Jose Mari Chan on Loop: The Psychology Behind the Filipino's Christmas Culture

If the world knows one thing about Filipinos, it’s that they don’t just celebrate Christmas—they live it, it’s a part of their identity. As soon as the “-ber” months roll in, the magic begins, Jose Mari Chan and Mariah Carey start playing, homes light up with colorful decorations, and conversations become festive. Christmas isn’t just a mere holiday—it’s a season. But what makes this holiday different and why does it hold such a special place in the hearts of Filipinos?

In the Philippines, family isn’t just important—it’s everything. From the joyous chaos of preparing Noche Buena to the warmth of Simbang Gabi and the thrill of unwrapping gifts and opening “angpaos”, every moment is steeped in love. Yet for many, this season also brings a bittersweet tinge. Millions of Filipinos work abroad to support their loved ones. While they may not be physically present, their love is felt in the balikbayan boxes they send, filled with carefully hand-picked gifts, and treats. Opening these feels like receiving a warm, tight, hug from miles away—a boxed reminder that love knows no distance.

Filipinos are no stranger to challenges–typhoons, economic struggles, and personal trials test their spirits. Yet, every December, streets come alive with the glow of parols. Christmas is a time to focus and embrace blessings, not burdens. This is called positive appraisal – according to Cecilia M. Resurrecion. It is the psychological ability to find light in tough situations – and it’s something Filipinos do naturally. Instead of dwelling on challenges, they always find reasons to celebrate. Filipinos are known for their resilience. Faith fuels this resilience. Simbang Gabi, a series of nine dawn masses, is a cherished tradition. It’s said that if you complete all of the nine masses, your wish will be granted. Each morning, people gather in churches, their hearts filled with gratitude and hope.

Ask any Filipino about Christmas, and watch their eyes light up as they tell you about the traditions they grew up with. Making parols as kids, singing carols for coins, or sneaking a bite of bibingka and puto bumbong after church. Nostalgia has the power to lift our spirits, bringing us back to our happiest times. For Filipinos, every sight, sound, and smell of Christmas takes them back to those carefree days of childhood. And as they grow older, these traditions aren’t just remembered—they’re passed down.

During Christmas, generosity is in full bloom. From sharing meals with neighbors to donating to those in need or giving thoughtful gifts, the act of giving is the star of the season. Giving isn’t just good for the recipient; it’s good for the giver too. It releases feel-good chemicals like dopamine and oxytocin, forming a warm, joyful feeling. Studies suggest that people often act generously out of an expectation that their generosity will be reciprocated or because they feel it will help their reputation. For Filipinos, this generosity is rooted in malasakit, a deep sense of compassion and empathy. It’s never about how much you give but the love and thought you pour into it.

At its heart, Christmas in the Philippines is a celebration of faith. Traditions like the belen, parol, and Simbang Gabi keep the focus on the birth of Christ. For many, this spiritual connection keeps them grounded, filling the season with gratitude, hope, and love.

Christmas in the Philippines isn’t just a holiday—it’s a reflection of everything Filipinos hold dear. It’s about family, faith, generosity, and resilience. It’s about finding joy in the simple things and sharing that joy with everyone around you; a reminder that even in tough times, light shines brightest when shared.