List the relationships that have been difficult for you. These can be people you have worked closely with, as well as individuals you don’t know well, such as rude neighbors down the street, or the post office clerk whom you dread encountering, etc.

Are you aware of whether or not you have been the cause of hurt to anyone with whom you have worked?

Have you asked for forgiveness, made restitution, reconciled?

Were you faithful to your co-workers? Friends? Those to whom you minister?

If not, what may the Holy Spirit be calling you to do? For further help moving toward peace in your relationship(s), see Appendix: Peace Pursuit

Did someone else hurt you in these past years?

Have you found a way to forgive that person, and apply grace to the hurts you have received?

If not, what may the Holy Spirit be calling you do? For further help moving toward peace in your relationship(s), see Appendix: Peace Pursuit

Did someone you love get hurt by someone else?

How has this offense or hurt effected you? For further help moving toward peace in your relationship(s), see Appendix: Peace Pursuit

Before you depart, what steps can you take to bless these people in the Spirit of Jesus, who teaches us to return blessing for curses?

How do you feel you have failed? (You can include aspects of enculturation, relationships, vocational achievements, etc.)

What impact has this had upon you?

How do you feel about it now?

How have you responded to failure over the years? (Do you see any differences between earlier on and the present?)

What have your greatest achievements and victories been?

What impact have these had upon you?

How do you feel about your victories and achievements these days?

How have you responded to them over the years? (Do you see any differences between earlier on and the present?)

1. 1. 1. • What – and how – do you want to celebrate as you come to the end of your time here?