MODERN - SO CALLED LOVE
In the 21st century, 80% of youths live in the world of hallucination where love is everything for them & they give more importance to love, chat, date, kiss & illicit relationship than anything.
Youth became involved in love to that extent where they see nothing more important than this as if it's a supreme goal of life. In justification, they say If Lord Krishna himself did why not we do it? God should oppose it, He shouldn't have fallen in love. God did it, which means it's right & that's why we do because we are the creation of him
Let us bust this.
It's right that God manifested himself as Ram or Krishna to teach us the way of living because every creature is his creation. He did many pastimes & told many things so that people of Kali Yuga can follow & live a blessed life.
Of course, God indeed did love, he had fallen in love in spite of being in the supreme form, But it's also true that Lord killed Rakshashi Putna at a small age. It's also true that the lord killed that dreaded Serpent. Lord Lifted that giant Govardhan Parwat on the finger to save Cows & Cowherd members. Lord did thousands of pastimes, which we should follow but we never think to follow a single of those besides love. Then why only we want desperately to follow his one pastime of love?
Lord's love was unconditional irrespective of age, physical fitness, beauty, cast, prosperity, talent, attire, approach, education & dignity Lord's love is a meeting of two souls which has no lasting. That was not to satisfy the physical needs of the body
But today's love begins with a conspiracy, Intervals at dirty video chat & ends with illicit sex. It's actually not love, but it's just LUST.
People first make a conspiracy to grab a girl of his category followed by lure, exchange of numbers, date, gifts, talk over the phone for hours, video chat, booking a place for doing dirty stuff, physical satisfaction, finally breakup. Yeah after all these Ghupchup some get married, others get killed.
Today's love is all about showing off. It's just LUST.
Boys sell mother's jewelry to gift his GF. Some steal monthly savings to gift her. While some beat parents who deny giving money. Is this a definition of love that God gave us?
In Kali Yuga a portion of real love Exists among family members apart from this every love is a drama.
First thing Radha & Krishna was a soul in different bodies. Lord's love is worship (Self-less), not a bond. Love between them is unconditional without any lust & desire. When one cries the tears roll in the eyes of the others. when one used to eat others feel full. We humans can't do 0.00000001% of that love.
God neither done nor suggested anyone do wrong with girls. On contrary, even God Worshipped Woman as a Devi. That is the respect we need to give to Women.
Illicit sex is one of the worst sins. So avoid it or else God will make your life worst than worse. For example What was the mistake of Karna, Bhisma, Ashwatthama? Why lord kill them? why the lord made annihilated them with their families? Just because they remained silent while the cloth of Draupadi was being taken off. If watching that incident caused death then what will happen with the wrongdoer. If we see someone doing wrong with a girl & remain silent that means we are equally guilty.
This message is for both boys & girls if your mind is not in control or the waves of Youngness hit to your mind frequently then ask your parents to find a groom or bride for you & after marriage, you can perform regulated enjoyment. But don't do engage in illicit relations.
So how to overcome LUST? That's another blog all together.
In our Sanatan dharma Girl is a form of goddess so respect them, which is for us and the whole society. Where ever women are disrespected, wherever the woman is not treated like a mother, there lies no prosperity, peace, happiness.
Try to follow the principles of God, not just blindly imitating him.
Always pray to God to guide you, ask him to not get you involved in wrong work. Follow Ramayana & Gita, Chant Prabhu's name, Take refuge in him because he only can save us. Because Kali Yugi dreaded Serpent is ready with opened mouth to make us prey.