Christlike Attributes
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Week 1 CREATIVITY
Sept 15
CONSECRATION, Availability – “Our Heartfelt All” Elder Uchtdorf
Sept 17
CHARITY & LOVE – “Legacy of Encouragement” Elder Eyring
Sept 22
CONFIDENCE – “Confidence in the Presence of God” Pres Nelson
"Covenant Confidence" -Elder Soares
Sept 24
CONSISTENCY – “Just Keep Going-With Faith” Carl B. Cook
Sept 29
COURAGE – “Courage to Be a Follower of Christ” Elder Kyungu
Oct 1
DETERMINATION – “Choose to Believe” Elder Clayton
Oct 6
ADAPTABLE – “Jesus Christ is the Treasure” Elder Renlund
Oct 8
FORGIVING – “Beauty for Ashes: The Healing
Power of Forgiveness” Kristin Yee
Oct 13
GRIT – “Perseverance” Elder Faust
Oct 15
JOYFULNESS – “Welcome to the Church of Joy” Elder Kearon
Oct 20
OBEDIENCE – “O Youth of the Noble Birthright” Wilcox
Oct 22
OBSERVANT – “Seeing More of Jesus Christ in Our Lives” Tracy Browning
Oct 27
PATIENCE – “Seeking Answers to Spiritual Questions” Tracy Browning
Oct 29
PEACEMAKER – “Peacemakers Needed” Pres Nelson
Nov 3
RELIABILITY – “True Disciples of the Savior” Elder Vinson
Nov 5
BELONGING & HOPE – “God’s Favorite” Elder Hirst
Nov 10
SELF-MASTERY “Giving Our Spirits Control Over Our Bodies” Elder Ballard
Nov 12
TEACHER – “Teaching in the Savior’s Way” Jan E. Newman
Nov 17
WISDOM – “We Will Prove Them Herewith” Elder Bednar
Nov 19
GRATEFUL – “An Attitude of Gratitude” Elder Monson
Nov 24
STRONG – “Then Will I Make Weak Things Become Strong” Elder Hamilton
Nov 26
MEEK – “Legacy of Encouragement” Elder Eyring
Dec 1
WILLING – “Are You Still Willing” Elder Pearson
Dec 3
SELFLESS – “Aligning Our Will with His” Elder Soares
Find a picture of the Savior showing patience
Types of Patience demonstrated by the Savior
Adaptive/overcoming/seeking
STEADY /CONSISTANT/
WAITING/WATCHING
Endure PERSISTENT - RELENTLESS PURSUIT
LISTENING TEACHING
LOVING / KINDNESS/ Forgiving
Cheerful- happy- Joyful
Present - Still- Yearning, calm
Resilient /Faith filled/confident
Emphatic, understanding and mindful
Timing and Planned
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Patience
"Patience is the capacity to endure delay, trouble, opposition, or suffering without becoming angry, frustrated, or anxious. It is the ability to do God’s will and accept His timing. When you are patient, you hold up under pressure and are able to face adversity calmly and hopefully. Patience is related to hope and faith—you must wait for the Lord’s promised blessings to be fulfilled. You need patience in your everyday experiences and relationships, especially with your companion. You must be patient with all people, yourself included, as you work to overcome faults and weaknesses." PMG
"And now it came to pass that the burdens which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were made light; yea, the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord" (Mosiah 24:15).
"No pain that we suffer, no trial that we experience is wasted. It ministers to our education, to the development of such qualities as patience, faith, fortitude, and humility. ... It is through sorrow and suffering, toil and tribulation, that we gain the education that we come here to acquire.” (Elder Orson F. Whitney, quoted by President Spencer W. Kimball in Faith Precedes the Miracle [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Company, 1972])
“I believe that a lack of patience is a major cause of the difficulties and unhappiness in the world today. Too often, we are impatient with ourselves, with our family members and friends, and even with the Lord. We seem to demand what we want right now, regardless of whether we have earned it, whether it would be good for us, or whether it is right. Some seek immediate gratification or numbing of every impulse by turning to alcohol and drugs, while others seek instant material wealth by questionable investments or by dishonesty, with little or no regard for the consequences. Perhaps the practice of patience is more difficult, yet more necessary, now than at any previous time” (Wirthlin, "Patience, a Key to Happiness," Ensign, May 1987, 30).
“Patience is tied very closely to faith in our Heavenly Father. Actually, when we are unduly impatient, we are suggesting that we know what is best—better than does God. Or, at least, we are asserting that our timetable is better than his. Either way we are questioning the reality of God’s omniscience [knowledge]” (NAM, "Patience," Ensign, Oct. 1980, 28).
“Patient endurance permits us to cling to our faith in the Lord and our faith in His timing when we are being tossed about by the surf of circumstance. Even when a seeming undertow grasps us, somehow, in the tumbling, we are being carried forward, though battered and bruised.” Elder Neal A. Maxwell Endure It Well, Ensign, May 1990
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/new-era/2016/12/how-to-be-patient?lang=eng
I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all. Eccl 9:11
Isaiah 40:28-31 Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding. He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall: But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.4
"If, for instance, we are always taking our temperature to see if we are happy, we will not be. If we are constantly comparing to see if things are fair, we are not only being unrealistic, we are being unfair to ourselves. Therefore, true enduring represents not merely the passage of time, but the passage of the soul—and not merely from A to B, but sometimes all the way from A to Z. To endure in faith and doeth God’s will (see D&C 63:20; D&C 101:35) therefore involves much more than putting up with a circumstance." https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1990/04/endure-it-well?lang=eng
Hope
Perfect brightness of hope
Lively hope
Better hope
Sufficient hope
Firm hope
Excellent hope
Lamentations 3:22
Perseverance
I QUIT because...
PAIN
I didn't like it
Lack of time
Didn't feel like I was good enough
Too scared
Money and Job
Injury or health
Other better things
No opportunity
new opportunity
Being Lazy
Other people
BORING
No TIME
No practice
Not enjoyable
Nothing new, or progression
Too good for it
Beef w/ coach
Reputation
Competing interest
Environment
CREATIVITY
Build, passion, vulnerability, discover, potential, vision, interest, contagious, patience, cultivate, foster, curiosity
“God left us the world unfinished for man to work his skill upon. He left the electricity in the cloud, the oil in the earth. He left the rivers unbridged and the forests unfelled and the cities unbuilt. God gives to man the challenge of raw materials, not the ease of unfinished things. He leaves the pictures unpainted and the music unsung and the problems unsolved, that man might know the joys and glories of creation.”
― Thomas S. Monson
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/new-era/2004/02/channeling-your-creativity?lang=eng
Abraham 4
“The brother of Jared had already built barges according to the Lord’s specifications. But there was no way of supplying light for the travelers inside. The brother of Jared prayed: ‘Behold, O Lord, wilt thou suffer that we shall cross this great water in darkness?’ (Ether 2:22). Too often in our prayers we only restate our problems. ‘And the Lord said unto the brother of Jared: What will ye that I should do that ye may have light in your vessels?’ (Ether 2:23). He was told he couldn’t use windows or fire. In life we are sometimes limited in the possible options we can use to solve problems. “The brother of Jared’s solution was to take 16 transparent stones and ask the Lord to touch them. ‘Touch these stones, O Lord, with thy finger, and prepare them that they may shine forth in darkness … that we may have light while we shall cross the sea” (Ether 3:4). The Lord made the stones glow, and they worked perfectly throughout the voyage.”
