1. Shared Interests
Shared interests are key when trying to look attractive to a man. What are your interests and how passionate are you about your job? Have you ever heard the statement “I love a man in uniform”? well that also applies to men. Men love a woman in uniform and generally a woman that has a skill or is excellent at her job. There is something about the taboo of sexual relations in the workplace that is appealing to most men hence the thought of that alone is enough to whet their appetites. So don’t be afraid to show your more technical or academic side to get what you want. It could be the deciding factor.
2. Exhibit intelligence
It may seem irrelevant to the subject matter but trust me, most men are not attracted to a lady that is not intelligent and unaware. When a man speaks with a lady and she seems to know a lot about a lot of things it sends a message to his brain that this is a special person and a potential partner. From your initial conversation, a man can already tell your level of intelligence and exposure. Imagine you are both having a conversation at a bar and something comes on the television and your commentary on the issue is completely devoid of any logic or awareness, that can be a major turn off and if it continues throughout the conversation, then you are never going to get beyond drinks. Intelligence is sexy, and may just be the key to looking attractive to the guy of your dreams. So next time you come across the national geographic channel, any news outlet/documentary channel, even just a book on any topic, then sit back and learn a thing or two.
3. Show Empathy
The importance of empathy in a potential relationship cannot be over-emphasized. The ability to see things from the man’s perspective will go a long way in making you appear attractive to a man. There are many situations in which empathy comes to play. While having initial conversations, he might bring up the loss of a parent or sibling, he might talk about a job he lost, or even about a tragic incident in his past. In such cases, your ability to understand his pain and stand by him, giving him words of encouragement and more, will help make you appear attractive before him. If he did not notice you before, he definitely will after this. Men have strong emotions even if it feels like they feel nothing most times. So your ability to listen, understand and help him through his pain makes you an essential and potentially integral part of his life. Who knows, you might be the savior he has needed for the longest time and nothing is more attractive than someone you can rely on.
4. Commitment
The idea of commitment is very important when trying to attract a man. Every man values commitment because it provides some sort of anchor or stability in their life. A man needs to know that if they commit to you, they will receive the same. So when you are trying to be attractive to a man, always make sure he knows and sees it is all for him and him alone. This is not the time to openly flirt when any man you come across. This inevitably gives the man the idea that you are not really interested in him and he would never truly find you attractive. Also on your path, you should exercise some patience as well. This is because it might take some time before the man shows some commitment to you because he wants to be sure. This means that this is not the time to ask the “what are we?” or marriage-related questions. Doing this might end up being counterproductive to the development of the relationship. In fact, your not showing much interest in those questions will make him want to commit more so he does not lose you. After all, who does not like a good thing?
5. Loyalty
Loyalty is a solid trait in any relationship and the bedrock of a solid partnership. When a man knows that they can trust you or that you are a trustworthy person, there is a form of attractiveness attached to it. That feeling of security in the fact that you have got their back no matter what happens, the feeling that they can rely on you come rain, come sunshine. Loyalty goes a long way in making you appear attractive before a man. There is a statement “she belongs to the streets” used for ladies that cannot stay with one man. This statement, as derogatory as it sounds is also a turn-off for most man and as a lady, you do not want to be associated with such. Simply put, if you are associated with that statement, you will never truly be attractive to a man and you do not want that.
6. Physical Beauty
We would be lying if we said that physical beauty has no part to play in attractiveness to a man. It has its part to play so always make sure you look your best especially before the man you want to attract. Dress well, maintain proper hygiene and wear a smile and you are on your way to getting the man of your dreams.