Being a GRC adVIETturer

As ambassadors of Singapore, it is essential that we conduct ourselves with respect and integrity when visiting other countries. Our behavior reflects not only on us as individuals, but also on our nation as a whole. This means being mindful of local customs, traditions, and social norms, and demonstrating cultural sensitivity in all our interactions.

Respecting the laws, practices, and values of the host country shows that we appreciate their culture and are eager to learn from it. Simple actions such as observing proper etiquette, dressing appropriately, and showing gratitude can leave a positive impression and foster goodwill between nations.

By being courteous and open-minded, we also set an example of the values Singapore stands for—respect, harmony, and inclusivity. As representatives of our country, we carry the responsibility of building bridges and fostering understanding with the people we meet abroad.

1. Understanding Hierarchical Respect

• Addressing Elders and Authorities: Always use formal titles when addressing elders or people in positions of authority. In Vietnamese culture, respect for age and status is highly valued.

• Waiting for the Elderly: When in the presence of older individuals, wait for them to start eating or speaking first. This shows respect for their seniority.

2. Observing Dress Codes

• Appropriate Attire: Dress modestly, especially when visiting religious sites such as temples and pagodas. Avoid wearing clothes that are too short, tight, or revealing.

• Cultural Sensitivity: In urban areas, dress codes are more relaxed, but it’s always better to err on the side of modesty.

3. Behavior in Religious and Historical Sites

• Respectful Conduct: Maintain a respectful demeanor. Avoid loud talking or disruptive behavior. Quiet, respectful behavior is appreciated in places of worship and historical sites.

• Following Rules: Adhere to any specific rules at religious sites, such as not taking photos where prohibited, or not touching sacred objects.

4. Interacting with Locals

• Politeness and Formality: Use polite expressions and formal language when interacting with locals. Showing courtesy and using basic Vietnamese phrases (like "Xin chào" for "Hello" and "Cảm ơn" for "Thank you") can make a positive impression.

• Avoiding Physical Contact: Be mindful of personal space and avoid unnecessary physical contact. For instance, avoid patting people on the head or hugging strangers.

5. Dining Etiquette

• Waiting to Eat: Do not start eating until the host or the eldest person has begun. This is a sign of respect.

• Using Chopsticks Properly: Avoid sticking chopsticks upright in rice or pointing with them. This practice resembles a funeral ritual and is considered disrespectful.

• Sharing Food: In communal dining settings, it is polite to share food and use serving utensils to avoid direct contact with shared dishes.

6. Gifting and Receiving

• Presenting Gifts: When giving gifts, use both hands. This gesture shows respect and thoughtfulness.

• Receiving Gifts: Accept gifts with both hands and express gratitude. It’s also polite to unwrap gifts in the presence of the giver.

7. Respect for Traditions and Festivals

• Participating Respectfully: If invited to participate in local festivals or traditions, engage respectfully and follow the lead of your hosts.

• Understanding Significance: Learn about the cultural and historical significance of local festivals or traditions to show genuine interest and respect.

8. Avoiding Taboos and Superstitions

• Taboos: Be aware of cultural taboos, such as avoiding discussions about sensitive historical or political issues.

• Superstitions: Respect local superstitions and beliefs. For example, don’t point at or touch altars or offerings, as it may be considered disrespectful.

9. Respecting Environmental and Social Norms

• Littering: Do not litter. Vietnam places importance on keeping public spaces clean.

• Respect for Nature: When visiting natural sites, follow the principles of “leave no trace” to preserve the beauty and integrity of the environment.

10. Navigating Social Interactions

• Smiling and Politeness: A smile is a universal sign of friendliness. Being polite and smiling can help bridge cultural gaps and show respect.

• Handling Conflicts: If you encounter any misunderstandings or conflicts, address them calmly and respectfully. Avoid confrontations or raising your voice.