Search create/creative in this byu speech of Joseph Smith: https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/truman-g-madsen/joseph-smiths-personality-and-character/
Resourcefulness 2 Nephi 5
great capacity to understand the Gospel of Jesus Christ and its relationship to all that happens in life.
You also have received a great capacity to bring order to chaos both in the affairs of man and in the accumulation of information and knowledge.
Creativity, Use your gifts, Resourcefulness
“The desire to create is one of the deepest yearnings of the human soul. No matter our talents, education, backgrounds, or abilities, we each have an inherent wish to create something that did not exist before. Everyone can create. You don’t need money, position, or influence in order to create something of substance or beauty.
Creation brings deep satisfaction and fulfillment. We develop ourselves and others when we take unorganized matter into our hands and mold it into something of beauty—and I am not talking about the process of cleaning the rooms of your teenage children. You might say, “I’m not the creative type. When I sing, I’m always half a tone above or below the note. I cannot draw a line without a ruler. And the only practical use for my homemade bread is as a paperweight or as a doorstop.” If that is how you feel, think again, and remember that you are spirit daughters of the most creative Being in the universe. Isn’t it remarkable to think that your very spirits are fashioned by an endlessly creative and eternally compassionate God? Think about it—your spirit body is a masterpiece, created with a beauty, function, and capacity beyond imagination.
But to what end were we created? We were created with the express purpose and potential of experiencing a fulness of joy.4 Our birthright—and the purpose of our great voyage on this earth—is to seek and experience eternal happiness. One of the ways we find this is by creating things. If you are a mother, you participate with God in His work of creation—not only by providing physical bodies for your children but also by teaching and nurturing them. If you are not a mother now, the creative talents you develop will prepare you for that day, in this life or the next.
You may think you don’t have talents, but that is a false assumption, for we all have talents and gifts, every one of us.5 The bounds of creativity extend far beyond the limits of a canvas or a sheet of paper and do not require a brush, a pen, or the keys of a piano. Creation means bringing into existence something that did not exist before—colorful gardens, harmonious homes, family memories, flowing laughter. What you create doesn’t have to be perfect. So what if the eggs are greasy or the toast is burned? Don’t let fear of failure discourage you. Don’t let the voice of critics paralyze you—whether that voice comes from the outside or the inside. If you still feel incapable of creating, start small. Try to see how many smiles you can create, write a letter of appreciation, learn a new skill, identify a space and beautify it.
Nearly a century and a half ago, President Brigham Young spoke to the Saints of his day. “There is a great work for the Saints to do,” he said. “Progress, and improve upon and make beautiful everything around you. Cultivate the earth, and cultivate your minds. Build cities, adorn your habitations, make gardens, orchards, and vineyards, and render the earth so pleasant that when you look upon your labors you may do so with pleasure, and that angels may delight to come and visit your beautiful locations. In the mean time continually seek to adorn your minds with all the graces of the Spirit of Christ.”6
The more you trust and rely upon the Spirit, the greater your capacity to create. That is your opportunity in this life and your destiny in the life to come. Sisters, trust and rely on the Spirit. As you take the normal opportunities of your daily life and create something of beauty and helpfulness, you improve not only the world around you but also the world within you.” DFU https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2008/10/happiness-your-heritage?lang=eng
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/video/2009-02-0006-create?lang=eng
Parker Walbeck The gospel creative struggle
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=isqnnDtdJgo&ab_channel=Let%27sGetRealwithStephenJones
21:41-26:57
Parker Walbeck: Ye are Gods https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gSYQWtEPbs&ab_channel=FullTimeFilmmaker
What did you do with you gift and creativity?
Galumphing: 1 hour challenge (4:30-6:00) https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/podcast/everything-creative-dr-mark-henderson-ec671c1?lang=eng&collectionId=f5768035a6c34c2fbb87daffb2643d7a
"Anthropologists have found 'galumphing' to be one of the prime talents that characterize higher life forms. Galumphing is the immaculately rambunctious and seemingly inexhaustible play-energy apparent in puppies, kittens, children, baby baboons - and also in young communities and civilizations. Galumphing is the seemingly useless elaboration and ornamentation of activity. It is profligate, excessive, exaggerated, uneconomical... In the higher animals and in people, it is of supreme evolutionary value." Free Play: Improvisation in Life and Art, by Stephen Nachmanovitch
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/new-era/2004/02/channeling-your-creativity?lang=eng
“To many,” Elder Hales says, “the word creativity simply refers to the cultural, performing, or visual arts. This is a very limiting definition. There are endless ways of applying creative reasoning. “We have the ability to produce creative works in our daily activities. Creativity can also be used to find solutions to everyday problems by developing new ways of approaching the problems. I have seen such creativity during my lifetime."
SELFLESSNESS
ELDER BEDNAR
“Perhaps the greatest indicator of character is the capacity to recognize and appropriately respond to other people who are experiencing the very challenge or adversity that is most immediately and forcefully pressing upon us. Character is revealed, for example, in the power to discern the suffering of other people when we ourselves are suffering; in the ability to detect the hunger of others when we are hungry; and in the power to reach out and extend compassion for the spiritual agony of others when we are in the midst of our own spiritual distress. Thus, character is demonstrated by looking and reaching outward when the natural and instinctive response is to be self-absorbed and turn inward. If such a capacity is indeed the ultimate criterion of moral character, then the Savior of the world is the perfect example of such a consistent and charitable character.
Jesus' character necessarily underwrote His remarkable atonement. Without Jesus' sublime character there could have been no sublime atonement! His character is such that He "[suffered] temptations of every kind" (Alma 7:11), yet He gave temptations "no heed" (Doctrine and Covenants 20:22). Someone has said only those who resist temptation really understand the power of temptation. Because Jesus resisted it perfectly, He understood temptation perfectly, hence He can help us. The fact that He was dismissive of temptation and gave it "no heed," reveals His marvelous character, which we are to emulate” (see Doctrine and Covenants 20:22; 3 Nephi 12:48; 27:27).
Final Week
1 When the Savior shall appear we shall see him as he is. We shall see that he is a man like ourselves.
2 And that same sociality which exists among us here will exist among us there, only it will be coupled with eternal glory, which glory we do not now enjoy (D&C 130:1-2).
President McKay described it as the “radiation” that is the defining part of one’s Self.
Every man and every person who lives in this world wields an influence, whether for good or for evil. It is not what he says alone; it is not alone what he does. It is what he is. Every man, every person radiates what he or she really is. Every person is a recipient of radiation. The Saviour was conscious of that. Whenever He came into the presence of an individual, He sensed that radiation — whether it was the woman of Samaria with her past life: whether it was the woman who was to be stoned, or the men who were to stone her; whether it was the statesman, Nicodemus, or one of the lepers. He was conscious of the radiation from the individual. And to a degree so are you. and so am I. It is what we are and what we radiate that affects the people around us. -President David O. McKay, “Radiation of the Individual,” The Instructor, October, 1964, p. 373-374.
