CHAPTER X. DIRECTIONS FOR WALKING WITH GOD UNDER AFFLICTIONS.

Every day will bring forth its evil and cross, Matt. vi. 34, whether lighter and ordinary, or more heavy and extraordinary. The first sort rises partly from the common frailties of the persons with whom you converse, and partly from your own; as from pride and peevishness, and suspicion of evil, &c. Such as discourtesies from those of whom you expected kindness; imperiousness, and too much domineering of superiors; sullenness, negligence, and disregard from inferiors; awkwardness and perverseness in the persons and things with which you have to do.

(1.) Rules concerning lighter crosses.

First, Lay not these to heart, make them not greater than they be through your impatience, as many do, who, upon every light occasion of dislike, cast themselves into such a state of vexation and discontent, that all the blessings they enjoy, are scarcely observed, or can make their lives comfortable. Whereas wisdom should prevent, and love and prudence should cover and pass by most of these; seeing, as if you saw not: or if you will give way to any passion at these, let it be with hatred of their and your sin, which is the cause of these, and all other crosses.

Secondly, These should cause you to pity, and pray for them that give you this offence, and for yourself, who many times without cause take offence. You may if need require, show your dislike, and admonish the offender, provided you do it with meekness of wisdom, James iii. 13; but learn hereby to warn yourself, that you give not the like offence.

(2.) Directions how to bear all afflictions well.

But whether your crosses and afflictions be imagi-