Many people feel that beliefs provide a kind of protection. Imagine someone who feels lost or scared. For them, faith may be like a shield that brings comfort, a promise that everything will be okay. In many religions, there’s the idea of an afterlife or a higher power watching over us. This idea can be really comforting, especially when people are going through hard times or feeling lonely.
Religious communities can also make it harder to doubt beliefs. People grow up being told that questioning faith is a sign of weakness or even a test to be resisted. For them, staying true to their beliefs isn’t just about what’s logical or factual—it’s a source of pride and acceptance. They get praised for staying strong in their faith, which makes it even more rewarding to ignore doubts.
Even when a belief starts causing harm, it’s not always easy to give it up. Here are a few reasons why:
Magical Thinking: Sometimes, people believe in things that don’t really make sense because it feels like these beliefs might somehow keep them safe. For example, they might feel that sticking to their beliefs will bring blessings or prevent bad luck.
Sunk Cost Fallacy: This is a fancy way of saying that people feel attached to things they’ve put time and effort into. If someone has spent years in a belief, they might feel it would be a waste to walk away from it now, even if it’s not helpful.
Fear of the Unknown: Letting go of a belief often means stepping into unfamiliar territory, and that can feel scary. People might wonder, “What happens if I’m wrong?” That fear of uncertainty can make beliefs feel safer, even when they don’t make sense.
Guilt or Self-Punishment: Sometimes, people feel like they deserve the negative consequences they face in a belief system, especially if they think they’re not good enough. So, even if a belief causes harm, they stick with it.
Blind Loyalty: People often follow authority figures without question, like religious leaders or mentors, because they see them as wise or infallible. If someone grows up being told that questioning these figures is wrong, it’s not easy to change that.
This isn’t just about religion. Political beliefs can also take on a life of their own, becoming almost like a kind of faith. Some people follow political leaders because they feel these leaders understand them or represent their struggles. Sometimes, it can feel like these leaders give them a sense of belonging and community. And when someone becomes really attached to a political belief, they might start ignoring any evidence that challenges it.
Politicians can also play on fears, telling people that they’re victims and that someone else is to blame. This can be incredibly powerful, especially for people who feel forgotten or angry. Once someone believes that, they may ignore any information that challenges it. Even if the leader they follow starts acting against their own interest, they’ll find ways to justify it because that belief now feels like part of their identity.
And sometimes, it’s more personal. People just don’t want to be wrong. Everyone wants to feel smart, and admitting you’re wrong can feel like the opposite of that. Let’s say you’re arguing with someone and start to realize they might be right. But instead of admitting it, your brain may want to protect you by doubling down on your position. This isn’t because of evidence—it’s just pride. In fact, sometimes people cling to a belief because it’s easier than facing the uncomfortable truth that they could be wrong.
Think of something like climate change. A person who doesn’t believe in climate change might refuse to look at studies or data that prove it’s happening. Even if they see news of natural disasters, they’ll say it’s unrelated. Why? Admitting it’s real might mean accepting changes that feel difficult or uncomfortable.
It’s easy to get frustrated when someone seems unreasonable in their beliefs, but we all have beliefs that may not always be rational. Instead of getting angry, it might be better to focus on understanding. Why does this belief matter so much to them? What comfort or security does it bring? By trying to understand the reasons behind someone’s beliefs, we may be able to have more open and respectful conversations.
As for ourselves, it’s a good reminder to stay open to new ideas and to be willing to question our own beliefs. Staying strong doesn’t mean clinging to something at all costs. It means having the courage to explore our own beliefs, question them, and grow from what we find.