where did you get your info ? State facts with proof. I had a well known hobbyist put a tracking device on my cars a year later after we stopped dating. He was trying to tip off the police about my whereabouts. He also sent letters and copies of reviews to all my friends, family and neighbours.
When I turned over the device ...... a month later the police called me and asked if I knew " so and so ? " My mouth fell to the floor. I was shocked.
I never answered and got a lawyer. Later .... I admitted to the police how I knew him. My lawyer advised me that the police can not help me if I am not honest and that they will eventually find out so I told them the truth risking that I may have charges pressed against me.
After that .... I waited. I didn't hear anything for a few weeks anticipating that they were going to press charges on me. My lawyer said that most likely I would get probation or/and a fine since I have never been in trouble but nothing happened.
So let me tell you something ...... I was willing to take my slap on the rist and I had the freaking police hounding me for weeks to help them do stuff that I was not comfortable doing.
It was obvious that they were very interested in this creep because they would not leave me alone. They went as far as showing me some sites he belonged to ..... such as Teensforcash.com , sites that also showed how you could hack somebodies computer ect.ect.. They told me what he looked like and mention a place he was in the middle of the after noon. Also asked me if I knew why he would be with some young girl that he was twice her age.
At that point ... I realized that they must be watching him and I called one agency to warn them that he is being watch and investigated. It was an agency that I like and know. TGND.
You people are crazy. They certainly was not interested in me a provider that rarely worked and had been out of the business for almost a year. They found a hobbyist that has hundreds of reviews and dealings with lots of agencies very interesting.
They also found the age of the girls very interesting and the fact that some didn't speak English. I suspect they think he was involved in something deeper or could point them in the right direction.
As far as charges are concerned ..... I never pursued it because it would have involved many others and pulled people in. He certainty was more social than I and knows lots of people. All I kept thinking is about him making a deal to save his own ass.
So why I was being harassed by investigators ... he was out there socializing and putting people at risk.
So I am really sick of people getting the facts wrong. And yes .... I have proof. Any time ...you want to email a fax number or meet me in person. I have shared with some and will with you.
As a matter of fact ..... if you want the officers name and number that may still be investigating him; I can provide that too.
Although ...I know cops play good cop - bad cop and it is really hard to trust them because they are doing their job but they were very concerned and think this guy is dangerous.
Let me tell you .. it scared me and shook me up some of the things they told me.
So please let me make this straight and I am already tired of the drama ..... I am not perfect. Maybe I have hurt some feelings. Maybe I made bad decisions mixing business with pleasure. Maybe I got caught up in gossip. But I have never put intentional thought into hurting or planing to cause somebody harm. NEVER !!
I don't care what anybody says .... there is nothing that justifies anybody going to somebodies parents house and tampering with the vehicles. Just think what some of you would do if somebody tried to hurt your family ? What would you do ?
He had no right invading my personal life or my family's. I only dated him for a short three months. Never did he come to my personal home, have my home number, never spent a holiday with him or was he ever invited to meet my family. He was seeing hundreds of ladies and reviewing them so I didn't need to spell it out. If somebody doesn't share their personal life with you .... see you, spend time with you or invite you over; I would say it doesn't take rocket science to figure out the rest.
As far as him saying it didn't belong here or on any other board because it was a personal relationship ..... of course he is going to say that. But let me ask each and everyone one of you this ..... how many times have you shared your real name in the hobby ? A drink with somebody in the hobby ? Shared an incall ? Became friends with somebody in the hobby ? So does that count as personal ? So does that mean it is okay for somebody to invade your personal life or hurt your family ?
It is just a loop-hole for some to justify what he did.
I don't care if anybody believes me ..... I don't care if some of you are weak enough to jump on Sydney's ban wagon, I don't care if you want to spread gossip and act like you're in the know. I'm the one that came out in the open about what happened and nobody would have known if I didn't. How many other girls do you think this happens to ? Do you think it is fair for them to be threatened to leave the business ?
Even if I didn't like somebody or had disagreements with them in the past .... I would never encourage this kind of behaviour or take up for or cover up for. All the girls have a right to work and be here.
He is nothing more than a modern day " Internet Pimp." One that promotes prostitution. What do you think 600 reviews do ? Often dates girls that he promotes ? What does he do ? They have no outside life or other interest. If you go against them or abandoned them ... they will hurt you, your family and your reputation. Sound familiar ?
So I don't need anybody's approval here ..... I stand alone on my decisions. I did what I thought was best for me, my family and others in this community. Until you are in the same shoes ... don't be so quick to judge. It wasn't just about me.
Also .... the law states I have one year and one day to press charges. Maybe I will .... maybe I won't ... maybe I won't have too.
So maybe you are in with the clique that likes to harrass and run other girls off ? Yeah ... who is jealous now.
This will be the last comment I make. I'm not interested in spending hours on the board defending myself against you, Sydney or anybody else.
So to answer your question one time before. " What have I learned about the business ? " I'll tell ya .... I learned that almost all of the girls including myself come to the business because we have personal problems. Whether it be divorce, education, children, alcohol, drug addiction ... whatever. So we have a choice to stay focused and get ourself out of our situation or we can get distracted spending our time on the boards.
In the whole scheme of things .... isn't that why the girls come here ? To make money .... to have a better life outside ?
There are some that brag how long they have been here but their personal life is still a mess .... that is not something to be proud of. They think the people that encourage them or cheer them on ..... are their friends. Yeah right ... sometimes your real friends do tough things and may not always say what you want to hear. Sometimes a real friend may have to let you hit rock bottom.
Well ..sorry that I started to ramble. I was invited here so there must be somebody interested in what I have to say.