Speaker Anxiety

The above video is meant to be humorous; however, it is also indicative of many people's greatest fear -- speaking in front of an audience.

People are afraid or anxious when presented with the task of delivering a speech in front of a live audience.

This is a result of the flight or fight response which is a natural human reaction to stress or danger.

What triggers the flight or fight response are two things:

  • novelty and
  • perceived threat.

What happens when we experience the flight or fight response?

Adrenaline levels in the blood stream suddenly increase and the body is mobilized to take action.

When we experience flight or fight response we may feel any of the following symptoms

  • Increased respiration and heart rate
  • Slowed rate of digestion
  • Shaking
  • Constriction of the blood vessels causing paling or flushing of the skin
  • Loss of hearing or ringing in the ears
  • Relaxation of the bladder or body sphincters
  • Inhibition of the salivation resulting in dry mouth
  • Dilation of the pupils
  • Increased perspiration

Novelty

We are more inclined to feel stress when the situation in which we find ourselves is new and different from our everyday encounters.

For example, I teach in front of a class every day and I do not experience anxiety or fear.

However, I remember the first time I taught a class in public speaking and I was standing in front of the class. I thought my knees were going to give way.

My palms were sweaty and I felt butterflies in my stomach.

I recognized the symptoms and had a "little talk to myself" where I reminded myself how this situation was not so different from previous public speaking experiences and reminding myself that I could do it.

For most people, delivering speeches in public is not something they do every day so it is a novel experience

Perceived Threat

The other factor in flight or fight is perceived threat.

When I ask people what they are afraid of their response is usually quite vague but they often indicate that it is the audience that poses the threat.

I have been in situations where the audience was not pleased with the message that the speaker was delivering but I have never been in a situation where the physical safety of the speaker was in danger from the audience.

For most of us the threat is more to our identity and sense of well being.

We are afraid that the audience will not like us; will laugh at us; or are just vaguely threatening.

Sometimes these fears have a basis in past experience and reality, such as from giving a speech in school where our friends or classmates made fun or us or teased us, but more often they are generalized fears.

Often it is simply that the audience will be looking at the speaker that is threatening.

What speakers do to counteract this is to try to avoid eye contact with the audience which as I will explain is actually the last thing you want to do!

Another source of fear stems from a lack of confidence that the speaker has in his/her own ability.

The fear that I "might forget what I want to say," "get up there and draw a blank," or "make a fool of myself" all stem from a lack of confidence which is something which good preparation and practice can help to alleviate.

Standing in front of a group is in itself scary and can produce the flight or fight response if we feel threatened by all those pairs of eyes staring at us.

Our body may respond the same as it would if we were alone in a dark alley confronted by a group of unknown and scary faces.

The difference is that in a public speaking situation the speaker is the one who is in control and the audience is usually firmly planted in their seats.

Remember after 12 years of sitting is a classroom and being told that they cannot stand unless they raise their hands and are given permission most people in this culture are trained to sit quietly and listen to someone who is standing up in front of the room.

How to reduce anxiety

Practice your speech aloud

The more familiar you are with what you plan to say the more confident you will feel.

The only way to be sure that you will not forget what you plan to say when you are up in front of the audience is to practice aloud often so that you know what you plan to say.

Remember, you do not want to memorize the exact words of your speech but just become so familiar with what you want to say that you can remember the main points and the supporting points.

Practice with test audiences so that you can anticipate what the response of your audience will be.

Invite your friends and family to sit and listen to your speech and to give you helpful and constructive feedback.

Their responses will help you to predict the response you can anticipate from your audience.

Embrace the potential to change the world. Remember that any speech occasion gives you the power to make a permanent change in the world by making a lasting impression on this audience.

If you are speaking about something that is important to you or advocating for something you believe in, then that energy will be a compelling motivation to speak effectively.

Act confident

Do not share with the audience that you are nervous (in other words, do not open your speech with "I'm really nervous, but I'll start now.")

Studies have shown that if you act confident, your confidence level will be boosted.

Not only that, the audience won't have a clue you are nervous and this will enhance your ethos.

The best public speakers take that nervous energy they are feeling and channel it into strong vocal quality and enthusiasm.

Find your "hot spots"

We had a guest speaker on campus a few years ago who earns her living doing speeches at colleges and universities and other institutions. My students asked her what was the most important advice she could give them about public speaking and her response was to find your "hot spots."

She explained that before she even began her presentation she would look over the audience and find three to five people in different parts of the audience who were looking at her attentively and positively.

She said that she would direct her attention to these positive listeners in the audience whenever she felt she needed to feel connected or grounded.

She said that whenever she needed to get feedback on how she was doing she would focus on these individuals.

This works with any audience.

Find individuals who are looking attentively at you and make you feel more comfortable whenever you feel nervous or need a positive response from your audience.

Lock and hold eye contact

Most people who have not done very much public speaking are just not aware of the power of making direct eye contact and many people try to avoid it.

If you don't lock and hold eye contact you will see in front of you a mass of faces and this could trigger the flight or fight response.

Your body doesn't know you are not in a dark alley being confronted by a large crowd.

Only your mind knows that.

If you look directly at one person and hold the eye contact for a comfortable length of time (3 to 5 seconds), then your mind will see a friendly face and be less likely to feel stress.

As a parent and as a teacher I have used the stare as a way of getting attention and making a point without saying a word.

You can see the power of eye contact not just in humans but also in with animals. One of the ways my son would tease our dog was to look at her. He would have a staring contest with her until she felt threatened and then she would growl at him.

Visualize Success

The technique of visualization is one that is used by athletes effectively in helping them to perform better.

It is also helpful for public speaking.

Picture yourself giving your speech successfully. Do not imagine you are making mistakes or that the audience is laughing at you. Visualize a successful speech in your head before presenting to your audience.

Other suggestions

There are many ideas and suggestions about how to reduce the anxiety of public speaking (i.e. yoga, breathing exercises).

It is important to find something that works for you. But the important aspect is to remember that the first thing to do to avoid fear public speaking is to prepare well. Of course you will experience fear of public speaking if you have not done sufficient preparation.