40 For intelligence cleaveth unto intelligence; wisdom receiveth wisdom; truth embraceth truth; virtue loveth virtue; light cleaveth unto light; mercy hath compassion on mercy and claimeth her own; justice continueth its course and claimeth its own; judgment goeth before the face of him who sitteth upon the throne and governeth and executeth all things (D&C 88:40).
13 The light which is in all things, which giveth life to all things, which is the law by which all things are governed, even the power of God (D&C 88:13).
34 The light of the body is the eye: therefore when thine eye is single, thy whole body also is full of li ght; but when thine eye is evil, thy body also is full of darkness. 35 Take heed therefore that the light which is in thee be not darkness. 36 If thy whole body therefore be full of light, having no part dark, the whole shall be full of light, as when the bright shining of a candle doth give thee light (Luke 11:34-36).
CHARITY
Moroni 7 uku song
30 … the Lord God hath given a commandment that all men should have charity, which charity is love. And except they should have charity they were nothing. Wherefore, if they should have charity they would not suffer the laborer in Zion to perish (2 Nephi 26:30).
CHARITY Charity is more than love, far more; it is everlasting love, perfect love, the pure love of Christ which endureth forever. —Elder Bruce R. McConkie
“Charity. The highest, noblest, strongest kind of love, not merely affection; the pure love of Christ. It is never used to denote alms or deeds or benevolence, although it may be a prompting motive (1 Cor. 8:1; 13:1–4, 8; 13; 14:1. Cf. Moro. 7:47)” (p. 632).
“The process of adding one godly attribute to another, as described by Peter [in 2 Peter 1], becomes the key to gaining this knowledge that leads to eternal life” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1986, 63; or Ensign, Nov. 1986, 48).
“Real charity is not something you give away; it is something that you acquire and make a part of yourself. And when the virtue of charity becomes implanted in your heart, you are never the same again. It makes the thought of being [critical or verbally abusive] repulsive.
“Perhaps the greatest charity comes when we are kind to each other, when we don’t judge or categorize someone else, when we simply give each other the benefit of the doubt or remain quiet. Charity is accepting someone’s differences, weaknesses, and shortcomings; having patience with someone who has let us down; or resisting the impulse to become offended when someone doesn’t handle something the way we might have hoped. Charity is refusing to take advantage of another’s weakness and being willing to forgive someone who has hurt us. Charity is expecting the best of each other” (in Conference Report, Apr. 1992, 24; or Ensign, May 1992, 18–19).
“Above all the attributes of godliness and perfection, charity is the one most devoutly to be desired. Charity is more than love, far more; it is everlasting love, perfect love, the pure love of Christ which endureth forever. It is love so centered in righteousness that the possessor has no aim or desire except for the eternal welfare of his own soul and for the souls of those around him. (2 Ne. 26:30; Moro. 7:47; 8:25–26.)” (Mormon Doctrine, 121).
“Stated simply, charity means subordinating our interests and needs to those of others, as the Savior has done for all of us. The Apostle Paul wrote that of faith, hope, and charity, ‘the greatest of these is charity’ (1 Corinthians 13:13), and Moroni wrote that ‘except ye have charity ye can in nowise be saved in the kingdom of God’ (Moroni 10:21). I believe that selfless service is a distinctive part of the gospel” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1991, 20; or Ensign, Nov. 1991, 16).
See Matthew 5:46; 1 Corinthians 13:13; Colossians 3:12–15; 1 Peter 4:8; 2 Nephi 26:30; Alma 7:24; 34:29; Ether 10:32; 12:34; Doctrine and Covenants 18:19; 31:9.
Consider the following attributes of charity listed in Moroni 7:45–47:
Suffereth long
Is kind
Envieth not
Is not puffed up
Seeketh not her own
Is not easily provoked
Thinketh no evil
Rejoiceth in truth
Beareth all things
Believeth all things
Hopeth all things
Endureth all things
Endureth forever
13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity (1 Corinthians 13:4-13).
Gratitude
The greatest evidence of Gratitude in Ether 6?????
“Gratitude is deeper than thanks. Thankfulness is the beginning of gratitude. Gratitude is the completion of thankfulness. Thankfulness may consist merely of words. Gratitude is shown in acts.” —President David O. McKay
https://www.ted.com/talks/christina_costa_how_gratitude_rewires_your_brain?subtitle=en start at 6:45 for about 1 minute
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/video/2009-11-0039-in-the-spirit-of-thanksgiving?lang=eng
FORGIVENESS
You can be a forgiving person and still set boundaries.
One of the hardest things the Lord asks us to do is forgive others.
“Of you it is required to forgive all [people],” He said in Doctrine and Covenants 64:10.
But what if the other person isn’t sorry? What if they still hurt us?
Forgiveness doesn’t mean things automatically go back to the way they were before. We should learn from our experiences. We can work toward forgiving someone and still feel prompted by the Spirit to stay away from them.
As Elder Jeffrey R. Holland put it, the Lord “did not … say, ‘In order to forgive fully, you have to reenter a toxic relationship or return to an abusive, destructive circumstance.’”1
So don’t be afraid to set some boundaries! That means saying no to activities and people who hurt you. Instead, say yes to those who inspire and build you up. You deserve kindness and respect.
Reconciliation-Holland
INTEGRITY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZkmHvomu9wg
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2024/04/17gerard?lang=eng
Daniel and the Lions Den
Abinadi
Alma the Elder
Elijah
Nephi 3:7
Ether
Steven acts 7
2000 warriors
SMA
Samuel the lamanite
Joshua
Esther
Abish
Adam and Eve
COURAGE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_92mKlQOlk&ab_channel=StrivetoBe
How can I have Christlike courage and do something but not be self righteous or cowardice?
Easily Entreated Alma 7:23
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1kya1hSoaMs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ijkHtE1EkyI
Humility Test
1. You went out of your way to help someone else today = +2
2. You passed on several random acts of kindness = -1 per act
3. You didn’t even notice that you were being kind to others because you’re always putting their needs above your own = +40
4. You just gave yourself 40 points for the question above = -38
8. You interrupted someone else while they were talking today = -1 per interruption
9. You asked someone for advice today = +2 per person from whom advice was solicited
10. You actually took that advice = +2
11. You didn’t just remind yourself that the person you are getting advice from graduated from nowhere school in who-cares Idaho = +2
12. You just insulted the entire state of Idaho = -5
13. You thought for a moment, “Why am I even judging? I go to Weber State!” = -10
14. You asked someone for help when you needed it today = +3
15. You listened to someone’s problems today = +4
16. You spent more than 30 minutes complaining about your own problems = -5
17. You learned something from someone else today = +3
17.5 You asked for extra points/prizes for multiple times that it could have happened today.... =-5
18. You speak well of those who have criticized or disagreed with you = +4
19. You just thought, “Who would disagree with me?!” = -10 -5 more if you vocally said it
20. When someone compliments you, you credit luck or their perspective and "humbly" disregard their compliment =-5
21. You're too competitive in games to have fun = -8
22. You recognize in front of others that you don't have all the answers = +5
23. You think less of yourself to help you not have too much pride = -10
24. You hope others perform poorly so you look better than them = -2 per person you wished broke their leg
25. You handle most things with God's help and look up and not around = +5
26. You were able to laugh at your last big mistake and realized your weakness and need for Jesus =x7
27. if you think there is a problem with this quiz.... you are the problem.
