Narrative 4 Story Exchanges

Where Should We Begin Storytelling Game

Where Should We Begin: a storytelling game created by Esther Perel, designed to unlock the storyteller within. Just as an amazing connection is about sharing, listening, risk, laughter, and discovery, so too is a great game. Let the Prompt Cards guide you and the Story Cards inspire you to share the stories you rarely tell.  The game can be managed for classroom use by pre-selecting cards that are appropriate for your students, or by pre-selecting (or making cards based on the models) that would help kids think about their stories related to a particular unit of study.

Narrative as a Pre-Assessment

Students tell a simple story to help me get a sense of what kind of readers they are. They may or may not like reading, they may or may not have a favorite genre, they may or may not have a lot of experience with traditional reading. So, I just had them do a simple exchange to not only get to know one another, but for me to see where they may be at with their reading.  The first story exchange question was "What story is memorable to you and why?" 

This book is based on storytelling in medical research and practice but there are lots of applications to classrooms and to school culture 

Students create a slide sharing about a chosen tradition or recipe from their family.  Students then share with an assigned partner and their partner and partners will share each others stories. 

~Created by Sarah Rager, 2022

Students reflect on a time when they realized that their family was different from other families.  Discuss what they realized in that situation. 

~Created by Adam Pritchett, 2022

Threats & Pillars of Democracy

Students prepare and tell a story about a specific experience that they had that caused them to feel confident, fearful, or confused about the future of democracy in America.   It went well, especially for a fist attempt at a story exchange for teacher and student. It was the first activity in a unit in US History organized around themes of politics and power, and the exchange was an engaging way to orient the class to the essential question.  At several points during the unit the discussions from the exchange could be leveraged to make new topics within the unit relevant to student  inquiries. 

Symbolic-Interaction & the Social Reality of Sports

Students shared an experience they have had with a sport. An intentionally broad prompt that allowed students to tell a story about participation on a team, spectating, or compulsory toe touching in P.E. The purpose of this exchange was to facilitate student interaction at the beginning of a new course and also to introduce the the concept of Symbolic-Interaction and Social Reality to students.  It went okay, students were only given a couple of minutes to think of a story, and were asked to share stories with some people they were only just getting acquainted with. Students laughed a lot in small groups! 

Table Talk: A Daily Story Exchange to Promote Community

Students use a daily prompt that requires them to share a brief conversation with table mates.  Teacher provides the prompt and sentence structure to allow students to feel comfortable speaking with each other. Students are encouraged to use each other's names and use active listening while table mates share.  After "table talk" is done, students at each table "report" to the class what they learned about each other.  In my class of 7th graders, this is used daily.  Table topics begin with non threatening questions that are easy to answer, but as we've gotten more comfortable with each other, topics have become more complex.  

Mini-Exchange: Most Interesting Student in the Room

This was done at the start of the new semester. On an index card, students write a fact about themselves that they 1) consider somewhat interesting, and 2) that most people in the room don't know about them. They share this aloud with a partner, then exchange notecards. Each partner pairs up with a new person, sharing "Hi, my name is X, and I just met someone who...[fill in fact here]." After bot hpartners share, they exchange cards again, and so on. After 5 exchanges, they return to their table groups to share out using the same structure. Groups decide which fact is the most interesting at the table, and chosoe a representative to stand and share out: "Hi, I'm X, and our group met someone who...". The group consisted of high school juniors, and was designed as an icebreaker activity to get them chatting and building their new community. 

Sharing Stories of Being Misunderstood to Build Empathy and Perspective

A conversation and brainstorming begins about stereotypes and cultural ideas that may or may not be true. Students think of a time when they felt misunderstood. Students write on the topic for 5-10 minutes. Students can choose a "safe" partner to share with since this can be a vulnerable topic. Paired students share their story aloud to a partner while the partner makes a flow map of events and switch. After each partner shares, they practice reading the story back aloud to make sure they heard the events correctly. Students share a hope for one another and discuss another group in which they feel safe to pair square with. The group of four students then take turns sharing their partners story orally as if they are them. Hi my name is________, and this is my story. Appreciations are given at the end of the story exchange and the class is brought back to discuss how a story can shape who we are. 

Personal Narrative~ Choosing a Story to Tell

After fourth grade students selected a topic for a personal narrative, they did a story exchange to explain which topic they chose and why they chose to tell this story. Sentence frames were posted on the board to guide this exchange. Students met with a partner to tell each other their topic and reason then met in a group of 6 to 7 to tell their partners story in the first person. 

