Symptoms of Stress
Symptoms of stress
pounding heart
shortness of breath
cold hands or feet
extreme moodiness
memory blanks
feelings of being overwhelmed
worry
butterflies in your stomach
feelings of being out of control.
Common life stressors
high expectations—in academics, athletics and other performance areas; the expectations may be your own or others
family problems—separation or divorce, arguing
peer pressure—to take drugs or alcohol; the need to be accepted and conform
growing up—wanting to be independent but unsure of the responsibilities
relationships—losing a friend, making new friends, dating
time pressure—too many things to do and not enough time
the future—college, employment, relationships, family, international conflicts and wars
personal identity—figuring out who you are
sexuality—uncertainty, pressure to conform, lack of information.
Managing stress
There are different ways to manage stress in your life, including changing the situation or changing your reactions. Stressors can be reduced by:
exercising—keep fit through sporting activities
nourishing the body—maintain a balanced diet and eat as little junk food as possible; get plenty of sleep; avoid cigarettes, alcohol and drugs; have an annual check-up
relaxing—learn relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing and imagery, and use them daily
balancing—create a balance between school, studying and play
becoming aware of stressors in your life—learn to deal with troublesome events as they arise
developing positive self-talk—replace negative thoughts with phrases, such as “I’m feeling relaxed” or “I can handle this.”
Strategies for handling anxiety
Be aware of what your body is telling you.
Recognize that all people feel anxious at some time in their lives.
Develop a plan and use it.
Recognize your personal limitations.
Practise relaxation techniques.