Softening Patriarchy. Instead of war and guns, we need the letting go of forceful solutions and the loosening of (both physical and mental) tensions. The gesture of massage is a gesture of caring, an effort to improve well-being. Distance and humor can save us. Let's not tear down monuments - let's massage them!

In Poland, one can find many monuments commemorating historical figures and events in the form of figurative monuments, which are very often given the figure of a man (men) with some kind of weapon(s). History written by men likes such gestures, because it is based on war, exploitation and the infliction of suffering - holy trinity of the patriarchy.

This system is collapsing under the weight of its own lies and must become a thing of the past. Life is ecstatic, it is not suffering. How can we help in this transformative process? Before we can act collectively, we need an individual awakening, and that involves practicing the caring paradigm on a daily basis. We can practice a different approach to life and create a better reality based on dialogue, tolerance, care and concern for the well-being of ourselves and our communities.