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TIME MAGAZINE April 5, 2022
“A rejected student is still as bright, talented, and full of potential as he was before the rejection,” reminds Sabky. “If we teach our young people that they are no ‘less’ because of a rejection (and no ‘more’ because of an admission), it can remind them that what matters most is not the name on their college sweatshirt, but who is wearing it.”
https://time.com/charter/6164408/what-college-rejections-can-mean/
Preparing Students for Life & Higher Education
Teaching Life Skills and Financial Literacy
Preparing Students for the Workforce:
Study Smarter, Not Harder: A Practical Guide to Teaching Study Skills
FORBES MAGAZINE FEB 14, 2022 College Decisions and their impact on lives and futures
”selectivity is not a proxy for quality, especially in a time when applications are increasing at incredible rates at some of the most selective schools. Exceptional colleges and universities come in all shapes, sizes, and admit rates.”
"An applicant should consider this: “Is what you’ve realized, what you’ve lived, or what you’ve done unique to you, or something the kids within your neighboring Zip codes are also experiencing?”
"There are fresh ways to write about the worst year ever. Perhaps it gave you a chance to have long talks with your mother about how much she hated growing up in poverty but later realized that the frugality ingrained in her was a gift. Maybe the political sniping you saw so much on cable news led you to want to study how democracies, particularly ours, can find ways to unite when times are bad."
Preparing 9th & 10th graders for College and Life!
October 26, 2020
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Here’s an example: “We, emphatically, do not seek to create a competitive public service ‘Olympics’ in response to this pandemic. What matters to us is whether students’ contribution or service is authentic and meaningful to them and to others, whether that contribution is writing regular notes to frontline workers or checking in with neighbors who are isolated. We will assess these contributions and service in the context of the obstacles students are facing.”
"In hopes of providing some guidance to students and their parents, I asked college admissions officers to offer advice about the process in the year of the Covid-19 pandemic.
Tim Wolfe, associate vice president for enrollment and dean of admission, William & Mary, Williamsburg, Va.
"The application is a chance for us to hear a student’s story and listen to their voice — that hasn’t changed in 2020, and it is likely more important than ever that we continue to engage in this process from a holistic perspective."
More info is available about which college majors pay off, but students aren’t using it. Advocates say increased attention to return on investment may be about to change that.
WASHINGTON POST April 20, 2020
COLLEGE and the COVID 19
Andrew B. Palumbo, Dean of Admissions & Financial Aid Worcester Polytechnic Institute provides good counsel to high school juniors.
"Uncertainty marks today, tomorrow, and the foreseeable future. But I encourage you to accept what you can’t change and try to focus on the things that you can."
"And yet, when researchers ask parents about what qualities they care most about fostering in their children, almost all respond by saying they are deeply invested in raising caring, ethical children, and most say they see these moral qualities like these as more important than academic or career achievements. "
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"In childhood, we associate responsibility with the dutiful fulfillment of obligations and duties: performing household chores, completing homework assignments, brushing teeth at bedtime. A responsible child is a compliant child, as it is ultimately the parent who owns the younger child’s responsibilities.
In adolescence, we expect more initiative and investment regarding duties and obligations, but most parents don’t abdicate oversight altogether. In other words, the parent and adolescent co-own the adolescent’s responsibilities.
The most reliable signal that the transition to emerging adulthood has begun is evidence that the child has begun taking sole ownership of these responsibilities — independent of parental involvement — via personal initiative and follow-through."
STEVE LOPEZ
"The college entrance scandal is an extreme example of how parents have bought into a high-pressure culture of expectation that might be more harmful than helpful, especially for those who put more weight on a fancy diploma than a life of meaning."
WASHINGTON POST Sept 17 by Ned Johnson
"Something has clearly gone wrong when parents are prepared to risk not just their own integrity but also their kids’, as well as their freedom. And while the message that these guilty parents held in mind may have been I would do ANYTHING for you to have opportunity and success, here are the actual messages these young people received, all of which undermine their autonomy:
If you do not go to an elite enough college, you will not be successful in life.
You really cannot do this without me.
Where you go to college matters more than your (or my) integrity.
If you work hard and fall short of your goal, you cannot handle the rejection or adversity."
Researchers at the Georgetown University Center on Education and the Workforce tried to answer that question, using newly released federal data to try to calculate return on investment for thousands of colleges across the country.
The results — searchable and sortable online — with rankings of 4,500 schools.
Some may discount the idea that the true value of higher education can be quantified, let alone calculated in dollars.
But given surging student-loan debt nationally, the study’s authors argue it’s a question that cannot be ignored.
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