Narrative of Barbara Gora
A Father’s Love
Barbara Gora vigorously concludes that her family survived World War II with the
help of three anomalies her family had acquired which other Jewish families lacked .
Throughout the war Barbara’s father stuck by his family and saved them countless times
from dangers lurking everywhere. Moreover her family members were all blessed with
blonde hair and blue eyes, 2 perfect features in the eyes of the Germans which emancipated
Barbara more than once. But Barbara strongly regards luck as the primary reason why she
and her family withstood the terrible war which struck all of Europe. What made Barbara
incomparable to other survivors of the war was that she managed to inform us of her
unsettling and depressing childhood in an optimistic and buoyant tone.
Born in 1932 as Irena Hochberg, she was brought up in an assimilated Jewish family.
All of her family members bore vivid blond hair and had luminous blue eyes. What they later
used to their advantage was that all of them, except Barbara’s mother, looked Polish.
Exactly one year before the war occurred, 6-year-old Barbara started school. She was
consistently bullied because she was the only Jew at school. Barbara revealed to us how
she was firm at school and would never sob because she had to be tough. One day she
departed for home and when she arrived she wailed to her mother how all the children at
school would tease and menace her. After her mother witnessed her daughter’s outburst,
she decided to approach her daughter’s teacher and stated to her what was happening to
Barbara. When she confronted the teacher she learned some unfortunate news. The teacher
was a Protestant, a religion not widely accepted in Poland, causing her students to point at
her as well. The teacher could not help Barbara in her situation. Today, Barbara accepts
that the reason most students would bully her was because she would not attend religion
class. Instead she would spend the class time treading up and down the hallway. One time a
janitor who was cleaning the hallway offered her a seat and they spent their time sharing
stories and communicating their feelings to each other. “It was my best school memory,”
Barbara remembers. One day during recess a Polish boy approached Barbara and
pondered to her why she wasn't participating. Barbara responded that the other kids would exclude
her and shove her away so the boy vowed to always be with her and act like a guardian angel.
Barbara did not have to attend school the following year as war had embarked, much
to her delight as she despised attending school. What she did not realize at the moment was
that the following year, in 1940, Barbara and her family were forced to immigrate into the
ghetto on orders from the Nazis, who ordered all Jews residing in Warsaw to move into the
ghetto. Barbara described early life in the ghetto as easy because her dad had obtained
different jobs around the ghetto resulting in him gaining a salary larger than most inhabitants
in the ghetto. One more reason which not only made early life in the ghetto easy, but also
helped her family survive was that a lot of people helped them with different tasks. While
Barbara and her mother rested in their apartment in the ghetto, her sister was working with a
workforce and her dad was shovelling coal in a chemical laundry factory which was located
right beside the family’s apartment. Later this factory was taken apart and turned into a
factory which took apart Jewish fur coats and made uniforms out of them for the German
army. In front of this factory there was a Polish guard stationed to protect it. On a sweltering
summer day, that guard warned Barbara, her mother and other mothers with children that
Germans were coming and looking to eliminate mothers with children. When he spread the
news, Barbara and her mother, along with other mothers and babies, made their way to the
factory and to the top floor where all the coats that had been collected were stored. They all
hid under the coats as the Germans made their way around the factory shouting, “Gibt es
hier Juden?” (“Are there any Jews here?”) When the Germans arrived at the top floor
Barbara knew that if any one of the babies present would have cried they would all have
been shot and died right there at that moment, but fortunately for them no one cried. A
couple of minutes later Barbara heard German soldiers rushing actively around the factory
shouting blatantly her father’s name. After that she heard two very clear shots which echoed
through the factory. She and the fellow people hiding under the coats waited and pondered
when it would be safe to reappear so they stayed for a while, how long Barbara does not
remember but it seemed to have lasted an eternity,. When they decided it was safe they returned
downstairs where Barbara learned that her father was called because he had to go back to work
and instead their neighbours who were not able to work anymore were shot. After this event her
sister’s workforce was called up to stand in a line and every 10th worker was taken and sent of
to a camp, but luckily Barbara’s sister was not one of those workers.
One day Barbara’s father asked her if she wanted to depart from ghetto, to which
Barbara answered yes without a doubt. Her father arranged that a Polish man who worked
and went in and out of the ghetto each day would take her with him when he left the ghetto.
So one day the man took Barbara with him through the front gate of the ghetto. Barbara now
recalls that the guard had turned his back to them so she believes that he had been bribed
by her father. The man took her to his apartment but she could only stay there for a couple
of days as it aroused suspicion that there was suddenly a new girl on the block. For the next
couple of months Barbara changed identities and moved between homes frequently to avoid
being captured. Then her dad had found a permanent place for her to stay. She ended up
staying with a family of parents and 3 sons of whom only one son worked because the father
was fired for drinking vodka on a job. She often helped the mother smuggle food and
cleaned the house while she also helped the middle son make vodka illegally.
She stayed at this house until July, 1944 when her father came to pick her up and he
took her to where her mother was hidden. There Barbara was reunited with her mother,
father and sister. This was the moment when Barbara officially considered the war to be over
because she had everything she wanted. They stayed in this apartment until the war finished
and the Russians took over. Even though she was in Warsaw during the time of the Uprising
she did not participate in it and was only a civilian. This comment was how Barbara ended
her story. Our group had the extraordinary opportunity to interview a survivor of World War II
and that is why our group thanked Barbara for sharing her experiences with us. Before she
departed from us she was asked the question, “Do you hate Germans?” She immediately
replied with a solid no stating that every country has exceptional people but also atrocious
people. She gave one piece of advice to all of us. Maybe living an uninteresting life is better
than an interesting one.