Have you sought out your marigolds? Are you a marigold for someone else?
Martyrdom is complex. In Onward, Elena Aguilar shares some of the dangers of martyrdom: Implicit in a martyr complex can be a deficit mindset about students and their communities – that the children and parents can’t and haven’t helped themselves, so they need an outside savior. Sometimes we encounter this mindset in education reform or transformation efforts where folks enter a community with big goals and inspiring slogans intent on saving kids from the ravages of inequities. We must be careful – martyrdom can converge with racism and classism.