Wonderful Wednesdays
October 7 – Carlene Thissen -- The Father Sanders Story
What is Wonderful Wednesday? A Wednesday evening gathering where we share a casual meal, get to know one another and explore topics that nourish our minds, bodies and souls. Dinner on October 7 will be a choice of homemade soups, salad, bread, and dessert. Carlene Thissen has been a friend of UUCGN for decades. She has been deeply involved in Immokalee for the last 35 years and her love of the farm workers inspired two books: Immokalee's Fields of Hope and Called From Silence: The Father Sanders Novel.
As Carlene describes herself, she has lived several different lives. First, a hippie girl who attended Woodstock in 1969, then a corporate vice president, an independent consultant, then a farm worker advocate, author, composer, and singer. Her favorite activity is telling stories that include music. Carlene will share the story of Father Sanders and grace us with her singing.
Reservations Required for Dinner Only by 3 pm on the prior Tuesday! Email office@uunaples.org
6:00 pm Vespers in the Sanctuary led by Rev. Tony (a brief contemplative time)
6:20 pm Dinner on the Pavilion $12 per person (free for kids)
7:00 pm Program - Come for all or part of the evening!
Upcoming Wonderful Wednesday: November 4 – UUCGN at Fifty – Looking Back, Looking Forward
Chalice Circles
Chalice Circles will be forming again!
Are you interested in being part of a group of fellow UUs who commit to meeting twice a month January-Mach using the Chalice Circle format? (It may be possible to begin in December if your group wants to). This would be a “closed group” of up to 8 members, different from the “Living room Conversation” groups you may have attended.
We have been co-facilitators of a Chalice Circle for 5 years, and have found it to be one of the most rewarding and enlightening things either of us have ever been part of. We have taken the facilitator training course, and are excited to share what we’ve learned to form more Chalice Circles at UUCGN.
The monthly materials, provided by Soul Matters will be emailed to you. They offer options for contemplation and are a springboard for sharing at the meetings. Each group will create a covenant based on confidentiality, honoring the commitment to show up for all the meetings and to read and engage with the material provided for 2 weeks prior to each of the two meetings each month.
Then, at our meetings, we listen to each others’ reflections on the topic. It’s a gift not often offered. Being listened to by trusted companions without interruption helps us hear our own voice again. A Chalice Circle is an invitation to listen more deeply and intentionally. No advising or “fixing”, no intellectual discussion, no chit-chat, just holding space and listening.
Most importantly, we listen to ourselves. Introspection is most often understood as solitary work, but this small group practice teaches us that going inward can be a gift given to us by others. Ironically, we hear that “still, small voice inside” best when the voices of friends speak and offer their presence in a disciplined way. Quaker teacher Parker Palmer explains:
“So what do we do in a circle of trust? We speak our own truth; we listen receptively to the truth of others; and we offer each other the healing and empowering gifts of silence and laughter... Our purpose is not to teach anyone anything but to give the inner teacher a chance to teach us.”
Together, these sacred practices of listening – to each other, and our deepest selves – add up to a more intentional and authentic life. It’s a journey back to connection, and to deepening in our UUCGN community.
We hope to see many Circles this year! We’d like to hear from you if you’d be interested in facilitating or joining a group.
We will be in the Conference Room right after worship Sunday 10/25 and again on 11/8 for a 20-minute Q&A and sign up for interested folks.
Nancy Carroll & Al Curran
Aging Wisely
"Considering End-of-Life"
Thursday, October 22, 2 p.m.
Zoom Link Pass: AW
A monthly gathering focusing on the joys and challenges of aging.... At our October meeting we will be discussing End-of-Life considerations. Cliff Welles who is active in Compassion and Choice will be sharing his knowledge on this very relevant issue. And Janet Parkhurst who is a certified senior advisor will speak to us about preparations one should make regarding final arrangements, health care decision-making, etc.
Aging Wisely presents an opportunity to explore various aspects of the aging process in a welcoming, non-judgmental and supportive group that allows for deep and honest sharing. All are welcome regardless of your chronological age. You do not need to commit to coming every month. We begin with a check-in, a brief reading followed by conversation. If you have any questions or would like to know more about this program, feel free to contact Aging Wisely facilitator Ann Fisher at annmfisher3@gmail.com
Living Room Conversations Q&A
What is the Living Room Conversation program? Living Room Conversations is a program that focuses on having meaningful conversations and getting to know each other better. We meet once a month, on the second Sunday of the month, starting a half hour after the service ends.
Who is the program for? Anyone interested is welcome, and we encourage newer members and visitors to consider joining in, as participating is a great way to learn more about Unitarian Universalists. We also hope parents of children in the YRE program will attend when feasible.
How does the program work? Each month there is a different theme to discuss. We start the session as a full group then break into smaller discussion groups then reconnect together for a final wrap-up. The entire program lasts 90 minutes, starting 30 minutes after the end of the Sunday service, and we request that you plan to remain for the duration.
Do I need to register? Registration is very much appreciated, ideally four days in advance, i.e. by the Wednesday before, so we can line up enough facilitators to assure that we are able to break into small enough groups for the main discussion. If you are a parent needing childcare, please indicate that when registering, and make sure you request the care at least 4 days in advance so we can secure it.
Who do I contact? Email kathie.gorski@gmail.com with any questions and to register. Details on meeting room and other logistics will be publicized closer to the date.
Visual Arts Group
4th Mondays at 3 pm on the Pavilion
This group meets to work on their own art projects, to discuss their work, have critical and helpful discussions with others, and to help plan future gallery exhibits! Please bring whatever art media you choose to work with and we will use our garden for subject matter. Watercolor, pastels, colored pencils, whatever you choose. Refreshments will be available. Please remember water and bug spray. Questions? Call Ann Fullarton: 239.451.7547