Basics:
This blog is 18+ Minors DNI.
I don't use icons or do formatting aside from making text small.
My blogs will all contain NSFW material, and possible triggers.
A few consistent themes are: Drug/Alcohol abuse, Toxic relationships with parents and partners, Parental deaths, death in general, gore & general violence. Smut may be present! Block the tag 'le spice' if you don't wish to see it.
I LOVE DUPLICATES. Please don't be shy to follow if we write the same muse, or use the same FC. If I write a muse, I love them, and would also love to interact with them.
If I follow you, I want to interact! This also means I have looked over your muse list, read your rules and think that our writing styles and rules line up well. I am shy and slow, however, so it might take me some time to reach out. Memes are always welcome regardless of how much or how little we've interacted. ALWAYS feel free to hop in my messages to discuss dynamics, plot ideas, and just to get to know each other. I.E. I'm much more likely to maintain muse, and feel confident initiating interaction for things if we have a connection ooc.
My blogs run off of a queue/I am slow. I rarely post things as soon as I'm done with them. For the rare instances that I do, it is typically with those whom I have a connection with outside of muse interaction. This means replies can take upwards of a week at times, and when I'm working a lot, they may take longer. Because of this I always encourage mutuals to send in lots of memes, and will never be against having multiple threads/verses, etc., that way there's usually something being published for our things.
I will give my discord out to mutuals once we have interacted a bit. I am way better at talking ooc on there since I don't have to flip through blogs. I also prefer using discord for writing. If we are vibing well, and add each other I will typically offer to set up a server with categories and channels for our connections and au's.
In the name of DNI's and things in that context: if you see me interacting with someone problematic, DM me. Don't send anons, as I prefer to be able to have an open discussion about things. While I don't involve myself in drama, I do appreciate being made aware if something is an issue. I understand it can cause a lot of anxiety to reach out to someone about these kinds of things, but I promise at the very least to listen to what you have to say. I don't like anons about these kinds of things because then it is impossible to tell if it is a serious issue, or if someone is being targeted for unfair reasons. I reserve the right to come to my own conclusion.
Writing:
If you police what others are allowed to write, this isn't the blog for you. I understand having triggers, and if you let me know what those are, I will try my best to tag things! However, this is a hobby. It is made up. People can write about things, and NOT condone them. I've been seeing a lot of people saying they wont write with this muse, or that muse, but they'll write with muses who murder, abuse, etc. It just seems very arbitrary to draw the line, and then only hold certain muses 'accountable'. I want to write about very real things, and sometimes life is a bit fucked up. If you don't vibe with that, I understand- This may not be the blog for you, and that's okay! This also does not mean that NSFW/horrendous things can take place in our threads without prior consent. It is VERY important to plot out NSFW/triggering content, regardless of how well we know each other ooc.
No God-modding. Only I know how my muse will react to something (and sometimes even I don't know until something happens). Just because something is written out in a reply (such as muse intentions, mindset, etc.) does not mean other muses will be aware of it. Just because we have discussed something out of character about my muse, does not mean your muse will know about it. I also will not have my muse be aware of things they aren't supposed to be aware of.
I won't hold my muses back, so please do not hold yours back either! Major events such as physical violence, injuries, etc. will be plotted.
I do not auto-ship. It doesn't matter if it's a ship in canon, or if our muses are together in another universe. I do not like jumping into ships. Shipping for me is based strictly on chemistry, and oftentimes I have to have some comfortable back and forth with the other human involved with the characters I write with, regardless of dynamics, but especially with romantic ships. Since I am on the Aro spectrum, romantic ships are not a main focus for me. While I do enjoy shipping, those connections tend to take a little more effort on my part.