Mila

Mila arrived underweight, developmentally behind, and carrying the effects of early neglect. Her body and nervous system told the story before any paperwork could. She is intelligent, independent, and resourceful, traits that likely helped her survive early instability but now require careful guidance. Mila struggles with insecurity, possessiveness, and regulation, especially around food, space, and attention.

This year has been largely shaped by supporting Mila’s physical recovery while addressing her behavioral needs. Weight gain has needed to happen slowly and intentionally, mindful of underlying medical concerns. Training has focused on safety, predictability, and helping Mila learn that she does not need to compete in order to have her needs met. Progress has come in small increments, and setbacks have been part of the process.

Mila represents the complexity of rescuing young dogs whose formative experiences were shaped by scarcity. Her care requires consistency, patience, and a long-term commitment. This December, I learned that Mila has kidney dysplasia, something that she has always had but that became highlight after she was spayed.  So currently, I am still working on Mila's diet and she is receiving subcutaneous fluids three times a week.  

Mila's medical condition has made me face my shadows around loss, grief and seizing the day.  I was my parents' caretaker before they both passed from cancer and suddenly Mila's condition has brought back the worry, concern and memories from my mother's two years of battling inflammatory breast cancer.  I am trying to be okay and live in the good moments with Mila as my Mexican holistic coach has told me that worry, concern, etc. will affect not only my kidneys but also Mila's.