How to seduce a man

HOW TO SEDUCE A MAN

It is very easy to conclude that seducing a man is a cakewalk, but there is more that goes into getting into a man’s pants than just good looks. Society has made us think that as a woman, all that is required of you is to smile and look pretty and you can have any man you want. While this might be true in some rare cases, that has become a vastly antiquated way of approaching the subject matter.

More important than good looks are traits like passion, self-esteem, intelligence, open-mindedness, and your capacity to understand non-verbal communication commonly known as body language. When you possess these traits, you present yourself as more than just a pretty face and trust me, that is a major turn-on for many guys.

Now let’s go more in debt on these traits we have mentioned above, starting with:

1. Developing a sense of self-esteem

The statement “If you don’t value yourself, no one will value” comes to mind when the subject of self-esteem is brought up. This is because irrespective of your looks, a man will always admire confidence in a woman. A woman that is comfortable in her skin and knows her worth. It makes the “chase” worthwhile for the man. Also in cases where you are the one asking him out, your confidence is shown by this act alone and you are even more likely to get what you want. Don’t be afraid to go for what you want and more often than not, you will succeed. Value yourself and he will value you.

2. Be passionate

While passion can easily be assumed to be one of a sexual nature, in this case, you will require much more than that. What are your interests and how passionate are you about your job? Have you ever heard the statement “I love a man in uniform”? well that also applies to men. Men love a woman in uniform and generally a woman that has a skill or is excellent at her job. There is something about the taboo of sexual relations in the workplace that is appealing to most men hence the thought of that alone is enough to whet their appetites. So don’t be afraid to show your more technical or academic side in order to get what you want. It could be the deciding factor.

3. Show intelligence

It may seem irrelevant to the subject matter but trust me, no man wants to get down with a lady that is not intelligent and unawares, at least most men don’t. From your initial conversation, a man can already tell your level of intelligence and exposure. Imagine you are both having a conversation at a bar and something comes on the television and your commentary on the issue is completely devoid of any logic or awareness, that can be a major turn off and if it continues throughout the conversation, then you are never going to get beyond drinks. Intelligence is sexy, and may just be the key to getting down with the guy of your dreams. So next time you come across the national geographic channel, any news outlet/documentary channel, even just a book on any topic, then sit back and learn a thing or two.

4. Capacity to understand non-verbal communication

There are many ways you can know if what you are doing is working or if you are way off without him ever uttering a word. The body shows certain signs, be it consciously or otherwise and you being able to decipher them will go a long way to help your cause. You can also show your signs yourself that lets him know what you want in no uncertain terms.

Some of these signs are:

a. Come get me: This is the most common signal a lady can give to a guy when she is trying to seduce him. This signal tells the guy that you submit to his allure as a man. It lets him know he can approach you without fear of rejection. It lets him know you want him. This can easily be executed by giving him a sexy look with your eyes and lips working in tandem to activate his primal instincts.

b. Extensive gaze: Well before you take a step back and say “what are they talking about?”, we are not talking about giving a man you are trying to seduce a stone-cold stalker look. This is more like giving him that charming and sexy look that says “I want you badly”. Do this and trust me, things will go your way. Another thing you can add is:

c. Charming smile: While on its on it may not do much when you combine it with other signs, you will almost definitely succeed in sending the “come get me”

5. Open-mindedness

Sometimes, to get what you want, you need to go out of your comfort zone. This means if what you are doing isn’t yielding expected results, you need to be open to the idea of trying new things. One or more of the things on this list may not necessarily be your forte. So, it could be out of character for you to even consider them but when you are open to new ideas, it will be easier for you to adapt them as you try to achieve your goal.

Remember, every man is unique so you may require one or more of these ideas to get what you want.

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