Mostly it is all about Truth & Honesty.
(True to yourself... Honest with others.)
I'm fairly new to this idea (since about 2012), and am still seeking to see if this is really where I fit. Following are a few common terms, and some links ans such. .... I cannot say that I identify as "Pansexual". .... Gosh... so many identities!
Polyamory - noun:
"The philosophy or state of being in love or romantically involved with more than one person at the same time."
"A non-monogamous, committed relationship that involves more than two people."
Compersion - noun:
"The feeling of joy one has experiencing another's joy."
"The feeling of joy associated with seeing a loved one love another."
Do you think you could be Polyamorous?
For a more in-depth definition, see this Wikipedia Page.
Other suggestions include:
Hi! I'm Minx, and I'm Polyamorous
Franklin Veaux’s Polyamory FAQ
The 12 Pillars of Polyamory (book title / search)
Poly vs. Swing
Here is a start:
http://www.polyamorysociety.org/personals.html
Poly Personals Web Page Links
http://www.polyamorouspassions.com/
Part of the AFF System?
Poly Personals Newsgroups
Seeking The Polyamorous - PolyamoryDate.com
Here are a few TED Talks that may also help:
The Swing Lifestyle does not necessarily equate to Polyamory (Swinging is more considered to be "recreational sex outside of marriage"), but I do know that the following Forum Web helped lead me toward a better understanding of myself and this phenomenon. I'd suggest starting with the following:
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