Love Languages

Open communication can help people feel safe and understood and secure in their relationships. This love language includes written or spoken words from others such as words of appreciation, verbal acknowledgements, and compliments. 

Actions can speak louder than words for people with this love language. Some may feel most loved or express love by doing tangible and intentional tasks for someone else. Even small, everyday tasks such as chores or running errands can be a demonstration of your care for someone and their time.

Give giving is the act of giving a thoughtful  item to someone you love. It is not about the monetary value, but the symbolic thought behind the item that makes it meaningful and shows someone that you care about them. Gifts can include flowers, a meal, or a handmade craft.

This love language revolves around feeling and receiving love through dedicated and focused time with someone. It is often more about undivided attention and active listening between people rather than just sharing physical space. Quality time fosters deeper conversations and emotional intimacy that can strengthen the relationship.

As a love language, physical touch centers on feeling connected though physical signs of affection such as hugging or holding hands. For some, nonverbal expressions of love can be easier to communicate and can provide emotional security and comfort.

The Counseling and Student Development Center offers couples counseling as well? Your partner or friend does not even need to be a UHM student! Inquire about booking a couples counseling at  808-956-7927.