28. if you don't look up you lose the game.
Now tally up your results to see how you scored:
-0-10 points – Daaang. You need to repent!
11-25 points – You’re on the right track, but still have some work to do…
26 or more points – Enjoy your slice of humble pie!
As Elder Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles explained: “Humility isn’t some grand identifiable achievement or even overcoming some major challenge. … It is having the quiet confidence that day by day and hour by hour we can rely on the Lord, serve Him, and achieve His purposes.”2
C. S. Lewis explained: “In God you come up against something which is in every respect immeasurably superior to yourself. … As long as you are proud you cannot know God. A proud man is always looking down on things and people: and, of course, as long as you are looking down, you cannot see something that is above you.”3
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/video/2024-06-0110-listen-with-humility?lang=eng
Humility isn't...
What song brings you confidence?
Practice being humble....
whats something you're really good at? compliment your neighbor with it
Good Submissive phrases
"But if not"
"Straightway"
"What is good for Thee is good for me"
"Art thou greater than he"
"Not my will but thine"
Humility and Submissiveness
What topic is this under in Gospel library? (Humility but it sounds like confidence)
"acknowledgment that our talents and abilities are gifts from God....it is an indication that we know where our true strength lies." -https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/gospel-topics/humility?lang=eng
Willingness
yield
Meekness
GC recap:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p13Td7auHCk
“Christ says, ‘Give me All. I don’t want so much of your time and so much of your money and so much of your work: I want You. I have not come to torment your natural self, but to kill it. No half-measures are any good. I don’t want to cut off a branch here and a branch there, I want to have the whole tree down. … Hand over the whole natural self, all the desires which you think innocent as well as the ones you think wicked—the whole outfit. I will give you a new self instead. In fact, I will give you Myself: my own will shall become yours.’” (CS Lewis, Mere Christianity, New York: Collier Books, 1960, p. 167.)
Confidence
board: Where does your confidence come from... ?
Confidence is a learned skill that comes from a variety of factors...
Belief in your abilities: Confidence comes from believing that you are capable, and you can build this belief by using your skills and talents.
Positive thinking: Having a positive outlook and reframing your self-talk can help you build confidence.
Preparation: Planning and preparing for new or difficult situations can help you feel more confident.
Authenticity: Being true to yourself, including your strengths, values, and passions, can help you build confidence.
Goal setting: Setting and meeting goals can help you feel competent and capable.
Social practice: Practicing in social settings can help you build social confidence.
15 Min habit lds.org
How can you gain it?
Isaiah 32:17
Heb 10:35-36
Heb 6:10-12
Heb 3:14
1 John 3:20-22
D&C 106:8
D&C 121:45
D&C 123:17
D&C 124:112
DC 121:45 Let thy bowels also be full of charity towards all men, and to the household of faith, and let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God;
How can you lose it?
Jacob 2:35
Mindfulness and State of Flow
Prayer
*Look at all the times Jesus prayed. Tag them... my fav. Mark 1:35
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/inspiration/welcome-more-peace-into-your-life?lang=eng
Find a quiet place.
Sit, stand, or lie in a comfortable position.
Gently close your eyes.
Breathe deeply and slowly—in through your nose and out through your mouth.
Notice the sounds around you. What can you hear? Don’t focus on any one sound, but let your awareness drift from one to another.
Next, focus on being aware of your body. Start with your toes and move to each body part until you get to the top of your head.
Continue to breathe slowly and deeply.
Whenever you are ready, open your eyes.
Talk------>Living in a fast paced world DFU
The vast amount of research built on his work has explored how the brain changes when entering a flow state in a way that minimizes distraction, maximizes productivity and performance, and eliminates procrastination.
A flow state of mind spontaneously arises when we become immersed in an activity so completely that we lose track of time. It has similarities with mindfulness because it requires focus in the present moment.
However, the defining feature of a flow state of mind is intense experiential involvement in an activity that requires personal effort and skill...
In 2005, Nakamura and Csikszentmihalyi interviewed rock climbers, chess players, athletes, and artists to investigate why people choose to perform time-consuming challenging tasks that offer no extrinsic rewards.
Their study reported that participants shared a similar subjective experience they enjoyed so much that they were willing to go to great lengths to experience it again (Nakamura & Csikszentmihalyi, 2005). Several respondents described a “current” (or flow) that carried them along effortlessly during the activity.
While research has primarily focused on the experience of flow within structured activities such as sports, education, and creative pursuits (Nakamura & Csikszentmihalyi, 2005), flow also contributes to a sense of wellbeing in other areas of life.
Challenge–skill balance is a powerful contributor to flow. As mentioned above, if a challenge is too demanding, we can become disheartened and even anxious. Conversely, if a task is too easy, we get bored. When we experience flow, we are actively engaged but not overwhelmed by a challenge (Csikszentmihalyi & Csikszentmihalyi, 1988).
Clear goals & unambiguous feedback (often from the activity itself) enable the continuous adjustment of our responses to meet the required demands of the task.
Action–awareness merging involves total absorption in the here and now such that the activity becomes second nature.
Concentration on the task at hand is characterized by focused attention that circumvents external and internal distractions.
Sense of control emerges that makes people feel they are unstoppable or like they can achieve anything (Csikszentmihalyi, 1993).
Loss of self-consciousness results in freedom from self-monitoring, which enhances intuitive engagement to help us achieve our goals with aplomb.
Transformation of time distorts our sense of the passage of time while being completely absorbed in the moment. We might experience time slowing down, speeding up, or as completely irrelevant (Hanin, 2000).
Autotelic experiences (from the ancient Greek autós, meaning “self,” and télos, meaning “result/outcome/end”) are performed for their own sake. They are intrinsically motivated behaviors that trigger the flow state (Csikszentmihalyi, 1990).
Digital discipleship syllabus.docx WEEK 10
“As we develop faith in Jesus Christ, we should also strive to become like Him. We then approach others with compassion and try to alleviate unfairness where we find it;16 we can try to make things right within our sphere of influence… not throwing stones is the first step in treating others with compassion. The second step is to try to catch stones thrown by others… Join Him in His mission “to heal the brokenhearted,”28 strive to mitigate unfairness, and become a stonecatcher.29 “Infuriating Unfairness” https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2021/04/25renlund?lang=eng
“Contention drives away the Spirit—every time. Contention reinforces the false notion that confrontation is the way to resolve differences; but it never is. Contention is a choice. Peacemaking is a choice. You have your agency to choose contention or reconciliation. I urge you to choose to be a peacemaker, now and always.” -RMN https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2023/04/47nelson?lang=eng
“The ideal place for … peace is within the walls of our own homes, where we have done all we can to make the Lord Jesus Christ the centerpiece.” - Elder Scott
Peace is a prime priority that pleads for our pursuit. RMN
“How does a peacemaker calm and cool the fiery darts? Certainly not by shrinking before those who disparage us. Rather, we remain confident in our faith, sharing our beliefs with conviction but always void of anger or malice.6 … Peacemakers are not passive; they are persuasive in the Savior’s way.8
What gives us the inner strength to cool, calm, and quench the fiery darts aimed toward the truths we love? The strength comes from our faith in Jesus Christ and our faith in His words… President Russell M. Nelson once thoughtfully asked, “Cannot boundary lines exist without becoming battle lines?”20
We endeavor to be “peaceable followers of Christ.”21 Elder Anderson https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2022/04/15andersen?lang=eng
Words Matter -Rasband
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2024/04/41rasband?lang=eng
They are the bedrock of how we connect; they represent our beliefs, morals, and perspectives. Sometimes we speak words; other times we listen. Words set a tone. They voice our thoughts, feelings, and experiences, for good or bad.
