Cyber Safety

What is Cyber Bullying?

Cyber bullying is using technology to bully or hurt someone. This can include intent to harass, threaten, embarrass, or target another person and can sometimes result in police intervention. Sometimes our children don't have a break from cyber bullies, as it can happen anywhere and at any time. As long as kids have access to a phone, computer, or other device (including tablets), they are at risk. It can include;

  • Sending/sharing nasty, hurtful or abusive messages or emails

  • Humiliating others by posting/sharing embarrassing videos or images

  • Spreading rumours or lies online

  • Setting up fake online profiles

  • Excluding others online

  • Repeated harassment and threatening messages (cyberstalking)

https://www.esafety.gov.au/parents/big-issues/cyberbullying

Signs your child may be experiencing cyber bullying can include;

  • being emotionally upset during or after using the Internet or the phone

  • being very secretive or protective of their digital life

  • withdrawal from family members, friends, and activities

  • avoiding school or group gatherings

  • academic problems and "acting out" in anger at home

  • changes in mood, behaviour, sleep, or appetite

  • wanting to stop using the computer or mobile phone

  • being nervous or jumpy when getting an instant message, text, or email

  • avoiding discussions about computer or mobile phone activities


Sometimes cyber bullying is hard to see so it is vital parents/carers have protocols in place for technology use in the home. Cyber bullying can be hurtful because it’s public – lots of people can see it and it can spread quickly. It can be hard to escape and investigating and recovering from it can be a difficult process. Ensure your child understands they can talk to you if there is a problem and please notify the school if there are any issues. It is important your child has an understanding that you are a trusted adult that will help if there is a problem. Talk to your child about the options they have if they are experiencing cyber bullying and offer comfort and support. These can include;

Other measures to try:

  • Limit access to technology. Although it's hurtful, many kids who are bullied can't resist the temptation to check websites or phones to see if there are new messages. Keep the computer in a public place in the house (no laptops in children's bedrooms, for example) and put limits on the use of cellphones and games. Some companies allow you to turn off text messaging services during certain hours. And most websites and smartphones include parental control options that give parents access to their kids' messages and online life.

  • Know your kids' online world. Ask to "friend" or "follow" your child on social media sites, check their postings and the sites they visit, and be aware of how they spend their time online. Talk to them about the importance of privacy and why it's a bad idea to share personal information online, even with friends. Write up a mobile phone and social media contract that you are willing to enforce.

  • Learn about ways to keep your kids safe online. Encourage them to safeguard passwords and to never post their address or whereabouts when out and about.

If you are concerned about cyber bullying please contact the school (See the Contact Us page)