As standalone: EAP_HOME/bin/standalone.sh
See parameters, pass "-h"
To stop:
Uses logical names for file system paths, configuration (standalone.xml, etc.) all include a section to declare paths.
... ignore files used in managed domain ...
EAP_HOME/standalone/configuration/standalone.xml - the default standalone configuration
EAP_HOME/standalone/configuration/standalone-full.xml - an example configuration includes support for all possible subsystem
.... ignore ha configurations ...
Modifying: