the top of  Maslow's pyramid is self-actualization - achieving one's full potential as a human being.  In The Farther Reaches of Human Nature and other works, Maslow discusses  what it means to be a self-actualized person and how this is expressed in the day-to-day actions and activities of our lives.  

For Maslow, self-actualization describes the desire that leads to the realization of one's full potential: A self-actualizer is a person who has reached the apex of human existence. In other words, that person has become everything they’re capable of becoming. This realization of potential can occur in many ways but generally includes the achievement of sound psychological health and a strong sense of fulfillment.   People self-actualize in different ways - for one it may be being a great parent or teacher; for another, athletic achievement; for a third, creative fulfillment in music or painting or writing, and so on.   

Maslow was especially interested in the characteristics of people whom he considered to have achieved their potential as individuals.  After studying the lives of 18 people (including Abraham Lincoln and Albert Einstein) whom he considered self-actualized, he found fifteen common characteristics.  Among these characteristics of self-actualizers:

Peak Experiences

One of the other characteristics of self-actualizers found by Maslow is what he termed peak experiences.  These "short bursts of ecstatic joy" come when you are living your potential, making the moment to moment choices that lead to progress  and during creative, athletic, or spiritual experiences.  Highly self-actualized persons experience these moments more frequently.  Maslow suggested that one of the best ways to think of peak experiences is to think of the most wonderful experiences of your life—those moments of ecstasy and complete and utter happiness like being in love.   A peak experience may also occur when you come to deep realization about the nature of Mankind or the nature of reality.

VeryWellMind (link below left) gives some other examples of peak experiences  - when you are in a creative moment; when a particular creative work strikes an emotional chord inside of you - a sense of "being hit"; moments in nature or during intimate moments with family or friends; achieving an important goal; when an individual helps another person in need or after overcoming some type of adversity. 

Behaviors Leading to Self-Actualization

 So how do we get there?  How do we begin to reach our full potential?  Some suggestions from psychologist Saul Mcleod based on Maslow's work (link below right):

In line with Maslow's thinking that our day-to-day choices and decisions as well as "nature and nurture" affect our ability to achieve self-actualization, vlogger Froede Osen adds that this is a constant process.  Every single moment, he says, we have a choice to step forward into growth or backward into the "safe paths" that we are accustomed to.  The net result of all these choices at the end of the day, week, month, year, life will leave you "either very negative about yourself...or extremely positive."  Every choice you have matters.

Finally, the Good Therapy website expands on Maslow's work and suggests that one or more of the following strategies may be helpful in achieving self-actualization: