Conflict

Conflict happens when people don’t agree. This can happen in the classroom, on the playground, at home. This can happen with teachers, friends or parents. Conflict is normal.

There are many ways that you can handle conflict. Small problems are problems that you are smart enough and strong enough to solve yourself. Small problems may make you feel lonely, sad, embarrassed. If it is a small problem, try one or two of these options.

From Kelso’s choice

Wait and cool off

Make a deal

Apologize

Tell them to stop

Walk away

Ignore it

Share and take turns

Talk it out

Go to another game

Big problems are dangerous, illegal, or hurtful. They may make you feel scared, frightened, worried. If it is a big problem, talk to a trusted adult to help you solve the conflict.

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