Unfortunately, words can be thoughtless, hasty, and hurtful. Once said, we cannot take them back. They can wound, punish, cut down, and even lead to destructive actions. They can weigh heavily on us.
On the other hand, words can celebrate victory, be hopeful and encouraging. They can prompt us to rethink, reboot, and redirect our course. Words can open our minds to truth.
That is why, first and foremost, the Lord’s words matter.
Communication skills and resources
What one word defines a good communicator? What words specifically remind you of Jesus Christ?
Elder L. Lionel Kendrick of the Seventy taught: “Christlike communications are expressed in tones of love rather than loudness. They are intended to be helpful rather than hurtful. They tend to bind us together rather than to drive us apart. They tend to build rather than to belittle.
“Christlike communications are expressions of affection and not anger, truth and not fabrication, compassion and not contention, respect and not ridicule, counsel and not criticism, correction and not condemnation. They are spoken with clarity and not with confusion. They may be tender or they may be tough, but they must always be tempered.
“The real challenge that we face in our communications with others is to condition our hearts to have Christlike feelings for all of Heavenly Father’s children. When we develop this concern for the condition of others, we then will communicate with them as the Savior would. We will then warm the hearts of those who may be suffering in silence. As we meet people with special needs along life’s way, we can then make their journey brighter by the things that we say.
“Christlike communications will help us to develop righteous relationships and ultimately to return to our heavenly home safely. May we treasure the divine gift of communication, and may we use it wisely to build and to assist others on this marvelous journey through mortality.”
Bounce Back like a tennis ball
.58 sec in https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=S9DJjHuCVTk&si=so6ZqYpH-GkEB0TF
I'm good commercial
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5HK9DOXglzo&ab_channel=CommercialGuy03
notes: pivot, adapt, recalibrate
Matt 7 all he gives us is bread
D&C 90:24 "all things shall work together for your good"
1 nephi 3:7 "He prepares a way.."
1 Peter 1:7 the trial is more precious than gold
Job 23:10 "come forth as gold"
D&C 122:7-9 "all things shall be for thy good"
2 Nephi 5:7 "journeyed for many days and pitched their tents"
Matt 4 Christ's resilience in temptation
Gen 39:9 (7-12) Joseph resisting temptation
D&C 6:34 "Do good, let earth and hell combine against you..."
Act 5:40-42 they departed rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer for Christ
1 Tim 6:12, 2 Tim 2:3 Fight the good fight... "Endure hardness as a good soldier of Jesus Christ"
Isaiah 41:10 "I will strenthen thee and hold thee"
Ether 12:4 "with surety, hope for a better world"
Moroni 9:6 "labor diligently in this tabernacle of clay"
Adaptability, Resilience, Refining, Durability
“The Lord doesn't put us through this test just to give us a grade; he does it because the process will change us” (“Waiting on the Lord,” BYU speech, Sept. 30, 1990) https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/henry-b-eyring/waiting-upon-lord/
But behold, I say unto you that ye must pray always, and not faint; that ye must not perform any thing unto the Lord save in the first place ye shall pray unto the Father in the name of Christ, that he will consecrate thy performance unto thee, that thy performance may be for the welfare of thy soul. [2 Nephi 32:9]
"My friends, my fellow disciples on the road of mortal life, our Father’s beautiful plan, even His “fabulous” plan, is designed to bring you home, not to keep you out. No one has built a roadblock and stationed someone there to turn you around and send you away. In fact, it is the exact opposite. God is in relentless pursuit of you. He “wants all of His children to choose to return to Him,” and He employs every possible measure to bring you back.
Christ’s great atoning gift removes every roadblock of physical and spiritual death that would separate us from our eternal home...Everything about the Father’s plan for His beloved children is designed to bring everyone home.
..The intent of the Father’s great plan of happiness is your happiness, right here, right now, and in the eternities. It is not to prevent your happiness and cause you instead worry and fear. The intent of the Father’s plan of redemption is in fact your redemption, your being rescued through the sufferings and death of Jesus Christ, freed from the captivity of sin and death. It is not to leave you as you are." Elder Kearon https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2024/04/45kearon?lang=eng
Become Fleck of Gold 24:19-26:10 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VuM66r_ZLnk&ab_channel=BYUSpeeches
Sister Kearon Surprise God! 2:08-8:00 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5S1GH8EaKg&ab_channel=BYUSpeeches
Types of Patience demonstrated by the Savior
Adaptive/overcoming/seeking
STEADY /CONSISTANT/
WAITING/WATCHING
Endure PERSISTENT - RELENTLESS PURSUIT
LISTENING TEACHING
LOVING / KINDNESS/ Forgiving
Cheerful- happy- Joyful
Present - Still- Yearning, calm
Resilient /Faith filled/confident
Emphatic, understanding and mindful
Timing and Planned
I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all. Eccl 9:11
Isaiah 40:28-31 Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, that the everlasting God, the Lord, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? there is no searching of his understanding. He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall: But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.4
"If, for instance, we are always taking our temperature to see if we are happy, we will not be. If we are constantly comparing to see if things are fair, we are not only being unrealistic, we are being unfair to ourselves. Therefore, true enduring represents not merely the passage of time, but the passage of the soul—and not merely from A to B, but sometimes all the way from A to Z. To endure in faith and doeth God’s will (see D&C 63:20; D&C 101:35) therefore involves much more than putting up with a circumstance." https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1990/04/endure-it-well?lang=eng
Where do you turn for relief in the patience game?
https://padlet.com/jblazzard4/worth-it-wall-come-here-when-you-feel-worthless-578tkjdbl84bpyhw
What makes patience more painful?
