Understand demands on athlete’s time and the diversity of challenges they face daily
Talk to athletes about things not related to sports (ie classes, school day, future plans)
Listen to athlete concerns in regards to health and injury
Understand that your coach has expertise and a plan to help you achieve your goals
Acknowledge that all your teammates play a vital role in the overall success of the team
Get to know your teammates outside of sports (interests, hobbies, etc.)
Make the first interaction with coaches and other parents a positive one
Understand that your kids are working hard and are busy - acknowledge that to them from time to time
Schedule a time outside of practice and competition, if you have an issue with a coach, to meet with them, another coach, and anyone else that needs to be there.
Be willing to Serve when opportunities arise (concessions, fund raisers, team diners, etc)
Have open communication with staff, students and parents
Deal with staff, students and parents fairly
Build quality relationships with staff, students and parents
Have a plan in place for every practice
Own mistakes - go out of the way to get ahead of potential negative consequences of decisions/actions and get the head coach and AD in the loop
Be willing to ask other coaches questions and talk through frustrations
Be responsible for the consequences of your decisions and actions
Ask when you need help (sport, school, etc)
Understand that as a part of this team, you and your best effort are necessary for all of our success
Check in on your athlete’s academic progress regularly
Ask about practices and games, they may not say much, but keep asking
Remind your athlete to check practice times/schedules
Place continual emphasis on academics and scholarship
Provide quality programs students want to be a part of
Provide safe and quality equipment and facilities
Remember that athletes/parents/coaches are always watching
People will judge the program in part on the behavior, comments, language and decisions of the coaches
Understand that we are largely unaware of most of the struggles our athletes are facing
Not allow one-on-one situations with a parent or athlete outside the view of others
Acknowledge exemplary behavior
Remember that your coaches are human, they have lives and struggle just like you do
Understand that your fellow athletes have challenges and struggles that you may not relate to, but they are just as real
Understand that you have more in common with athletes from other schools than you have differences - many of them will be your future best friends
Remember that even if you are not the star of the show, people will notice the things you do to and for others
Understand that your kids do actually hear what you say, so be positive and supportive
Acknowledge that right or wrong, coaches/parents/athletes see and hear your behavior and comments at games and form opinions
Understand that your child’s coach sees things you don’t when making judgements on when and where to place athletes
Remember that no matter how great your kid is, their story is never the whole story
Clearly communicate expectations, intentions and suggestions
Operate in a way that is consistent with WIAA and West Valley School District guidelines and expectations
Make decisions that uphold the values of competition and sportsmanship
Lead by example, model the behavior you desire to see in your athletes
Be willing to do the work (not the workouts) that you ask your athletes to do
Remember that anyone can lead by example
Acknowledge that it takes a lot of work to keep facilities looking nice - be willing to do your part
Remember that it takes a lot of work to put on a sporting event, look for opportunities to help
Understand that it takes a lot of man-power to run a team and put on sporting events - help out when you can.
Provide high quality coaches and professional growth opportunities for them
Recognize high quality work and achievements in a formal way
Provide opportunities to create memorable experiences