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Luv2WaS = Luv to Watch... and Show
Real Quick ... About Us:
Her ("Esme"):
b.1958
100% "Green" (new) to the Swinger Lifestyle.
Very much a Naughty Little Slut (like me), but a bit shy about it for now.
Shares my interest in Naughty Stories (among other things).
Has No Idea how she will react to visiting a Swinger Club, but has expressed an interest.
She is very much a Voyeur.
Him (me: "bud" / Luv2was):
b.1958
Had some (unintentional) Swinger experience in the 80's back in my Hippie Daze (my 20's) while running naked through the woods with all my Hippie friends (it was sometimes difficult to tell who was partnered with who).
I was mildly aware of Swinging at the time, but was basically unaware of the details of that label.
That time is my only "real" experience with the LS.
I do however have LOADS of Intellectual experience, mostly from my time spent at the Swingers Board BBS.
I have a few LS-site profiles, but none have been very "productive".
In recent years I have been striving to live more as my "Authentic Self".
Which is to say I am a LOT better about not giving a "rat's ass" about what people think of me.
However: I am Very Adamant about doing so both Ethically & Consensually (as well as in a kind & respectful manner).
I live by the credos:
"No means No". i.e. "No" is a complete sentence, no explanation necessary.
"No Pressure, No Promises".
"Clarity is Kindness".
I have a good idea how I may react in a variety of situations... and am fairly clear on what I want... but being "untested" I realize that anything can happen. In other words: I am going into this with an Open Mind, and my eyes "Wide Open".
I am both a confirmed Voyeur and Exhibitionist.
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Some Extra Bits:
"I ride my bicycle to ride my bicycle."
A bit that I like to reference.
:-)
"Life... is a State of Mind."
Being There (1979) ... (ref)
:-)
"Free Your Mind"... "There is No Spoon."
The Matrix (1999) ... (ref)
Greetings!
This is where I come to play... On-Line.
I do not believe in strict monogamy (though I recognize for some folks it works... just not for me).
While the Swinger Lifestyle has a lot of appeal to me, I tend to lean more towards Polyamory.
Luv2WaS = Love To Watch... and Show.... :"> So yeah... I've got some kinks too.
I am an Old Hippie (b.1958) turned Geek... a former carpenter, and "an Engineer and Stuff" ... plus an old Boy Scout. In my 20's (1980's) I studied Yoga, pretty extensively (and still practice, though mostly in my mind). My favorite "meditation" for sure is Swimming. (I like to ride my bicycle too.)
I have always been on the liberal side of the middle. Science is probably the closest thing to religion for me as anything else, but I admire and respect Buddhism a great deal (though I cannot claim to practice it a lot). As I have aged and gained wisdom, I have come to the conclusion that a non-traditional lifestyle kind of person is who I am. (I am just NOT wired for "Vanilla".) Most notably, Think: Polyamory.
This site is an attempt to explore and explain all this, and me, just a bit.
Some of all that may seem conflicting with everything else, but it is what it is... and: "I yam what I yam".
This site contains "Adult Content". Lets all be adults, and... "Take what you like, and leave the rest".
I Love Women. The focal point of all my fantasies are women. A mutual attraction of some kind has to be present for anything to work.... For all my love of the Female Form, I am not put-off by the thought of "incidental contact" however, say in a MFM.
Some of my attitudes towards women are pretty well summed up in the following text. Taken from the 1994 movie "Don Juan DeMarco" (ref):
"By seeing beyond what is visible to the eye. Now there are those, of course, who do not share my perceptions, it's true. When I say that all my woman are dazzling beauties, they object. The nose of this one is too large; the-the hips of another, they are too wide; perhaps the breasts of a third, they are too small. But I see these women for how they truly are... glorious, radiant, spectacular, and perfect, because, I am not limited by my eyesight. Women react to me the way that they do, Don Octavio, because they sense that I search out the beauty that dwells within until it overwhelms everything else. And then they cannot avoid their desire, to release that beauty and envelope me in it."
As for this website... I chose to give my various desires occasional care and feeding, as opposed to starving and suppressing them. That is really why I bother to publish this site. Some bits may fall into disrepair (so patience is paramount). This is all for fun, and simply a labor of love.
Those desires include: V&E (Voyeurism & Exhibitionism), Erotic Stories (Reading / Writing, Listening / Telling), MFM (etc.), Couple's Swap, Full-Blown Orgies, and last-but-not-least: Polyamory.
I cannot claim to be a highly experienced "Swinger", but I have been there a few times, and still lurk on various Swing & "Adult Dating" sites. It entertains me, and I still am looking for a compatible partner. I am a bit of an unusual fit, so it is taking a while. In the meantime, I am happy with where I am. Be sure to check out My Swinging Section here for more details on that.
Feel free to Contact Me.
Be Well... Have fun!
Tad Pole ... (a.k.a."bud" ... Bubba Ulysses Dude)
I was born & raised in the Deep South (of the USA)... where it is said that:
You're so Southern if...
Your first name is your Grandfather's middle name,
Your middle name is your Grandmother's maiden name,
And everybody calls you "Bud".
I occasionally use a "signature" that relates to "Riding Bicycles".
... For an explanation, click here.
For additional Info... see:
I can't remember a life before Google... but fortunately, I can Google it.
“Cigarettes and squirrels are perfectly harmless...
... until you stick one in your mouth and light it on fire.”
"I am just a Monkey Man, I'm glad you are a Monkey Woman, too, Babe...."
― Rolling Stones
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