These are the worst flame retardants and a little info with what I have read about them:
Ted talk and good info from green science. Look for TB117 on furniture tags, that is the scary chemicals.
http://greensciencepolicy.org/topics/flame-retardants/
Flame retardant free furniture will be mandatory in CA in beginning of 2015.
http://www.sfgate.com/health/article/Flame-retardant-maker-sues-over-new-Calif-law-5153910.php
In January 2014 you can look for furniture with the tag TB-117-2013 indicating it meets the new smolder test.
http://blogs.kqed.org/science/2013/11/21/its-official-toxic-flame-retardants-no-longer-required-in-furniture/
Spreadsheet showing which companies have removed FRs or will remove them soon.
http://switchboard.nrdc.org/blogs/vsingla/assets_c/2014/09/survey%20chart-17361.html
Here are some other places I have called. Now is Nov 2014.
Ikea furniture and flame retardants:
http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex_health/2010/06/my_ikea_couch_reeks_of_chemicals.html
Choosing a low radiation baby monitor
http://wildflowerramblings.com/health/trading-my-digital-video-monitor-for-a-safer-analog-audio-monitor/
Reasons not to use cell phones
http://kalw.org/post/today-your-call-should-we-be-concerned-about-cell-phone-radiation
Study about sleep training. Just book marking.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/?term=middlemiss+asynchrony
Did acetaminophen provoke the autism epidemic? These studies from NIH are pretty compelling.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20030462
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5044872/
This American Life show about Tylenol:
http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/505/use-only-as-directed
Soy
Are soy products safe for babies and young children? This study suggests "yes": http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24507712
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21175082
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/09/11/fashion/steve-jobs-apple-was-a-low-tech-parent.html?emc=eta1&_r=0
http://www.ted.com/talks/sherry_turkle_alone_together
PVC
"Some PVC can contain lead and it is also known to create dioxins which is a carcinogen" according to "some blog"
http://naturalbabymama.wordpress.com/2013/03/18/things-i-wished-i-registered-for/
My rule of thumb is organic fabrics for the first year, then conventional cotton as long as its not from China. Bedding, pajamas and underwear should always be organic. Make sure organic is GOTS which means organic through the manufacturing process, including dyes.
https://global-standard.org/the-standard/general-description.html
NIH on pesticides:
https://www.niehs.nih.gov/health/topics/agents/pesticides/index.cfm
Pubmed article about chemicals getting into skin from fabric (spoiler: they do)