Avoiding it, uncertainty, imposing your will over his, comparing, knowing it's part of the plan, over anaylizing it, picking it apart, not knowing why or what else, sitting with it, being reminded of it all the time, not knowing when, worlds standards, family expectations, outside pressure
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=654QGjYHlJY&ab_channel=TheChurchofJesusChristofLatter-daySaints
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nczw6xHJ0I&ab_channel=TheChurchofJesusChristofLatter-daySaints
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g6wv46sKjFo&ab_channel=BYUSpeeches
Diligence and Obedience
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Knowledge——— diligence
Intelligence———obedience
“Through persistent, effective, and diligent work, a person can accumulate knowledge in the form of facts, data, information, and experience. Intelligence, brothers and sisters, can only be gained through obedience.” -DAB mission pres seminar 2022
“No man knows how bad he is till he has tried very hard to be good. A silly idea is current that good people do not know what temptation means. This is an obvious lie. Only those who try to resist temptation know how strong it is. After all, you find out the strength of the German army by fighting against it, not by giving in. You find out the strength of a wind by trying to walk against it, not by lying down. A man who gives in to temptation after five minutes simply does not know what it would have been like an hour later. That is why bad people, in one sense, know very little about badness — they have lived a sheltered life by always giving in. We never find out the strength of the evil impulse inside us until we try to fight it: and Christ, because He was the only man who never yielded to temptation, is also the only man who knows to the full what temptation means — the only complete realist.” ― C.S. Lewis
Knowledge
Education and taking charge of you testimony: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juWMDiHPif4&ab_channel=JakeBlazzard
An Expert Learner:
Stand Forever:
https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/lawrence-e-corbridge/stand-for-ever/
Truth enables us to see clearly because it is the “knowledge of things as they [really] are, and as they were, and as they are to come.”5 Knowledge is crucial to avoid deception, to discern between truth and error, and to see clearly and chart a course through the hazards of our day.
The Prophet Joseph Smith said:
Knowledge is necessary to life and godliness. . . . Knowledge is revelation. Hear, all ye brethren, this grand key: knowledge is the power of God unto salvation.6
People say, “You should be true to your beliefs.” While that is true, you cannot be better than what you know. Most of us act based on our beliefs, especially what we believe to be in our self-interest. The problem is, we are sometimes wrong.
Someone may believe in God and that pornography is wrong and yet still click on a site wrongly believing that he will be happier if he does or he can’t help but not click or it isn’t hurting anyone else and it is not that bad. He is just wrong.
Someone may believe it is wrong to lie and yet lie on occasion, wrongly believing he will be better off if the truth is not known. He is just wrong.
Someone may believe and even know that Jesus is the Christ and still deny Him not once but three times because of the mistaken belief that he would be better off appeasing the crowd. Peter wasn’t evil. I am not even sure he was weak. He was just wrong.
When you act badly, you may think you are bad, when in truth you are usually mistaken. You are just wrong. The challenge is not so much closing the gap between our actions and our beliefs; rather, the challenge is closing the gap between our beliefs and the truth. That is the challenge.
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The divine method of learning incorporates the elements of the other methodologies but ultimately trumps everything else by tapping into the powers of heaven. Ultimately the things of God are made known by the Spirit of God, which is usually a still, small voice. The Lord said, “God shall give unto you knowledge by his Holy Spirit, yea, by the unspeakable gift of the Holy Ghost.”14
...The best of all human conditions in this life is not wealth, fame, prestige, good health, the honors of men, security, or even—dare I say it—good grades. As wonderful as some of those things are, the best of all human conditions is to be endowed with heavenly power; it is to be born again, to have the gift and companionship of the Holy Ghost, which is the source of knowledge, revelation, strength, clarity, love, joy, peace, hope, confidence, faith, and almost every other good thing. Jesus said, “The Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, . . . shall teach you all things.”17 It is the power by which we “may know the truth of all things.”18 “It will show . . . [us] all things . . . [we] should do.”19 It is the fountain of “living water” that springs up unto eternal life.20
Response Key: 1= never 2= sometimes 3= often 4= almost always 5= always
___ I believe in Christ and accept Him as my Savior. (2 Nephi 25:29)
___ I feel confident that God loves me. (1 Nephi 11:17)
___ I trust the Savior enough to accept His will and do whatever He asks. (1 Nephi 3:7)
___ I firmly believe that through the Atonement of Jesus Christ I can be forgiven of all my sins. (Enos 1:5–8)
___ I have enough faith in Christ to obtain answers to my prayers. (Mosiah 27:14)
___ I think about the Savior during the day and remember what He has done for me. (Doctrine and Covenants 20:77, 79)
___ I have the faith necessary to help make good things happen in my life or the lives of others. (Ether 12:12)
___ I know by the power of the Holy Ghost that the Book of Mormon is true. (Moroni 10:3–5)
___ I have enough faith in Christ to accomplish anything He wants me to do—even miracles, if necessary. (Moroni 7:33)
___ One of my greatest desires is to inherit eternal life in the celestial kingdom of God. (Moroni 7:41)
___ I am confident that I will have a happy and successful degree and/or job. (Doctrine and Covenants 31:3–5)
___ I feel peaceful and optimistic about the future. (Doctrine and Covenants 59:23)
___ I firmly believe that someday I will dwell with God and become like Him. (Ether 12:4)
FAITH AND HOPE AND OPTIMISM
Think Celestial
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2023/10/51nelson?lang=eng
ALMA 32
Ether 12
HEB 11
HEL 5
MOR 7
ENOS
D&C 121
TWO KINDS OF FAITH IN CHRIST
President Russell M. Nelson: “Faith in Jesus Christ is the greatest power available to us in this life. All things are possible to them that believe” (Mark 9:23 – ‘Jesus Said unto him, If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth.’) Your growing faith in Him will move mountains – not the mountains of rock that beautify the earth but e mountains of misery in your lives. Your flourishing faith will help you turn challenges into unparalleled growth and opportunity.” ‘Christ is Risen; Faith in Him Will Move Mountains’, C.R. April 2021
President Boyd K. Packer: “There are two kinds of faith. One of them functions ordinarily in the life of every soul. It is the kind of faith born by experience; it gives us certainty that a new day will dawn, that spring will come, that growth will take place. It is the kind of faith that relates us with confidence to that which is scheduled to happen…There is another kind of faith, rare indeed. This is the kind of faith that causes things to happen. It is the kind of faith that is worthy and prepared and unyielding, and it calls forth things that otherwise would not be. It is the kind of faith that moves people. It is the kind of faith that sometimes moves things…It comes by gradual growth. It is a marvelous, even a transcendent, power, a power as real and as invisible as electricity. Directed and channeled, it has great effect.” © By Intellectual Reserve, Inc., used with permission.
Elder D. Todd Christofferson: “[There] is a level of faith that consists of spiritual assurances and that produces good works, most especially obedience to the principles and commandments of the gospel. This is a true faith in Christ…There is, however, a level of faith that not only governs our behavior but also empowers us to change what is and to make things happen that otherwise would not happen. I am speaking of faith not only as a principle of action but also as a principle of power.” Building Faith in Christ, Ensign, Sept. 2012
Elder Neil L. Andersen“There is a power that can cause things to happen that need to happen. There is a spiritual force that can stir a mortal soul toward the spiritual, motivating deeper study into the Book of Mormon and more prayer with real intent. Faith is a power, and it can cause things to happen that need to happen. It can cause a soul who is good but dormant to awaken to God.” The Faith to Find and Baptize Converts, June 25, 2016, New Mission Presidents Seminar
Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf: “Faith is a strong conviction about something we believe—a conviction so strong that it moves us to do things that we otherwise might not do.” “Fourth Floor, Last Door”, C. R. Oct. 2016
Elder Gene R. Cook: “Faithful Latter-day Saints will want to know how to use their faith to cause all things to work for their good (see D&C 90:24), to act and not be acted upon (see 2 Nephi 2:13, 14, 16-27), and to righteously prevail over self and others and situations (see 3 Nephi 7:17-18)…The simplest definition I know of faith is, ‘Faith is power’…Commit yourself in advance to what you righteously desire. The righteous exercising of faith will bring it about.” Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, November 8, 1981
Elder Hartman Rector Jr.: “Faith, the first principle of the gospel, begins with belief. What man can conceive, he can achieve. Believe you can do it…Expect a miracle. All too often we really don’t expect a miracle. We are not looking for it, and so don’t recognize it when it comes…This is the first important principle. All things are possible to them that believe (see Mark 9:23). Surely we must believe in a thing before we can desire it. And God does grant unto men according to their desire (see Alma 29:4). If the desire is strong enough, performance is assured.” Following Christ to Victory, April 1979
Joseph Smith: “Faith, then, is the first great governing principle which has power, dominion, and authority over all things” Lectures on Faith, Lecture First, 16,24
Moroni 7:26: “Whatsoever thing ye shall ask the Father in my name, which is good, in faith believing that ye shall receive, behold, it shall be done unto you.”
