Chapter 5
Protecting Your Teens from Social Media
Proverbs 22:6
Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
Parents face the challenge of guiding their teens through the world of social media while safeguarding their well-being. As Proverbs 22:6 wisely advises, "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." I
1. Open and Honest Communication
- Ephesians 4:15 encourages speaking the truth in love. Foster an environment where your teens feel comfortable discussing their online experiences, concerns, and questions. Engaging in open and honest conversations helps build trust and understanding.
2. Set Clear Boundaries
- Just as 1 Corinthians 6:12 teaches that not everything is beneficial, establish clear guidelines for social media usage. Define appropriate screen time, app usage, and online behaviors, emphasizing the importance of responsible digital engagement.
3. Lead by Example
- 1 Timothy 4:12 reminds us to set an example for believers in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity. Demonstrate healthy online habits, kindness, and respectful communication in your own interactions with social media. Your actions speak louder than words.
4. Educate About Online Dangers
- Proverbs 19:20 advises listening to advice and accepting instruction. Equip your teens with knowledge about online risks, such as cyberbullying, privacy concerns, and the potential negative impact on mental health. Encourage them to seek help and guidance when needed.
By incorporating these practical steps into your parenting approach and grounding them in the wisdom of Scripture, you can protect your teens from the pitfalls of social media and guide them toward responsible and safe online experiences.
Discussion Questions:
1. How can Ephesians 4:15 guide parents in maintaining open and honest communication with their teens regarding social media?
2. Discuss the importance of setting clear boundaries in accordance with 1 Corinthians 6:12. How can parents effectively communicate these boundaries to their teens?
3. How does 1 Timothy 4:12 emphasize the role of leading by example in parenting? Share ways in which parents can demonstrate healthy online habits.
4. Proverbs 19:20 highlights the importance of education and seeking advice. How can parents educate their teens about online dangers and encourage them to seek help when needed?
5. Share personal experiences or challenges related to parenting teens in the digital age and how you have applied these lessons from Scripture to protect your teens from social media's potential dangers.