U Thrive: How to Succeed in College (and Life)
Chua Yi Lin
Chua Yi Lin
Introduction
mission is
compassion
pursue This
path to
slowly evaporate until poof…
at some point, it had to hit you.
Everything changed
the elements you need to be at your best changed
you wanted
something
that would make you happy. But
it’s not enough to explain why we want the things we want.
your rosy little mug
Your dreams of pirouetting across a stage
beautiful costumes
a hero sounding the siren
you saw
your self envisioned.
When life feels out of control,
the future
gone hay-wire,
the
control
felt over their
body
is no longer in their hands.
The Body Is Not Going Anywhere
Even if you are doing everything right
bad events appear farther away than they really are, and thus they declare that the road ahead is clear. how-ever,
the dinosaur is right on their tail and getting ever closer
when bad stuff happens
see it like this:
Not me (External): Life events stem from external circumstances, not from my individual traits and actions.
Not always (Unstable): Causes are temporary and likely to change in the future.
Every aspect of life is
a challenge
a tough test
afraid they would see what a wreck I really was
I saw anxiety the way I did the flu—something to get rid of, something that need to be cured. But with help, I developed a different relationship with myself, with the people I cared for, and with the world around me. I came to understand that my anxiety hadn’t been caused by a single thing, but by everything: years of being anxious, the loss of my grandfather, feeling lonely, feeling hurt.
I was going to have to change
I resume my life
I
change
I was learning
This is a path
To understand topics in Buddhist philosophy, a person could take this course. But outside the confines of a classroom, what about a person perusing today’s dose of self-help? Can and would that person encounter teachings of the Buddha? How compatible are the messages contained within self-help books with Buddhist beliefs and practices?
This work explores the possibility of making ‘self-help’ useful to the Buddhist agenda. Titled “U Thrive: How to Succeed in College (and Life)”, I borrow the literary technique of blackout poetry, redacting words from an existing text to form new phrases and statements to reveal new meaning. I use the text available to most currently matriculated Yale-NUS College students—U Thrive: How to Succeed in College (and Life) by Daniel Lerner and Alan Schlechter. The book says it is “a fun, comprehensive guide to surviving and thriving in college and beyond” aimed at freshies, providing “science, real-life stories, and tips for building positive lifelong habits”.
Arguably, self-help books parallel the Buddhist tradition in recognising that all (or self help book consumers) is suffering, and that liberating all from suffering begins with the right understanding. Buddhism has spread and seed itself across the globe, offering spiritual guidance, ethical ways of being, and creative inspiration. Mass marketed, with mass appeal, self-help books have also reached an international audience. If I had to generalise, both offer ‘how to life’ guides.
However, these self-help books also place a heavy emphasis on the self to help the self, which seems incongruent with the Buddhist understanding of no-self, where grasping and reaching for the self causes suffering. Further, as the titular book suggests, an intention to achieve a certain result, like success in college, does not cohere with Buddhist philosophy’s disavowal of attachment to specific outcomes and states of being.
The main Buddhist principle applied here was laid out by the Raft Analogy in MN22: the contextually judicious use of advice and teachings. Specific pages were carefully selected, and specific chunks of text deliberately hidden or highlighted. Having translated the Kalama Sutta in AN3.65, Thanissaro Bhikku notes that any view or belief are not to be followed simply because they seem right. This work thus attempts to exercise “appropriate attention” advocated for in the Kalama Sutta, questioning and testing the beliefs of a self-help book through reframing, reworking, and repurposing the text to aid in attaining the goal of Buddhist practice.
Another key concept that forms this project’s foundation is dependent origination— nothing exists independently. I have scanned the pages of the book before any alterations, and actively reference the texts read or notes taken in this course. See Slide 8 onwards [link to slides]. The speaker notes of the slides provide additional explanation on my intended messages.
It is very likely that other sources have contributed to what is being accomplished here, and so even if unlisted, I also thank and acknowledge that which has informed the work and would also like to extend my gratitude to all persons who have supported me in this endeavour.
I had fun doing what I initially was averse to: reading U Thrive. Five pages were selected and edited. Their key words (themes) include:
The first: compassion, path, nirvāṇa, emptiness
The second: impermanence, attachment to pleasant feeling, grasping, formation of self The third: self, lack of control, the body, unpleasant feeling
The fourth: inevitability of catastrophe, right view, dependent origination, suffering
The fifth: noble eightfold path, possibility, teacher and teaching
Thank you to Dr. Sherice Ngaserin for her support and approval of this idea from the get-go.
I am also thankful for her and my classmates’ input during class in the form of their thoughts, discussion, and notetaking: I have found their materials useful and invaluable in making this unessay.
My thanks to Chan Yi Qian for giving incredible artistic direction (e.g. dinosaur, wreck, highlights) and suggestions on the literary quality of my attempts at blackout poetry.