Moroni 7:33: “And Christ hath said: If ye will have faith in me ye shall have power to do whatsoever thing is expedient in me”.
Elder Jeffrey R. Holland: “Preparatory faith is formed by experiences in the past—by the known, which provides a basis for belief. But redemptive faith must often be exercised toward experiences in the future—the unknown, which provides an opportunity for the miraculous. Exacting faith, mountain-moving faith, faith like that of the brother of Jared, precedes the miracle and the knowledge. He had to believe before God spoke. He had to act before the ability to complete that action was apparent. He had to commit to the complete experience in advance of even the first segment of its realization. Faith is to agree unconditionally—and in advance— to whatever conditions God may require in both the near and distant future.”
Preparatory Exacting, remdemptive
Born by Experience Growing, flourishing, nourishing, doing
Passive Active
Faith in "Him" Faith in "we"
Grounding, steady Stretching, exploring, discovery
Inward, roots Outward, branches, leaves
How can I stay positive with so many negative things in my life? Can revelation help strengthen my mental health? How do I push back the Darkness? How do I avoid bad thoughts and feel the Spirit more? How can I have more HOPE and FAITH in the future?
"Bad days come to an end." Elder Holland
“I am optimistic about the future. It will be filled with opportunities for each of us to progress, contribute, and take the gospel to every corner of the earth. … If we are to have any hope of sifting through the myriad of voices and the philosophies of men that attack truth, we must learn to receive revelation.Our Savior and Redeemer, Jesus Christ, will perform some of His mightiest works between now and when He comes again.” President Russell M. Nelson
“If I have learned anything in life, it is that we are to keep moving, keep trying—as long as we breathe! If we do, we will be surprised at how much more can still be done.” —Spencer W. Kimball
"Hope is an abiding trust that the Lord will fulfill His promises to you. It is manifest in confidence, optimism, enthusiasm, and patient perseverance. It is believing and expecting that something will occur. When you have hope, you work through trials and difficulties with the confidence and assurance that all things will work together for your good. Hope helps you conquer discouragement." Preach my Gospel
"There will always be some seemingly intellectual crisis looming on the horizon as long as faith is required and our minds are finite, but likewise there will always be the sure and solid doctrines of the Restoration to cling to, which will provide the rock foundation upon which our testimonies may be built." Elder Tad R. Callister
"What I am suggesting is that you turn from the negativism that so permeates our modem society and look for the remarkable good among those with whom you associate, that we speak of one another's virtues more than we speak of one another's faults, that optimism replace pessimism, that our faith exceed our fears. When I was a young man and was prone to speak critically my wise father would say: "Cynics do not contribute, skeptics do not create, doubters do not achieve...
This may be a difficult season for you. You worry much about your personal affairs. You worry about money. You worry about marriage. You worry about the future. There may be some lean days ahead for some of you. There may be troubles. None of us can avoid them all. Do not despair. Do not give up. Look for the sunlight through the clouds. Opportunities will eventually open to you...No matter the circumstances, I encourage you to go forward with faith and prayer, calling on the Lord. You may not receive any direct revelation. But you will discover, as the years pass, that there has been a subtle guiding of your footsteps in paths of progress and great purpose.
Some years ago I clipped an article on Commander William Robert Anderson, the man who first took a submarine under the North Pole from the waters of the Pacific to the waters of the Atlantic. It was an untried and dangerous mission. In his wallet he carried a tattered card with these words: "I believe I am always divinely guided. I believe I will always take the right road. I believe God will always make a way where there is no way" (Quoted in Look magazine, 20 April 197 1, page 48). Believe in yourselves as sons and daughters of God, men and women with unlimited potential to do good in the world. Believe in personal virtue. There is no substitute for it anywhere under the. heavens. Believe in your power to discipline yourselves against the evils which could destroy you. Believe in one another as the greatest generation ever yet to live upon the earth." (President Hinckley 2001 CES Fireside) https://www.thechurchnews.com/archives/2001-09-15/president-hinckleys-ces-fireside-remarks-112515
“Don't you quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead. Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don’t come until heaven; but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come. It will be all right in the end. Trust God and believe in good things to come.” ― Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, "Good Things to Come"
““God expects you to have enough faith and determination and enough trust in Him to keep moving, keep living, keep rejoicing. In fact, He expects you not simply to face the future (that sounds pretty grim and stoic); He expects you to embrace and shape the future—to love it and rejoice in it and delight in your opportunities....God doesn't care nearly as much about where you have been as He does about where you are and, with His help, where you are willing to go...."In the gospel of Jesus Christ, you have help from both sides of the veil, and you must never forget that. When disappointment and discouragement strike—and they will—you remember and never forget that if our eyes could be opened we would see horses and chariots of fire as far as the eye can see riding at reckless speed to come to our protection. They will always be there, these armies of heaven, in defense of Abraham's seed.”―Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, Created for Greater Things
James Porter: "One Saturday I was out for a morning run and noticed a large stand of daffodils in full bloom. I noticed how most of the flower heads were facing the same direction and suddenly remembered (and I believe this was a prompting from the Holy Ghost) about a principle of plant physiology that I had learned years ago called heliotropism. Heliotropism is the phenomenon whereby some plants and flowers turn toward the sun— S-U-N. As the sun moves across the sky, the plants gradually turn so that they are always facing it. I was able to use analogies of heliotropism in my talk to speak about “turning toward the Son—S-O-N.” https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/james-p-porter/receiving-and-recognizing-the-holy-ghost/
“Fighting through darkness and despair and pleading for the light is what opened this dispensation. It is what keeps it going, and it is what will keep you going....“I am convinced that missionary work is not easy because salvation is not a cheap experience. Salvation never was easy. We are the Church of Jesus Christ, this is the truth, and He is our Great Eternal Head. How could we believe it would be easy for us when it was never, ever easy for Him?” ―Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, Created for Greater Things
"Hold fast to what you already know and stand strong until additional knowledge comes. You have more faith than you think you do.”―Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, "'Lord, I Believe'"
“I also believe that the adversary and his pinched, calculating little minions try to oppose such experiences and then try to darken them after the fact. But that is not the way of the gospel. That is not the way of a Latter-day Saint who claims as the fundamental fact of the Restoration the spirit of revelation. Fighting through darkness and despair and pleading for the light is what opened this dispensation. It is what keeps it going, and it is what will keep you going. With Paul, I say to all of you: Cast not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward. For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise. [Hebrews 10:35–36] I acknowledge the reality of opposition and adversity, but I bear witness of the God of Glory, of the redeeming Son of God, of light and hope and a bright future. I promise you that God lives and loves you, each one of you, and that he has set bounds and limits to the opposing powers of darkness.” Elder Holland ("Cast Not Away Therefore Your Confidence," Ensign, Mar. 2000).
