In our eighth workshop, we will focus on the connection between our thoughts, emotions, and behavior.
Don't forget to complete your Gratitude Journal this week. You can complete the online Gratitude Journal OR print the gratitude journal document at the bottom of Workshop #2.
Today we will begin by discussing how our thoughts, feelings, and behavior are all connected and influence one another. Can you guess how?
Let's try this together. The situation is: "I failed the math midterm"
Positive Thought Example: "I failed the math midterm"
What would happen if you began with a positive or helpful thought? How would that positive or helpful thought affect your feelings? How would these feelings then affect your behavior?
Watch the presentation below to find out!
See how much power and influence our thoughts have on our feelings and behavior?! This is why we need to be aware of and try to change our negative thoughts, which is easier said than done.
As we discussed last week, it is important to challenge your automatic negative thoughts.
Below is another helpful tool to use when you are stuck on a negative or unhelpful thought. Try asking yourself these four questions the next time you have a negative or unhelpful thought!
Still do not believe us about the power your thoughts have on your feelings and behavior? Print and fill out the Thought Log below to track how you feel after changing your negative thoughts into more positive ones.
Let us know if thinking more positively changed how you were feeling - you can easily do this by completing the online Gratitude Journal!
We will end today's lesson by imagining that we are on the beach and breathing in sync with the waves moving towards, and then away, from the shore. This is another strategy that can help you manage the unhelpful thoughts you may have.
Resource Citation
Thoughts-Feelings-Behavior Cycle: http://cogbtherapy.com/about-cbt
Thoughts Are Not Facts Handout: https://www.mindful.org/thoughts-are-not-facts/