Sharing a Single Story~ Share an Event that Shaped Who You Are Today

As an introduction activity at the beginning of the year we completed a Narrative 4 story exchange with the prompts:   Share the story of an event that helped shape who you are today ~OR~

Tell a story of a time when you overcame something difficult and how you did it.  This set the stage for our discussion later in the year that history often teaches only a single story for  marginalized groups like women, African Americans, and Native people.  In our DBI we looked at the sources that help fill in some of the gaps to create a more textured and broader "whole history".  I asked students to revisit their story exchange topic and think about how their life might be viewed if that was the ONLY story people knew. 

Getting to Know You

I did a quick story exchange with the fourth grade students I would be working with for my DBI. I had the students discuss what they liked to do outside and with whom they liked to be with when they were outside. I wanted to get to know the students and just break the ice as I was a guest to their already established classroom. I also wanted to lead into my weathering, erosion,and deposition DBI by sharing the rocks that I had found while hiking.  The class had several nonnative English speakers, so this brief exchange helped me understand the variety of students in the class. 

Student Project Share

After finishing their "Identity Displays", my students met with a partner and exchanged information about their projects; each student listened to the other tell the story of their artifacts, and "decode" the meaning behind each. After, we met as a large group, and each participant took on the role of his/her partner, and told the story of the pieces to the larger group. 

Book With Lasting Impact

This was a brief story exchange with a small group of students participating on our Idaho Battle of the Books team. With a partner, students explained the book that has impacted them the most so far in their life. Then their partner shared with the larger group. We have two teams with a total of 8 students. 

Nonfiction Narrative

This occured as part of a brainstorming activity. Students partnered up with each other to share an experience from their life that taught them something and/or changed the way they viewed the world. After sharing with each other, they got in groups of 4 and told each other's stories. Then, they reflected on the experience of telling someone else's story and having someone else share their story. 

Beginning by Listening

We began the school year with a story exchange on the first two days of class in order to establish a class culture. On day one, another teacher and I modeled the process for the students. We then gave them time to plan their own response for class the next day. I asked the students to tell about a time that they were particularly proud of themselves. 

Self-Introductions

Each student in my freshman composition courses introduces themselves with four things that get them outside their box. A non-traditional student shared a story of his drug addiction, arrest, and coming back to college. It took tremendous courage. Most of the younger students were awed. Every introduction after his was more deep and more courageous. It was an amazing experience 

Student Identity Share

We used this story exchange towards the beginning of the school year. We were focusing on the question: how do we become who we are? Students wrote a personal narrative first before they participated in the story exchange. They wrote about something or someone that is important to them in narrative format. Then after they wrote, they participated in the story exchange. 

Reading Share

After a couple of weeks of class, students did a story exchange about the types of books they like for my Reader's Choice class. There was a list of questions they could choose from to answer. I waited to do it so students felt comfortable with each other, but I didn't need to wait since it was not too personal. 

Two Americas

This Unit students learned about the founding principles embedded in the Declaration of Independence. Namely that Government is to ensure the natural endowed rights of Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness. They Examined US History reviewing how America, her institutions, and her people struggle to fully live those ideals. Using this as a backdrop and the end of the Unit and DBI students  were paired off and put in groups of 4. 

Prompt I used was- Tell about a time when you felt unfairly blamed or treated by someone with authority over you? 

Song That Has Meaning

This Story Exchange was offered early in the school year to create culture. The prompt was: Pick a song that holds a memory for you. You will play 1:30 of the song and tell the story to a partner. This activity was significant for many students. One student attested "I had no idea that other people were feeling the way I was." 

Stories of Immigration

This story exchange was designed to build empathy in students as they learned the stories of immigrants coming to America around the turn of the 20th century.  Immigrants had to make difficult decisions to endure all of the trouble and uncertainty involved with that decision.  Students connect with each other find common ground in their own grapples with discomfort, challenge, or uncertainty. 

Struggle for Happiness

This story exchange was designed to help students connect with the "struggle for happiness" main question and to help broaden the understanding of what people consider happiness.  It proved to be a good community builder, as most students didn't go too deep: talking about grades or summer jobs.  Some did have more in depth responses which were generally well received and treated with the care they needed. 

Song N4 Story Share

This story exchanged was done at the beginning of the year. Two teachers modeled sharing their stories via recording to give students an example. Students were then partnered to share stories and then put into a larger group to share the story as if they were their partner. 

~Created by Ambur Miller

This article discusses why immigrant origin stories are often invisible and invites humans and educators to engage in these stories with students. This is a particularly good resources for diverse classrooms. The article itself will motivate a teacher to create a space, but it also offers a workshop option.