“If for a while the harder you try, the harder it gets, take heart. So it has been with the best people who ever lived." ―Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, "The Inconvenient Messiah"
"So keep loving. Keep trying. Keep trusting. Keep believing. Keep growing. Heaven is cheering you on today, tomorrow, and forever."―Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, "Tomorrow the Lord Will Do Wonders Among You"
"Elder Rasband: "If we pay attention to the promptings that come to us, we will grow in the spirit of revelation and receive more and more Spirit-driven insight and direction. The Lord has said, “Put your trust in that Spirit which leadeth to do good.”May we take seriously the Lord’s call to “be of good cheer, for I will lead you along.”He leads us by the Holy Ghost. May we live close to the Spirit, acting quickly upon our first promptings, knowing they come from God. I bear witness of the power of the Holy Ghost to guide us, guard us, and ever be with us." Let the Holy Spirit Guide, https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2017/04/let-the-holy-spirit-guide?lang=eng
"In times of darkness, remember there is a difference between passing local cloud cover and general darkness...The tilt of your soul now can further shape all the days that follow! If you become too insulated, too encrusted, too self-contained, too self-concerned, those patterns will end up constraining you like invisible barriers and borders in the days and years ahead. Stretch. Reach for that kind of developmental discipleship that will take you beyond where you thought you could go. Isn’t it marvelous that, as happy as you have been in certain moments of your life, you know the happiest days lie ahead because of the hopefulness of the gospel? Isn’t it interesting that in the moments when you have felt most illuminated, nevertheless the brightest days still lie ahead? The blessings of the Lord can take you far beyond where you thought you could go." -NAM https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2001/02/jesus-the-perfect-mentor?lang=eng
Alma 32:40 And thus, if ye will not nourish the word, looking forward with an eye of faith to the fruit thereof, ye can never pluck of the fruit of the tree of life. 41 But if ye will nourish the word, yea, nourish the tree as it beginneth to grow, by your faith with great diligence, and with patience, looking forward to the fruit thereof, it shall take root; and behold it shall be a tree springing up unto everlasting life. 42 And because of your diligence and your faith and your patience with the word in nourishing it, that it may take root in you, behold, by and by ye shall pluck the fruit thereof, which is most precious, which is sweet above all that is sweet…ye shall feast upon this fruit even until ye are filled, that ye hunger not, neither shall ye thirst. 43 Then, my brethren, ye shall reap the rewards of your faith, and your diligence, and patience, and long-suffering, waiting for the tree to bring forth fruit unto you.
Elder Holland, Like a Broken Vessel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrNqGqy5kbQ&t=625s
Follow up Grit score: https://angeladuckworth.com/grit-scale/
GRIT:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H14bBuluwB8
Grit is growing from the past and sticking with your future, day in, day out, not just for the week, not just for the month, but for years. Not accepting defeat but embracing the uncomfortable and failing over and over again to learn the price of success. It’s working really hard to make that future a reality!
Four common characteristics of grit
1. Courage (Josh 1:9, Romans 5:3-4, 2Tim 4:7-8)
2. Perseverance (James 1:2-4, HEB 12:1-3)
3. Resilience (Luke 21:19, James 1:22)
4. Passion (2 Cor 12:8-10)
It’s living life like it’s a marathon, not a sprint. Talent doesn’t make you gritty. It’s a growth mindset. Failure isn’t a permanent condition
Job 27:6 My righteousness I hold fast, and will not let it go: my heart shall not reproach me so long as I live.
Grit is more focused on the end goal than outcomes
"Is progress halted when acceptance into a chosen major is denied, when enrollment in a required class is closed, when a desired job doesn’t come through, when that dream date doesn’t progress beyond friendship, or when the money hoped for isn’t there? Are we ever, for reasons that are hard to understand or beyond our control, faced with a set of circumstances that we did not have in mind for ourselves? In other words, what happens when we look in the box and the pink crayon just isn’t there? It is so easy to lock our knees, put our hands behind our back, and do nothing when things wished for and dreamed about are beyond our reach. But to do so would defy the very reason we are placed here on this earth. As hard as it sometimes is to understand, stumbling blocks are essential to our progression.
Remember what the Lord said: “If thou art called to pass through [some] tribulation . . . know . . . that all these things shall give thee experience, and shall be for thy good” (D&C 122:5–7)." https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/janet-g-lee/knowing-persevere-change-direction/
Diligence & GRIT
47. ___ I work effectively, even when I’m not under pressure or close supervision. (Doctrine and Covenants 58:26–27)
48. ___ I focus my efforts on the most important things. (Matthew 23:23)
49. ___ I have a personal prayer at least twice a day. (Alma 34:18–27)
50. ___ I focus my thoughts on Jesus and the end goal. (Doctrine and Covenants 4:2, 5)
51. ___ I set goals and plan regularly. (Doctrine and Covenants 88:119)
52. ___ I work hard until the job is completed successfully. (Doctrine and Covenants 10:4)
53. ___ I find joy and satisfaction in my work. (Alma 36:24–25)
21 Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, ....meekness, temperance...
3 According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue:
4 Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.
5 And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge;
6 And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness;
7 And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.
8 For if these things be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Alma 7:23–25
23 And now I would that ye should be humble, and be submissive and gentle; easy to be entreated; full of patience and long-suffering; being temperate in all things; being diligent in keeping the commandments of God at all times; asking for whatsoever things ye stand in need, both spiritual and temporal; always returning thanks unto God for whatsoever things ye do receive.
24 And see that ye have faith, hope, and charity, and then ye will always abound in good works.
25And may the Lord bless you, and keep your garments spotless.
Doctrine and Covenants 88:29, 40
29 Ye who are quickened by a portion of the celestial glory shall then receive of the same, even a fulness.
40 For intelligence cleaveth unto intelligence; wisdom receiveth wisdom; truth embraceth truth; virtue loveth virtue; light cleaveth unto light; mercy hath compassion on mercy and claimeth her own; justice continueth its course and claimeth its own; judgment goeth before the face of him who sitteth upon the throne and governeth and executeth all things.
Christlike Attributes
2:30
3. Boldness 4
6. Confidence7
8. Consistency7
9. Courage 4
19. Faith4
21. Forgiving 7
30. Joyfulness5
39. Patience5
40. Peacemaker5
47. Self- mastery2
49. Sensitivity
50. Servant2
51. Sincerity2
53. Teacher2
55. Virtue3
56. Wisdom3
Selfless -self sacrifice, Gods will, GC selfless, Matt 14, 3 Nephi 11:11, 3 Nephi 17:5-7, 1 cor 15, Matt 27, Mark 10
Time
Abilities
Physical
Feelings
Relationships
Desires of natural man
Power
Grace
Charity and love
Compassion
Obedience