Talk It Out

The "Talk It Out" is Norths Schools conflict resolution program. At the beginning of the year, I trained each class on how to use the process and where it can take place. Talk it Outs are not restricted to the counseling office and we encourage students to take initiative and use the process on playground, in the classroom, and at home. Throughout the talk and listen portion we encourage students to use I-Messages. The Talk It Out Process and I-message statements allow students to take ownership of their emotions and connect with others in an empathetic way. Therefore, if your student is having a conflict encourage them to use an I –message and Talk It Out.

Steps For Talk it Out

1. Take Time to cool Off
2. Talk and Listen, Always use and I-Message : I feel _____________when __________( behavior)
3. Think of ways to solve your Problem
4. Choose the idea that works best for both of you